Today in this century many things have change parents, children and family members. It appears family is  fading, less fathers in the homes and some fathers hold on by being in their children lives without being married to the child mom. Ww see more and more Baby Daddy's. Marriage is no longer a special thing, it is about glit and glamour then after the show they can't face reality. The reality is we did not love each other we both can have more because of our incomes. Sometimes it is because one or the other wants a child, no thought about the future of themselves or the child.