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It's not Me. It's You.

40 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 4 years ago - ★★★★★ - 12 ratings

The struggles and harsh reality of dating in LA. The comedic, yet bittersweet point of view of two single girls trying to find the happy medium with their love and social lives. Picture the hilarious, raw, and uncut group-chat of your besties come to life on air. Where we discuss love, sex, dating and everything in between

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Episodes

We’re Catching Flights, Not Corona

March 11, 2020 16:00 - 1 hour - 44.6 MB

Just the two of us.  Feisty & Sam sit down to discuss how thankful they are for the Corona Virus, whether or not you can be in love with two people at the same time, dating red flags we’ve managed to avoid, a new dating site for men with small penises & other mini juicy topics along the way.  Do you think it’s okay to answer your partners phone while they are sleeping if you recognize the name? Tune in to the listener question to find out our expert advice.  FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @itsnot...

Live Show (Podcast Pit LA 2/17/2020)

March 10, 2020 20:00 - 19 minutes - 13.1 MB

If you missed us in person, you’re in for a treat. Listen to the audio of our first live show. The ladies brought on special guest Brandon to discuss, Valentine’s Day side pieces, body count(again), & whether or not we prefer rich d*ck or big d*ck.  Make sure to follow:  @itsnotmeitsyou310 @champagnesammmyy @f3istypisces  @dabnisbrickey @podcastpitla @goodnewsradio Subscribe, Like & Comment 

Say One More Gotd@%n Song Quote

March 04, 2020 15:00 - 1 hour - 51.7 MB

Okay so Feisty started it, but the rest of the gang finished it! Our brothas @necessarynonsense from anotha motha are back for another hilarious episode. They discuss the most viewed show on Netflix “Love is Blind”, Chris Breezy’s STD results, most important questions to ask on a first date & a listener question that clarifies “Courtesy Vs Flirting” Make sure to LIKE, COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE FOLLOW US @itsnotmeitsyou310 @champagnesammmyy @F3istypisces @jarick_ @willpharoah @arcadetokens

Flip’d, Dip’d & Giggle’d

February 25, 2020 16:00 - 1 hour - 45.3 MB

The girls borrow some boys from one of their fav girl gang podcast @nevernotextra. They discuss in depth birth chart astrology readings & whether or not they prefer to “holla” at the opposite sex the old school way or slide in DMs. ***WARNING***- Due to mercury retrograde, it stopped recording mid episode, just when it started to get good...which means we need to bring them back for a redo  Follow Us @itsnotmeitsyou310 @champagnesammmyy @f3istypisces @Mrcharmer1 @Fyfedontgotig @kingenyap  

Happy Fri...I mean Valentines Day

February 14, 2020 17:00 - 1 hour - 49.6 MB

First off, TGIF...longest week ever, but we made it. The ladies sit down with recurring special guest Karus to play a vday rendition of “this or that”, share their sexiest moment, & answer an interesting listener question.  We apologize in advance for Champagne Sammy’s “Name Dropping” throughout the episode(Please don’t sue)  Follow Us @itsnotmeitsyou310 @champagnesammmyy @f3istypisces  @karusmatik 

Cuz This Is Ladies Night

February 05, 2020 16:00 - 50 minutes - 69.9 MB

Sam & Feisty sit down to discuss celebrity potential hookups(shout out to Meg & G-Eazy), Feisty getting friend zoned by someone already in the friend zone, corona virus(ewww), proper SEXTing rules & of course...”I don’t know who needs to hear this”.  RIP Kobe & Gigi 💜💛 Happy Black History Month ✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽 Come see us LIVE 2/17/2020 @ Down & Out Bar DTLA 7:30! ( Follow Us on IG for deets)  @itsnotmeitsyou310 @champagnesammmyy @f3istypisces

Started From The Bottom, Now We Here

January 22, 2020 15:00 - 1 hour - 48.2 MB

Champagne Sammy & Feisty bring on the “Podfather” Keith to discuss how he started his own broadcasting network, Beyoncé’s Ivy Park line, switching roles for a day, contradictions in dating, women NOT apologizing & of course our fav segment, “I don’t know who needs to hear this but...”  Make sure to subscribe, like, comment & share Follow Us @itsnotmeitsyou310 @champagnesammmyy @f3istypisces @keithgoodnews @podcastpitla @mysterious.jacks 

