He Said What?! artwork

He Said What?!

73 episodes - English - Latest episode: almost 5 years ago - ★★★★★ - 269 ratings

How do you cut through life’s bullshit? With REAL talk about flirting, dating, love, and everything in between, He Said What?! breaks down the barriers and assumptions that make up the struggles of everyday communication in today’s world. No topic is taboo, and nothing is off limits!

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Episodes

Look Back At It: 2019

July 08, 2019 22:02 - 19 minutes - 18.6 MB

Episode 73 of He Said What takes a deep look into some of the major lessons I have learned from my guests in 2019. Whether it is loving being single, dealing with rejection, vulnerability, or even starting fresh, this episode gives you the insight into topics we all wonder about. I also answer guests juicy questions that were submitted this week!

Not So Conventional with Noah Michelson

June 24, 2019 09:00 - 33 minutes - 31.3 MB

Episode 72 of He Said What features Noah Michelson, the Editorial Director of HuffPost Personal, and the host of the podcast D is for Desire. On this episode, we discuss unconventional relationships, equality, meeting IRL, being independent in a relationship, and so much more!

Single in the City with Laura Bilotta

June 17, 2019 09:00 - 30 minutes - 28 MB

Episode 71 of He Said What features Laura Bilotta, Author, Radio Host, Dating Coach, Matchmaker and Founder of  Single in the City. On this episode we discuss mistakes people make on first dates, how superficial has society become, bringing back old-fashioned dating, learning to love being single, and so much more!

The House of Cards & his Web of Lies w/ Brittani Louise Taylor

June 10, 2019 09:00 - 1 hour - 62 MB

Episode 70 of He Said What features Brittani Louise Taylor, Actress, YouTube Star, and Author of A Sucky Love Story: Overcoming Unhappily Ever After. On this episode, we discuss losing her virginity at 31, being in a relationship with a sociopath, manipulation, having an unplanned pregnancy, domestic abuse, and so much more.

Michael Bosstick: The Man Behind The Network

June 03, 2019 09:00 - 35 minutes - 33.2 MB

Episode 69 of He Said What features Michael Bosstick, the CEO of Dear Media, founder of Bosstick Media and co-host of the The Skinny Confidential Podcast. On this episode, we discuss his marriage with Lauryn Evarts, being drawn to strong personalities, chasing after what you love, how to better your relationship with your partner, keeping things sexy, and so much more!

Breaking Destructive Patterns with Lori Gottlieb

May 20, 2019 08:00 - 28 minutes - 26.3 MB

Episode 68 of He Said What features The New York Times Best Selling Author and Psychotherapist, Lori Gottlieb. On this episode, we discuss compassion, validation, mental health, breaking old habits, how others perceive us, and so much more!

Cheating & Redemption with Tommy Johnagin

May 13, 2019 04:30 - 30 minutes - 28.1 MB

Episode 67 of He Said What features comedian Tommy Johnagin, who's appeared on “The Late Show” with David Letterman, Conan, Comedy Central, and NBC’s Last Comic Standing. On this episode we discuss cheating, who wears the pants in relationships, learning from your past, being a player, and so much more!

Introducing He Said What?!

May 07, 2019 22:44 - 1 minute - 1.89 MB

How do you cut through life’s bullshit? With REAL talk about flirting, dating, love, and everything in between, He Said What?! breaks down the barriers and assumptions that make up the struggles of everyday communication in today’s world. No topic is taboo, and nothing is off limits!

Letting Love In With Eric Bigger

May 06, 2019 04:30 - 35 minutes - 32.4 MB

Episode 66 of He Said What features Eric Bigger from the Bachelorette, Bachelor in Paradise, and Winter Games. On this episode we discuss his experiences on each show, being emotionally vulnerable and open, mental sex, weeding out the wrong people to date, the challenge of receiving love, and so much more!

Primal Attraction with Andrew Schulz

April 29, 2019 04:30 - 22 minutes - 20.6 MB

Episode 65 of He Said What features comedian Andrew Schulz from Guy Code, The Brilliant Idiots podcast and the Amazon original series Sneaky Pete. On this episode, we discuss dating apps profiles, physical attraction, dating older, and so much more!

