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It's a Drama Podcast

186 episodes - English - Latest episode: 1 day ago - ★★★★★ - 10 ratings

A husband and wife comedy podcast hosted by world traveller and best-selling comedy author Liz Deacle and her partner-in- crime, husband, Brian. The couple talks candidly, hilariously and honestly about travel, family, food and trying hard to get through the second half of life in one piece...
Expect frank and funny chats as well as wine, laughter and the occasional leak of urine.

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Is this NORMAL? What I wish I'd known about Grief

July 06, 2024 03:57 - 24 minutes - 46.2 MB

Sign up for Liz's Five Letters here. Be the help you needed. That's always been my motto. My blueprint. My words-in-guiding-armour that help me forward whenever I feel stuck. Especiaslly in these terrifying times of deep grief when I hesitate to share my sadness and struggles for fear of losing subscribers or upsetting those here for the laughs. But. What I have today has to be shared. It has to be. Last week I experienced panic and hope in a way that I never expected. Or knew ho...

Can I stay home forever? Braving normal life while GRIEVING

June 14, 2024 07:39 - 56 minutes - 106 MB

It's the first time in eight weeks I've left the house. Apart from getting groceries, walking in nature, and spending an hour or two working at our local cafe, my safe place to grieve has been at home. Alone. In this episode, we wanted to share our first overnight trip away since losing Mum. We went to see our son, Sonny, in Hamilton, New Zealand. In the real world. Filled with grief but determined to do something normal, this is what the experience looked like.  Thank you for list...

Grief. It looks like this (but feels like that)

June 07, 2024 05:02 - 1 hour - 76.1 MB

Lately, when I drop into bed at night, I find myself asking how on earth I got through the last twelve hours. Quite often, I don't remember what I did or half of what I said. Yet, if you passed me in the street, you'd think I was a normal, everyday person going about her day, coping. Doing grown-up stuff. Making videos. Living without a mum. This episode was inspired by you. It is made in recognition of all those who have reached out to me, people who have shown their love and support ...

Is This Grief or Depression (and why does no one warn you?)

May 30, 2024 03:07 - 47 minutes - 54 MB

We weren't going to release this podcast episode. The original plan was to discuss whether, after losing her mum to cancer six weeks ago, the deep sadness Liz is feeling is normal grief (as one would expect) or a worryingly worsening depression. And while that's what we did end up discussing, the route we took to arrive at the conclusion was different to what we anticipated. We were ready to scrap the episode and start again. But. We changed our mind. On reflection (and a large red...

Goodbye. For now

May 21, 2024 04:03 - 18 minutes - 20.9 MB

No description. No words. Just a story. And a thank you. A huge, huge thank you. Thank you for allowing me to share the intimate details of such a sad and heartbreaking time. And for confirming that no matter who we are, where we live, what we look like, or how we spend our days: Our hearts beat as one. And now, a tribute to the woman who made it all seem so very easy. I love you. Liz x  

Unexpected Respite

April 16, 2024 03:19 - 32 minutes - 37.3 MB

Wrong. Wrong. And wrong again. You'd think that I'd have learned by now. I've had fifty-three years to practice, after all. But no. Still, I make the mistake of thinking that to make things 'better' and 'easier', I must look outside of myself. Go far afield. Spend a ton of money and wrap my mum and me up in cashmere rugs, then sit alongside Rose and Kathy Bates in first class on the Titanic. Way off, Liz. Not even close. This week's podcast update is brought to you with love, ten...

Say it. While you still can

April 02, 2024 04:26 - 34 minutes - 39.7 MB

This was one of the hardest podcast episodes I have ever recorded. But it was necessary. I won't watch the recording back because I know for a fact that I'll get cold feet and tell Bri to delete it. So. I hope it's okay and that it isn't too upsetting for you—my sincere apologies if it is. My intention was never to make you feel sad, only strong. Hugged. Confident. Brave enough to speak your truth. To always say what you wish to say to the people who matter the most. Because the world ...

Troubled Times

March 12, 2024 04:18 - 50 minutes - 57.6 MB

Another behind-the-scenes podcast where Liz and Brian share their decision to discuss such personal details about their marriage and life in public (including talking about Liz's mum, who was recently diagnosed with terminal cancer). The couple talks about how their family is (trying) to navigate the "new normal", addressing guilt, wrestling with emotions and lastly, the importance of not assuming to know what others are thinking or feeling. You never know. Not ever. If you doubt this st...

