How I F*ck
35 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 2 years ago -From what it’s like dating after experiencing trauma to what sex toys to use when you’re disabled, How I F*ck host Natalie Rivera explores what sex is like for everyone. Produced by Kodiac Productions.
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How I F*ck with Cannabis
February 23, 2022 08:00 - 38 minutes - 26.7 MBLizzy Jeff is many things: A medicine woman, rap priestess, entrepreneur. But most importantly she is a proponent of spirituality and sensuality. She credits cannabis for helping her get where she is now in her spiritual and sexual journey and has made it her mission to help others reach their own "sex magic" using the power of cannabis. So how can cannabis give you the kind of orgasms Lizzy lushes about in this episode? We'll you're just going to have to roll a joint and listen to this ep...
BONUS: How I F*ck as a Sex Podcaster
February 16, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 67.2 MBHost and creator Natalie Rivera sits down with Ana Dee of Slutrepenur, and Nikki and Cami of Double Teamed to talk about what it's like having a sex podcast and what their sex lives looked like before and after starting their shows. Listen to Doubled Teamed here and follow Nikki and Cami's adventures on their Insta. Check out The Slutrepreneur Podcasthere and get slutty money tips from Ana on her Insta.
How I F*ck as a Woman with Dwarfism
February 09, 2022 09:00 - 35 minutes - 25.3 MBJade has spent most of her life either being fetishized or not being taken seriously because of her height and disabilities. She’s a little person who started her sexual journey early in life, yet she still comes across people who are either surprised she can have sex at all or see her as something else to cross off their bucket list. Now a mother and wife with hardly any job opportunities, Jade is expressing her sexuality and teaching others what dwarfism is really like with her successful ...
How I F*ck as a Professional Male Dominant
January 26, 2022 09:00 - 32 minutes - 22.6 MBA self-taught pro-domme, Joshua Rodriguez, or Master Joshua, first got into BDSM because he was looking for connection. Not just with other people, but with himself. He's helped a lot of people in his decade of working as a pro domme. From flogging to peeing, Joshua’s clients get more than pleasure out of their session with him—they get therapy. Check out Master Joshua's website to find out more about his services. Can't get enough of How I F*ck? Feed your hunger by following us on Instag...
How I F*ck as a Transgender Man
January 12, 2022 09:00 - 43 minutes - 29.9 MBNathaniel's cl*t grew after he started taking testosterone, resulting in something called “bottom growth.” For him, a trans man, it felt like he had a small penis, which made for some great orgasms but also resulted in some dysphoria. So what’s it like sleeping with Nathaniel? Well, he needs a safe space and for his partner to touch him the right way. Can't get enough of How I F*ck? Feed your hunger by following us on Instagram and Twitter. You can also join our mailing list so you never ...
How I F*ck with Erectile Dysfunction
December 15, 2021 09:00 - 33 minutes - 22.8 MBGetting it up was a challenge. Keeping it up was an even bigger challenge. These are just some of the struggles Aaron Canada has experienced in the last 20 years of his life as a man living with erectile dysfunction. But having ED doesn't mean you don't have a sex life...it just means you need to know some workarounds. Thankfully, Aaron has some pointers. You can watch Aaron's short documentary and support his upcoming doc with his fiancé here. If you like what you see, then make sure to gi...
How I F*ck as a Polyamorous Muslim
December 01, 2021 10:00 - 38 minutes - 26.3 MBLaila (not their real name) is Muslim, kinky, polyamorous, immunocompromised, and nonbinary. She married her cousin at 18 with little sexual experience and zero sexual education. After some trial and error and kink classes, Laila discovered that not only are they hungry for pleasure, but they’re also a dom who can love more than one person. Subscribe to our newsletter, and never miss an episode. Follow us on Instagram and Twitter
How I F*ck as a Sex Party Planner
November 17, 2021 09:00 - 31 minutes - 21.8 MBMaria Stavrou has enjoyed group sex since she was in her early twenties, so it made sense that she would answer a job listing for a hostess gig at a sex party company. At first, it was greeting guests, then it was being the event’s opening act, and then hit was planning the party itself. Here’s what Maria has arranged, what she’s seen, and what she thinks everyone should know before signing up for a sex party. Follow Maria on Instagram here. And while you're at it, might as well also give ...
