How Are You Still Single?
58 episodes - English - Latest episode: almost 4 years ago - ★★★★★ - 89 ratingsEver feel like the only thing anyone cares about is whether or not you're single? After getting tired of being asked, Ashley Rodabaugh decided to find out if others felt the same way and talk about how complicated it can be to find love nowadays. Listen every other Tuesday as she covers funny, entertaining, and interesting modern dating topics with co-hosts and live interviews.
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Dating Sober & Signs of Alcohol Abuse
May 26, 2020 03:22 - 41 minutes - 63.1 MBMore and more millennials are choosing to live a sober life, either to help their physical or mental health. Listen to Caitie's journey to sobriety and her tips on maneuvering the modern dating world while sober.
Dating An Entrepreneur w/ Tom Burden, Creator of Grypmat
May 12, 2020 11:00 - 33 minutes - 53.7 MBTom is the founder and creator of the company Grypmat that produces multi-purpose flexible trays to help keep your tools in one place and from slipping off surfaces. He talks to me about dating before and after being on the tv show Shark Tank. He's also honest about how entrepreneurs tend to put their company first before dating. Find out more on this episode!
Dating A Comedian with Paul Farahvar
April 28, 2020 11:00 - 32 minutes - 52 MBChicago comedian Paul Farahvar joins me on this episode to talk about misconceptions of dating a comedian and is honest about what it's really like to date one. You can hear more of him on his podcasts, "Singles Only!" and "Make Us A Mix Tape!" Is dating a comedian really just all laughs or is there another side to them? Find out on this episode!
Pros & Cons Of Dating In Quarantine
April 14, 2020 10:56 - 30 minutes - 46.5 MBMost of us are required to stay inside, making it impossible to date offline. Listen to this episode as Ashley talks with her co-host Liz about some of the good and bad things that come with virtual dating during this quarantine. Dating may just change for the better.
1 Year Wrap Up
July 30, 2019 10:30 - 24 minutes - 45.5 MBIt's been a full year and I made it to episode 52! Thank you for joining me on this journey! Listen as I talk about the lessons I've learned this year and my favorite and least favorite episodes of the year. I also wrap up the two goals I set for myself in Episode 1. I hope you learn(ed) as much as I did!
One Of The First Dating Businesses & Dating TV Shows
July 16, 2019 13:33 - 31 minutes - 59.5 MBListen as I talk to Stephanie, who helped start one of the first dating businesses, Great Expectations, with her then husband Jeff Ullman. The business soon became popular and eventually their clients were used as contestants on one of the first tv dating shows, the Love Connection. Learn how their company changed the dating industry and helped shape it into what it's become today.
9 Signs That He/She Isn't Interested in You
July 02, 2019 10:30 - 31 minutes - 60.7 MBSometimes the other person isn't truly honest with themselves or with you on how they feel. There are some signs you can look for to help you see the truth, though! Listen to this episode as my co-host, Maggie, and I talk about the different things people do to show someone they're not interested, even if they don't just come out and say it!
5 Things Non-Single Friends Should Remember For Their Single Friends
July 01, 2019 00:26 - 28 minutes - 54.7 MBBelieve it or not, we were all single at one point in our lives. You're not born into a relationship from your mother's womb. For some reason, many people forget about their single past and have a hard time empathizing with single people once they're in a relationship. Listen as my co-host, Kacy, and I talk about five things single friends would like their non-single friends to remember about their single life past.
Can You Be Friends With Your Ex?
June 04, 2019 11:22 - 20 minutes - 37.5 MBSo you've broken up with your boyfriend or girlfriend. One of you states how you don't want to lose your friendship. However, after being together and sharing intimate moments, can you two truly be friends, again? Listen to this episode as my family and I talk about the different things to consider before you say yes to friending your ex.
