In The Den - The Dominant Conversation

LET IT GO AND LET'S GO!

We are back @intheden_podcast with an all new episode to kick off season 4! Welcome back, @heather_it, and a recap about the crazy events of 2022 Topic of discussion: Let it go, and let's go!

Checking On Your Strong Friend

We are back after a long hiatus so let’s catch up. We are discussing what do we do about the strong friend. We can’t wait to introduce you to our newest segment “fun facts from the Dom.” Are you the strong friend? The expectations of the strong friend doesn’t equate to hyper independence. Learning to grow past your past hurt. Becoming the new you starts with recognizing your triggers. 2. Strong friend 8:23.  4.independent 14:404.  5. What I need a man for 17:55.    6. Not a (8)  20:15   7. G...

In The Den Podcast Cheaters Edition

Today on In The Den we are back to discuss self care and the important of unwinding. Trials in tribulations on buying feminine products as a Dom. By the way what is cheating anyway? And do Dom cheat more than men? Let’s just say we have a lot to discuss.

The Burn Reunion (The Divorce Chronicles)

What happens when you fall in love with someone, get married, and then get divorced? Let’s dive deeper into what marriage was like for us, and how life after marriage has changed us. This episode we are going deep into the cycle and the weight of the expectations. Angry sex and remarrying???

Return of The Den

We are back off of vacation. Did y’all miss us? We missed you all, and it’s time to share what we been up to. We are starting with the recap from Sweet Heat. What are finger condoms anyway? Pat gives the run down on the festival scene and GeeVeezy is talking all things self care. Be sure to send your questions to the Den mail.

Pop That Pum Pum PoV

Back off of vacation and back in the studio. Of course we have to address the Will Smith Chris Rock debacle our way. The Den has to give the dominate perspective and trust me you will be entertained. What are the rules too when is it ok to go on trips with a “prospect?” Would you be offended if your partner brought out a sex toy during the first sexual encounter? What are some extremes you have gone to in order to make it known you want to break things off?

Toxic Femininity

We are back this week with another exciting episode. We start off and end when history’s greatest past time Toxicity. Starting off with the statement of the day coming from a the past “most women that are successful are not as attractive because they create the atmosphere of not needing the masculine partner.” When it comes to body count who’s keeping score and for what reason? The statement of the day “I like girls ,but I would never marry you.”

Evolution of the Gr33k Letters

What is a “LB.” You requirements to be apart of this? Non collegiate organizations why greek and not just a social group? Tune in and get the answers.

Filter Fish

The black history month celebration continues and today we are highlighting Gladys Bentley.Also today is valentines day and you know what that means…..horror stories from the past. When it comes to the Dom lifestyle what’s the protocol when it comes to famine care? How do you tell a lady about her smell? Respectfully. Fillers, catfishing, and addressing the hard questions.

Tales from Mexico

The Gang is back this week with 2 special guest. Mexico weddings is the only place in the world that allows lesbians to get married abroad. We discuss dominant presenting women pursuing straight women with the intent to convert. The double standards that exist for bi women vs dominant women is wild! What happens when you exclusively date outside your race. What happens when you looking for a partner in all the wrong places, and is it ok to cold switch?

Women Under Fire

This week of In the Den we dissect a clip from Fresh and Fit to open up the dialogue. What effects are colorisms still playing in the minds of black men and women when choosing partners? Should we still allow gender roles to dictate our actions in the modern society? Making the switch from Bi to the hetero side is more interesting than you might imagine. Tune in!

Championship Game (The Recap)

This week the Pod is back for the end of the year finale and it’s only fitting we start off with the recap. G Money tells her crazy poly story. We discuss proper dildo cleaning etiquette, is she peeing, or squirting? Gender and pronouns brings up the infamous moment when the conversation switch to robot people? How would you feel about your partner putting you on an allowance?