How I F*ck with a Micropenis
November 03, 2021 07:00 - 29 minutes - 20.1 MBMichael (not his real name) still remembers being made fun of for his size back in high school. And by size, we mean his size down there. Michael has a micropenis, and while reactions to it have varied, his penis size has inspired him to try new things in the bedroom and with himself. One of these new adventures involves something he never thought would turn him on: humiliation. So what does it mean when the thing that got you picked on in school is now the thing you're the most aroused by? ...
How I F*ck with Bipolar Disorder
October 20, 2021 07:00 - 30 minutes - 20.8 MBFor a lot of people, the last thing on their minds when they're going through a depressive episode is sex. That rings true for writer Kiana Fitzgerald, but when it comes to her bipolar I disorder, well, that's where things get a little more complicated. What does it feel like to have sex during a manic episode, and how can you really tell the difference between when you're feeling hypersexual (a likely symptom of bipolar) or when you're just feeling horny? Kiana walks us through her experie...
How I F*ck as a Professional MILF
October 06, 2021 07:00 - 40 minutes - 28.1 MBRachel Steele was a single mother working at a nail salon when she met a dancer who was making a lot more money than she was at that time. She realized she was in the wrong business, and within a couple of years went from dancer to cam girl to full-on producer. Her most popular content? MILF videos, including mother-son, mother-daughter, and even family orgy videos. These sexy age gaps and taboo role-playing dominate Rachel’s career… and her personal life. For Rachel, being a professional MI...
How I F*ck is Back October 6
September 15, 2021 07:00 - 42 seconds - 562 KBHow I F*ck is back for a third season October 6, and we've got a tiny surprise for you. Listen wherever you get your podcasts and rate and review if you haven't already. Never want to miss an episode? Sign up for our newsletter. Follow us on Instagram for our sexy posts.
How I F*ck as a Polyamorous Woman with Herpes
June 02, 2021 07:00 - 31 minutes - 21.5 MBCarolyn was recovering from a broken heart when she realized an ingrown hair in her bikini area wasn’t what she thought it was. Herpes-positive, bisexual, and poly, Carolyn refused to let her diagnosis stop her from having sex with multiple partners at a time. Having found a community of equally promiscuous people like herself, Carolyn decided that the best way to celebrate her sexuality was to attend sex parties. But how exactly does someone with an incurable STD navigate sex parties and sl...
How I F*ck with Two Vaginas
May 19, 2021 07:00 - 23 minutes - 16.4 MBKatie and her husband were fooling around when they realized that there was something wrong with her vagina. Fast forward to some years later, and Katie is now a mother who skips pool days, invests in lube, and dreams of one day using a menstrual cup. She spoke with How I F*ck about what it’s like to live with Uterus Didelphys, a rare anomaly that can result in two uteruses, two cervixes, and two vaginas—which is what Katie has— and why it’s important that doctors not only listen to women’s ...
How I F*ck with Blood and Vampires
May 05, 2021 07:00 - 22 minutes - 15.7 MBRaven Belasco always knew vampires and monsters turned her on, but it wasn’t until she met a nurse that she felt comfortable enough to bring those dark fantasies into the bedroom. From blood play to BDSM, Raven’s sexual adventures have involved hypodermic needles, fountains of menstrual blood, and even role-playing satanic rituals. Now, Raven is bringing her sensual dark fantasies to life with her vampire books. In her writing, she answers the question many writers and vampire fanatics hav...
How I F*ck in a Swinger Relationship
April 21, 2021 07:00 - 30 minutes - 20.9 MBBrian and Brenna never imagined they'd find love and kink on Craigslist, but that's exactly what happened when a newly divorced Brenna posted an ad for a kinky dominant person interested in a play relationship. Fast forward to some years later and Brenna and Brian are sharing their experiences as a nonmonogamous couple with their listeners on their podcast, Front Porch Swingers. From pansexuality to hotwife experiences, Brenna and Brian are here to share their swinging love story with HIF li...