Shots Fired...literally

January 15, 2020 15:00 - 1 hour - 46 MB

Feisty & Sam sit down with comedian/actor Tahir Moore to discuss how “love ain’t enough” in a relationship, the “Plan B” pill(you’re welcome), Fan only” pages on social media & “ghosting/breadcrumbing”.  Share, Comment & Subscribe  Follow Us @champagnesammmyy @f3istypisces @tahirmoore  Also, Tahir is back on tour with @Kevonstage<==link in his bio

New Year. Same Us

January 08, 2020 16:00 - 1 hour - 55.5 MB

The first show for 2020 & the girls brought their fav boys Wells P & Brandon to discuss Billboards top 10 songs/most scanless moment of the decade, New Years resolutions with a twist, how to properly watch porn & much more.  New Year. Same Banter  Follow Us  @itsnotmeitsyou310 @champagnesammmyy @f3istypisces @Wells_p

It’s Not Me. It’s Extra

December 18, 2019 15:00 - 1 hour - 54.8 MB

Sam & Feisty sit down with the ladies of the dope podcast “Never Not Extra”. Kirsten & Monie chime in on a few holiday themed ice breakers, advise whether or not guys sucking d*ck is a deal breaker, the groups favorite holiday with bae & much more.  Check out their podcast @nevernotextra every Tuesday night on the Good News Radio app Dont forget to Follow, Subscribe, Like & Comment @itsnotmeitsyou310 @champagnesammmyy @f3istypisces @nevernotmonie @nevernotkirsten

Preach Kings

December 11, 2019 18:00 - 1 hour - 62.8 MB

The ladies of “It’s Not Me, It’s You” sit down with some kings to discuss their viewpoint of “Queen and Slim”, Lizzo’s ass(literally and figuratively), Kanye West, our thirstiest “shoot your shot” moment, and a few more things in between.  Warning...this episode is long YET hilarious  Don’t forget to subscribe, comment & share  Follow us on IG @itsnotmeitsyou310 @champagnesammmyy @f3istypisces @lougee83 @Willpharoah @karusmatik 

Hot Girl Summer Is Over. Insert F*ck Boy Fall

December 04, 2019 15:00 - 46 minutes - 32.1 MB

We’re baaack! Your favorite girls are back for Season 3. Get excited! They discussed juicy summer plans/vacations, Omarion/Lil Fizz drama & play a short game of “would you rather”. Feisty also updates  us on her love life!  Follow us IG @itsnotmeitsyou310 @champagneSammyyy @F3istypisces  Like, Comment & Subscribe   

Finale

June 07, 2019 04:00 - 1 hour - 42.8 MB

The ladies of its not me it’s you close out 2019 with a bang! Give them a little bit of red wine and they will share any & everything you wanted to know. They discuss “baecations”, whether or you need to be “faithful” in the dating stage, drunk sex Vs sober sex, & lots of drunken laughs!  Sam & Feisty also answer a listener question on whether or not they will ever reveal “Watermelon Baes”/“who Feisty likes” govt names... Follow them @itsnotmeitsyou310 @Champagnesammmyy @F3istypisces

Champagne N’ Caviar

May 23, 2019 17:00 - 1 hour - 36.8 MB

Feisty & Sam sit down with the “Bruhmigos” podcast to discuss their new show, give their advice on a listener question, outsiders complimenting significant others, how to properly wash your body (according to white Twitter) & even got the crew to freestyle. Follow @itsnotmeitsyou310 @bruhmigos Like, share, comment & subscribe 

Glass Table Talk

May 08, 2019 21:00 - 1 hour - 27.6 MB

The ladies of “it’s not me, it’s you” sit down with guest Jaleesa Lashay to discuss the “Red table talk” episode with the Curry women, the importance of being raised by both parents, “HATfishing”, East Coast vs West Coast men & of course sprinkle a little bit of melanin women’s empowerment.  Follow us on IG  @itsnotmeitsyou310 @champagnesammmyy @F3istypisces @jaleesalashay

Feisty Pisces LIKES...(insert name here)

May 02, 2019 02:00 - 41 minutes - 18.9 MB

Champagne Sammy finally gets Feisty Pisces to admit she finally likes someone. Are y’all happy now?!...They borrowed a segment topic from “Necessary Nonsense”podcast, share what they would miss most about being Single, answer a listener question & random rants/nervous laughter included Will Feisty reveal a name on air? You have to tune in to find out  Follow @itsnotmeitsyou310 @champagnesammmyy @f3istypisces  Share, Rate, Subscribe & drop us a comment

