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Taboo Talk

90 episodes - English - Latest episode: 2 months ago - ★★★★★ - 2 ratings

There are certain topics that are considered "taboo" within the church. Jay Lowder and his guests will discuss subjects that are important and relevant but often not discussed openly in church and the Christian community at large. You will hear emotional, insightful, & encouraging discussions on topics you have wondered about in the past. Jay and unique personalities will address the realities of life, marriage, suicide, sex, overcoming addictions, abuse and much more. We will release a new podcast on the first and third Wednesday of each month. Stay tuned for good topics coming your way!

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Episodes

Mother's Day Special with Jay's Mom

May 13, 2024 14:00 - 42 minutes - 48.3 MB

This week on Taboo Talk with Jay Lowder, Jay sits down with his mom and they have a discussion about marriage, parenting, and their relationship with the Lord. Don't miss this special podcast with a look into their personal lives and the wisdom that Kay Lowder shares.

Grace to Grieve - Navigating God's "No's"

May 01, 2024 20:30 - 48 minutes - 55.7 MB

In this episode of Taboo Talk with Jay Lowder, Jay is joined by Andrea Waitley. Jay and Andrea discuss navigating trials, suffering, and trying to understand God's timing. In this podcast they talk about things we have all dealt with at one point or another- wanting immediate answers from God, wanting what feels like ongoing suffering to end, and so much more. Andrea shares an inspiring testimony of learning to trust God, even through the things that seem so unbearable at times. Andrea has w...

The Season Of Love

February 14, 2024 14:00 - 48 minutes - 44 MB

In this week's episode of Taboo Talk, we are discussing all things LOVE! Jay is joined by guest's Regan and Brendy. Regan and Brendy discuss life as newlyweds, challenges they have faced as a couple, how they overcame them, and how they have helped each other grow in their walks with Christ. They share a sweet story of how they came to be in a relationship, and now married! Regan and Brendy are truly a beautiful example of a couple after God's heart. Happy Valentines Day from all of us at JL...

When A Son Comes Home

January 31, 2024 15:00 - 49 minutes - 45.7 MB

In this week's episode of Taboo Talk with Jay Lowder, Jay is joined by Ken Guidroz for Part 2. In this episode we hear of tragedy, repentance, and recovery. Ken shares an in-depth look at what it is like to be affected by addiction, and its consequences. Ken goes on to share how him and his wife dealt with this, and how with faith and forgiveness they had the ability to rekindle their relationship with their son. Their son "returned home!" There is so much to hear, and so many lessons to tak...

When All You Can Do Is Hang On

January 17, 2024 14:00 - 36 minutes - 33.3 MB

In this week's episode of taboo talk with Jay Lowder, Jay is joined by Ken Guidroz. This episode is Part 1 of a 2 Part episode. Through this conversation, we hear a powerful testimony from Ken. Ken dives into how addiction struck his family, and the effects of this emotionally and spiritually, and how even later there was redemption. Ken and Jay discuss the journey of ministry, and the reality of how your spiritual life becomes affected when the enemy attacks. #podcast #ministry #GodsLove ...

The New Year

January 03, 2024 14:00 - 28 minutes - 26.2 MB

In this week's episode of taboo talk with Jay Lowder, Jay is joined by Missy and Kayley Lowder. In this episode, Jay dives into the topic of The New Year. With The New Year starting comes new goals, resolutions, and intentions. Jay, Missy, and Kayley give their takes on resolutions and goals they have set for themselves in the past. They also discuss some productive ways to set and stick to new goals and resolutions. From all of us at JLHM, Happy New Year! #JLHM #podcast #evangelism #testimo...

'Tis The Season

December 21, 2023 14:00 - 27 minutes - 25.5 MB

In this week's episode of Taboo Talk with Jay Lowder, we are getting in the Christmas spirit! Jay brings on his wife Missy, and his daughter Kayley. They each discuss some of their fondest memories, their favorite Christmas, traditions, and the true meaning of Christmas. We hope that this year is your best Christmas yet, and that you are spending it with those that you love the most! From all of us at JLHM, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! To listen now click here: https://jaylowder.cap...

Restoration

November 29, 2023 14:00 - 1 hour - 56.8 MB

In this week's episode of Taboo Talk Jay is joined by PJ Yarbrough for Pt. 2 of her story. Jay and PJ pick up where they left off as they discuss addiction and what PJ's early adulthood looked like. PJ opens up about personal struggles she dealt with, and how she found her way back to Christ and got involved in church. PJ shares an inspiring story of how she restored her relationship with Christ and later went on to work in education. PJ has been through nearly every walk of life, check out ...