How I F*ck as a Trans Porn Star with Buck Angel
April 07, 2021 07:00 - 32 minutes - 22.7 MBBuck Angel was walking the streets of West Hollywood as a man in a woman’s body when he almost lost his life to a sexual transaction gone wrong. An addict for several years, Buck decided it was time to quit the alcohol and drugs and to finally transition from female to male. Now known as the “man with the vagina,” Buck Angel spoke with HIF about how keeping his vagina has influenced his sexuality and why he felt compelled to create a line of sex toys for trans men like himself.
How I F*ck as a Burn Survivor
March 24, 2021 07:00 - 26 minutes - 18.3 MBSandy Jackman was living her best life as an openly gay woman in her home country of Guyana when she had acid thrown at her by a jealous ex-lover. Living with third-degree burns on the left side of her face, arms, and legs, Sandy had to go through extensive physical therapy to help ease her pain. But that wasn't the only physical activity that helped Sandy stretch her scars and muscles: There was also sex.
How I F*ck After a Double Mastectomy
March 10, 2021 08:00 - 27 minutes - 19 MBKelly loves her breasts...or at least she did. At just 25, she decided to have both of her breasts removed after testing positive for a gene mutation that could potentially give her breast cancer later in life. Losing one of her biggest sexual stimulators, Kelly, who has implants, has had to learn how to find pleasure in other ways. She sat down with HIF about how much her breasts impacted her sex life, and how life post-mastectomy has taught her to finally love her body.
How I F*ck in a Throuple
February 24, 2021 08:00 - 31 minutes - 21.8 MBWhile most of us were baking bread during the pandemic, Johnisha, Destiny, and Jeron were falling in love... with each other. Their love story actually goes back years and involves a devastating breakup, a Zoom wedding, and a boat metaphor that still has some of them confused to this day. The trio talks to HIF about what it was like moving in together during a pandemic, and what someone's sex routine can be like when you have two partners. Divinity Trinity Instagram
How I F*ck as a Blind Woman
February 10, 2021 08:00 - 28 minutes - 19.4 MBTaylor Ellis doesn’t want to be remembered as just the “blind girl.” Her love of sex and her desire to break taboos motivated her to have sex at a young age despite her family and classmates’ judgment. Having slept with both blind and sighted people, Taylor talks to us about what she wishes sighted men would stop asking her during sex, and what an active movement against sexual assault in the blind community is teaching her about her own experiences.
How I F*ck as a Sugar Baby
January 27, 2021 08:00 - 25 minutes - 17.5 MBPhoenix Askani didn’t know she was a sugar baby before the term “sugar babying” became mainstream. An experienced sugar baby, cam girl, and former adult performer, Phoenix knew she’d enjoy sex work the moment she started uploading nudes online when she was 19. Having been in a variety of arrangements, Phoenix talks to us about how sugar babying turns her on, what her non-negotiables are, and how her sugar daddies have impacted her life. And we ask ourselves the question: Could I be a sugar b...
We're back!— How I F*ck Season 2 Trailer
January 15, 2021 08:00 - 59 seconds - 728 KBHow I F*ck season 2 is coming your way, January, 27! Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.
How I F*ck as an Autistic Woman
October 21, 2020 07:00 - 22 minutes - 15.5 MBFrom erotic fan-fiction to her sexual intercourse comment card, Amy Gravino has always had a unique view of romance and sex. Amy, who is on the autism spectrum, is a public speaker and autism sexuality advocate who allowed herself to feel sexual pleasure and love when the rest of the world told her not to. Now Amy is educating other people on the spectrum on why it’s important for autistic people to talk openly about sex, and how they too can find pleasure.
How I F*ck while HIV-Positive
October 07, 2020 07:00 - 30 minutes - 20.9 MBMark S. King was living out his dream in 1980 when he moved from Louisiana to West Hollywood to pursue acting. Openly gay, Mark indulged in the West Hollywood scene where gay sexual expression was celebrated. Fast forward to five years later and Mark and most of his social circle are diagnosed with HIV. Understandably scared for his life and the lives of his friends, Mark still refused to let HIV stop him from having a sex life. Here’s how Mark managed to still have pleasurable sex during ...
