Java with Juli
203 episodes - Afar - Latest episode: almost 2 years ago - ★★★★★ - 1.2K ratings“Java with Juli” features fresh, relevant and gospel-centered conversations about our sexuality. Dr. Juli Slattery dives into the “taboo” questions you’re afraid to ask—or don’t know who to ask—about intimacy, marriage, singleness, sexual addiction, and more. Every episode is an invitation to a biblical look at the good, the hard, the healing, and the holy in God’s design for sexuality.
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#428: Don't Say That to Your Single Friend (Say This Instead)
August 15, 2022 07:00 - 42 minutes - 33.7 MBIt happens... Despite good intentions, you say something careless to a single friend: "You've got time" or "It'll happen when you stop trying so hard." In this episode, you'll learn what not to say to your single friends and what to say instead. Guest: Lisa Anderson, Boundless Show notes: Join the webinar! "What Kind of Gift is Sexuality if I Can't Have Sex?" The Boundless Show What Do I Do With My Sexual Desires? (Juli's blog) Java #407: Masturbation: The No. 1 Question You're...
#427: Proverbs 31 Is a Picture of Intimacy, Not a To-Do List
August 08, 2022 07:00 - 42 minutes - 34.3 MBFind out why Proverbs 31 isn't just for married women! The 22-line Hebrew poem is a picture of intimacy between Christ and His Bride (and if you follow Jesus, that's you). Guests: Hannah Nitz & Robin Luton Show notes: New webinar series! Sex & the Single Christian Valor: A Messianic Journey Through Proverbs 31 by Robin Luton Join us over the next two weeks for a special Java series on singleness, dating with purpose, and finding intimacy.
#426: How To Better Understand the Complexities Beneath Gender Dysphoria
August 01, 2022 07:00 - 48 minutes - 39.2 MBYou CAN lean into compassion—and keep your convictions—as you engage with others who are walking through gender dysphoria or gender related struggles. Guest: Dr. Julia Sadusky Emerging Gender Identities by Dr. Mark Yarhouse & Dr. Julia Sadusky* Understanding Gender Dysphoria by Dr. Mark Yarhouse* #396: Diverse Gender Identities: How to See the Person Behind the Issue #397: How To Help Families Navigate Questions About Gender Identity *This is an affiliate link. AI may e...
#425: Bonus! How To Build Community & Friendships with Intention and Grace
July 28, 2022 11:09 - 26 minutes - 21.5 MBFeeling stuck in your friendships? You're not alone! As seasons of life change, our friendships don't always keep up. If you're looking for practical wisdom to start building meaningful connection with others, this episode is for you! "Building rooted community is the practice of little, by little, by little..." Bailey Hurley Follow @authenticintimacy and @bailey.t.hurley on IG and tell us, Which of the four friend types are you? Do you have one of each type in your circle of friends? ...
#424: A 54-Year Friendship That Broke Through Cross-Cultural Barriers
July 25, 2022 07:00 - 37 minutes - 30.1 MBIn the South, in the late 60s, these men weren’t supposed to be friends. Yet, with Jesus as their common ground, they began to seal up tiny little cracks in the racial divide around them. What if we all did that? Grab your Java. Hear their story. Guests: Gary Chapman & Clarence Shuler Show notes: Life-Changing Cross-Cultural Friendships by Gary Chapman & Clarence Shuler* Follow Java with Juli and leave us a rating and review. *This is an affiliate link. AI may earn referral fee...
#263: Experiencing Sexual Pleasure, Part 2
July 18, 2022 07:00 - 30 minutes - 24.6 MBIn part two of this conversation, you'll hear about the other two legs of the "sexual desire triangle" and go from getting your body ready, to getting your emotions ready! Nurturing an emotional connection with your man (talking, date nights, taking a “sexcation”) will create intimacy that spills over into the bedroom. Guest: Dr. Jennifer Degler Show notes: Listen to part one of this conversation, #262: Experiencing Sexual Pleasure, Part 1 Register today for Reclaim 2022! Dr. Jennif...