Promises Broken

November 15, 2023 14:00 - 55 minutes - 51.1 MB

In this week's episode of Taboo Talk, Jay is joined by guest Shaniel "PJ" Yarbrough. In this episode, we hear Part 1 of PJ's story. She discusses the traumas she faced as a child in foster care, being born a statistic, and opens up about dealing with many different types of abuse. Pj shares an inspiring story of perseverance, and you won't want to miss Pt. 2! To hear PT 1 of PJ's story, listen now at: https://jaylowder.captivate.fm/episode/promises-broken- To Visit PJ's website or connect...

Holding Out Hope

November 01, 2023 14:00 - 53 minutes - 48.9 MB

In this week's episode of Taboo Talk with Jay Lowder, Pamela Davis joins us. Pamela opens up about her childhood, struggles within her faith, and traumas from her young-adult life. In this podcast Jay and Pam also talk about the importance of forgiveness, as well as building a firm foundation in Christ. To hear more from this weeks episode listen now at: https://jaylowder.captivate.fm/episode/holding-out-hope

The Powers of Darkness

October 18, 2023 14:00 - 36 minutes - 33.4 MB

In this week's episode of Taboo Talk with Jay Lowder, has on long-time employee Sharonda Donnell. Jay and Sharonda discuss all things Halloween related. Is it wrong to celebrate? What are demons? Is Halloween evil? In this episode we take a deep dive into all of these questions, and so much more. Jay shares some of his own experiences witnessing evil, and recounts times he has seen the darker side of things. To hear more, visit: https://jaylowder.captivate.fm/episode/the-powers-of-darkness

As Long As I Have Breath

October 04, 2023 23:00 - 36 minutes - 41.5 MB

This week on Taboo Talk with Jay Lowder is guest Terry Blacker, who tells a story of how God saved him from drug and alcohol addiction several times and gave him a story to share with others. Terry proves that second chances do happen and that as long as you have breath, God can use your story to reach others. To follow Terry's Ministry, Restoration Ministry: https://www.facebook.com/URSetFree/

In The Blink Of An Eye

September 20, 2023 14:00 - 49 minutes - 45.2 MB

In this week's episode of Taboo Talk, Jay has on guest Tonya Mooney. Tonya shares an inspiring story of perseverance, trust in God's plan, and unwavering faith in the Lord. Tonya was in a freak accident leaving her in a situation she never could have imagined and is actively using her inspiring testimony to encourage others. To follow along with Tonya's journey: Tonya Mooney’s Progress | Facebook

Purpose In The Pain

September 06, 2023 14:00 - 43 minutes - 40.2 MB

On this week's episode of Taboo Talk, Jay has on guest Carla Blanchard. Carla discusses the recent loss of her son, Kyle. Carla talks about ways that she was able to seek God out through this painful loss. She opens up about her family's journey through Kyle's sickness and how she remained faithful to God through it all. Carla has an incredible story of faith in God and trusting His plan, even when difficult. To hear more, listen now at: https://jaylowder.captivate.fm/episode/purpose-in-th...

Digging Deeper

August 16, 2023 14:00 - 56 minutes - 51.5 MB

In this week's episode of Taboo Talk, Jay has on guest Kathy Drake. Kathy goes in depth on what it looks like to truly seek Christ through God's Word, and the best way to do it. Jay and Kathy talk about ways you can study the Bible, how to get started, and how that can look different for everyone! Kathy discusses her own walk with the Lord and gives incredible advice for those who are trying to navigate their own walk! To hear more, listen now at: https://jaylowder.captivate.fm/episode/dig...

The Call Of Evangelism

August 02, 2023 14:00 - 57 minutes - 52.8 MB

In this week's episode of Taboo Talk, Jay has long time friend Ronnie Hill as his guest. Something both Ronnie and Jay have in common, they are both evangelists. In this podcast Ronnie dives into how he came to know the Lord at a young age, and how he got started in evangelism at age 14. Jay and Ronnie also go over how you can be an evangelist to those around you. Ronnie discusses how God used him during trying times, and how God can do the same for you and me. There is true power in evangel...