Coping. Or Not. (Behind-the-Scenes)

February 27, 2024 03:03 - 44 minutes - 51.1 MB

This week is a behind-the-scenes podcast where Liz explains why she shared a very personal journal entry with three thousand people and the outcome of doing so.   Links mentioned in the show: If you aren't yet signed up for Liz's Front Row newsletter and would like to receive weekly emails, including the email that Liz and Brian talked about in today's episode, email Liz at [email protected], and she will send it to you, gladly. Thank you for being you, for listening and for adding y...

Braving Alternative Therapy. Torture or Bliss?

February 13, 2024 23:23 - 59 minutes - 68.5 MB

Yesterday, Liz experienced floatation therapy. Spent the day floating in a tank of salt water. Alone. No lights. No sounds. No Bri. This week, the couple discuss the experience and Brian voices his very strong opinions on 'Crotch Eye-balling' and other weird and wonderful alternative therapies. Sit back, nod, relate, and giggle while the couple talks about whacky stress relief, disastrous Greek hotels, and listener holiday laments. Enjoy! We want to hear from you! Drop us a comment b...

Swanky places & second-rate service. What the??

February 06, 2024 01:01 - 54 minutes - 62.5 MB

In this week's podcast, Liz shares a recent scary memory loss experience on her solo vacation in New Zealand, Brian gets jealous about a bloke named Bernaaard, and the husband and wife couple explores why people love to visit swanky-pants places but are always too embarrassed to complain when they are treated badly... Enjoy! Links mentioned in the show: Sign up for Liz's FREE newsletter, The Front Row, now! Get Liz's book, THE TRAVEL BOG DIARIES📕 (now available on audio!) Join us i...

Wayward spending & Angry Reviews

January 30, 2024 05:34 - 44 minutes - 50.6 MB

In this week's show, Liz and Brian dive into the world of negative reviews and comments. Brian shares a lifelong criticism, and Liz is irked by her husband spending their millions without asking...   Enjoy!   Links mentioned in the show: You can very kindly REVIEW Liz's Book HERE! Sign up for Liz's FREE newsletter, The Front Row, now! Get Liz's book, THE TRAVEL BOG DIARIES📕 (now available on audio!) Join us in using the BEST travel hack in the world, HOUSESITTING. Use our e...

2024. What's up & what's in

January 22, 2024 03:38 - 58 minutes - 67.4 MB

I don't know about you, but I get the feeling that people are ready for a change. I'm not sure what that collective "change" is, but I know there is one. I can feel it. Deep in my bones. Under the bits of orangey, saggy flesh. In this week's podcast, as well as bringing you bang up-to-date with what's been going on in the the world of La Deacles, we wanted to share a few personal "ins". Ins for 2024. My 'ins' are deep and meaningful. Brian's are...well ...they're... very Brianish. Al...

job Seeking and Cock-Tales

December 12, 2023 05:21 - 34 minutes - 39.6 MB

It's jobs, jobs, jobs in our house at the moment. Honestly, it's all we can talk about. We've got a son who needs one, a daughter who's juggling one and a woman in Australia who's jumping over the tins of baked beans to avoid one... In this week's episode, Brian and Liz discuss what is and isn't acceptable in a job interview, disagree about mardy men on building sites, and recall a few white lies they told to get where they needed to be... Enjoy! Don't forget to leave us a review (PL...

Mangled memories & cringey chitchat

December 07, 2023 05:40 - 47 minutes - 54.5 MB

Have you ever had a conversation with someone and then beat yourself up for days (or years) because you were convinced you said something rude or inappropriate? In this week's podcast, Liz and Brian talk about distorted marriage memories, Liz roasts Brian with a Mandella Effect quiz, and together they try out some proven America conversation starters in an attempt to stop being so sodding anti-social. Don't forget to leave us a review (PLEASE!!) and share this podcast with a friend! Shar...

Gatecrashers, royalty & deranged morning routines

November 28, 2023 05:41 - 45 minutes - 52.2 MB

Liz and Brian’s morning routine has changed drastically. Just when they thought they’d discovered a nice quiet hidey-hole to indulge in some golfy meditation, a bunch of rude gatecrashers (and a soggy beast) forced Liz to act quite strangely. Talking of strange… In this weeks husband and wife we discuss the glorious habits of the Queen’s alkie sister, why Brian feels inferior to a hunk who never sleeps and what on earth we will tell our 19-year-old daughter, Tess when she comes home for ...

