Himeros Backstage
311 episodes - English - Latest episode: 8 days ago - ★★★★ - 183 ratingsHosted by Davey Wavey and based on the popular erotic website Himeros.tv, this is a fun, juicy version of the gay sex ed class you never had growing up. Join Davey and friends while we talk about gay sex!
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Episodes
Episode 304: The Stripper + Phoenix
April 12, 2024 14:46 - 57 minutes - 52.6 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coaches Finn Deerhart and Court Vox in a conversation about embracing our middle-aged bodies, Finn's brief experience as a go-go dancer, and threesome advice for beginners. Plus: a bonus astronomy lesson from Davey!
Episode 303: The Release + Close Shave
March 29, 2024 15:46 - 1 hour - 55.3 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about tight holes, how authentic OnlyFans really is, and how to relate to someone else's kinks.
Episode 302: The Gift + Masked Man Tag Team
March 15, 2024 15:34 - 59 minutes - 54.3 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about dressing authentically, gang b*ngs vs c*m dumps, and how to practice compersion in a non-monogamous relationship.
Episode 301: What's Wrong With My Dick
March 01, 2024 18:39 - 1 hour - 55.1 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about popper storage, rim seats, soft cocks, and how we might change the toxic relationship we have with our erections. Plus: a surprise guest appearance by Davey's mom!
Episode 300: Ancestral Echoes + Aphrodite
February 16, 2024 16:05 - 55 minutes - 50.9 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Davey's broken heart, our invisible queer history, and how to access the wisdom held by our gay elders.
Episode 299: Attention Whore
February 02, 2024 18:11 - 52 minutes - 47.9 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the personas we create for ourselves, Daddy energy, and how family trauma is reflected in our sexual preferences.
Episode 298: Bully Pulpit
January 26, 2024 14:25 - 57 minutes - 52.4 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the digestive consequences of Davey's trip to Costa Rica, using the term f*ggot in sex, and how they might benefit from working with a sexual surrogate.
Episode 297: Bonking Bonobos
January 19, 2024 17:31 - 53 minutes - 49.3 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about animal energies, play-fighting, and using sex as a conflict resolution tool.
Episode 296: Thrall
January 13, 2024 17:45 - 58 minutes - 53.7 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about Davey's first experience with poppers, their unmet childhood needs and how they manifest in their adult lives, and how to cope with the existential anxiety of adulthood.
Episode 295: Digital Divide
January 05, 2024 13:37 - 53 minutes - 49 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about sex party logistics, whether their online personas reflect their real selves, code-switching, and how to go from friends to lovers.
Episode 294: Black and White
December 29, 2023 15:26 - 59 minutes - 54.2 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Taylor Swift's relevance, how our mothers are connected to our sexuality, finding the balance between artistic freedom and popular appeal, and the highs and lows of 2023.
Episode 293: Sensation Play
December 22, 2023 23:07 - 58 minutes - 53.9 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about unexpected kindness in rural Rhode Island, whether humankind is learning from its past mistakes, and how to tune in to your body by experimenting with new sensations.
Episode 292: Clownin' Around
December 15, 2023 15:45 - 59 minutes - 54.2 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about solstice rituals, why a mumu might be the perfect clothing item, how to feel comfortable taking up space in the world, and eroticizing our fears.
Episode 291: Edge Me
December 08, 2023 22:09 - 59 minutes - 54.8 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss advent calendars, Himeros.tv's 12 Days Of Pleasure, how to get started with poppers, and to answer questions about casting for porn shoots.
Episode 290: F*** Like Bunnies
December 01, 2023 17:11 - 1 hour - 55.7 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about getting comfortable with being alone, public nudity, and how to feel less shame about our naked bodies.
Episode 289: Open Me
November 24, 2023 14:00 - 56 minutes - 51.9 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about how much bad news humans can actually handle, why seeing real couples in porn is sexy, and why Davey keeps being banned from dating apps.
