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Love to See It with Emma and Claire

482 episodes - English - Latest episode: 21 days ago - ★★★★ - 3.6K ratings

A snarky but affectionate dissection of dating reality shows — and what they say about all of us. Hosted by Emma Gray and Claire Fallon, who created the popular podcast Here To Make Friends, Love To See It is a weekly recap podcast about The Bachelor franchise and beyond. We laugh, we cry, we break down every episode in obsessive detail, and we unpack all the weird messages pop culture sends us about love. Join us on this journey

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‘Bachelorette’ S21 Cast Bios: The Boy Bosses Are Here For Jenn’s Heart

July 02, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 101 MB

It’s time to gear up for Jenn’s season of The Bachelorette with a deep dive into her men! The boy bosses are coming in force this season with plenty of finance bros and entrepreneurs. Let’s hope Jenn is looking for a guy in finance!

'She’s The Man' Is Both Better and Worse Than We Remember w/ Erin Darke

June 27, 2024 07:05 - 2 hours - 118 MB

Some films age well, others age poorly. This one ages… confusingly? Today we’re breaking down She’s The Man which somehow feels both ahead of its time and wildly outdated. But that just means there’s a lot to unpack! Joining us today is actor and friend of the pod Erin Darke!

‘Perfect Match’ S2e10 Finale: Justice for Melinda

June 25, 2024 07:05 - 2 hours - 115 MB

Nothing quite says Perfect Match like five reality TV couples trying to convince us that they’re in love… right before breaking up a few weeks later. While this cast might not be the best at finding love, they are really great at stirring up drama! This finale kept things exciting all the way to the end, when Netflix came prepared with receipts. Justice for Melinda!

‘Perfect Match’ S2e7-9: Arguing Over Mediocre Men

June 18, 2024 07:05 - 2 hours - 131 MB

Only days left to find the perfect match! We’re down to women yelling at each other… about the fact that they’re yelling at each other… over mediocre men.

‘Perfect Match’ S2e4-6: The Steal Your Man 5000

June 13, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 105 MB

When you’re titling your outfit things like the Keep Her Man 3000, you know it’s getting serious! The ladies are really putting in the work to keep their matches and the men are… actively sabotaging those same matches? Look, it’s messy and dramatic, but that’s why we love it.

‘Perfect Match’ S2e1-3: The Worst Men on Netflix

June 11, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 98.1 MB

Perfect Match is back! The cross-franchise show brings together Netflix’s reality stars to remind us just how awful these men are. Will anyone find their perfect match? Maybe! But either way, we’re here for the ride!

‘Lovers & Liars’ Was Too Good For This World

June 04, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 109 MB

Surprise! The final three episodes of Lovers & Liars dropped last week which means we have a super-sized episode recapping the end of the season, including the unexpectedly heartfelt finale. Plus, we’ll check in on the latest news & gossip from Bachelor Nation.

Nikki Glaser Is Our Favorite Therapist

May 28, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 64.2 MB

Lovers & Liars is bringing answers! Who’s an F-girl? Who’s looking for love? The pieces are coming together as we get our first couple of reveals, all guided by reality TV’s best faux therapist, Nikki Glaser. Plus, we’ll take a look at Jenn’s first Bachelorette teaser and check in on Ryan Sutter’s cryptic Instagram posts. 1:59 - News & Gossip 26:20 – Lovers & Liars 1:06:23 - Final Rose

Felicity & Ben 101: This One’s For The WB Girls w/ Juliet Litman

May 23, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 103 MB

Throw on Sarah McLachlan! It’s time to dive into the central couple of the hit TV series Felicity. Felicity Porter moves to New York to follow her crush, Ben Covington. Over the next four seasons, the two get together, break up, get back together, and become involved in numerous love triangles, all while learning about making choices in life. Oh, and did we mention there’s time travel? Helping us navigate the twist and turns is the host of Dear Felicity, Juliet Litman!