Couples Who Overshare

November 20, 2023 07:56 - 40 minutes - 46.5 MB

In this week's episode, husband and wife Liz and Brian set out to discover if it is healthy for a couple to spill the beans about personal stuff online. Reveal all. Is it really necessary to wash those filthy sheets in public, or should 'things like that' be folded neatly into a square and rammed into the top drawer with the flowery hankies? Let's find out... While we're at it, you'll also hear about rabbits, breasts, and Michael's best friend, Viagra. Enjoy! Don't forget to leave us...

Sonny. How's Life Online? (Behind The Scenes)

November 09, 2023 07:00 - 1 hour - 81.1 MB

Sonny, our son, is now 22. (I still can't quite get my head around that one).  It has been two years since Sonny last joined me for a chat on the podcast (the podcast that he and I started together), and A LOT has changed in his life since then. Sit back, listen and enjoy as Sonny and Liz talk about breakups, the damage of social media, making money online and how it feels to be the main character in your mother's book... Links Mentioned in the Podcast   Liz's latest book, THE TRAV...

Unwanted News

November 03, 2023 05:34 - 53 minutes - 60.9 MB

In the five years that this podcast has been going, this week's episode was the hardest one to record. For those who have been with us for a while, you will know we try our hardest to promote honesty and transparency. We like to keep it real. Sometimes (for those who have read my book) maybe a little too real. I'm not one for tricking people. Making things look better than they are. So, as hard as it was to make this episode, it was necessary.  You see, we are the same, you and me. We l...

Wet Behind The Ears

October 21, 2023 01:10 - 1 hour - 83 MB

Looking back, I was so wet behind the ears I'm surprised I didn't drown.  Two years ago, I announced to the world that I would be writing, publishing and marketing my first-ever book with no clue what lay ahead. Ahh...isn't ignorance bliss...  But as challenging as it has been, writing and publishing my book is STILL the best thing I have ever done.  In this week's special edition podcast, Brian and I are celebrating something we have been working on for months: the AUDIOBOOK of the Tr...

Proverb: Man who work non-stop has small sausage

October 12, 2023 06:40 - 59 minutes - 68.3 MB

You leave your home to go "away" for a few weeks and believe that everything will be Puuurfecct. You tell yourself you'll relax. Take massages. Eat out (without complaining). Wrong. Join Liz and Bri this week as they open a can of sausages (small ones) and share the highs and lows of being away from home for 5 weeks. They reveal the gourmet and gross food they've eaten in New Zealand, the things they've ditched and discovered since being away, and Brian blurts out his problem with li...

What a Drip

October 05, 2023 03:50 - 40 minutes - 46.2 MB

This week's episode is brought to you from the lovely and very gorgeous art deco city of Napier in New Zealand, where Liz and Bri are housesitting for five weeks in a rambling old villa perched high on a lofty hill. Ah...Life is perfect. Me and Bri, living like a Lord and Lady Muck in our ole kiwi manor house. What's not to love about that? Well...get yourself comfy, and we'll tell you... This Ole Kiwi House I don't know anyone who doesn't see a picture in a glossy house magazine...

How's Life Alone? Tessa. (Behind The Scenes)

September 19, 2023 06:20 - 1 hour - 80.4 MB

This week's podcast is a behind-the-scenes chat with Liz and her daughter, Tessa. Tessa (19) is a regular guest on the podcast. Since her last visit, she has flown the nest to start a new life alone in the capital city of New Zealand, Wellington. As is often the case with life, things don't always turn out as we expect them to. We don't feel the way we anticipate. Life throws us challenges, and although they are necessary for us to grow, new experiences aren't always easy or pleasant. ...

Up Yours, Hugh

September 14, 2023 08:07 - 41 minutes - 47.7 MB

Is there anything worse than a fraud? Someone who poses to be someone they aren't?? In this week's episode, Liz and Bri talk about family reunions, tell-tales, defending titles, overstepping the limit at work and being presented with a half-naked chocolate Italian. My, my. I hope you're ready...  Links mentioned in the show: If you want to join us in using the BEST travel hack in the world, use our exclusive discount code to get a WHOPPING 20% off TrustedHousesitting by Clicking here...

Call Yourself a Friend??

September 06, 2023 08:18 - 45 minutes - 51.5 MB

Liz and Brian are off on a five-week holiday. Housesitting in New Zealand. But before they reveal where they are going, they want to tell you all about the loneliest place in America, the twee-est town in China,  and the smelliest place in Australia. Oh, and it's only fair you should hear about Dave the deserter -  some bloke they knew ages ago who was a friend-not-friend. The one with purple hair. Sit back, pour yourself something nice and get ready to chuckle!   Links mentioned in the ...