#262: Experiencing Sexual Pleasure, Part 1
July 11, 2022 07:00 - 29 minutes - 66.6 MBUnlike most men (who always seem to be in the mood, always climax, and never experience pain), many women are mystified by their own sexual pleasure. Join Dr. Juli Slattery for this two-part conversation about how to prime your body, mind and soul to receive and respond to sexual pleasure. Guest: Dr. Jennifer Degler Mentioned: Get your early bird rate at Reclaim 2022! Passion Pursuit by Dr. Juli Slattery & Linda Dillow Dr. Jennifer's Dare of the Month Newsletter God, Sex, and Your...
#423: How to "Rethink" Issues in Our Church Culture Around Sexuality & Abuse
July 04, 2022 07:00 - 50 minutes - 45.8 MBWe need to be asking some hard questions. In the wake of the SBC investigation, along with the growing tsunami of fallen pastors, spiritual abuse, and marginalized victims, Juli shares how you can be proactive for change. Co-host: Brian Dahlen 5 Ways the Church Must "Step Up" In Response to Abuse Within It's Walls (Juli's blog) Rethinking Sexuality by Dr. Juli Slattery Java #3: Mom, I'm Pregnant God's Healing Stinks (Juli's blog) Check out Brian's podcast, The Grandfather Effect ...
#422: How to Care for Both Women and Children in the Wake of the Dobbs Decision
June 27, 2022 07:00 - 51 minutes - 47.3 MBDo you know that God’s heart is for both women AND their unborn children, and can't figure out where you fit in the pro-life/pro-choice divide? Juli’s guest offers a third option: “When Jesus was confronted with two conflicting ideas, He always pointed out that neither offered the complete picture and instead gave a third, Kingdom response.” Guest: Angie Weszely, ProGrace Show notes: Visit www.ProGrace.org for more resources on the third option for approaching the abortion debate. How...
#421: "God, Sex, and Your Marriage" Q&A with Juli Slattery
June 20, 2022 07:00 - 42 minutes - 38.8 MBYou're starting to see how sexual intimacy is a reflection of covenant love. But what does that actually look like in your sex life... When you can't experience orgasm? When your spouse has no sexual desire? When your spouse has had an affair? Juli and Hannah tackle the REAL questions we've received from men and women just like you. Co-host: Hannah Nitz Show notes: God, Sex, and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery* Register for our FREE Live Q&A and Book Giveaway! Hannah'...
#420: Bonus! What Redemption and Sexual Intimacy Look Like in Real Life
June 16, 2022 08:00 - 49 minutes - 40 MBSex was nothing like what they were told it was going to be. She felt pain. He felt guilt. Together, they're on a journey toward wholeness. Join us to hear what redemption and sexual intimacy look like in real life. Guests: Cory & Keyla Morgan God, Sex, and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery* Register for our FREE Live Q&A and Book Giveaway! Join us at Reclaim 2022! Introduce the show! Tell us how you take your Java with Juli
#419: Why Sexual Intimacy is About So Much More Than Just Having Sex
June 13, 2022 07:00 - 49 minutes - 39.6 MBAre you working from the wrong understanding of what makes a great sex life? Find out in this conversation from Juli's new book God, Sex, and Your Marriage. "Sometimes we’re so focused on sexual activity, that we walk right past the opportunity to develop intimacy."– Juli Slattery Guest: Hannah Nitz Show notes: God, Sex, and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery* Register for our FREE Live Q&A and Book Giveaway! Hannah's podcast, There's More Introduce the show! Tell us how you t...
#418: What Is Sexual Intimacy Supposed to Look Like In Marriage?
June 06, 2022 07:00 - 43 minutes - 34.9 MBImagine that you and your spouse are building a jigsaw puzzle, but you don’t know what the picture on the front of the box looks like. Now imagine that you have different ideas of what the picture should look like, and neither one of you have the right picture. This is how many Christian couples experience the “gift” of sex. Guest: Hannah Nitz Show notes: God, Sex, and Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery* Register for our FREE Live Q&A and Book Giveaway! Hannah's podcast, There's M...
Juli's New Book "God, Sex, & Your Marriage" Is Out Next Week!
May 30, 2022 07:00 - 6 minutes - 5.03 MBGrab a quick java with Juli & Hannah to hear all about what's coming up next month with "God, Sex, and Your Marriage." ps. It's not just for married people! Guest: Hannah Nitz Show Notes: Give a donation to Authentic Intimacy and celebrate 10 years of ministry with us! Preorder God, Sex, & Your Marriage by Dr. Juli Slattery* Did you miss our 10-Year Anniversary episode? Or listen on your iPhone or Android. *This is an affiliate link. AI may earn referral fees from qualifying purch...