Episode 288: Stable Hand
November 17, 2023 16:39 - 58 minutes - 53.5 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about foreskin regeneration, horse fairs, how our society cultivates shame in children, and why we might want to avoid the terms "open" or "closed" when defining a relationship.
Episode 287: Teaching The Tutor
November 10, 2023 17:54 - 1 hour - 55 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone to discuss the Rhode Island swinger scene, what to do if you're getting attention from someone you don't find attractive, and what advice they would give to older gay men and college boys.
Episode 286: The Breakdown
November 03, 2023 16:53 - 58 minutes - 53.9 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss weed butter recipes, milking, exercising control or surrendering during sex, and why sex parties and slings can be freeing.
Episode 285: Aftercum
October 27, 2023 16:29 - 58 minutes - 53.1 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about how crucial lighting becomes as you get older, what makes porn authentic, and how formulaic porn has impacted their sex life.
Episode 284: Anointing of the Sick
October 20, 2023 16:15 - 1 hour - 56 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss why inviting your parents to a gay porn set is a bad idea, what we should do about the rise in STDs, and how sex can be healing.
Episode 283: Meat Market
October 13, 2023 15:44 - 51 minutes - 46.8 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by filmmaker, producer, and intimacy coordinator Clara Ritger in a conversation about the bitter Connecticut cold, Clara's work as an on-set intimacy coordinator, and how labels can both empower and limit us.
Episode 282: Brat Taming
October 06, 2023 17:38 - 55 minutes - 50.5 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about muffing, parents who cross boundaries, the benefits of getting banned on Grindr, and disciplining brats.
Episode 281: Artemis
September 29, 2023 16:25 - 1 hour - 55.4 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about transgender athletes, selfish lovers, the thrill of the hunt and more!
Episode 280: Making Daddy Proud
September 22, 2023 16:35 - 59 minutes - 54.6 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about facing their own mortality, role playing, consensual non-consent and more!
Episode 279: White
September 15, 2023 16:20 - 49 minutes - 45.1 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by friend (and first Himeros.tv member) John to discuss being gay in their respective generations: Coming out, being gay in the military, the evolution of LGBTQ representation in the media, and how the queer community has changed over their lifetime.
Episode 278: Nightmares
September 08, 2023 14:02 - 57 minutes - 52.2 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about facing our demons, finding pleasure in our fears, and whether blending gay porn with horror is a good idea.
Episode 277: Ecstasy of Letting Go
September 01, 2023 16:21 - 56 minutes - 51.5 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about online censorship, accessing pleasure that doesn't depend on a partner, and how it feels to completely let go during sex.
Episode 276: What I Want
August 25, 2023 13:00 - 57 minutes - 52.2 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss the film Red, White & Royal Blue, how to communicate desires and boundaries, figuring out what you want, and how to manage competing desires within a relationship.
Episode 275: Missionary Impossible
August 18, 2023 13:00 - 56 minutes - 51.7 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about bulge concealment in drag, gooning, and their experiences with religious leaders abusing their power.
Episode 274: Dy-Nasty
August 11, 2023 13:00 - 38 minutes - 35.6 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Matthew Shur in a conversation about Austrian manners, their visit to a chocolate factory, reconnecting with your inner child, and what it means to be a pig.
Episode 273: Devil Inside
August 04, 2023 16:48 - 56 minutes - 51.8 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about why getting old means wanting to stay away from crowds, the global rise of conservatism, and some occasions when they've taken something too far.
Episode 272: Tears
July 28, 2023 13:00 - 56 minutes - 51.9 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about affirmation in a dom/sub relationship, holding space for big feelings, and how we can normalize crying and expressing emotions for men.
Episode 271: Ed's Sacred Intimate Session
July 21, 2023 15:17 - 54 minutes - 49.8 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about stolen cultural artefacts, male fragility, taking on the role of a sacred intimate, and more!