It’s Springtime. Pollen is Poppin’ & We Ovulating

April 25, 2019 03:00 - 1 hour - 30.9 MB

The boys are back...and by boys we mean our favorite boys from @Necessary_Nonsense. We combined forces and did another “Power Episode”. We swap segments discussing Spring Flings, instagrams new “Like” plan, whether or not we prefer a “grower or show’r” & much more! So puff puff pass your favorite Kush & be prepared to LAUGH YOUR ASS OFF  @f3istypisces  @champagnesammmyy @itsnotmeitsyou310 @necessary_nonsense

21 Questions

April 17, 2019 19:00 - 58 minutes - 26.9 MB

Champagne Sammy & Feisty Pisces enjoy “Wine Wednesday” by asking eachother random questions. The questions range from favorite cereal to text from our exes. Tune in to find out our hilarious answers. 

Dedication

April 03, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 29.4 MB

Feisty Pisces & Champagne Sammy sit down with guest host Clarissa & special guest Rob (from London). They discuss their individual flirt styles, having liquid courage, & Feisty reveals some juicy details about how her & Rob met.  We dedicate this show to Nipsey Hussle RIP 

CompanionSHIP, RelationSHIP or Titanic?

March 20, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 30.9 MB

Champagne Sammy & Feisty Pisces sit down with guest host Clarissa to recap their drunken fun filled weekend, companionships VS relationships, whether or not they want to revisit the eggplant who took their virginity & a surprise cameo appearance from Feisty’s favorite Season 1 guest.... Make sure to follow @itsnotmeitsyou310 for updates 

Freaky Freestyle

March 13, 2019 07:00 - 1 hour - 32.3 MB

Champagne Sammy & Feisty Pisces sit down with Wells P & Brandon from the “Secured The Bag” podcast & basically freestyle the entire show! They discuss everything from FUBU making a comeback, the appropriate place to cum & Feisty’s birthday!  Listener discretion is advised & you are guaranteed to LAUGH YOUR ASS OFF

Three’s A Crowd

March 06, 2019 14:00 - 1 hour - 28.1 MB

Champagne Sammy & Feisty Pisces sit down with comedian/actor Tahir Moore & guest host Clarissa to chop it up about the Jordyn/Tristan sex scandal, threesomes(yes, again), social media make or breakUP fan question & played their newly added “I don’t know who needs to hear this but...” game  Follow ya girls: @champagnesammmyy @f3istypisces @itsnotmeitsyou310 @brwnskinlady_ Happy Birthday @Tahirmoore Tahirmoore.com

I LOVE and HATE you at the very same time

February 28, 2019 08:00 - 39 minutes - 18.1 MB

Champagne Sammy & Feisty Pisces sit down to discuss Feisty’s obsession with “Married At First Sight”, how long they are willing to wait for a man in jail, whether or not you can make “new” friends of the opposite sex while in a relationship, answer a fan question regarding marriage & play their new episode closing tradition “I don’t know who needs to hear this, but...” meme game.  Follow ya girls!  @champagnesammmyy @F3istypisces @itsnotmeitsyou310

Brown Sugar

February 20, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour - 43.2 MB

Our first all female show where the only guy featured was Jack Last name Daniels. The ladies sat down with special guest Clarissa to discuss sexuality, the ups and downs of Valentine’s Day weekend, the “Feisty Finds Love” missing episode, sexuality, hall passes, Champagne Sammy’s  current relationship status & shared some “I don’t know who needs to hear this” meme advice.  Like, comment & Subscribe  @itsnotmeitsyou310 @champagnesammmyy @F3istypisces  @brwnskinlady_

It’s Not Me. It’s Nonsense

February 13, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour - 34.4 MB

See this right here, is our POWER show *Jarick voice. The “It’s not me, It’s you” girls team up with our favorite boys from “Necessary Nonsense” to discuss Valentines Day, fetishes, porn, & played a game of “Would you rather”.  Follow  @itsnotmeitsyou310 @f3istypisces @champagnesammmyy

T Shirt & My Panties On

February 06, 2019 08:00 - 50 minutes - 23 MB

We’re baack...*Cue Adina Howard  Season 2 premiere episode where Feisty Pisces & Champagne Sammy sit down and discuss 2019 goals, best/worst Valentine’s Day, whether or not we matching our undies, & what to expect on next weeks “game show” bonus episode. We also answer a fan question regarding her homie lover friend situationship! Tune in  IG: itsnotmeitsyou310 champagnesammmyy f3istypisces  #Subscribe 

Doin it for the gram

November 22, 2018 04:00 - 1 hour - 42.1 MB

It’s the season finale. The ladies sit down with special guests Wells P & Karus to discuss whether or not they are posting bae on Instagram & share what they are thankful for. See you again in 2019! 