How A Love Story Impacts A Relationship
May 28, 2019 10:30 - 25 minutes - 48.6 MBCouples typically meet at the bar or on an online dating app. The story is the same and some couples want theirs to be different. Perhaps meeting someone in a unique way isn't always the best for a good relationship, though. Find out why on this episode!
Do Opposites Really Attract?
May 21, 2019 10:30 - 17 minutes - 32.5 MBI've received a lot of unsolicited advice while trying to date in my twenties and thirties. One such piece of advice was that opposites tend to attract. Do they really attract each other? If so, I've been handling dating apps completely wrong. Find out in this episode as my co-host, Emily, and I talk about what it means to be opposites, where the phrase came from, and whether professionals really believe it's true.
7 Reasons Why Bad Dates Are Good For You
May 14, 2019 10:30 - 20 minutes - 39.5 MBBad dates can definitely suck. I've been to plenty and wished I'd been at the bar drinking alone rather than on the date. But, I'm glad I did it. Listen to this episode as my friend, Kacy, and I talk about the reasons why bad dates can actually be good for you in the long run!
10 Gay Dating Slang Words
May 07, 2019 10:30 - 26 minutes - 49.5 MBIf you thought dating terms were exclusive to the straight world, you're wrong! Dating is tough enough, but it's made even harder with the ever evolving dating language. Listen to this episode as I interview three straight guys and one gay/queer man to see if they can correctly define 10 gay dating words. Can you do better than they did?
8 Topics To Talk About On A First Date
April 30, 2019 10:30 - 36 minutes - 69.9 MBMy friend, Mojdeh, and I talk about the different topics you can cover on your first date! There's a way for you to get to know someone without asking too serious of questions. There's a way to get the answers you want without being too direct. Learn about those ways and the different topics to cover in this episode!
What's A Ring Got To Do With It?
April 23, 2019 10:00 - 25 minutes - 48.2 MBIt's the one of the first things my co-host Maggie and I notice about guys we think are attractive. We look to see if they're wearing a wedding band. If not, it makes us think they are fair game in the dating world. (Although, there's still a chance they have girlfriend or fiancé.) Listen to this episode as we talk about all the different types of rings, why people wear them, and how they wear them. You might not always have to put a ring on it.
Baseball Bases & Modern Dating
April 16, 2019 10:00 - 26 minutes - 49.9 MBIt's baseball season and leading into summertime dating. This episode talks about when the baseball bases metaphor became popular. My co-host and I also explain what each base means in the dating world and other fun baseball term analogies. Brush up on some new dating code words to use with friends or overhear from others.
Dating as Identical Twins
April 09, 2019 10:30 - 27 minutes - 51.5 MBIdentical twins have a special relationship with each other that's more unique than typical siblings share. Learn how dating can be different for them, too. This episode has two co-hosts, identical twins Holly and Hillary. They talk about what they've discovered as they dated through the years. Their advice is useful for everyone, not just twins.
The Kissing Traditions of 5 Countries
March 19, 2019 10:32 - 27 minutes - 52.2 MBMy co-host, Emily, and I have both traveled to several countries. Join us on this episode as we talk about the origin of "Kiss me, I'm Irish" and kissing traditions of other countries. Some traditions bring you luck and others show appreciation to hosts of parties. Whatever the reason, we found most kissing is only shared between close friends and family. Learn more about the different kissing traditions on this episode.
Talking to a Producer of Norwegian's Married At First Sight
March 12, 2019 10:30 - 22 minutes - 43 MBMy friends in Norway introduced me to one of the producers of Norwegian's version of Married at First Sight. We talk about arranged marriage in Norway and how people date in Norway. A lot of Scandinavian dating is very similar to dating in the U.S. Find out more on this episode!
8 Reasons Why People Stop Dating
March 05, 2019 11:30 - 49 minutes - 94.3 MBMy co-host, Woody, and I talk about the reasons why so many people stop dating. Sometimes dating gets too old and monotonous. Other times people are just getting out of a relationship and want to take some time to themselves. There's always a reason why someone has decided to take a break from dating, learn about 8 of the major ones on this episode.
