Let Nothing Separete You from the Love of God. Family, Friends, and Political Party just to name a small few. If we allow people, stuff and things then we suffer for our sake and not Jesus. If we suffer for the right things we can gain eternal life. But other than suffering for spiritual things we suffer in vain and God can not call us son or daughter. We are not his because we are not walking in his spirit but on our own according to our flesh and there is no good thing in our flesh.