First Dates: The Good, Bad, and Ugly

April 22, 2019 04:30 - 25 minutes - 23.6 MB

Episode 64 of He Said What takes a deep dive into some of the juicy questions listeners have recently submitted. I also discuss some cringe-worthy dates I have been on, some great dates, and major lessons learned from the experiences.

Trust Your Gut! with Susan Trombetti

April 15, 2019 04:30 - 31 minutes - 29.1 MB

Episode 63 of He Said What features Susan Trombetti, one of the country's top relationship experts, celebrity matchmaker, as well as the CEO of Exclusive Matchmaking. She has been seen on Doctor Oz, Fox, ABC, NBC, ABC, Cosmopolitan, NYPost, Washington Post, Today, and Bravo. On this episode we discuss cheating, being honest with yourself, trusting your gut, and so much more!

Dating is in the DNA with Laura Bonarrigo

April 08, 2019 04:30 - 38 minutes - 35.3 MB

Episode 62 of He Said What features Laura Bonarrigo, actress, and certified life coach. On this episode we discuss channeling anger in a positive way, getting through the intense stress of breakups, being superficial, manifesting your own destiny, and so much more!   Connect with Laura: https://laurabonarrigo.com/

The Confidence Crown: Lisa Hyde

April 01, 2019 19:32 - 26 minutes - 25 MB

Episode 61 of He Said What features Lisa Hyde, the founder of The Confidence Crown, Author, as well as an advisor to next-generation entrepreneurs. On this episode, we discuss the difference between lust and love, confidence, people pleasing, Dr. Drew setting her straight about a troubled relationship, dating in your 20’s, and so much more! 

Bob Menery: The Man Behind The Voice

March 25, 2019 07:44 - 23 minutes - 21.8 MB

Episode 60 of He Said What features Bob Menery, R-Rated Sports Commentator and Comedian. On this episode, we discuss hitting rock bottom before his wild success, having no filter, building a brand, and so much more!

Privately Public with Morgan Willett

March 18, 2019 14:58 - 26 minutes - 24.6 MB

Episode 59 of He Said What features Morgan Willett who has been on Big Brother, Ex on the Beach, and this season of MTV’s The Challenge. On this episode, we discuss what life behind the scenes is really like, dating outside your comfort zone, understanding people's true intentions, being upfront, learning to be kind to yourself, and so much more!

Getting Wild with Syd Wilder

March 11, 2019 04:30 - 46 minutes - 42.7 MB

Episode 58 of He Said What features Syd Wilder who’s an Actress, Comedian, Model, and Host of Girl- Insta-rupted. She has been featured in Funny or Die, Huffington Post, Maxim, Playboy, and Sports Illustrated. On this episode, we discuss love bombing, developing confidence, not being afraid to f*** up, cheating, catcalling, sliding in the DM's, and so much more!

Almost 30 with Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik

March 04, 2019 05:30 - 35 minutes - 32.6 MB

Episode 57 of He Said What features Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik the hosts of Almost 30 Podcast. On this episode, we discuss learning from your past experiences, trusting your intuition, working through insecurities, and so much more!

Playing It Cool with Matt Nagin

February 25, 2019 05:30 - 30 minutes - 28.7 MB

Episode 56 of He Said What features Matt Nagin, a writer, comedian, actor, and filmmaker. He has been featured in The Tribeca Film Festival, on CNN, The NY Post, Writer's Digest, The Wendy Williams Show, Lifetime, etc. On this episode we discuss dating someone with an age gap, how to get out of the friend zone, orbiting, commitment phobia, texting 101, and so much more!

A Little Something For Yourself with Stefany Gittleman

February 18, 2019 05:30 - 30 minutes - 28.6 MB

Episode 55 of He Said What features Stefany Gittleman, who is the epitome of a woman that can do it all. She is a serial entrepreneur who has worked at MTV, The New York Times, Rodan & Fields and has started her own company called the Gold Maze. On this episode we discuss how to have a healthy work-life balance, pursuing your passions, living life in your own lane, and so much more!

Adderall and Compliments with Annabelle DeSisto

February 11, 2019 05:30 - 50 minutes - 47 MB

Episode 54 of He Said What features Annabelle DeSisto the host of Adderall And Compliments, a show where she gives her uncensored opinions on everything between pop culture, dating, sex, candid stories, and wherever else her Adderall rants take her. On this episode, we discuss sexual confidence, knowing your value, raising your standards, and so much more!