Episode 270: I, F*ggot
July 14, 2023 15:25 - 53 minutes - 48.6 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by YouTuber and OnlyFans creator Bria Kam to discuss the terms f*ggot and dyke, the healing power of using degrading language during sex, and the differences between gay and lesbian porn.
Episode 269: Seen
July 12, 2023 18:08 - 55 minutes - 50.5 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart in a conversation about how to make dating fun, feeling seen or unseen, why it's hard to be vulnerable and authentic with your partner, and more!
Episode 268: Upside Down
June 30, 2023 13:41 - 58 minutes - 53.3 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about having sex with women, the benefits of meeting guys IRL, and which commonly-held beliefs they would like to turn upside down.
Episode 267: Bathhouse of Mirrors
June 23, 2023 16:20 - 48 minutes - 44 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Davey's horrific cruise ship experience, the symbolism and prejudice surrounding big dicks, and how their relationship with their penis has changed over time.
Episode 266: Blue - Ride Me Like Waves
June 16, 2023 15:33 - 48 minutes - 44.7 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Davey's Illinois bathroom incident, having sex when feeling blue or depressed, and how different forms of connection have lifted them up during periods of sadness.
Episode 265: Not So Innocent
June 09, 2023 15:24 - 1 hour - 55 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about Davey's snake hole accident, how innocence can be appealing, Tinder bots, and more!
Episode 264: Pleasure Principle
June 02, 2023 13:00 - 48 minutes - 44.1 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Matthew Shur in a conversation about the practice of eye-gazing, ways they find themselves being performative during sex, and how Himeros.tv's models balance performance and authenticity on a porn shoot.
Episode 263: Pelvic Thrusts
May 26, 2023 10:07 - 53 minutes - 48.8 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about pelvic thrusting, the pleasures and pains of ass-eating, their self-pleasure goals and more!
Episode 262: Avant-Harde
May 19, 2023 16:29 - 58 minutes - 54 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss whether reusable straws will save the world, Martha Stewart as the latest Sports Illustrated swimsuit model, challenging top/bottom stereotypes, and why Duane hates chatty sex.
Episode 261: Mirror, Mirror
May 12, 2023 14:24 - 1 hour - 56 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells in a conversation about King Charles' coronation, Himeros.tv's upcoming White Lotus remake, self-image, and whether other people can help you see your own beauty.
Episode 260: Smoke & Mirrors
May 05, 2023 17:10 - 56 minutes - 52 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about Paris Hilton's new book, what they see when they look in the mirror, and how difficult it is to see ourselves as we really are.
Episode 259: Dionysus
April 28, 2023 14:46 - 55 minutes - 51 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and intimacy and BDSM coach Sir Ezra in a conversation about mindfucking, their relationship with pleasure and pain, and how they balance structure and chaos in their lives.
Episode 258: Faith Of Our Fathers
April 21, 2023 16:05 - 52 minutes - 48.3 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about sex in the army, their relationship with their fathers, and how they've managed to fill the gaps created by unavailable dads.
Episode 257: Jacob & The Angel
April 14, 2023 22:45 - 56 minutes - 51.5 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by writer and journalist Duane Wells and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about the mystery ingredients in Herbalife shakes, their Easter holidays, and what they've been wrestling with in sex and in life.
Episode 256: Masturbation Manifestation
April 07, 2023 17:55 - 54 minutes - 49.9 MBCreator of Himeros.tv Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and drag queen Mossy Stone in a conversation about AI blow jobs, what they'd like to manifest for themselves and the world, and when they felt the existence of magic.
Episode 255: Top Down
March 31, 2023 16:48 - 50 minutes - 46 MBHimeros.tv creator Davey Wavey is joined by sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart and writer and journalist Duane Wells to discuss Davey's fight with the postal service, Republicans vs gender identity, how the pandemic has changed them, and why we should devote entire afternoons to sex.