To find God faith is the main key fr without faith it is impossible to find him those who want God must believe and believe he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him. No self thoughts because with self doubt will take over and you want receive from God. You want get to know him without faith. Once you find him you must keep trusting him in all things.Many have trust issues because of past hurts from family. church members, and others who said they love them. But God is not like man.