Not Your Normal Story Pt.2

July 25, 2023 05:00 - 1 hour - 58.9 MB

This week's taboo talk episode is the Part 2 of Norm Wielsch's story. Norm talks about his struggles in life and mental health. You can learn more about Norm Wielsch here: https://www.christ-centeredhealing.com/ Or get his book, available at: www.christcenteredhealingbook.com Or Amazon- https://amzn.to/3ynqaV5 To hear this weeks episode visit: https://jaylowder.captivate.fm/episode/not-your-normal-story-part2-

Not Your Normal Story

July 05, 2023 14:00 - 53 minutes - 48.7 MB

In this week's episode of Taboo Talk, Jay's guest is Norm Wielsch. This episode is Part 1 of Norm's story. Part 2 will be the next episode. Norm opens up about some of his greatest life struggles, what it was like for him being a cop, and how he ended up behind bars on the other side of the law. His story is one that we did not see coming. Norm has seen it all, and he shares a testament of God's restoration and ability to turn lives around. You can learn more about Norm Wielsch here: https:...

When Labradors Preach

June 21, 2023 14:00 - 47 minutes - 43.6 MB

In this week's episode of taboo talk, Jay has on Hank Hough. Jay and Hank discuss what life was like for Hank during a time where he felt he had no direction. Hank tells his story of redemption, faith in God, and how God gave him a newfound passion and purpose. God never gave up on Hank and had far greater plans than what the eye could see. To hear more, check it out now. To find Hank Hough and Kingdom Dog Ministries visit Kingdom Dog Ministries – A Great Commission Ministry

From Convicted To Acquitted

June 07, 2023 14:00 - 59 minutes - 54.4 MB

In this week's episode of Taboo Talk, Jay has David Hill on the podcast. David shares a story of deliverance and what true faith in God looks like. He discusses the lessons God taught him through a time most would lose all hope, a time when he was wrongfully convicted of a crime he did not commit. To hear David's story, check out the podcast now! Find David and Free Indeed Ministries @ www.fiministries.com

A Love Lost And A Life Reclaimed

May 17, 2023 14:00 - 44 minutes - 41.1 MB

In this week's episode of Taboo talk, our guest is Sara McDaniel. Sara opens up about her divorce, and some of the most trying times in her life. Sara shares an incredible story filled with examples of how God consistently pursues us. She discusses how she reclaimed her life and restored her home in the process! To Find Sara on Socials: Instagram: @simplysoutherncottage Twitter: @SSCottageBlog Pinterest: @SSCottageBlog Youtube: @simplysoutherncottage Facebook: Simply Southern Cottage ...

Til Death Do Us Part

May 03, 2023 14:00 - 52 minutes - 48.5 MB

Our newest podcast "Til death do us part" is out now! In this week's podcast, Jay is joined by his sister Alara. Alara recounts the day that her life was flipped upside down, and how God preformed a lifesaving miracle in the midst of it. She shares a moving story that you do NOT want to miss! To listen to this latest episode on taboo talk, click here!

Looking For Love in All The Wrong Places

April 19, 2023 14:00 - 50 minutes - 46.5 MB

In this week's podcast, Jay brings on both Sharonda and Kayley. In this episode you'll hear different points of view on dating in today's world and what it's like. They dive into conversation about dating and marriage, discuss red flags, things to avoid, lessons they have personally learned and advice on how to have a healthy relationship!

Why's of Life

April 05, 2023 14:00 - 42 minutes - 38.5 MB

In this week's podcast Jay and Kayley dive into the "Why's of life." Jay takes a seat on the other side of the table this week while Kayley asks the questions. They go over questions that many of us have probably asked ourselves, or even God! Why do evil things happen and why doesn't God stop it from happening? Why do bad things happen to good people, etc. To hear more, check it out now!

Kayley's Journey With Stills Disease

March 15, 2023 14:00 - 50 minutes - 46.1 MB

Our newest podcast Kayley's Journey with Stills Disease is out now! In this week's podcast, Jay asked his daughter, Kayley to join him in discussing how Kayley's sickness began, how their faith was affected, and an update on how things are going now! Many of you have asked for an update on Kayley...where here's your chance to hear it straight from her.

The After-Effects of Abortion

March 01, 2023 14:00 - 1 hour - 57.5 MB

Our newest podcast is out now! In this podcast our guest, Ashley Steinhower opens up about her testimony. Ashley and Jay dig into the aftermath of Ashley's decision to have an abortion, how it affected her, and the emotions and repercussions that came along with it.