Give 'em the Wave! with Mike Goldstein

February 04, 2019 05:30 - 35 minutes - 32.6 MB

Episode 53 of He Said What features Mike Goldstein, a private dating coach, public speaker, and author who has appeared on the Today Show, Reader's Digest, The Star-Ledger, Shape Magazine, etc. On this episode we answer all the questions my listeners submitted, how timing is everything, being on the same page when you are dating, playing games, and so much more!

51 First Dates with Kimmy Foskett and Liza Renzulli

January 28, 2019 05:30 - 38 minutes - 35.8 MB

Episode 52 of He Said What features Kimmy Foskett and Liza Renzulli the hosts of the podcast 51 First Dates. In this episode, we discuss the experiment that prompted the idea for their show, living life at your own pace, how to stop filling voids, how to figure out what you need, breaking patterns, and so much more!

92 Dates in 1 Year with Rachel Russo

January 21, 2019 05:30 - 39 minutes - 36.4 MB

Episode 51 of He Said What features Rachel Russo, a dating and relationship expert, matchmaker, author, and speaker. On this episode we discuss the pressure of first dates, not getting closure, managing expectations, learning to not date someone for their potential, ignoring red flags, and so much more!  

Getting Real with Kenny Santucci

January 14, 2019 05:30 - 40 minutes - 37 MB

Episode 50 of He Said What features Kenny Santucci from MTV's The Real World/Road Rules Challenge. On this episode we discuss being on a reality TV show and the repercussions that come along with it, being a ladies man, sliding into DM's, Instagram fame, dating the wrong people, being insecure, and so much more! 

Out With The Old And In With The New

January 07, 2019 08:30 - 34 minutes - 31.8 MB

Episode 49 of He Said What features Amber-Lee Lyons, the founder of The Chakra Girl Co. which is a spiritual platform inspiring women everywhere to be YOU and be zen. She also hosts Chakra Girl Radio. On this episode, we discuss Chakra, crystal energy healing, saying goodbye to old habits that keep you stuck and how to create new habits and opportunities to serve your highest purpose, realizing your true vision and purpose, and so much more!

It’s Not A Mans World

December 31, 2018 09:34 - 31 minutes - 29.3 MB

Episode 48 of He Said What features Joel Moore, a long time friend, style/lifestyle blogger, and creator of Moore His Style, which is a fashion and lifestyle blog which blurs the lines between menswear and womenswear. On this episode, we talk about Joel and his two siblings coming out when their mother is a Pastor, growing up in the south, being comfortable in your own skin, meeting his boyfriend on Grindr, knowing you’re with the right partner, double standards between men and women, and so...

Progress Not Perfection

December 24, 2018 08:02 - 35 minutes - 32.9 MB

Episode 47 of He Said What features Kassi Underwood Harvard’s first-ever Meditation Advisor, serving the entire student body in private sessions and group meditation experiences,.the author of May Cause Love, and founder of Spiritually Blonde, a program that teaches people how to feel peaceful and powerful, no matter what’s going on around them. Her work has been published The New York Times, The Atlantic Monthly digital, The New York Daily News, Women’s Health, Best Self, and many more. On ...

What We Have Learned in 2018

December 17, 2018 08:30 - 20 minutes - 18.8 MB

Episode 46 of He Said What recaps some of the major highlights and key takeaways from this past year. Some of the guests discussed on this episode include Dan Soder, Corinne Fisher, Kasia Urbaniak, Rubin Flores, Lauryn Evarts, Alix Straus, John Keegan, Ariana Margulies, and Melissa Ambrosini. If you haven't had time to listen to all these episodes this is a great way to

You Can't Have The Best If You Aren't The Best

December 10, 2018 07:54 - 32 minutes - 29.9 MB

Epsiode 45 of He Said What features Anna Morgenstern, a dating coach and matchmaker for Tawkify. On this we discuss breaking old patterns, how to figure out what you want and need in a partner, meeting people IRL, soul searching, projecting positive energy, and so much more!

The Past Is Not Your Future

December 03, 2018 08:30 - 42 minutes - 39.3 MB

Episode 44 of He Said What features Arianna Margulis, a NYC based Cartoonist and creator of the Instagram account @butlikemaybe. On this episode we discuss how she started her business post breakup, dealing with ex’s, trusting your gut, serial dating, and so much more!