Joan Is Golden Bachelorette, F-Boys Get Dunked

May 21, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 84.4 MB

After months of speculation, we finally have our first Golden Bachelorette, Joan! But that’s not the only news & gossip. We have updates on Maria, Daisy, and the Farmer Wants a Wife Season 2 reunion. Then, we’ll cap it all off with Lovers & Liars where it’s always the guys getting dunked. 2:32 - News & Gossip 29:34 - Farmer Wants a Wife Reunion 45:29 - Lovers & Liars 1:29:40 - Final Rose

An Absurd 'Golden' Rumor & 'Farmer' S2 Finale

May 14, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 98 MB

Who knew fields and relationships had so much overlap? Not only was the Farmer Wants a Wife finale last week, but an absurd rumor is flying around that Gerry and Theresa split due to conflicting thoughts on corn fields. Big week for farm land! Plus, Lovers and Liars tries to find some F-girls by exploring their social media. 2:25 - News & Gossip 30:37 - Lovers & Liars 1:03:12 - Farmer Wants a Wife 1:44:53  - Final Rose

‘The Idea of You’ Is The Fantasy We Deserve w/ Alison Rose Greenberg

May 09, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 99.5 MB

If Anne Hathaway is involved, we’re on board! Today, we’re looking at a recent rom-com that we just can’t get enough of. The Idea of You stars Anne Hathaway as a 40-year-old L.A. mom in a steamy love affair with a 24-year-old boy band front man. Of course, things can get really complicated with age gaps, fame, and the responsibilities of parenthood. We’ll also discuss the original book and some of the key differences between the two – including the ending. To help us along the way is author ...

Navigating Drama On ‘The Bachelor’ w/ Madina Alam

May 07, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 78.2 MB

Reality dating shows are full of drama– that’s part of the reason we love them! But while it can be entertaining to watch, living through it is a totally different experience. Today, Madina Alam joins us to talk all about her time on Joey’s season of The Bachelor, including being stuck in the middle of the Maria-Sydney drama. We’ll also touch on the latest news & gossip and wrap up with the latest episode of Lovers & Liars! 1:45 - News & Gossip 37:15 - Madina Alam Interview 59:57 - Lovers...

Farmer Wants a Country Chic Wedding

April 30, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 85.5 MB

Nick Viall and Natalie Joy got married this weekend! Emma was in attendance, and she’ll be filling us in on the whole event, from the wide variety of reality stars to the cowboy hats and mechanical bull. Of course, the farm fun doesn’t stop there! We’ll also be checking in on Farmer Wants a Wife and the latest from Lovers & Liars. 1:46 – News & Gossip: Nick & Natalie’s Wedding 23:19  – Lovers & Liars 1:08:31 – Farmer Wants a Wife 1:31:08 – Final Rose

Tyler Cameron and Patti Stanger Are Back On TV

April 23, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 76.8 MB

Some of our favorite Bachelor alums are back in the reality game! Going Home with Tyler Cameron features the former contestant and some of his Bachelor friends renovating houses in his hometown of Jupiter, Florida. Then, Patti Stanger: Matchmaker brings Nick Viall to help non-millionaires find love. 1:48 – News & Gossip 17:37 – Going Home with Tyler Cameron 51:54 – Patti Stanger: Matchmaker 1:20:33 – Final Rose

J. Lo & Ben 101: Two Kids From The Block w/ Brooke Siffrinn & Aricia Skidmore-Williams

April 18, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 92.6 MB

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck were such an impactful pair, the celebrity couple portmanteau was invented just to capture their relationship. The story of Bennifer is one straight out of a rom-com. After a high-profile engagement, break up, other marriages, and kids, they found their way back to each other for a classic second chance romance. Most recently, J. Lo’s multimedia projects This Is Me… Now and The Greatest Love Story Never Told shed a new light on the couple’s dynamic. Joining us ...

Gerry & Theresa’s Less-Than-Golden Ending

April 16, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 86 MB

Well, Bachelor Nation’s favorite (and only) Golden couple are calling it quits. This week, we’re discussing Gerry and Theresa’s recent announcement, the premiere of the F-Boy Island spin-off Lovers & Liars, and the reverse Bachelor-trauma dump on last week’s episode of Farmer Wants a Wife. 1:41 - News & Gossip 26:04 - Lovers & Liars first impressions 1:03:46 - Farmer Wants a Wife 1:30:22 - Teaser Time 1:31:24 - Final Rose

Call 9-1-1! Joey & Jesse’s Procedural Drama Debut

April 09, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 93.7 MB

While we were busy covering the latest season of The Bachelor, Reality Dating TV has soldiered on to give us two wildly different shows: Couple to Throuple and Farmer Wants A Wife. Join us as we check in on the latest from these two series! Plus, we cover the latest Bachelor News & Gossip, including Joey’s unhinged appearance on 9-1-1.   1:50 - News & Gossip 16:00 - Couple to Throuple 1:09:15 - Farmer Wants a Wife 1:36:15 - Teaser Time 1:39:43 - Final Rose

News & Gossip: Farewell, Bachelor Mansion

April 02, 2024 07:05 - 49 minutes - 45.6 MB

With Joey’s season wrapped it’s time to take stock of Bachelor Nation! There are new couples, new babies, and a new Bachelor Mansion! In this episode we discuss…   Joey & Kelsey’s post-finale interviews Jenn’s upcoming season of The Bachelorette ASKN falling out Susie & Justin’s relationship launch Plus, plenty of other updates from Bachelor alumni!