#417: Authentic Intimacy: The Ministry That Almost Didn't Make It
May 23, 2022 07:00 - 59 minutes - 40.8 MBA close-up, behind-the-scenes look at how the ministry almost closed it's doors (more than once) and the amazing things God has done. We're celebrating 10 years! Guests: Linda Dillow, Tim Sisarich, Hannah Nitz, Ginger Taddeo and Mike Slattery Show notes: Make a donation today. Join an online book study—new groups start in June! Rethinking Sexuality by Dr. Juli Slattery Special thanks to the team at Right Turn Media for engineering this episode.
#214: Answers To Your Questions About Sex, with Dr. Juli Slattery & Linda Dillow
May 16, 2022 07:00 - 38 minutes - 31.1 MBIs it “dirty” to dress up for your husband in the bedroom? Is it wrong to masturbate if your husband can’t have sex? What if your spouse asks you to do something that makes you uncomfortable? Dr. Juli Slattery and Linda Dillow answer your questions from our Authentic Intimacy inbox. Guests: Linda Dillow & Yvette Maher Show notes: Make a donation today. Join a Passion Pursuit online book study—starts June 7! Java #312: Born Again This Way: Rachel's Story
#416: How God Uses Heartache to Prepare You for Your True Calling
May 09, 2022 07:00 - 52 minutes - 35.8 MBDr. Dan Allender joins Juli to share about Redeeming Heartache—a helpful tool (think Enneagram or DISC test) to help you move from trauma and old wounds to healing and connection with God and others. You’re invited to look closely at your own story and see how God can redeem (or is redeeming) every part of your journey. Guests: Dr. Dan Allender & Cathy Loerzel Show notes: Join us at Reclaim! The Allender Center Redeeming Heartache by Dr. Dan Allender & Cathy Loerzel* Follow "Java w...
#416: How God Uses Heartache to Prepare You for Your True Calling
May 09, 2022 07:00 - 52 minutes - 35.8 MBDr. Dan Allender joins Juli to share about Redeeming Heartache—a new book and tool (think Enneagram or DISC) to help you identify trauma and old wounds and move toward healing and connection with God and others. You’re invited to look closely at your own story and see how God can redeem every part of your journey. Guests: Dr. Dan Allender & Cathy Loerzel Show notes: Join us at Reclaim! The Allender Center Redeeming Heartache by Dr. Dan Allender & Cathy Loerzel* Follow "Java with Ju...
#415: How To Encourage and Celebrate the Single Mom in Your Life
May 05, 2022 07:00 - 47 minutes - 32.4 MBGod's promise of provision for the single mom is also a call to body of Christ. In this episode, Michelle Donnelly from PlusONE Parenting shares her story of overcoming loss and shame, finding healing, and how God showed her that she wasn't really alone. She'll share the helpful (and not so helpful) things that you can do to walk alongside and bless a single parent today. Guest: Michelle Donnelly Join an Online Book Study! Safe Haven: A Devotional for the Abused and Abandoned by Michell...
#414: Good Marriages Often Get Off to a Rocky Start (& Why It's OK)
May 02, 2022 07:00 - 44 minutes - 30.8 MBRay and Robyn McKelvy, now married over 30 years, join Juli to share their story of fear, doubts, and learning to trust; and how God used it all to help them build true, authentic intimacy. Guests: Ray and Robyn McKelvy Show notes: Join us at Reclaim 2022! Family Life Introduce the show! How do you take your Java? Subscribe to "Java with Juli" and listen on your iPhone or Android
#413: The Perfect Parent Is The One Who Knows They Need Jesus
April 25, 2022 07:00 - 48 minutes - 33.5 MBDave and Ann Wilson get real about the messiness of parenting. They'll share how they learned to bring others around them, to learn from their own mistakes, and how to keep the long-game perspective when it comes to your kids and their faith. If you're not a perfect parent, you'll be in good company. Guests: Dave & Ann Wilson Show Notes: Open the show! Tell us how you take your Java. God, Sex, and Your Marriage - join the launch team! No Perfect Parents by Dave & Ann Wilson* Pare...
#412: Is There a Better Way To Read the Bible?