Saying ‘I Do” With the NY Times

November 26, 2018 08:30 - 33 minutes - 30.9 MB

Episode 43 of He Said What features Alix Straus a four-time award winning author, a frequent contributor to the NY Times, and a columnist for their Vows section. On this episode we discuss Alix’s experiences writing the vows section for the NY Times, attending countless weddings, being set up by family members, finding inner strength to enjoy being alone, gaining your independence, and so much more!

You Are Your Worst Enemy!

November 19, 2018 08:30 - 41 minutes - 38.8 MB

Episode 42 of He Said What features Melissa Ambrosini, the bestselling author of Mastering Your Mean Girl, host of 'The Melissa Ambrosini Show' podcast, a motivational speaker, an entrepreneur and self-love teacher. On this episode, we discuss how to master your inner mean girl/guy, being mindful and in control of your thoughts, mental health, how to truly love yourself, being honest with yourself, surrendering to things you cannot change, self-love, and so much more!

On Display With The Museum Of Sex

November 12, 2018 08:30 - 23 minutes - 22.1 MB

Episode 41 of He Said What features Stephanie Spicer, the Manager of the Museum of Sex. On this episode, we discuss sexual education, how sex toys are selected to be sold within the museum, how sexuality has evolved from the 1920's to 2018, how the museum stays innovated, the different exhibits within the museum. and so much more!

Till Death Do Us Part

November 05, 2018 08:30 - 36 minutes - 33.6 MB

Episode 40 of He Said What features the authors of Mr. Nice Guy, Jason Feifer, and Jennifer Miller. Jason is the Editor and Chief of Entrepreneur Magazine and Jennifer is a journalist who has been featured in the New York Times, The Washington Post, Bloomberg, and many more publications. On this episode, we discuss how their sex life changed pre versus post having children, the transition of being in a long-term relationship to newly single, working together on a writing a book while being m...

Getting Confidential with Lauryn Evarts

October 29, 2018 07:30 - 33 minutes - 31.3 MB

Episode 39 of He Said What features Lauryn Evarts, the founder of The Skinny Confidential. On this episode, we discuss Lauryn's marriage to Michael Bosstick, her dating life before settling down, how to keep things sexy after being with someone for many years, being a monogamist, and more!    To keep up with new updates on Lauryn and TSC go to theskinnyconfidential.com Instagram: @theskinnyconfidential  Facebook: www.facebook.com/TheSkinnyConfidential Snapchat: @laurynevarts   H...

In Love With Love

October 22, 2018 07:30 - 39 minutes - 36.2 MB

Episode 38 of He Said What features Erin Pearlman, a love-centered photographer. On this episode, we discuss being vulnerable with your partner, being your best self, falling in love with the idea of love, and more!   To follow Erin go to: www.erinpearlman.com Instagram: erinpearlmanphotog He Said What Podcast Social Media: Follow the podcast on Instagram: @hesaidwhatpodcast Facebook: He Said What Twitter: He Said What Email: [email protected] Go to WWW.THRIVEMARKET.CO...

The Man Behind the App: David Yarus

October 15, 2018 07:30 - 45 minutes - 103 MB

Episode 37 of He Said What features David Yarus, the founder of JSwipe, the first Global Ambassador of JDate, and the founder of mllnnl, a digital marketing agency aimed at helping brands target the millennial demographic. On this episode we discuss why David created the app, approaching people in organic ways rather than using apps, the newfound way in how we meet people today versus the old school ways, new updates on the app, and more!   To keep up with new updates on JDate go to: jsw...

Power and Play

October 08, 2018 07:05 - 36 minutes - 34.1 MB

Episode 36 of He Said What features Kasia Urbaniak and Ruben Flores, the founders of the Academy. They have been featured in The New York Times, Forbes, Business Insider, BBC, and more. On this episode, we discuss The Academy, dynamics between gender, primal communication, social learning, and powerful patterns of behavior.   To sign up for classes with the academy go to weteachpower.com   Follow the podcast on Instagram: @hesaidwhatpodcast Facebook: He Said What Twitter: He Said...

What You Want Is Not What You Need

October 01, 2018 07:05 - 36 minutes - 34.1 MB

Episode 35 of He Said What features Cher Gopman, the founder of NYC Wingwoman. She is Dating Coach and Professional Wingwoman who teaches/coaches eligible bachelors who are apprehensive when it comes to dating. On this episode, we discuss being authentic, living in the moment, the challenges of dating in NYC, putting yourself out there, and more!