Bawdy-Count

November 14, 2018 23:00 - 1 hour - 33.7 MB

Our favorite boys from “Necessary Nonsense” are back & this time they brought a friend. We discussed everything from disclosing your “number”, bad sex & more sex! 

Cock Lock & Block it

November 07, 2018 20:00 - 37 minutes - 17 MB

Your favorite ladies sit down and discuss the important missed details of a faux marriage proposal, COCKBLOCKING & play an interesting juicy game of “Marry Shag Kill”.  (don’t forget to subscribe) 

B!&%h act like you knew

October 24, 2018 07:00 - 1 hour - 31.9 MB

Champagne Sammy & Feisty Pisces sit down with the hilarious guys of the hit podcast “Necessary Nonsense” Jarick & Louie. They discuss everything from trains, embarrassing dates & much more. The jingles and jokes were for sure in session! 

Can I talk to you? I really wanna know you

October 17, 2018 07:00 - 1 hour - 28 MB

So if you didn’t read the title in your best Jodeci voice...exit stage left...(Just Kidding...finish the episode) Champagne Sammy & Feisty PISCES sit down and recap their weekend at the VC polo classic, whether or not they are asking guys for their number first & reminscing about old times on Gchat

On Wednesday’s we wear Rosè

October 10, 2018 07:00 - 58 minutes - 27 MB

Champagne Sammy & Feisty Pisces recap the “Insecure” finale & invite the neighbor from Apt #9 for a quick game of “Forbidden Questions”.  Warning: must be drinking Rosè while listening...its 5 o’ clock somewhere 

What would you do?!

September 26, 2018 07:00 - 41 minutes - 19.1 MB

Champagne Sammy & Feisty Pisces sit down (SOBER) and discuss how they feel about second chances & what they would do if their exes EX-bae confronts them...fight or flight?? Tune in to find out!

GHOSTbusters

September 19, 2018 07:00 - 1 hour - 29.7 MB

Your fav girls got LITTY & brought in some guests to talk about “ghosting”...they took shots, literally and figuratively alll night! Tune in

CUFF’D & sentenced to LIFE

September 12, 2018 07:00 - 52 minutes - 23.9 MB

Champagne Sammy & Feisty Pisces sit down and discuss their plans for “cuffing season”, building a roster & kissing summer 18’ goodbye.

Guess who’s bizzack?!

September 05, 2018 07:00 - 35 minutes - 16.2 MB

Woop woop, Champagne Sammy is finally back from living her best life overseas. They sit down and discuss the latest ep of HBO’s hit show Insecure #TeamIssaRae

Is it One Mic or is it Oochie Wally?

August 22, 2018 07:00 - 1 hour - 33.4 MB

While Champagne Sammy is out living her best life in Mexico, Feisty Pisces scooped up guest host Wells P from the "Secured the bag" podcast. They discuss TLC's hit show "90 day fiance", whether or not it goes DOWN in their DM's, Tinder Do's and Don'ts, and play a quick game of "Truth or Truth".

Ride or Die (but where we goin?!)

August 15, 2018 07:00 - 36 minutes - 16.6 MB

Champagne Sammy & Feisty Pisces sit down and discuss whether or not they "ride" for their man(no pun), why melanin is poppin all year & a lil H-Town stomp FOLLOW US @F3istypisces @ChampagneSammmy @Itsnotmeitsyou310

F*ckboy Reformed

August 01, 2018 07:00 - 1 hour - 31.5 MB

Champagne Sammy & Feisty Pisces sit down with Gavin to clear his name of "F*ckboy of the year" They discuss everything from smashing the homies to proper dating etiquette. Tune in every "Woman Crush Wednesday" for a new episode on "It's not ME. It's You." IG: @itsnotmeitsyou310 @Champagnesammmy @F3istypisces

That platonic Sh*t for TV shows

July 24, 2018 07:00 - 29 minutes - 13.7 MB

Feisty Pisces and Champagne Sammy sit down and discuss whether or not men and women can JUST be friends. Should you dip in and out the friend zone or leave them how you found them?!

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