Banging on the Ceiling

August 29, 2023 07:06 - 53 minutes - 60.8 MB

Imagine living in a house with no walls. Where everything was upside down and shaped like a lav. Where spiders and snakes swam in puddles of rain under your bed. In this week's episode, we are talking houses. Not just shapes and sizes but the weird goings-on that takes place behind closed doors—or glass walls. Or mud roofs. Crikey. Get ready to hear all about Liz and Brian's failed attempt to find a holiday destination that ticked both their boxes, their need for separation and why a...

All Down Hill from Here

August 16, 2023 05:40 - 49 minutes - 57 MB

Is there anything more attractive than seeing a man swinging from a ceiling bar with one hand, wearing only his underpants? Or anything more impressive than seeing some bloke smash a wooden toilet seat to smithereens with his head?  No. Absolutely not. I agree.  In this week's It's a Drama Podcast episode, you will learn what Bri is doing to stay young, celebrate Liz getting herself up off the floor un-aided, and discover the secret to WHY, compared to every other country in the world, ...

Wedding Thug

August 09, 2023 05:24 - 44 minutes - 51 MB

Spring is in the air (at least in Liz's upside-down head), and what better thing to talk about than love, marriage and hurly-burly thugs? Be prepared to learn about how one couple's glorious day was gate-crashed by a beast and why Liz and Brian's choice of a driver at their own wedding turned into something of a massive surprise... Enjoy! Links mentioned in the show: Liz's latest book, THE TRAVEL BOG DIARIES📕 Check out Liz's latest book, The Travel Bog Diaries! One Woman's hilarious ...

Laughing all the way to the BANK

August 02, 2023 08:41 - 44 minutes - 51.1 MB

Ohh...you're in for a real chuckle today peeps! Victor Hugo famously said that "laughter is the sun that drives winter from the human face." Hmm. I'm not sure if I'd go that far. I just spent forty-five minutes laughing on this week's podcast and I still look like an insipid dripping candle. But. After listening to this episode, I can guarantee that YOU won't!  Stand by to learn about the world's funniest woman, a human donkey, how much MONEY Liz has made as a Number 1 Bestsellin...

The Birthday

July 20, 2023 02:33 - 56 minutes - 64.6 MB

Last weekend, Big Bri celebrated his birthday, and, as promised, in this week's episode, we are going to share ALL the juicy details as to what it looks like when you turn the corner of another decade in New Zealand! Enjoy!  Sit back, relax and join us on this week's podcast for conversations on growing older, wiser, and more adventurous. Links mentioned in the show: Liz's latest book, THE TRAVEL BOG DIARIES📕 Check out Liz's latest book, The Travel Bog Diaries! One Woman's hilariou...

Bye-Bye 50's

July 13, 2023 06:46 - 1 hour - 77.4 MB

Guess what day it is tomorrow?? Go on. Have a guess. It's Bri's birthday. That's right; tomorrow is Bri's big SIX-O!  And what better way to celebrate the end of one's sixth decade than by making a podcast with and for those you love the most?! In this week's episode, Brian reveals: The most memorable part of the decade The most challenging part of the decade The changes he has experienced, both physically and mentally (and shares how he can help others) between 50 and 60 Being...

Was it Even Worth it? Cost of a Weekend in Wellington, NZ

July 05, 2023 06:48 - 58 minutes - 67.2 MB

Liz and Brian are back from their four-day long weekend in Wellington, New Zealand, where they spent three nights housesitting and spending time with their daughter. In this week's show, they share the exact cost of what four days and three nights away set them back and discuss whether or not it was all worth it... Sit back, relax and enjoy as we take you on a whirlwind weekend in New Zealand's capital city and give you plenty of truths and giggles along the way!     We LOVE Housesit...

Escaping to Wellington. But at what cost? 

June 28, 2023 05:44 - 43 minutes - 49.8 MB

Brian and Liz are knackered. Whacked. They need a weekend away. Escape for a few days. The trouble is, accommodation in New Zealand is not cheap...in fact, it's costly. And there's no way they can sleep on their daughter's couch. Not when she lives in a penthouse with drafty windows... So what do Liz and Bri do when they want to travel and pay nothing?? They turn to what they love the most: Housesitting! Sit back, relax and join us on this week's podcast for conversations on holidaying...