‘Bachelor’ S28e11 Finale: Best Bachelor Ever

March 26, 2024 22:00 - 2 hours - 112 MB

Well folks, they did it. They stuck the landing! It’s been a while since we’ve had a season of The Bachelor end where we feel good about all parties involved. There was friendship, sisterhood, and, of course, love! And the fun doesn’t stop here because they also revealed our next Bachelorette…

Golden Bachelor’s Leslie Fhima Is Ready For What’s Next

March 22, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 68.1 MB

Leslie Fhima reflects on her time on The Golden Bachelor. Plus, she clears up that Kelsey A. kerfuffle and shares her thoughts on The Golden Bachelorette.

‘Bachelor’ S28e10 Women Tell All: Maria Mania

March 19, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 107 MB

Joey may be this season’s lead, but Maria is the main character. This Women Tell All did not disappoint with all the lingering drama this season being hashed out in between the crowd’s applause for Maria. There’s plenty of pettiness, but also some really heartfelt moments. Plus, they’ve got bloopers, and we’ll take a plate full of those like we’re Joey chowing down on macarons!

‘Bachelor’ S28e9 Fantasy Suites: Golden Fairy Godmothers w/ Bachelor in Retrospect

March 12, 2024 07:05 - 1 hour - 107 MB

Have you ever wished you could get some advice from the golden gals? Well, it might be a bit… varied. This week is fantasy suites and each woman gets some advice ahead of their date. But is the advice actually helpful? Or is it a producer ploy to add some fuel to the fire? To help us figure it out is Carrie Rosen and Annemarie Navar-Gill from the podcast Bachelor in Retrospect!

Britney & Justin 101: Hot Sexy Virgins w/ Tess Barker

March 07, 2024 08:05 - 1 hour - 106 MB

Britney Spears and Justin Timberlake were Y2K royalty sitting on an all-denim throne. Unfortunately, their friends-to-lovers relationship took place at the crossroads of the entertainment machine and purity culture. While women were chastised for their sexuality, men were celebrating theirs, high fiving each other in shock jock DJ booths. While Justin’s career thrived in the public eye, Britney was subject to constant criticism and a long abusive conservatorship. In this episode, we’ll revis...

‘Bachelor’ S28e8 Hometowns: We’re Rooting For Everyone

March 05, 2024 08:05 - 1 hour - 106 MB

Hometowns are here and, surprisingly, the families brought more support than drama! Of course, that just makes this decision harder for Joey. Maybe we can give everyone a rose? As a treat?

‘Bachelor’ S2e28 Hometowns: We’re Rooting For Everyone

March 05, 2024 08:05 - 1 hour - 106 MB

Hometowns are here and, surprisingly, the families brought more support than drama! Of course, that just makes this decision harder for Joey. Maybe we can give everyone a rose? As a treat?

‘Bachelor’ S28e7: Joey Pilled w/ Stephanie McNeal

February 27, 2024 08:05 - 1 hour - 105 MB

While nobody is cuddling naked in the woods, they do get pretty darn close as production looks for every excuse they can find to get Joey shirtless in the freezing cold of Jasper National Park. Luckily, there always seems to be someone around to keep him warm. Here to help us break down this week’s episode is friend of the pod and senior editor at Glamour, Stephanie McNeal!

‘Bachelor’ S28e6: Bad Decision Poutine

February 20, 2024 21:06 - 1 hour - 90.9 MB

There is nothing more romantic than a bowl of bad poutine– except maybe an appearance by Feist. This week, Joey and the ladies travel to Montreal as the pressures of the process continue to build and two women self-eliminate. But hey, at least there’s chocolate-pineapple poutine!  

Taylor & Travis 101: The Girl on the Bleachers w/ Amy Kaufman

February 15, 2024 08:05 - 1 hour - 93.8 MB

You know you’re a power couple when your very presence bends the entire media landscape. From Album of the Year to a Super Bowl victory, Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce are titans of their own industries. We’ve all been obsessed watching their love story unfold through football games, shaky fan videos, and magazine spreads, but why is their relationship so gripping? And what does that say about all of us? Joining us is LA Times journalist Amy Kaufman!   Love 101 is a new episode format about...