Dating After Divorce When You Have Kids
February 26, 2019 11:30 - 40 minutes - 76.8 MBListen as my anonymous co-host talks about what it was like to date after he was married with kids. He talks about the difficulties he went through after divorce and how he overcame them. At the end he offers advice on how to get back into the dating game. He hopes his story can help those who are going through the difficult process of divorce. I also think his advice can help anyone in the dating world.
6 Different Types of Dating Apps
February 19, 2019 11:30 - 36 minutes - 68.9 MBAccording to eHarmony, there are over 40 million Americans using online dating apps. Along with the many users, there are also thousands of dating apps. This episode talks about some of the most popular ones and how they're different from each other. I'm joined by my friend, Steve, as we talk about our personal experiences using them. The apps can be exciting at first, but they eventually get a bit exhausting.
8 Reasons You Should Love Valentine's Day Even If You're Single
February 12, 2019 11:30 - 39 minutes - 74.2 MBMy co-host, Katie, returns to join me on this episode all about Valentine's day. Many people dread the day and associate it with relationships. If you're not in one, then the day sucks. You're wrong! This episode let's you know all the different ways you can celebrate love this February 14th. It is so much more than a celebration of two people in love!
8 Types of Dating Game Shows
February 05, 2019 11:30 - 46 minutes - 88.3 MBThe first dating game show was produced in the 1960s. Since then, there have been numerous shows of all different types. Most of them ending in failed relationships rather than successful ones. Listen as my co-host, Ryan, and I explore the different categories of dating tv shows, from "the innocent phase" to "airing your dirty laundry." Maybe you'll want to try to find your new significant other this way instead of in person. I wouldn't recommend it, though. Listen to find out why.
The Bachelor's Back: 7 Good and Bad Things About Dating on National TV
January 29, 2019 12:00 - 40 minutes - 75.8 MBThe Bachelor is back on air and my co-host, Katharine, and I discuss the good and bad about dating on live tv. I also give my personal experience of going to a casting call in Columbus, Ohio to audition for the Bachelor. I didn't make it to the next round, but at least I gave it a try! Find out on this episode if you think it would be worth going on the show to find your happily ever after.
All About The Friendzone
January 22, 2019 12:00 - 41 minutes - 79.6 MBLearn about the three different types of friendzones and how to know whether you're in the friendzone or not. My friends who are married, Jon and Mandy, join me on this episode to talk about their own experiences in the friendzone. Listen to find out all about the friendzone and the answers to questions you may have about it.
8 Reasons Why More People Than Ever Are Still Single
January 15, 2019 12:00 - 38 minutes - 72.6 MBFrom living longer to student debt, there are lot of reasons why more people are staying single nowadays. In fact, 2014 was the first year single people outnumbered the amount of married people in the United States. Listen to this episode as my co-host, Ellie, and I tell you why we think more people are opting for the single way of life!
Dating With An Anxiety Disorder
January 07, 2019 12:00 - 34 minutes - 66.2 MBMy cousin, Melinda, bravely talks about her diagnosis with Generalized Anxiety Disorder. She hopes talking about it will help remove the negative stigma that surrounds mental illness. She gives tips on how to date with anxiety and how to be in a relationship with one. Most importantly, seek a professional if you think you or someone you know may have a mental illness. It's okay to ask for help!
8 Modern Dating New Year's Resolutions
January 01, 2019 12:00 - 37 minutes - 70.8 MBIt's time to step outside of your comfort zone and try some new things in the dating world. Tired of the same terrible dates? Want to finally find a meaningful relationship? Then listen to this episode as my co-host, Mojdeh, and I talk about 8 ways to change up your dating game for the New Year. We've tried them and have had some success! If things aren't working out in your current dating life, then you've got to try something new! Happy New Year!
