Does you partner understand your finances?

In my experience, it is common for one spouse to have a greater interest in the family’s finances. In fact, the spouse that is ‘most interested’ typically takes fully responsibility for making the family’s financial decisions. However, there are some fundamental and important flaws with this approach which I’d like to share with you.
What happens if one spouse unexpectantly passes away?If the spouse that is the ‘financial decision-maker” passes away, particularly if it’s unexpected, it does cause the surviving spouse a lot of stress and worry. Not only do they (probably) have little knowledge of their financial affairs, but they also typically have a low level of confidence and experience with making financial decisions. This all compounds to create a lot of stress and worry, at the worst possible time.
To avoid this occurrence, each spouse must understand their financial position and strategy, even if its only at a basic level. They also must know who to seek advice from and who to trust, so they are able to share the burden of making ongoing financial decisions.
If the relationship breaks down beware of skeletonsThere have been some horrible situations of spouses finding out about how dire their family’s financial situation is after their relationship has broken down. This includes massive tax debts, liabilities and so on. Of course, a strong relationship is founded on mutual trust and respect which includes discussing and disclosing all material financial decisions with your spouse before any transactions are made. Unfortunately, this does not always occur.
One spouse, often men, may feel a strong sense of responsibility to “provide” for their family. Sometimes, this responsibility can unfortunately drive them to make unsound and inappropriate financial decisions. And to compound this, they might avoid discussing these decisions with their spouse, so they don’t ‘burden’ them.
Of course, this is a foolish approach. That said, I believe it is the responsibility of each spouse to ask questions and seek to understand their own financial position. Nothing is too complex to explain in simple, easy-to-understand terms. It is something you can share together.
It’s your money, so it’s your responsibilityThere is one thing you cannot delegate and that is the obligation to take responsibility for your money. It is your money and its your job to be respons

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