‘Bachelor’ S28e5: Stress Eating an Olive

February 14, 2024 08:05 - 1 hour - 100 MB

It’s Valentine’s Day and what better way to celebrate than traveling to Spain to be whisked away by Joey on a Vespa! Plus, double the rose ceremony means double the drama. Peep this pod!

‘Bachelor’ S28e4: Devil vs. Vampire

February 13, 2024 08:05 - 2 hours - 112 MB

What did you think was going to happen? When drama gets this intense between two contestants, you know there’s going to be a two-on-one! But no matter how petty or confusing the drama, Joey always somehow seems to make us swoon…

‘Bachelor’ S28e3: Mrs. Strong Independent Bully w/ Daryn Carp

February 06, 2024 08:05 - 2 hours - 113 MB

No matter how hard they try to avoid it, drama always finds its way to Bachelor Mansion. How will Joey and his camp counselor energy handle it? To help us find out is BFF of the pod and host of Shaken and Disturbed, Daryn Carp!

‘Bachelor’ S28e2: The Wrong Cake w/ Jacqueline Trumbull

January 30, 2024 08:05 - 1 hour - 85.7 MB

Every wedding needs a cake, but as we all know that is never a good sign on The Bachelor. This week we see some new formats for group dates, including a wedding with 9 brides and a paint splattered capture-the-flag. Joey’s camp counselor energy is staying strong! To join us on this week’s activities is friend of the pod, former Bachelor contestant, and host of A Little Help For Our Friends, Jacqueline Trumbull!

Introducing Better Tomorrow with Hannah Brown

January 25, 2024 08:05 - 8 minutes - 8.14 MB

Welcome to Better Tomorrow, a lifestyle podcast hosted by TV Personality Hannah Brown. Join Hannah as she seeks to answer the big questions: “Am I better today than I was yesterday? And how can I learn to be better tomorrow?” Each week, Hannah will build on those questions, discussing topics like confidence, love, and making time for yourself, all through the relatable experiences of the ultimate Everywoman. There will be advice, intimate emotional explorations and reveals, and lasting takea...

‘Bachelor’ S28e1 Premiere: The Girlies Have Arrived w/ Jill Chin

January 23, 2024 08:05 - 1 hour - 109 MB

A cold open, a mysterious envelope, rival sisters, and more than enough tennis limo exits. This premiere has it all! Joey is starting off strong with his camp counselor energy and we are here for it! To help us kick off this journey is former Bachelor contestant and friend of the pod, Jill Chin!

‘Bachelor’ S28 Cast Bios: Escape From Situationship Hell

January 16, 2024 08:05 - 2 hours - 124 MB

Joey’s cast is ready to find love! They all have a wide variety of hobbies like eating and exercising, but who will be the one eating and exercising with Joey? We’re giving you the rundown on all 32 women so you have everything you need for The Bachelor premiere! 

News & Gossip: Bachelor Nation Started 2024 With A Bang

January 09, 2024 08:05 - 1 hour - 73.8 MB

The gossip is here! While we’ve been busy covering last fall’s flood of Bachelor content, the off-screen drama of Bachelor Nation has been going non-stop! Join us as we cover… Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo’s divorce Kaitlyn Bristowe & Zac Clark rumors Couple-baiting in Bachelor Nation BIP Breakups Plus, relationship milestones from across Bachelor Nation!

Gerry’s Sweet (And Sponsored) Wedding

January 05, 2024 22:10 - 1 hour - 78.2 MB

Roll out the golden carpet! Last night Gerry and Theresa, our first Golden Couple, had their wedding live broadcasted to the world which means, as Jesse loves to remind us, that anything can happen. A proposal? Boudoir shoot? Not-so-subtle product placements? This wedding truly has it all!

We Love ‘Bridget Jones’s Diary’ Just As It Is w/ Molly Bernard

January 02, 2024 08:05 - 1 hour - 103 MB

We’re kicking off the New Year right with the movie that taught us all about mini gherkins. Join us as we break down the greatest rom-com of our time– or it’s at least in the top 30 greatest rom-coms of our time. To help us along the way is friend of the pod and actor Molly Bernard!

Re-Release: Will You Accept this Pencil? ‘You’ve Got Mail’ w/ Sami Sage

December 26, 2023 08:05 - 1 hour - 94.1 MB

This week we’re throwing it back to one of our all time favorite Rom-Com Rewatches: You’ve Got Mail! Grab some hot cocoa, sharpen your pencils, and get ready for some cozy rom-com magic. Joining us to break it down is Betches co-founder and Morning Announcements host Sami Sage!

