Episode 70: Resolving Conflict with the Enneagram (with Lauren Gray)

Think about the last time you had a conflict with someone. How did it turn out? Did you feel like the other person was misinterpreting your words, your actions, your need for space (or your need to face the conflict head on)? Do you wish you knew how to approach conflict better? On Episode 70, Daniel and Christina continue their interview with Lauren Gray (certified Enneagram coach) about how each type communicates and how to approach each type when you are in conflict with them. If you missed part one, make sure you tune in to Episode 69 for all the details about Enneagram types 1 through 5. 

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In This Episode, You Will Hear About:

A deeper dive into the Enneagram and why core motivations are a key factor 

Style of communication for Enneagram types six through nine 

How to approach and resolve conflict with Enneagram types six through nine

What healthy and unhealthy look like in the Enneagram 

Resources Mentioned During the Episode:

For a free Enneagram Test, please click here 

For a paid Enneagram Test (which will be more accurate), check out The Enneagram Institute Testing Center

Listen to our previous Enneagram interview with Dr. Drew Moser about The Perfect Gift For Every Enneagram Type

The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery by Ian Cron and Susan Stabile

The Enneagram in Love and Work: Understanding Your Intimate and Business Relationships by Helen Palmer

How We Love: Discover Your Love Style, Enhance Your Marriage by Milan Yercovitch

Between us: Using The Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel Centered  by Beth and Jeff McCord

Listen to our previous podcast episode with Lauren Gray about The Enneagram and Communication Styles 

Check out The Enneagram Journey with Susan Stabile

Listen to Typology with Ian Cron 

Find out more about Lauren Gray via her website and Instagram @laurenelkinsgray

Quotables:

"Be led by love and not pushed by fear." - @emilypfreeman

"Any healthy number can be in a relationship with any other healthy number. But, certain combinations will have challenges that other numbers may not face because they click more easily. " - Lauren Gray 

"The Enneagram can help you chart out paths of growth for yourself." - Lauren Gray

"You are not your number. Your number is your personality that you have developed to survive in the world. That personality can be flexible. You can integrate different types into your personality to find more balance." - Lauren Gray

"With the Enneagram, the work is always on our end first. We can become more self-aware whether the way we are interacting is fueling or helping the conflict at hand." - Lauren Gray 

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Think about the last time you had a conflict with someone. How did it turn out? Did you feel like the other person was misinterpreting your words, your actions, your need for space (or your need to face the conflict head on)? Do you wish you knew how to approach conflict better? On Episode 70, Daniel and Christina continue their interview with Lauren Gray (certified Enneagram coach) about how each type communicates and how to approach each type when you are in conflict with them. If you missed part one, make sure you tune in to Episode 69 for all the details about Enneagram types 1 through 5. 

Have You Grabbed Your FREE Guide to Better Relationships with The Enneagram?

We can’t wait for you to get your hands on this resource! This printable will help you have a healthier marriage, deeper friendships, and better work relations.
Download our FREE printable: The Enneagram and Conflict Resolution: A Guide to Better Relationships

In This Episode, You Will Hear About:

A deeper dive into the Enneagram and why core motivations are a key factor 
Style of communication for Enneagram types six through nine 
How to approach and resolve conflict with Enneagram types six through nine
What healthy and unhealthy look like in the Enneagram 

Resources Mentioned During the Episode:

For a free Enneagram Test, please click here 

For a paid Enneagram Test (which will be more accurate), check out The Enneagram Institute Testing Center

Listen to our previous Enneagram interview with Dr. Drew Moser about The Perfect Gift For Every Enneagram Type

The Road Back to You: An Enneagram Journey to Self-Discovery by Ian Cron and Susan Stabile

The Enneagram in Love and Work: Understanding Your Intimate and Business Relationships by Helen Palmer

How We Love: Discover Your Love Style, Enhance Your Marriage by Milan Yercovitch

Between us: Using The Enneagram to Create a Thriving Gospel Centered  by Beth and Jeff McCord
Listen to our previous podcast episode with Lauren Gray about The Enneagram and Communication Styles 

Check out The Enneagram Journey with Susan Stabile

Listen to Typology with Ian Cron 
Find out more about Lauren Gray via her website and Instagram @laurenelkinsgray

Quotables:

"Be led by love and not pushed by fear." - @emilypfreeman

"Any healthy number can be in a relationship with any other healthy number. But, certain combinations will have challenges that other numbers may not face because they click more easily. " - Lauren Gray 
"The Enneagram can help you chart out paths of growth for yourself." - Lauren Gray
"You are not your number. Your number is your personality that you have developed to survive in the world. That personality can be flexible. You can integrate different types into your personality to find more balance." - Lauren Gray
"With the Enneagram, the work is always on our end first. We can become more self-aware whether the way we are interacting is fueling or helping the conflict at hand." - Lauren Gray 

Subscribe and Connect With Us:

Apple Podcasts
Stitcher
Google Play
Spotify
Instagram - @imbetweenshow

Twitter - @imbetweenshow

Facebook - @imbetweenshow

And don't forget to subscribe to our podcast, so that you will never miss an episode!

For all the show notes and downloadable images, go to IMbetween.org/episode70

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