Gobsmacked

June 20, 2023 04:18 - 55 minutes - 104 MB

Never. Not in my wildest dreams did I think that I would EVER be sharing what I'm about to share with you in this week's podcast. Join us this week as we talk about achievements, disappointments, book revenue, and sitting on the toilet with Pamela Anderson. Liz's LATEST Book: The Travel Bog Diaries is available to buy NOW!! WOO HOO!!!! Enjoy!   The Travel Bog Diaries “THE TRAVEL BOG DIARIES: One Woman’s wickedly funny confessions of surviving family world travel” If you would l...

It's HERE!!

June 10, 2023 08:30 - 53 minutes - 60.9 MB

For two years, six months and six looonng days, I have waited to share the news I have for you on this podcast. And today, my friend, I am happy and proud to announce that my FIRST-EVER BOOK: The Travel Bog Diaries is available to buy!! WOO HOO!!!! Because it would be rude (and very boring) to celebrate alone, me and Bri thought what better way to thank you for supporting Liz than to invite you over to ours for a few drinks and a chat... So. Get yourself a glass or something nice, pu...

Pack ur bags

May 31, 2023 03:19 - 54 minutes - 62.8 MB

Five years ago, Brian and I left everything behind (including a full-time job with a regular wage) to take our family (two teenage kids), travelling around the world for a year. We visited almost thirty countries, including Japan, India, Sri Lanka, America, Vietnam, Thailand, Hong Kong and many countries in Europe.  Our budget was 100 NZD (approx $70) a day. Because we were visiting places we had never been to before, we made sure to do plenty of research beforehand. Sadly,  lots (most...

Book cover FEAR! Behind the scenes

May 15, 2023 04:32 - 41 minutes - 47.6 MB

After almost two and a half years, I am almost ready to publish my first book. That book is called The Travel Bog Diaries. It is made up of hilarious short stories of what it was REALLY like to travel the world with two phone-addicted teenagers and a husband with an acid reflux problem…That book is my baby. Real. Raw. Honest. Funny and tender. The biggest fear that I had to overcome when going ahead with this book (I self-published) was the book cover. I knew what I wanted, and let's just...

Hot, sweaty MESS

May 01, 2023 03:12 - 59 minutes - 68.3 MB

Fess up. Hot, sweaty MESS. Time to confess. When does it happen? When do you turn into a dithering, hot, sweaty, prickly fuss-bag who shakes and quivers because she has misplaced her sunglasses? Even though it's pitch black outside. And freezing cold. And winter. In this week's hilarious episode, Liz shares about her recent disastrous trip to the capital of New Zealand to see her daughter, Brian talks dirty jeans, and they both let you in on a couple of secret confessions...  PLUS!...

Tender or Torturous?

April 21, 2023 06:55 - 57 minutes - 65.3 MB

This week, Liz confesses a few massage secrets, Brian blows the cover on a bloke named Dave (who doesn't live in Gisborne) and the word on all lips this week is open-wide and twisted... PLUS! Liz reads another snippet from her soon-to-released book (not long now, hoping for mid-May). Sit back, get ready to giggle and... Enjoy! Sign up for The FRONT ROW NEWSLETTER (It's free!) Sign up for the Front Row Newsletter and receive your exclusive FREE never-seen-before bonus gift video of Li...

Replacing Brian

April 13, 2023 07:34 - 50 minutes - 58.1 MB

Last week it happened. I finally met someone who knows more than Bri, is more patient than Bri, is quicker than Bri...and to make things even weirder, they both have an 'i" in their name... Sit back, and enjoy the show. This week, other than talking about Brian's replacement, we discuss the dog peeing on the carpet (and what we are going to do about it), Liz lets go of a few facts about a country that Brian had NO idea about. Liz reads another snippet from her soon-to-released book. PLUS...

Double Edged Sword

April 04, 2023 06:33 - 46 minutes - 53.1 MB

Elon's stars, tinternet, and putting yourself out ther for all the world to see...That's what Liz and Bri want to chat with you about today! So grab yourself a cuppa or a glass of wine and settle down! Plus! Liz reads another snippet from her soon-to-released book. PLUS! You (the listener) are offered an exclusive FREE never-seen-before bonus gift of Liz reading her first chapter to you in video. Listen to find out more and then sign up HERE for your secret, exclusive video! Enjoy! Sign...