April 17, 2022 19:50 - 53 minutes - 36.7 MBJuli shares one of her favorite new podcasts—the BEMA Discipleship Podcast. The OT writers weren't just telling stories, they were burying truth. They believed the most effective way to learn truth was to discover it—like a treasure hidden in a field. Join Juli and BEMA host Marty Solomon to learn how to find the treasure you've been reading past all these years! Guest: Marty Solomon Show notes: The BEMA Discipleship Podcast Juli loved "Ep. 22. Under the Chuppah," about how a Jewish ...
#337: Questions You're Too Embarrassed to Ask About Sex
April 14, 2022 07:00 - 45 minutes - 31.4 MBTo celebrate the life of Dr. Doug Rosenau, we're re-releasing this candid conversation he and Juli had about the difference between having sex and making love, making erotic memories with your spouse, giving language to your sexual desire and mood, and putting the creativity back into your lovemaking. Dr. Doug entered eternity with Christ on April 10, 2022. We're grateful for his work that impacted so many marriages and tor the lives his legacy will continue to touch. Guest: Dr. Doug Ros...
#411: The Unlikely Means God Uses To Bring Beauty From Ashes
April 11, 2022 07:00 - 54 minutes - 37.2 MBCurt Thompson joins Juli to share the unlikely (often unwelcome) means that God uses to heal us. Join them to discover the power of being fully known and seen—you're going to want to listen to this one more than once! "One of the reasons we want to make the jump from one marriage to another, from one form of sexuality to another, is because we have not had the experience of having our grief be seen." Guest: Dr. Curt Thompson Show notes: Tell us How Do You Take Your Java? The Soul of...
#410: Sexual Abuse in Marriage and How To Help a Hurting Wife
April 04, 2022 07:00 - 40 minutes - 27.8 MBSexual abuse in marriage... wait. What? Doesn't the Bible say that a spouse "has authority" over the other's body? Let's talk practically about what sexual abuse in marriage looks like so we can get women (and men) the help they need. Guest: Darby Strickland Show notes: "Is It Abuse?" by Darby Strickland* Darby's three-part blog series on sexual abuse in marriage Java #319: Is Good Sex a "Right" in Marriage? (or read the blog) How Do I Know If I'm in an Abusive Relationship? (Juli...
#409: Divorce & Remarriage (Abuse, Infidelity, Porn & All the Hard Things)
March 28, 2022 07:00 - 50 minutes - 45.9 MBWhat exactly does "sexual immorality" include? Am I free to remarry? What about abuse? God's word is clear on marriage; but some of us are a little fuzzy on the divorce and remarriage part. Juli and her guest get practical as they consider the complexity of real-life situations as well as the truth and clarity we find in God's word. Guest: Mike Winger Show notes: Bible Thinker (YouTube Channel) Divorce & Remarriage: EVERYTHING the Bible says about it. (Mike Winger's video) 6 Though...
#408: Science Offers Kids a Powerful Reason To Say No to Porn
March 21, 2022 07:30 - 42 minutes - 29.3 MBIf teens understood the significant impact of porn on their brains,, would it help them resist? Decades of studies from respected institutions echo God's design: we're made for connection with people, not screens. Guest: Brian Goins Show notes: "Brain, Heart, World" docuseries* "When Your Kids Look at Porn" (Juli's blog) Sexual Discipleship Open House - Invite Your Leader! April 5, 12:30pm EST Introduce the show! How Do You Take Your Java? * Any person or family can watch the ...
#407: Masturbation: The No. 1 Question You're Asking Us!
March 14, 2022 07:00 - 31 minutes - 57.6 MBThere's more to the masturbation conversation than simply "right" or "wrong." Could it be an issue of spiritual maturity for some of us—whether married or single? Can it be used in a healthy way in marriage? Join us to have your thinking challenged! Guest: Hannah Nitz Show notes: Join a Spring online book study! Masturbation: Is It Wrong? (en Espanol) (Juli's blog) What's OK in the Bedroom? (Juli's blog) Is Masturbation a Sin? You May Be Asking the Wrong Question (Juli's blog) ...
#406: Every Couple Has a Sexual Dance. What Does Your Say About You?
