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Episode 086: Give + Take

This week on HIM, the boys dig deep & get specific with their Love Languages, then have a discussion on giving & loaning things within friendships & relationships.    Feel free to share, rate, and comment as you like on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel!   Tweet us @TheHIMPodcast & use #HIMPodcast to share your thoughts on Episode 086!!

Episode 085: Problematic Butch Queen

Episode 084: Crusin’ for a Bruisin

This week on HIM, the boys veer slightly off-course for a laugh-out-loud conversation on hosting, sex enhancers, intimacy, children & more!    Feel free to share, rate, and comment as you like on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel!   Tweet us @TheHIMPodcast & use #HIMPodcast to share your thoughts on Episode 084! 

Episode 083: Back In The Day

This week on HIM, the boys take a warm and funny look back into their childhoods; discussing standout memories, best friends, and growing pains.    Feel free to share, rate, and comment as you like on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel!   Tweet us @TheHIMPodcast & use #HIMPodcast to share your thoughts on Episode 083!

Episode 082: Driving The Boat w/ Kyle Price + Ramad Carter

This week on HIM, the boys got to sit down for a hilarious & affirming conversation with SlayTV’s “Love at First Night” star Kyle Price for his second time on the show (EP037 was his first); and this time he is joined by his friend, onscreen partner and fellow star of the show, Ramad Carter. We (sort of) drive the boat, discuss the newly premiered S3 of “Love at First Night” and look ahead to see what’s next in our lives.    Please Share, Rate, and Comment on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHe...

Episode 081: Find Your Voice w/ Fred Sands, IV

This week on HIM, the boys are joined by talented designer & fellow podcast host (check out Groove Theorists!!) Fred Sands, IV! It’s a kii & a lesson as they navigate albums that changed their lives, how much sharing is too much on social media, & finding one’s creative voice. Use the #HIM to share your thoughts on Episode 081! Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @TheHimPodcast and hit up our websit...

Episode 080: Mental Top

The boys are back, and after a lengthy check-in, they discuss ghosting, unsolicited nudes, and ruminate on relationships in a way they haven’t before!    Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @TheHimPodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.co for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show.   Please Share, Rate, and C...

Episode 079: Here + Queer W/ Devin Michael Lowe + Morticia Godiva

This week on HIM, the boys sit down with the hilarious Morticia Godiva—black trans writer, comedienne, model & actress—& Devin Michael Lowe—black trans actor, activist, facilitator, & founder of Black Trans Travel Fund—to chat polyamory, being queer in public & ways to help + support black trans women!    Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @TheHimPodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.co for blog ...

Episode 078: The Cats Meow W/ Demi + Dakota Lee (of Spilled Milk)

On this week’s episode the men of HIM team up with special guests Demi and Dakota, from the hit new podcast Spilled Milk, to kiki and discuss disappointments and regrets.   Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @TheHimPodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.co for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show.   Please...

Episode 077: Computer Love

Episode 076: Summertime Vibes

Did you miss us? -- On this week’s episode the men of HIM talk summer plans, Pride month, and season two of the critically acclaimed series, POSE.   Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.co for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. This week’s episode was recorded in Ste...

Episode 075: Living With Purpose - Part Two

This week we speak with author Antoine Ward Jr. about the upcoming release of his first book "An Organic Guide to Living Happier & Healthier: WardBody: It's A Lifestyle". The men of HIM and Antoine discuss everything about living in your purpose! This is Part Two of our conversation with Antoine! Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.co for blog posts and ot...

Episode 074: Living With Purpose Feat. Antoine Ward

This week we speak with author Antoine Ward Jr. about the upcoming release of his first book "An Organic Guide to Living Happier & Healthier: WardBody: It's A Lifestyle".The men of HIM and Antoine discuss everything about living in your purpose! This is Part Two of our conversation with Antoine! Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.co for blog posts and oth...

Episode 073: From The Vault: Vol.2

Episode 072: From The Vault: Vol.1

Episode 071: Shanté You Stay W/ Shanté Carlan

Episode 070: Black Creatives At Work

Episode 069: Trust the Process

Episode 068: The Parent Trap w/ Nemar Parchment

Episode 067: The Awkward Challenge

On this week's episode of HIM.  Stevie, Malik, Erin + Trey are discussing the ways they are challenging themselves to grown!  Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.co for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spoti...

Episode 066: #ASKHIM

Episode 065: C.R.U.S.H

On this week’s episode the men of HIM discuss the most extreme thing they have ever done to get a crush’s attention. Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.co for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartR...