How I F*ck as a Fat Porn Star
September 23, 2020 08:00 - 22 minutes - 15.4 MBAdult performer April Flores was in her early twenties when she unexpectedly became a muse to photographer and director Carlos Batts. Together they made it their mission to change the porn industry by proving to the world that yes, fat girls like April do have sex… good sex. Now, a porn legend in her own right, April talks to HIF about what it’s like navigating the porn industry as a fat woman who would “rather be f*cking.”
How I F*ck as an Intersex Person
September 09, 2020 07:00 - 32 minutes - 22.4 MBSean Saifa Wall was only a teenager when he was tricked into having a surgery he didn’t need. Born with intersex traits, doctors assigned Saifa female at birth even though his sexual anatomy didn’t match that of what is considered traditionally female. Still, his genitalia hasn’t stopped him from having some of the best sex of his life, nor has it prevented him from being an activist working to end intersex surgery once and for all.
How I (Don't) F*ck as an Asexual Woman
August 26, 2020 07:00 - 14 minutes - 9.66 MBYasmin Benoit is used to making heads turn with her lingerie modeling and her asexual and aromantic activism. While Yasmin's modeling career and her lack of sexual and romantic desire for other people might be hard for some people to comprehend, Yasmin assures us that these details are actually the least "weird" things about her. Get to know Yasmin and learn about asexuality in our special "How I Don't F*ck" episode.
How I F*ck as a Professional Dominatrix
August 12, 2020 07:00 - 35 minutes - 24.1 MBMistress Maia McQueen was in her late twenties when she first started training to be a professional dominatrix. Before discovering her kinky side, Maia was a "bossy" young woman looking to be empowered after coming out of an abusive relationship. Now a pro domme with years of experience and a clientele, Maia describes the many different types of kinks she and her partner enjoy and the type of services her clients request.
How I F*ck as a Sexual Assault Survivor
July 29, 2020 07:00 - 25 minutes - 17.8 MBAshley Manta is a sex and relationship coach known to many as the Cannasexual. While Ashley combines sex and cannabis to enhance intimacy, she first started using cannabis to help her cope with the multiple sexual assaults she experienced throughout her life. But before discovering cannabis's effects on her, Ashley had to figure out on her own how to navigate sex as someone who felt pain during penetrative intercourse and who experienced PTSD as a result of her assaults.
How I F*ck as a Black Pansexual Woman
July 15, 2020 07:00 - 22 minutes - 15.8 MBNon-black people across the U.S. are responding to the recent Black Lives Matter protests by taking time to reflect on their own internalized prejudices. But what about dating and sex? Should we also be taking time to reflect on our dating and sex habits, whether that be porn or our dating bios? In this episode of How I F*ck, we speak with Ekelle, a black pansexual woman who's experienced othering and discrimination on dating apps and in real life. Ekelle also describes to us why sexual lib...
How I F*ck as a Trans Woman
July 01, 2020 07:00 - 24 minutes - 16.9 MBNoelle came out as trans just weeks before her wedding. For some, that may seem like bad timing, but for Noelle, it was the perfect opportunity to finally present as the woman she always knew she was. Noelle sat down with How I F*ck to talk about how masturbation helped her cope with not being able to present as a woman and how transitioning inspired her to explore her sexuality more.
How I F*ck with Cerebral Palsy
June 17, 2020 07:00 - 24 minutes - 17.2 MBAndrew Gurza is a disability awareness consultant and the creator and host of the award-winning podcast, Disability After Dark. Andrew, who lives with cerebral palsy, was in college when he realized that traditional dating wasn’t for him and that bringing himself to orgasm would mean rethinking his relationship with sex entirely. From representation in porn and sex education to hiring sex workers, Andrew tells HIF everything about what it’s like for him to have sex as a person with cerebral ...
How I F*ck Season 1 Trailer
May 22, 2020 19:00 - 1 minute - 839 KBNew episodes every other Wednesday starting June 17.
How I F*ck Podcast Season 1 Trailer
May 22, 2020 19:00 - 1 minute - 833 KBWhat does sex mean to you? That’s one of the many questions we like to ask our guests here at How I F*ck. We’re a sex-positive podcast that aims to create a safe space where people can speak openly and honestly about their sexuality. We want to know what influences a person’s sexual interests and what lengths they’ll go to satisfy their needs. We believe understanding this will help bring awareness to any disparities or sexual movements that are overlooked in mainstream media. We also like t...