March 07, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 43.4 MBSex therapist Dr. Mike Sytsma says that when a couple tells him how they kiss or how they make love, he can tell them how they interact in other areas too. Every couple has a dance–we dance around our wounds and insecurities, both inside and outside the bedroom. Don't believe it? Listen in! Guest: Dr. Michael Sytsma Show notes: Sexual Desire in Marriage (teaching series by Dr. Michael Sytsma) Building Intimate Marriages 5 Things You Need to Know About Women, Orgasm & Intimacy (Ju...
#406: Every Couple Has a Sexual Dance. What Does Yours Say About You?
March 07, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 43.4 MBSex therapist Dr. Mike Sytsma says that when a couple tells him how they kiss or how they make love, he can tell them how they interact in other areas too. Every couple has a dance–we dance around our wounds and insecurities, both inside and outside the bedroom. Don't believe it? Listen in! Guest: Dr. Michael Sytsma Show notes: Sexual Desire in Marriage (teaching series by Dr. Michael Sytsma) Building Intimate Marriages 5 Things You Need to Know About Women, Orgasm & Intimacy (Juli...
#405: How To Be Broken and Used by God (At the Same Time)
February 28, 2022 08:00 - 48 minutes - 33.3 MBJuli unpacks what Sexual Discipleship® looks like and Cory Morgan shares how his own brokenness became an opportunity to bring others alongside him on the journey toward sexual integrity. Co-host: Cory Morgan Ask Juli your questions at the "Making Sense of God & Sex" webinar and live Q&A. We're giving away 6 books, but you have to participate live! Watch Juli's 3-part video series, Why God Cares About Your Sexuality. Not an AI member? Watch the first video free. Register for Summer S...
#404: How To Help Your Kids Think About Sex From a Christian Worldview
February 24, 2022 08:00 - 58 minutes - 39.8 MBThe co-author of "Mama Bear Apologetics Guide to Sexuality" joins Juli for the sixth episode in the "Making Sense of God & Sex" series. Guest: Hillary Morgan Ferrer Ask Juli your questions at the Making Sense of God & Sex webinar. Watch Juli's 3-part video series, Why God Cares About Your Sexuality. Not an AI member? Watch the first video free. "Mama Bear Apologetics Guide to Sexuality" by Hillary Ferrer & Amy Davison* mamabearapologetics.com Register for Summer Student Conferenc...
#403: How Do I Reconcile God's Goodness with Sexual Pain & Injustice
February 21, 2022 08:00 - 48 minutes - 33.5 MBJoin Juli for a conversation about the important role that sexuality and justice have in shaping this generation's thoughts on God, and how to reconcile the pain of sexual abuse with faith in a loving God. Guest: Lou Phillips Ask Juli your questions during the Making Sense of God & Sex webinar. Watch Juli's 3-part video series, Why God Cares About Your Sexuality. Not an AI member? Watch the first video free. Become an Authentic Intimacy member Java #352: How Purity Culture & Ravi Za...
#403: How Do I Reconcile God's Goodness with Sexual Pain & Injustice?
February 21, 2022 08:00 - 48 minutes - 33.5 MBJoin Juli for a conversation about the important roles that sexuality and justice have in shaping this generation's thoughts on God, and how to reconcile the pain of sexual abuse with faith in a loving God. Guest: Lou Phillips Ask Juli your questions during the Making Sense of God & Sex webinar. Watch Juli's 3-part video series, Why God Cares About Your Sexuality. Not an AI member? Watch the first video free. Become an Authentic Intimacy member Java #352: How Purity Culture & Ravi Z...
#402: If God Made My Body "Good," Why Does It Cause So Much Pain?
February 17, 2022 08:00 - 45 minutes - 31.3 MBAuthor and apologist Sam Allberry shares how we can reconcile the goodness of our bodies (which are created by God) with the shame and pain we often feel about the ways we’ve misused them—or the way they've been misused by others. Guest: Sam Allberry What God Has to Say About Our Bodies by Sam Allberry Ask Juli your questions during the Making Sense of God & Sex webinar. Watch Juli's 3-part video series, Why God Cares About Your Sexuality. Not an AI member? Watch the first video free....
#401: Why "Love is Love" Doesn't Mean What You Think It Means
February 14, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 49.9 MBBlack Lives Matter. Love is love. Women’s rights are human rights. A thread of truth—truth deeply rooted in Christianity—runs through these claims. How do you champion biblical truth while (lovingly) rejecting the lies that our culture has packaged with it? Juli and her guests gather to help you do just that. “…Christianity is the original source and firmest foundation for true diversity, equality, and life-transforming love.” Rebecca McLaughlin Guests: Rebecca McLaughlin & Rachel Gil...