A Look at Love

February 14, 2023 17:00 - 42 minutes - 38.7 MB

Happy Valentines Day! A Look at Love podcast is out now. We are releasing this early for Valentines Day because Jay and Missy are talking about relationships, love, and marriage counseling. They discuss ways to strengthen your marriage, helpful tips they learned through marriage counseling, and breaking the stigma around it.

When Pastors Prey

February 01, 2023 11:00 - 56 minutes - 51.5 MB

When Pastors Prey is out now! In this week's podcast Jay speaks with Sandy Phillips Kirkham. Sandy shares her story of abuse as a child/young adult at the hands of her pastor, how it affected her relationship with Christ, and the need for accountability in the Church. She also talks about warning signs and discusses outlets for those who are going through something similar. Here are a couple book recommendations from Sandy: Something's Not Right: Decoding the Hidden Tactics of Abuse--and ...

The Sex Talk

January 18, 2023 11:00 - 52 minutes - 48.3 MB

Jay talks with Nick Liberto from provenministries.org to discuss when it is the right time to have the "Big Talk" on sex with your children. We live in a wildly sexually saturated world, with a digital device that connects us to anything and everything whenever we want it. Your child is most likely encountering sexual issues regularly, even as young as 6 or 7 years of age. What is the appropriate time to begin healthy discussions about sex? Jay gains insight from Nick on how you can begin th...

Worth the Wait

January 04, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 70.2 MB

Jay sits down with recent viral TikToker, Kaytlin O'Neall to discuss Kaytlin's very countercultural view on sex and dating, the backlash that comes along with it, and how to set boundaries in a relationship. You can follow Kaytlin here- TikTok- @kaytlin.oneall Instagram- kaytlin.oneall YouTube- Kaytlin O'Neall

Sex, Lies, Greed and Church Leaders

December 21, 2022 11:00 - 53 minutes - 61.3 MB

Jay sits down with long time friend and Pastor, Jerry Royal, to discuss how sex, lies, and greed seem to be running through Church leaders. Is the ministry full of frauds? What happens after a Church leader messes up? Does the punishment fit the crime? Jay and Jerry answer these questions and more.

Does the Bible Contradict Itself?

December 07, 2022 11:00 - 45 minutes - 41.8 MB

This week, Eugene Bullard dives straight into scriptures that seem contradictory. Jay and Eugene discuss history, whether or not we can actually trust the Bible and why. You can follow Eugene on Twitter: @generationpray

Am I Failing as a Christian?

November 16, 2022 11:00 - 45 minutes - 42 MB

Erika Silva opens up about the day to day struggles as a Christian and how her past decisions affect her life now. Her and Jay dive into issues that can cause us to feel like failures as Believers and how to handle it all.

God Chose the President

November 02, 2022 11:00 - 32 minutes - 29.6 MB

Jay and our guest Frank Shelton discuss the two topics you're never supposed to- politics and religion. Does God choose who's in office? Does it matter which side of the ticket you vote for as a believer? Jay and Frank tackle these questions and more. www.frankshelton.com

My Porn Addiction

October 19, 2022 11:00 - 1 hour - 84.8 MB

We hear the dirty details about porn addiction from XXXChurch CEO, Carl Thomas. Jay and Carl discuss the easy access the world has to porn and how it affects someone mentally, spiritually, and relationally. Is it even a big deal? It can't hurt anyone, right? Hear one man spill it all. When Shame Gets Real- available at Barnes & Noble, Walmart, goodreads, and Amazon. whenshamegetsreal.com XXXchurch.com livefreecommunity.org

Looking for an XXXscape

October 19, 2022 11:00 - 1 hour - 84.8 MB

We hear the dirty details about porn addiction from XXXChurch CEO, Carl Thomas. Jay and Carl discuss the easy access the world has to porn and how it affects someone mentally, spiritually, and relationally. Is it even a big deal? It can't hurt anyone, right? Hear one man spill it all. When Shame Gets Real- available at Barnes & Noble, Walmart, goodreads, and Amazon. whenshamegetsreal.com XXXchurch.com livefreecommunity.org

Not Just a Man's Problem

October 05, 2022 11:00 - 49 minutes - 56.6 MB

Jay sits down with Counselor and Author, Crystal Renaud Day to discuss the surprising statistics on porn addiction among women. Crystal shares her own story, the shame associated with struggling with a "male sin" and what it took to break free. You can find Crystal's websites, Summit, and books below. RESOURCES SHE Virtual Recovery Summit- October 17-21, 2022 purchase tickets here- https://shevirtualsummit.eventbrite.com/?aff=jaylowder Crystal Renaud Day | Pastoral Counselor | Life Co...