Breaking Points

     In this episode of In The Den the topics get a little tense, but then we get back to the fun. The conversations start off with a trigger warning as we touch on the recent story involving a Baltimore man that committed a double homicide, and then gave a play by play on social media. (03:09) Which leads us to the topic of breaking points and open pandoras box of questions. Is breaking points a natural defensive mechanism to keep us in alignment? (13:09) Have you ever had to step away from...

Im Not Your D*%m Friend

The Den gets straight to it this week. Have you ever been dating someone and then when it’s time to meet the family you are introduced as a “friend?” Do you need to set a time limit before you take that next step in the relationship? Is it immaturity or responsible adulting? I mean really what’s the difference. Just remember to protect your energy!

Stud V Stud

During this episode of In The Den  we discuss the underlying animosity that exist between dominant women. Why can't we accept each other? Why are we so territorial when it comes to our partners? Could there actually be attraction between dominant women? We even discuss stud for stud relationships, and what is a switch anyway? Why can't we all must get along.

Red Flags

During this episode we discuss what do you do when you see red flags. Why do we ignore them? What is a non-negotiable for you? We all give our red flag stories and what we've learned from those experiences.

The Life of Stepdaddy D*ke Feat Coach. B

On this weeks's episode we have special guest, Coach Bon to discuss her famous skit "step daddy D*ke." As always we discuss love and relationships. So tune in this is an especially great episode for us dominant women that love taking care of other people kids.

Men are From Mars

During this week's episode we discuss the reasons why homosexual men find dominant women attractive. Eww gross we knowlol. We argue if body counts matter and of course GeVeezy has a lot of bi perspective on the topic.

Gender, Labels, Pronouns...How do YOU identify?

During this episode we discuss the meanings of "no label" and "aggressive fem". Our guest host provides clarity on gender norms and identity while me and Heather struggle to understand the new lingo. Brittany and Geveezy chime in with their non-binary opinions. Throughout the show we discuss the challenges dominant lesbians face when dating aggressive fems. This episode provides insight and education on gender identity and how the heteronormative mindset needs to change.

Dating after a pandemic

During this episode we explore Geveezy’s dating life and all the do’s and don’ts of dating. We discuss the feminine approach to shooting their shout. We also talk about the effects of the pandemic.

Who Da Pappi

During this episode we explore the challenges of womanhood. We talk about menstruation and dominant women pregnancy. We have a special guest on this episode that discuss her decision to have a child as a dominant woman.

Breaking Traditions

During this episode we discuss the cliches of dominant lesbians and how they influence our relationships. Gevette provides us with some insigh into feminine sexual needs. We also discuss the hate towards bisexual women.

Episode 11- Are you toxic?

During this episode we discuss being toxic. Are you toxic? What’s your toxic traits? Then we discuss various other topics as they relate to life and love.

Are You Really For The Streets

We discussed the phrase “the streets are calling me”. Are people really ready for the streets? We discussed the levels to being single.

Black Women and Traumas

This week we discuss sexual abuse and why black women are considered the most unprotected species. Our guest talk about their experiences being sexually assaulted and more.

Let's Talk About Sex

The show topic is “let’s talk about sex”. The description is everything about sex from the perspective of two doms, 1 bisexual and 1 heterosexual.

Episode 7: Love don’t last always

The host Patrice and her former long term girl friend dive deep into the best and worse parts of their relationship. While providing tips on how to become friends after lovers.

Episode 6: These fem's be trippin

Episode 6: These fem's be trippin

Episode 5: 4 Gays and a Straight

This episode we discuss the misconception or questions heterosexual men have about dominant lesbians and trans men.

Episode 4: Double Standards

The hosts debate double Standards amongst dominant and feminine women. We discuss gender norms and the misconceptions of men and dominant woman. Listen until the end!

Episode 3: Online Dating

Episode 3: Online Dating

Episode 2: Our Side of Love

We discuss the ends and outs of love from the dominant and feminine perspective.

Episode 1: The Why Behind the Women

This episode is an introduction into the life of the host and the coming out stories of two other dominant women. We identify the classifications of lesbians.