Episode 064: Creative Blocks w/ Thaddeus Coates

On this week’s episode the men of HIM invite Thaddeus Coates to the studio to discuss life as a creative Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.co for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio ...

Episode 063: Seasoned Sissies

On this week’s episode the men of HIM discuss aging within the LGBTQ+ community. Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.co for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show, and subscribe for exclusive content from the host of HIM on our Patreon using this link: https://www.patreo...

Episode 062: HIM Table Talk

Episode 061: Back 2 Love

On this week’s episode the men of HIM discuss dating after the end of a long term relationship. Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.co for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, an...

Episode 060: The Art of Podcasting W/ Lamont Baldwin

On this week’s episode the men of HIM welcomes special guest Lamont Baldwin, host of Hella Single podcast, to discuss the art of podcasting. Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.co for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, Sou...

Episode 059: Politically HIM.

The men of HIM continues last week’s conversation as they about politics and music.   Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.co for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sur...

Episode 058: #QueerLivesMatter

On this week’s episode the men of HIM discuss the against crime against Jussie Smollett and the importance of black trans lives. Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTub...

Episode 057: Mama's Boy

This Week: The men of HIM chat about why they love their mothers and unresolved issues with parents. Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sure you SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube Channel: https://www.yout...

Episode 056: Back To HIM.

The men of HIM catch up over a host of hot topics for their first episode of 2019.   Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Please Share, Rate, and Comment on iTunes, SoundCloud, Spotify, iHeartRadio, Radio Public, and make sur...

Bonus Episode: Thank You, Next

Episode 055: Emotional Butch Queen W/ Ehrie

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC sit down with special guests dynamic pop and R&B duo, indie artists, Ehrie to discuss their hit singles “Let Go” and “Half Bad”, the importance of emotional intelligence, and much much more. Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected]...

Episode 054: This Little Thing Called Life W/ Eddie Jarel Jonesx

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC sit down with special guest Eddie Jarel Jonesx, social media influencer and host of Eddie N NYC, to chat future careers, marriage, and children.   Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Buy HIM...

Episode 053: In Livin Color W/ Philip Johnson

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC sit down with special guest Philip Johnson to chat about his hit web series, Black Sex and the City, and LGBTQ+ representation in the media as it pertains to queer people of color.   Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and ...

Episode 052: The P Word W/ SixSixPapi

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC chat about their first experiences with porn and how it has influenced their sex lives featuring special guest Anthony, also known as SixSixPapi. Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show. Make sur...

Episode 051: #SHORTTOPSONLY W/ Savoy Jefferson (of Eat Pray Thot)

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC dish on ex-boyfriends, #ShortTops, and intimacy vs. sex. with special guest and Head Thot, Savoy Jefferson from the hit podcast Eat Pray Thot. Be sure to check out our weekly questions thread via Twitter every Friday, and as always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HIMpodcast and hit up our website himpodcast.com for blog posts and other resources. Send us your questions to our email [email protected] and you may hear it on the show.Please Sha...

Episode 050: Hell Date

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back at you with another week of thought provoking conversation. Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey start this week’s episode off by posing the question: Scientist have created a longevity treatment that will extend human mortality 200+ years, eradicating all illness and diseases Would you take the treatment? The handsome bunch offers advice on how to have the perfect first date. The guys of HIM leave you with their Jams of the Week: “Bad Bitch Anthem” by Tr...

Episode 049: I'm Not Grudging

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back at you with another week of thought provoking conversation. Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey start this week’s episode off by posing the question: What is something that you consider a necessity that most would consider a “luxury”? The handsome bunch discuss dealing with problematic friends and holding grudges in relationships and friendships. The guys of HIM leave you with their Jams of the Week: “Thank You, Next” by Ariana Grande, “Ready For This” ...

Episode 048: Life After Death

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back at you with another week of thought provoking conversation. Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey start this week’s episode off by posing the question: What show would you like to see get a reboot? The handsome bunch have their most peculiar conversation to date as they discuss life after death and debate whether Heaven or Hell exists. The guys of HIM leave you with their Jams of the Week: “Eye To Eye” by Tevin Campbell, “Happy” by Ashanti, “CPR” by Summe...

Episode 048: Life After Death

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back at you with another week of thought provoking conversation. Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey start this week’s episode off by posing the question: What show would you like to see get a reboot? The handsome bunch have their most peculiar conversation to date as they discuss life after death and debate whether Heaven or Hell exists. The guys of HIM leave you with their Jams of the Week: “Eye To Eye” by Tevin Campbell, “Happy” by Ashanti, “CPR” by Summe...

