Heathen's Guide to Life
23 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 4 years ago - ★★★★★ - 6 ratingsThrough shady commentary, wit, and wisdom, k. ibn latif and his little brother K. Leshawn give their take on how to live your best life in this weekly podcast.
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Episodes
Choice Is Power
March 18, 2020 17:51 - 44 minutes - 61.7 MBThis week, the brothers dig into another core principle of The Heathen’s Guide to Life -- the notion that you are in the driver's seat of your life. There's nothing more freeing than harnessing and using the power to pick, chose and refuse in life. It's a type of freedom that comes from owning that you create what your life looks like moment by moment and knowing that your choices impact your life. Tune in as the Heathens discuss power of choice and how setting your intentions can help yo...
You're The Center Of Your World
March 10, 2020 18:57 - 33 minutes - 46.1 MBThe Heathens are back with an all-new season and they're kicking things off with a discussion about one of the fundamental principles of the Heathen's Guide to Life: You are the center of your world. Join Kitab and Kamar as they discuss why it's imperative and healthy to be the center of your world and why the concept often gets a bad rep.
Season Two Finale
May 28, 2019 18:37 - 1 hour - 101 MBTime really does fly when you're having fun! Join Kitab and Kamar as they say farewell to season two with a recap of some of their favorite discussions. They'll also drop a few hints about the kind of madness and heathenry you can expect for season three.
Ask The Gays, Part 2 (feat Isaam Sharef)
May 22, 2019 17:16 - 1 hour - 90.4 MBPart 1 was definitely raw and unfiltered, but the Kamar and Kitab saved the most-shocking questions for last. Tune in this week for "Ask the Gays" part 2 featuring Gay Code creator, producer, and host @Isaamsharef. They'll provide answers to all the juiciest questions that you've always wanted to ask a gay man but may have been afraid to ask.
Ask The Gays, Part 1
May 07, 2019 16:01 - 57 minutes - 79.5 MBYou submitted your rawest and most-provocative questions and the Heathens are here to deliver. No fear. No-holds-barred. No judgement (well, maybe a little). Tune into this week as Kitab and Kamar provide answers to all the juicy questions that you've always wanted to ask a gay man but may have been afraid to ask.
#gayboyjoy
April 30, 2019 17:49 - 59 minutes - 81.4 MBThis week's episode of the Heathen’s Guide to Life was inspired by the story of Nigel Shelby, the 15-year-old Alabama high school student who tragically took his own life after experiencing anti-gay bullying. Nigel reminded the brothers of their respective coming out stories and the challenges (and trauma) that followed. With suicide prevention in mind, the heathens are opening up about how they managed to prevail, despite the obstacles, and eventually found their #gayboyjoy
Hot Topics
April 23, 2019 12:11 - 52 minutes - 72.1 MBWith so much happening in pop news this week, it's the perfect time to spill some tea -- the Heathens' way! Join Kitab and Kamar as they dish on the juiciest stories in entertainment, including Wendy Williams' over-the-top divorce announcement, Jussie Smollett's Broadway rejection, Remy Ma's alleged fist fight and of course they'll discuss all things Queen Bey in the wake of Beyonce's world-stopping Netflix special.
Communication Breakdown
April 16, 2019 20:27 - 49 minutes - 68.4 MBThis week, the Heathens will be revisiting one of their founding principals, Curate Your Squad, as they discuss what it takes to build and maintain a solid friendship. We cherish our good friends, but how does one deal with things when there's a breakdown in communication? Do you dig your heels in and wait for the other person to come around? Apologize for the hell of it just to make the problem go away? Kitab and Kamar give their take on those questions and much more.
Season Of The Witch
April 09, 2019 16:48 - 51 minutes - 71 MBJoin Kitab and Kamar for a no holds barred conversion with Katryna (@brooklynsroots), a self-proclaimed root worker who specializes Obeah, hoodoo, Santeria, and more. They'll discuss some of the biggest mysteries and misconceptions surrounding folk magic and also share a few tips on how to protect your sacred energy. Is all black magic bad? Is the concept of karma even real? Tune in for the Heathen's take on those witchy topics and much more.
Build Wealth
March 26, 2019 21:49 - 1 hour - 88.5 MBHome ownership is a core part of the American dream, but obtaining your dream home without a real plan can lead to financial ruin. Thankfully, there's a way to avoid the trap. Join the Heathens and their special guest -- real estate and wealth retention expert Rose Mosley (@rosemogul) -- as they explore the less conventional (and potentially lucrative) roads to home ownership. They’ll discuss some of the fears and misconceptions associated with home buying and offer a few tips on how to bu...
Leverage Your Influence
March 19, 2019 20:50 - 44 minutes - 60.9 MBThis week, Kitab and Kamar explore how to leverage your social media influence and extend your online reach. Social media has become a major part our daily lives, but most of us aren't strategic about how we engage online. Join the Heathens and special guest -- social media expert and digital strategist Ashley Nicole -- as they discuss ways to build an authentic online presence, while broadening one's social footprint.