12 Gifts of Christmas for Your Significant Other
December 25, 2018 12:00 - 30 minutes - 57.7 MBMy parents join me on this episode to talk about the 6 best and 6 worst Christmas gifts to give your Significant Other. Regardless of the gifts, don't forget to spend quality time and be present with your Significant Other, family, and friends this holiday season. Also, take some time to listen to this episode and make sure you get the best gift for your main man or woman. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!
Survivor Story #3: Engaged to a Drug Abuser
December 18, 2018 12:00 - 46 minutes - 88.7 MBMy friend Julie talks about her experience dating and being engaged to a drug abuser. She talks about how she was deceived by her ex fiancé, what she did to end the relationship, and how she's grown from the experience. The National Institute on Drug Abuse has determined that over $740 Billion is spent annually on crime, health care, and lost work productivity due to abuse of alcohol, tobacco, and illicit drugs. Listen to hear about how Julie is part of those statistics.
10 Animal Relationships Compared to Human Relationships
December 11, 2018 12:00 - 35 minutes - 68.4 MBDid you know male elephants mature much later in life than female elephants? Maybe humans aren't that much different than animals. Learn more on this episode about how ten different animal species interact and mate. My Aunt Julie and I talk about how some of those animal interactions are very similar to how human's interact in the modern dating world.
9 Tips To Improve Your First Date Skills
December 04, 2018 12:00 - 33 minutes - 64.1 MBWant to make sure your next first date goes better than the other first dates you've been on? Are you just getting back in the dating game and you don't know what to expect or what to do? Listen as my co-host, Emily, and I talk about 9 things to definitely not do on your first date. We also give you some guidance on things that will help improve your first date! We wish you luck on your dating journeys!
5 Struggles & 5 Benefits of an Open Relationship
November 27, 2018 12:00 - 38 minutes - 73.2 MBListen to first-hand knowledge of what it's like to be in an open relationship. Is it as bad as society makes you think? Are there really any benefits to being in an open relationship? Find out in this episode as I interview my brother and give my input with my sister.
7 Responses to Relationship Questions During Family Thanksgiving
November 20, 2018 11:30 - 29 minutes - 55.2 MBMy co-host, Jeev, and I talk about 7 ways you can respond to relationship questions at Thanksgiving dinner. These ways are not full proof, but they're solid distractions. If anything, they'll allow you to get in touch with your creative side. Make your Thanksgiving a little more enjoyable this year by listening to this episode!
8 Unrealistic Expectations People Have When Dating
November 13, 2018 12:00 - 41 minutes - 79.1 MBSometimes our expectations may seem unrealistic to some, but not all of us can help it. We want to find someone with a specific characteristic and we're not willing to settle for less. Are your expectations when dating too unrealistic or just enough unrealistic to successfully make your way through the dating pool? Find out on this episode as my co-host, Katie, and I talk through interviews I got from people about their unrealistic expectations in the modern dating world.
Election Day & Dating Politicians
November 06, 2018 11:04 - 26 minutes - 51 MBMy co-host Ellie and I talk about why you should vote and why we vote on the first Tuesday of November. Also, listen to an interview with my mom about what it's like to date a politician. I also give my personal experience and explain why my relationship with a guy ended because of his work on a political campaign. Oh, and go vote!
Election Day & Dating Politicians
November 06, 2018 11:04 - 26 minutes - 51 MBMy co-host Ellie and I talk about why you should vote and why we vote on the first Tuesday of November. Also, listen to an interview with my mom about what it's like to date a politician. I also give my personal experience and explain why my relationship with a guy ended because of his work on a political campaign. Oh, and go vote!
Best & Worst Couples' Halloween Costumes
October 30, 2018 11:00 - 29 minutes - 56.5 MBCharlie and I talk about the best and worst couples Halloween costumes on this episode with live interviews from people who have had some success with their home-made couples' costumes. Are you in the right stage of the relationship to ask your significant other to join you in a couples' costume? Find out in this episode! Also, find out what not to wear!