Feed Drop: Real Good by US Bank

December 20, 2023 20:00 - 1 hour - 64.3 MB

In today's special episode, we're presenting you an episode of the podcast Real Good by US Bank. Every season, Real Good seeks to tell stories of people putting in the work.  It’s a podcast that shows us that – while the world is an imperfect place, there are people out there trying to make it better.  This episode features an interview with hosts Greg Cunningham and Faith Salie discussing the need to highlight American Latino history with Jorge Zamanillo, founding Director of the Museum of...

‘Serendipity’ Sold Us a Romantic Lie w/ Laura Bassett

December 19, 2023 08:05 - 1 hour - 96 MB

Finding love in NYC is hard enough without leaving everything up to fate! Today we’re rewatching the film that made it seem like finding true love was as easy as a quick trip to the department store. Joining us for hot cocoa at Serendipity is journalist Laura Bassett!

‘The Family Stone’ Is Nathan Fielder for the Girls w/ Kelsey McKinney

December 12, 2023 08:05 - 1 hour - 101 MB

We know that what you need this season is some good ol’ fashioned Christmas cringe. That’s why we’re watching one of the most uncomfortable Christmas movies out there, The Family Stone! Joining is friend of the pod and host of Normal Gossip, Kelsey McKinney!

‘Bachelor In Paradise’ S9e10 Finale: 3 Hours, 2 Engagements w/ Leigh Blickley

December 08, 2023 08:05 - 1 hour - 85.8 MB

Paradise is coming to a close and it’s time for the couples to make their choices. If you don’t have three hours to watch the full finale, we can catch you up! Who stays together? Who calls it off? Here to help us find out is former guest host Leigh Blickley!

‘Bachelor In Paradise’ S9e9 Very Tonally Weird w/ Rory Uphold

December 04, 2023 08:05 - 1 hour - 79.5 MB

The dominoes are all falling! In one of the most packed episodes this season we see breakups, self-eliminations, and lots of expectations about finding everlasting love on a beach full of reality show contestants. Here to recap the episode is host of the love and dating podcast Crimes of the Heart, Rory Uphold!

‘The Golden Bachelor’ S1e9 Finale: No Offense, Gerry w/ Lisa Belkin

December 01, 2023 22:58 - 1 hour - 103 MB

The first season of The Golden Bachelor is over, and we are not well. Gerry has spent the last couple episodes telling everyone how much he loves them and now he needs to make a final decision: Leslie or Theresa? Here to discuss the emotional finale is journalist and author Lisa Belkin!

‘Bachelor In Paradise’ S9e8: Thanksgiving Roast w/ Emily Abbate

November 20, 2023 08:05 - 1 hour - 77.2 MB

As if Paradise couldn’t get any crazier, this week Katie Thurston takes to the beach! In addition to some serious conversations with ex-fiance Blake, she’s here to host a roast which goes about as well as you would expect. Here to break it all down with us is journalist, wellness coach, and host of the podcast Hurdle, Emily Abbate!

‘The Golden Bachelor’ S1e8 Fantasy Suites: The One Times Two

November 17, 2023 08:05 - 1 hour - 62.9 MB

Fantasy Suites are here and Gerry just keeps digging himself a deeper hole. Who’s going to tell him that someone can’t be the ONE if they’re actually ONE of TWO?

‘Bachelor In Paradise’ S9e7: Keeping It Cute

November 13, 2023 08:05 - 1 hour - 79.2 MB

It’s week 7 of Bachelor In Paradise, and it’s finally time for… the third rose ceremony. Time moves differently down in Sayulita!

‘The Golden Bachelor’ S1 Women Tell All: Most Intense Hug Ever w/ Michelle Herman

November 10, 2023 08:05 - 1 hour - 90 MB

We’ll be thinking about Faith and Gerry’s tearful embrace for years. Joining us to discuss the stunning conclusion to last week’s episode and the Women Tell All is author and professor Michelle Herman.

Guests

Erin Darke
9 Episodes
Brett Vergara
8 Episodes
Ashley Spivey
7 Episodes
Michael Garofola
7 Episodes
Sharleen Joynt
7 Episodes
Kristen Baldwin
5 Episodes
Nick Viall
5 Episodes
Daryn Carp
4 Episodes
Olivia Caridi
4 Episodes
Phoebe Robinson
3 Episodes
Taylor Nolan
3 Episodes
Jacqueline Trumbull
2 Episodes
Juliet Litman
1 Episode
Rachel Lindsay
1 Episode

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