Signs of Suicide

September 21, 2022 11:00 - 45 minutes - 52.6 MB

Jay sits down with our very own Ministry Director, Sharonda Donnell to discuss her personal experience with suicide, warning signs to look for, misconceptions, and that even Christians can feel the depths of depression. Suicide Hotline- 1-800-273-8255 or 988

Death by Suicide

September 07, 2022 11:00 - 55 minutes - 63.1 MB

Jay sits down with Kayla Stoecklein to hear a story from the other side of suicide. Jay and Kayla discuss the loss of her husband, the stigma around mental health in the church, and ways to help those struggling with suicidal thoughts. Suicide Hotline- 1-800-273-8255 or 988 Fear Gone Wild- available on Amazon Rebuilding Beautiful- Releases September 20th, 2022. Available everywhere books are sold, preorder on Amazon today. Instagram- @kaylasteck Website- kaylastoecklein.com

When Your Husband Cheats

August 17, 2022 11:00 - 43 minutes - 40.2 MB

Can God really fix what's been broken? We hear the other side of the story from our friend, Caydee, about her husbands affair. She shares how she chose to stay and what it took to repair broken trust. Resources- Caydee- [email protected] Chad- [email protected] Boundaries by Henry Cloud & John Townsend Excellent Wife by Martha Peace The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman Every Man's Battle - Steve Arterburn Victory of the Darkness - Neil Anderson The Pursuit of God - AW Toze...

Blessings from an Affair

August 03, 2022 14:00 - 59 minutes - 54 MB

Can blessings come from an affair? Our friend Chad gets candid about an affair he had years ago. He talks about the blessings that came about after the affair and how he and his wife have overcome the trauma from the affair. Resources- Caydee- [email protected] Chad- [email protected] Boundaries by Henry Cloud & John Townsend Excellent Wife by Martha Peace The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman Every Man's Battle - Steve Arterburn Victory of the Darkness - Neil Anderson The...

A Talk With Jason Crabb

March 22, 2021 14:00 - 68.9 MB

In my opinion, one of the most gifted musicians that I have ever heard, Jason Crabb joins us to talk life, ministry, and struggles. Support this podcast

Victim's Voice

December 07, 2020 11:00 - 1 hour - 62.8 MB

Sexual abuse affects far more people than  any of us know. Jay Lowder is joined by a  couple guests that share their experiences and offer insight into healing.

A conversation with Luke McCown

October 20, 2020 14:00 - 145 MB

Jay Lowder hosts his good friend Luke McCown. Luke is a former NFL quarterback, entrepreneur, and hunter. More importantly, he is a great man of God. Support this podcast

Walk the Walk :: with Jimmy Houston

September 28, 2020 14:00 - 69.6 MB

I am privileged to be friends with one of the all-time greats, Jimmy Houston. All-time great fisherman, outdoorsman, and even more importantly, man of God. Support this podcast

Black & White

September 07, 2020 14:00 - 1 hour - 69.9 MB

Jay hosts his good friend Tracey as they discuss subtle racism, racial protests, and more.

The pandemic before the pandemic

August 24, 2020 14:00 - 112 MB

When I was 21 years old, I put a gun to my head to end my life. Thankfully I was interrupted before pulling the trigger, but for thousands upon thousands, that isn't the case. With the global pandemic creating increased anxiety, now is the time to bring the issue to light. This episode we talk about the myths of suicide and depression, warning signs, and action steps we can all take. Support this podcast

Can a Christian and Atheist be friends?

August 11, 2020 14:00 - 50 minutes - 46.3 MB

Jay talks with Barry about their friendship, their beliefs, and how an evangelist and an atheist can possibly have a burgeoning relationship.

Building Bridges with an ATHEIST

August 11, 2020 14:00 - 46.4 MB

Jay talks with Barry about their friendship, their beliefs, and how an evangelist and an atheist can possibly have a burgeoning relationship. ObNudxfylgPmGW6L6ObK Support this podcast

LOWDERvoice - Live By Faith

April 10, 2019 05:00

We looked at the "Heroes of the faith" found in Hebrews 11 and asked ourselves "Are we the kind of people that God would write about?".