Hot Topics
March 12, 2019 16:38 - 47 minutes - 64.7 MBWith so much happening in pop culture this week, it's the perfect time to spill some tea -- Heathen's style! Join Kitab and Kamar as they dig into the juiciest hot topics of the moment, including Gayle King's jaw-dropping interview with R. Kelly, the latest in the Jordyn Woods/Khloe Kardashian saga, Wendy Williams, and much more.
No Kids. No Way.
March 05, 2019 15:00 - 1 hour - 84.7 MBThis week, the heathens are tackling one of the biggest dilemmas of adulthood: children. Specifically, whether or not to have any. A lot of us plan to have children because it's the expected thing to do, but how many of us secretly judge people who have ZERO desire to procreate? Do you consider it selfish to keep your life all to yourself? Join the brothers and special guest Chisa Hutchinson, author of the upcoming book "101 Reasons Not To Have Children," as they peel back the layers on why...
Live Good
February 21, 2019 17:57 - 57 minutes - 78.7 MBThis week on The Heathen's Guide to Life, Kitab and Kamar are sharing a few tips on how to live an authentic and luxurious life -- even if you're on a budget. Living unapologetically is a key part of maintaining your best life, but it's also important to indulge and treat yourself along the way. Join the brothers as they discuss their favorite self-care regimens and offer up a few tips on how to add a modicum of luxury to your routines.
Get Out Of Your Way
February 15, 2019 19:15 - 50 minutes - 69.8 MBThe Heathens are doing some introspective work this week and exploring one of the biggest stumbling blocks to success: Self-imposed limitations. Harping on low vibrations of fear, self-doubt, and insecurity can easily block us from living our best lives, but there are ways to get around that. Join Kitab and Kamar as they explore the practice of getting in your own way and how to avoid the trap.
Family Dynamics
February 07, 2019 21:00 - 1 hour - 87.4 MBThis week on The Heathen's Guide to Life, the brothers begin with the latest developments in the ongoing Jussie Smollett saga before parlaying into the topic at hand: Family dynamics. Is blood really thicker than water? Is it okay to value friendships over certain family ties? Join the Heathens as they tackle those questions and much more. They'll also spill some exclusive tea about their own peculiar family structure. This is one you won't want to miss!
Family Dynamics
February 07, 2019 20:51 - 1 hour - 87.4 MBThis week on The Heathen's Guide to Life, the brothers begin with the latest developments in the ongoing Jussie Smollett saga before delving into the topic at hand: Family dynamics. Is blood really thicker than water? Is it okay to value friendships over certain family ties? Join the Heathens as they tackle those questions and much more. They'll also spill some exclusive tea about their own peculiar family structure.
Hot Topics
February 01, 2019 19:06 - 1 hour - 83.2 MBAfter a three week hiatus, the Heathens are back with a new episode and boy do they have a lot to share. Join Kitab and Kamar for the Heathen's Guide to Life's first-ever hot topics special! They'll give you your usual dose of wit, shade and thoughtful commentary along with the latest in pop culture, politics, and entertainment. Can the brothers make their principles align with the Hollywood stars? Tune in to find out.
Live and Let Die
January 10, 2019 18:29 - 54 minutes - 75.1 MBThe Heathens are tipping into brand new territory this week with a raw and open conversation about death and the afterlife. They tried their best to keep the episode light and upbeat, but things got a bit too real for one of the brothers as they begin to explore their personal relationships with death. Does the grief process ever end? Is it possible to mourn and celebrate life at the same time? Join Kitab and Kamar as they discuss these questions and more.
Back To You Redux
January 03, 2019 18:20 - 47 minutes - 65.7 MBThe heathens are ringing in the new year with a fresh take on The Heathen's Guide to Life's founding principle: It All Comes Back to You. What do you want to happen this year? Who do you want to be? Who do you want to meet? Anything is possible when you realize that YOU are the center of your world! Join the brothers as they set their intentions for 2019 and share how this principle helps make each year better than the last.
I'm Not Responsible For Your Feelings
December 28, 2018 18:04 - 46 minutes - 63.4 MBKitab and Kamar discuss one of their most controversial topics yet: Are we responsible for each other's feelings. It's part of a core emotional principle that's evolved over the years, but the latest iteration has one of the brothers on edge.
The Principles Of Pleasure
December 20, 2018 19:25 - 48 minutes - 67 MBCan you turn a whore into a housewife? Can promiscuity lead to meaningful relationships? This week, Kitab, Kamar, and fellow heathens Tamika and Chike discuss subjects like slut shamming and the societal pressures that can keep us from owning our sexuality.
The Heathen's Guide to Dating
December 13, 2018 06:14 - 39 minutes - 54.6 MBYour favorite heathens are back with another laugh out loud season premiere! Join k.ibn.latif and k.leshawn as they explore the kinks, quirks and the many complications of dating in this universe called the Heathen's Guide to Life. While they're usually on the same page, the brothers can't seem to agree when it comes to the "accepted" rules of engagement with regard to dating…or can they.