Domestic Violence Awareness: Survivor Story #2
October 23, 2018 11:00 - 51 minutes - 97.6 MBMy co-host this week is another survivor of domestic violence. She was in three abusive relationships, one of them was abuse from her mother when she was just a child. The most recent abusive relationship almost left her dead. She talks about all of her struggles and provides advice to others on how to survive the abuse and how to help those who are being abused. The Domestic Violence National Hotline is 1 (800) 799 SAFE.
Shout Out To Our Exes
October 16, 2018 11:00 - 33 minutes - 64.4 MBThis episode is dedicated to all the men and women who ended our relationships and may have broken our hearts. Listen as my co-host, Bret, and I talk through six different shout outs we want (and my interviewees want) to give to our exes. It may suck when it happens, but there's always something to learn from it.
Domestic Violence Awareness: Survivor Story #1
October 09, 2018 11:00 - 45 minutes - 87 MBThis week's episode I talk with my friend Lindsay about her previous abusive relationships. We talk about her story and red flags you should look for to stay out of a potentially abusive relationship. For professional help, please contact 1 (800) 799 SAFE.
Advice From My Grandparents After 66 Years of Marriage
October 02, 2018 11:30 - 37 minutes - 71 MBThis week I interviewed my grandparents (but mostly my grandma) about their 66 years of marriage. I asked them about dating, their proposal, their wedding, and married life. It's a lot different than it is in the modern dating world. Find out what advice my grandma had for those looking to get married and stay married.
6 Types of Sports Fans to Date
September 25, 2018 11:00 - 34 minutes - 66.9 MBCorin joins me on this episode about the 6 different types of sports fans and what its like to date them. It's football season and the start of a long run of sporting events. Find out what type of sports fan you are in the dating world.
Best & Worst Ways to Breakup
September 18, 2018 10:18 - 29 minutes - 55.9 MBMy co-host (and old roommate), Emily, and I talk about the best and worst ways to breakup with someone. Some of the breakup ways, we’ve had happen to us. Others were new ways people I interviewed told me about. Find out if you’re ending relationships the right or wrong way in this week’s episode.
After The Breakup
September 11, 2018 11:00 - 39 minutes - 75.8 MBMy Aunt & Uncle join me on this episode to talk about ways to get over your ex after a breakup. I interviewed several people and talk about some of the ways I deal with breakups. Hopefully, these ways will help you get over your next ex or teach you ways for you to help your friends get over their breakups.
After The Breakup
September 11, 2018 11:00 - 39 minutes - 75.8 MBMy Aunt & Uncle join me on this episode to talk about ways to get over your ex after a breakup. I interviewed several people and talk about some of the ways I deal with breakups. Hopefully, these ways will help you get over your next ex or teach you ways for you to help your friends get over their breakups.
Worst Dates
September 04, 2018 11:00 - 44 minutes - 83.9 MBListen as my co-host, Veronica (name changed), and I talk about people's worst dates. Maybe they'll make you feel better about the dates you've been on. Hopefully you can learn from them and not make the same dating mistakes. These dates might also make you appreciate the people you're currently dating a little more.
11 Qualities Women Look For In Men
August 28, 2018 11:00 - 58 minutes - 114 MBMy co-host, Justin, and I talk about the qualities women are looking for in men they want to date. The first half of the qualities are similar to what men were looking for in women, but some of the qualities are very different. Fellas, find out if you have what women are looking for in men. Also, find out more about Justin's podcast.
11 Qualities Men Look For in Women
August 21, 2018 11:00 - 39 minutes - 77.6 MBMy co-host, Kacy, and I discuss whether we believe what the men I interviewed told me about which qualities they look for in women. The men told me 11 different qualities they like in women. Do you have the qaulities men are looking for in women? Do you think they were being honest with me? Listen to this episode to find out!