Seen, heard and a (tiny bit) pis*ed

March 28, 2023 02:14 - 50 minutes - 58 MB

You'd think after practicing for almost twenty-two years, me and Bri would have this parenting lark off to a tee by now. But no. Once again, here we are asking if anyone else finds this tremendously-rewarding-but-hardy-pardy-pig-in-a-pokie-head-buttingly-difficult thing hard to navigate.  Blub, slurp, burp. Well? Do you?  We've had a right old weekend, me and Bri. What should have been a celebration ended up being a bit of a three-way counseling session. The only positive was there was...

Clean freak

March 09, 2023 03:26 - 43 minutes - 49.8 MB

Welcome back! Regular listeners to this show will already know all about Brian's little problem. His closet obsession. If you are new to the show (welcome!) and you aren't aware of what we're talking about, fear not; you soon will. In this weeks show, we talk about Brian's inherited hindrance, rearing cattle and putting yourself out on social media when it terrifies the heebie-jeebies out of you...  Enjoy! PS: Don't forget! If you would like Liz to continue reading snippets of her ...

Gosh. Is This Too Graphic??

February 24, 2023 05:40 - 49 minutes - 56.2 MB

We need your help. Or at least one of us does. As you may remember, Liz's book is currently with the editor. The nice one with the blonde hair.  Last week the editor sent back the first two chapters. Full of edits. These edits were accompanied by an email that said, "these edits are suggestions. This is your book. You get to say what stays or goes". I told you she was nice. The trouble is, there's a problem. A big problem. Something that Liz never anticipated when she so cockily empl...

Our Daughter. Tessa. Behind The Scenes

February 16, 2023 05:02 - 48 minutes - 56 MB

Tessa is our daughter. She is 18. In two days' time, she will leave me, Brian and her older brother (and the home where she grew up)  to start a new life in Wellington, the capital city of New Zealand. Alone. Brian and I will officially be empty nesters.   Regular listeners to our podcast will know the effect this huge transition has had on us. Especially me. These past few months have been tough. I always imagined that when the time came for my kids to leave home, I would be this super ...

What a Bummer

February 01, 2023 02:20 - 1 hour - 69.3 MB

Bummer: Noun.  1. An unpleasant situation. 2. A Traveler. 3. A motherless calf. 4. A fouler.  We make lots of bloopers on this podcast. Say embarrassing things that make the other person's jaw drop. Sometimes we edit these blunders out, but most of the time, we leave them in. I'd like to tell you that this is because we are transparent and real. Authentic and vulnerable. But the truth is, we're lazy. Editing takes ages. Hours, sometimes. There's no WAY Bri can spend that much time fine-tun...

Struggling

January 10, 2023 02:58 - 1 hour - 79.8 MB

We desperately wanted to bring you an upbeat, humorous podcast to kick the year off, but sometimes life just doesn't turn out that way. So you are getting the alternative. The real stuff.  A conversation between a husband and wife trying to navigate life.  You are also getting PART 3 from the first chapter in Liz's upcoming book (which I still can't think of a title for?!).  Thank you for being here. Thank you for creating a space where we feel safe enough (and brave enough) to share t...

Family Time. Perfect Peace or (Mega) Pressure??

December 29, 2022 23:12 - 51 minutes - 59.4 MB

Every year is the same. October rolls around, and, without fail, the same futile conversation takes place.  "Let's make a pact!" Me and Bri say cheerfully as we slurp on our pumpkin soup, "This Christmas, we will...  Not go overboard on presents. After all, the holiday season is about being together, not scanning the presents like scavvy vultures to see who's spent the most. Hurray! Keep the meal nice and simple. No foo-fah for us. Turn off all devices. We will play board games and ta...

The Ghost of Brian's Past...

December 21, 2022 04:01 - 40 minutes - 46.3 MB

For years, Brian and I have disagreed over what Christmas morning should look like. What traditions we should pass down to our young children. Presents wrapped or unwrapped? Gifts given or hidden? Tree artificial or real? Mummy sloshed or sober?  Decisions, decisions... In this week's Christmas special, we let three ghosts out of the bag...Take a skeleton out of the closet and treat you to a third reading of Liz's book. This is a snippet from Chapter one, where Liz introduces you to her ...

A Ruthless Response

December 06, 2022 02:48 - 49 minutes - 56.6 MB

I'm still trying to figure out if telling someone that they'll never amount to anything makes them stronger and more determined, like a lioness on rollerskates or defeated and beaten. Like a tired old bow-wow. This week Liz was picked to pieces by someone she respected. And it hurt.  This post may contain affiliate links. They cost you nothing, but we make a small commission. Please see our Disclaimer page for more details. Doing Something That Scares The Pants Off You I have been wo...