#400: If God Is Good, Why Doesn't He Take Away My Sexual Addiction?
February 10, 2022 08:00 - 41 minutes - 28.6 MBAt the root of every struggle with ongoing, unwanted sexual sin is a lie about God—and it keeps you from the very things that bring transformation: connection with God and others. Hear how God meets you in the messiness, why your anger is a good thing, and God’s promise to complete the good work that He started in you. Guest: Jonathan Daugherty Be Broken Ministries Grace Based Recovery by Jonathan Daugherty* Watch Juli's 3-part video series, Why God Cares About Your Sexuality. Not an ...
#399: Why Questions About Sex Cause You to Question God
February 07, 2022 08:00 - 42 minutes - 29.1 MBJuli and Hannah kick off the "Making Sense of God & Sex" series with a conversation about how questions around sex always lead us to bigger, more important questions about God. Why did He create me as a sexual being? Can I trust Him? Is His word relevant for me today? Guest: Hannah Nitz Show notes: Why God Cares About Your Sexuality, Part 1 Become an Authentic Intimacy member Register for the webinar Subscribe to "Java with Juli" in Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts Register for...
#398: How Trauma-Informed Care Helps Your Brain, Body & Relationships
January 31, 2022 08:00 - 43 minutes - 30 MB“Trauma-informed care” is more than just a pop psychology buzzword. Join Juli to learn about the experiences that we don’t just “get over” or forget about—and the first steps toward healing. Guest: Victoria Gutbrod, MA, LPCC Shownotes: Introduce the podcast! Find a trauma-informed care specialist at MyCounselor.Online* How to Find a Wise Counselor (Juli's blog) The Body Keeps the Score, Bessel van der Kolk *This is an affiliate link. AI may earn referral fees from qualifying pu...
#397: How To Help Families Navigate Questions About Gender Identity
January 24, 2022 08:00 - 36 minutes - 25 MBJuli continues her conversation with Dr. Mark Yarhouse about how parents can stay close to a child who is questioning his or her gender, how you can come alongside those parents, and how churches can care for individuals and families who are struggling in this space. Grab your Java and join us! Guest: Dr. Mark Yarhouse Show notes: Understanding Gender Dysphoria by Dr. Mark Yarhouse* Emerging Gender Identities by Dr. Mark Yarhouse & Dr. Julia Sadusky* Introduce the podcast! Tell us ...
#396: Diverse Gender Identities: How To See the People Behind the Issue
January 17, 2022 08:00 - 34 minutes - 23.8 MBWhy are so many teens suddenly coming out as trans or non binary? Juli welcomes Dr. Mark Yarhouse to help you understand the difference between gender dysphoria and the emerging gender identities that young people are navigating today. You'll hear how to have compassionate, biblical and productive conversations around this complex issue—and how to listen and love well. Guest: Dr. Mark Yarhouse Show notes: Understanding Gender Dysphoria by Dr. Mark Yarhouse* Emerging Gender Identiti...
#395: How to Be Intentional to Care For Your Mental Health & Wellness
January 10, 2022 08:00 - 48 minutes - 33.5 MBDr. Juli Slattery and Dr. Jennifer Degler help you check in on your mental health. They describe the physical and emotional symptoms of depression and anxiety, and how to know when to get professional help. Also, hear how to check in with a friend you're concerned about. Guest: Dr. Jennifer Degler, PhD Show notes: www.drjenniferdegler.com How Do You Take Your Java? How to Choose a Wise Counselor (Juli's blog) MyCounselor.Online (mention AI to receive 25% off)* Follow Authentic In...
#394: Debt-free in the Bedroom: How To Heal From Sexual Pain
January 03, 2022 08:00 - 43 minutes - 30 MBHave you experienced sexual trauma? Betrayal in marriage? Do you regret your sexual choices from the past? These experiences create a sense of shame that follows you right into the bedroom. Join Dr. Juli Slattery and Dr. Doug Rosenau for a conversation about how to begin to heal. Guest: Dr. Doug Rosenau How do you take your Java? How Do I Get Past My Shame? (video) God's Healing Stinks (Juli's blog) Why Is Healing So Hard? (Juli's blog) How To Choose a Wise Counselor (Juli's blog)...