Episode 047: Pillow Talkin w/ Christopher Rules

This week, your favorite butch queens of NY are joined by filmmaker & social media manager Christopher Rules! Chris chats with the boys about his new series, “Reality Check” (out NOW on the SlayTV network!), which 90s rappers they’d all date, & the sliding scale of harmfulness pillow talk might have.   Where can you find our awesome guest & his show, you ask?  IG: @christopherrules / @realitycheckseries Twitter: @ChrisRules_ / @RealityCheckWeb   Be sure to check out our weekly qu...

Episode 046: Fly HIM Out

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back at you with another week of thought provoking conversation. Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey start this week’s episode off by posing the question: What is a weird obsession that you have? Is there a window of opportunity when pursuing someone? Things get spicy as the men the handsome bunch discuss expectations of sex when flying a love interest out. The guys of HIM leave you with their Jams of the Week: “Silly Hoe” by TLC, “Made for Now” by Janet Jac...

Episode 045: CHEATER

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back at you with another week of thought provoking conversation. Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey start this week’s episode off by posing the question: On a scale of 1-10, how verbal are you during sex? Things get heated as the handsome bunch discusses the topic of cheating. The group also answers a listener question.   The guys of HIM leave you with their Jams of the Week: “Borderline” by Ariana Grande feat Missy Elliot, “Supernatural” by Raven Symone, “L...

Episode 044: Liar Liar

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back! Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey are back at you with another thought provoking conversation! The men of HIM pull back the curtains as they discuss why humans lie, and how lying affects our personal lives and relationships with other people. Are you a good liar? The guys of HIM leave you with their Jams of the Week: “You Cry Tomorrow” by Betty Who, “Let Me Get This Right” by Ne-Yo, “Tongue” by MNEK, and “Thug Style” by Ciara. Be sure to check out o...

Episode 043: HIMVERSARY

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back! And guess what? IT’S OUR ANNIVERSARY!!! Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey celebrate the 1-year anniversary of HIM! Join the conversation as the handsome men of HIM share their favorite moments and discuss their favorite episodes from this past year. HIM leaves you with their Jams of the Week: “Pick Me Up” by Tamar Braxton, “Sing Like Me” by Chris Brown, “GTFO” by Mariah Carey, “Make You” by Fusilier. Like always follow us on Twitter and Instagram @HI...

Episode 042: Sex Talk w/ Tim Hell

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back! Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey are live at the Banjee Basement with special guest Tim Hell! The men of HIM and Tim Hell start this week’s episode off by posing the question: if you could portray any character from a black 90’s sitcom, who would it be? The handsome men of HIM talk sex with Tim Hell. The guys of HIM and Tim Hell leave you with their Jams of the Week: “I Feel Good” by Mary J. Blidge, “Break You Off” by The Roots feat. Musiq Soulchild,...

Episode 041: No Straight Kids w/ Tim Hell

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back! Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey are live at the Banjee Basement with special guest Tim Hell! The men of HIM and Tim Hell start this week’s episode off by posing the question: would you want your children to be gay? The handsome men of HIM and Tim Hell discuss turning your passion into a pay check. The guys of HIM and Tim Hell leave you with their Jams of the Week: “Plum” by Troye Sivan, “Damaged” by Danity Kane, “After Dark” by Drake, “Jealousy” b...

Episode 040: Hot TOP-ics

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back! Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey are back !!! The men of HIM start this week’s episode off by posing the question: if you were a recording artist what would you title your debut album? The handsome men of HIM offer their commentary on this week’s hot topics. The guys of HIM leave you with their Jams of the Week: “Pump” by Mila J, “LLC” by Nicki Minaj, “Flowers” by Willow Smith, and “Girls Need Love” by Summer Walker. Like always follow us on Twitter ...

Episode 039: A Thin Line Between Love + Faith

Your favorite butchqueens of NYC are back! Stevie, Malik, Erin, and Trey are back at you with another episode!! The men of HIM start this week’s episode off by posing the question: what would you like to accomplish before the year of 2018 ends?  The guys discuss how dating and religion intersect as they share their experiences dating in the LGBTQ+ community. The guys of HIM leave you with their Jams of the Week: “T.KO.” by Mya, “Night Lover” by Cousin, “A Rose Is Still A Rose” by Aretha Fr...