Alex and I dive into persistent dating app woes - is there any way to send a Rose or a Super Like without coming across as desperate? How do you deal with the ego hit of getting rejected by someone you weren't even into in the first place? Is it a dealbreaker if your match (or coworker) won't stop casually mentioning masturbation? And what new challenges arise when you finally meet someone IRL?

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