#393: Practical Wisdom for Dating & Friendship
December 27, 2021 08:00 - 41 minutes - 28.8 MBCan we get practical about dating? Juli and author Eric Demeter put aside the Christian dating subculture and get super practical about being direct, being honest, and being wise. Grab your Java and join us! Guest: Eric Demeter Show notes: How Should a Christian Date? It’s Not as Complicated as You Think by Eric Demeter* Sex & the Single Girl by Juli Slattery Is Masturbation a Sin? You May Be Asking the Wrong Question (Juli’s blog) What’s the Purpose of Your Sexuality, Really? (Ju...
#65: "Redeeming Love" & Why Healing Takes Time, with Francine Rivers
December 20, 2021 08:00 - 26 minutes - 18.4 MBThere’s one novel that Juli often hands a woman after hearing her story of sexual brokenness: Redeeming Love—and it’s coming to theaters next month. Juli sits down with Francine Rivers to hear how Francine’s story of brokenness and healing influenced Redeeming Love and her other works. Guest: Francine Rivers, Hannah Nitz Show notes: Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers* God's Healing Stinks Juli's blog Surprised By the Healer by Juli Slattery & Linda Dillow Surprised By the Healer--j...
#65: Why Healing Takes Time, with Francine Rivers
December 20, 2021 08:00 - 26 minutes - 18.4 MBJuli sits down with Francine Rivers to hear how her story of brokenness and healing after an abortion influenced her fictional writing. Guest: Francine Rivers, Hannah Nitz Show notes: Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers* God's Healing Stinks Juli's blog Surprised By the Healer by Juli Slattery & Linda Dillow Surprised By the Healer--join the online book study! Give a Gift to Authentic Intimacy Follow Authentic Intimacy on: Instagram: @authenticintimacy Facebook: @authenticinti...
#392: Want To Know Juli and Mike Better? This Is Your Episode!
December 13, 2021 08:00 - 48 minutes - 33.1 MBHannah Nitz turns the tables on Juli and Mike to hear how they met, how they navigated the early years of marriage, and what it was like for Mike to watch Juli leave her dream job to start a ministry around sexuality. Plus, hear what's new in 2022! Guests: Mike Slattery and Hannah Nitz Show notes: We want to hear from you! How Do You Take Your Java? Support Authentic Intimacy with a financial gift Sign up now for an online book study in January! Follow Authentic Intimacy on: Inst...
#391: Make Your Relationship Better With a Few Intentional Habits
December 06, 2021 08:00 - 44 minutes - 30.6 MBRelationships naturally find ruts. Couples who build intentional habits of speaking life to each other, quickly giving the benefit of the doubt, and seeking adventure together can make it through the roughest relationship terrain. Join Juli and her guests to learn a few secrets of thriving relationships! Guests: Chris and Jenni Graebe Show notes: The Rhythm of Us by Chris & Jenni Graebe* Sex Is the Icing On the Cake (Juli's blog) Use the code JAVA15 for 15% off an AI Membership Si...
#390: Have You Given Up On Sexual Enjoyment and Pleasure?
November 29, 2021 08:00 - 43 minutes - 29.9 MBJuli and her guest, Dr. Debra Taylor, have a conversation about the complexity of female sexuality, lies women believe, and how you can experience the pleasure that God created for you, too. Guest: Dr. Debra Taylor, MFT, CST Show notes: 5 Things You Need to Know About Women, Orgasm and Intimacy (Juli's blog) Your Sexual Differences Can Make You Better Lovers (Juli's blog) A Secret For the Guys (Juli's blog) Join an online book study going through Passion Pursuit, a 10-week study t...
#389: Thinking About Becoming a Blended Family?
November 22, 2021 08:00 - 41 minutes - 28.8 MBEven the strongest couples will face challenges when blending their families. Juli talks with Ron Deal about what every blended couple needs to consider during the dating and engagement season. Guest: Ron Deal Show notes: Preparing to Blend by Ron Deal* www.rondeal.org Your Marriage Should Be Fun (Juli's blog) What's the Purpose of Sex in Marriage? (Juli's blog) Follow Authentic Intimacy on: Instagram: @authenticintimacy Facebook: @authenticintimacy Follow Juli on Twitte...