Behind The Curtain With Carl Radke

September 24, 2018 05:00 - 46 minutes - 42.9 MB

Episode 34 features Carl Radke from Bravo’s Summer House.   On this episode we discuss his experience being on Summer House, dating a cast member, how being on a reality TV show changes your life, dating post show, and more!    This was paid advertising episode: Here are some of the details: •Thrive Market •Offer & CTA:  Get 25% off your first order + Free 30 day trial use the promo code: www.thrivemarket.com/hesaidwhat   He Said What Social Media: Instagram: @hesaidwhatpodc...

I Can’t Have You, So Now I Want You.

September 17, 2018 07:00 - 33 minutes - 31 MB

Episode 33- Alise Morales   On this episode, we discuss being a monogamist, the pressure of family and friends approving of your significant other, evolving as a person from dating, learning who you are as a person as you get older, and more!   About Alise: Alise Morales is a comedy writer and performer based in Brooklyn, NY. Alise is currently the News & Politics Editor at Betches, and head writer of The Betches Sup, a daily political newsletter and comedy channel Her writing has be...

The Fear Of Rejection

September 10, 2018 04:00 - 40 minutes - 37.8 MB

Episode 32- John Keegan On this episode, we discuss the best approaches to meeting people organically, overcoming the fear of rejection, taking risks, do's and don'ts on first dates, common misconceptions both men and woman have when it comes to dating, and tips for all genders on how to put themselves out there!   John Keegan is a world-renowned dating coach that created the NYC-based coaching service the Awakened Lifestyle. He has been featured across the press in publications such as...

Way Too Much Wine With Kelly Keegs

August 27, 2018 04:00 - 56 minutes - 130 MB

He Said What Episode 31 features Kelly Keegs, the host of Whine With Kelly, a podcast where Kelly drinks wine and complains about stuff. On this episode, we discuss our love/hate relationship with NYC, being sarcastic women, having certain expectations when dating, Thanksgiving Eve, moving in with significant others, loving someone more than they love you, plus much more!  To learn more about Kelly follow her at @kellykeegs Also to take advantage of the promotion we spoke about on the ...

Engaged at 22: Meet The Winner of The Proposal

August 20, 2018 04:00 - 33 minutes - 77.7 MB

He Said What Episode 30 features Sophia Schoenau, the winner of The Proposal on ABC. On this episode, we discuss her getting engaged at 22 on a reality TV show, life/dating after the show aired, and so much more! Also to take advantage of the promotion we spoke about on the episode go to www.unboundbabes.com and use promo code hesaidwhat Follow @hesaidwhatpodcast on Instagram for updates and question submission! Follow us on Twitter and Facebook!

Sliding Into DM's With Jilly Hendrix

August 13, 2018 04:00 - 25 minutes - 57.7 MB

He Said What Episode 29 features Jilly Hendrix, the host of As Seen Online and co-host of Lady Lovin.  On this episode, we discuss how the internet has changed dating and the way we communicate, sliding into the DM versus using dating apps, organically meeting people, LA dating/NYC dating, and more!   To learn more about Jilly go to http://www.jillyhendrix.com/ Also to take advantage of the promotion we spoke about on the episode go to www.unboundbabes.com and use promo code hesaidwhat...

All Aboard The Hot Mess Express

August 06, 2018 04:00 - 46 minutes - 107 MB

He Said What Episode 28 features Andrea Allan and Emily Lubin the hosts of The Hot Mess Comedy Hour.  On this episode, we discuss sex addiction, tinder dates gone VERY wrong, BDSM, and Andrea & Emily's most outrageous and hilarious hot mess stories (full disclaimer: I peed my pants while recording this episode).  To learn more about Andrea and Emily go to: www.hotmesscomedyhour.com/ Also to take advantage of the promotion we spoke about on the episode go to www.unboundbabes.com and use...

Please Allow Me To Reintroduce Myself

July 30, 2018 04:00 - 39 minutes - 90.5 MB

He Said What Episode 27 features the host of the podcast Melissa Diamond being interviewed by Oli Faden (from the episode When Olive Met Koby). On this episode, Oli asks me about how since launching the podcast how my life has been impacted, the good, bad, and the ugly of my past and present dating life, college cringe-worthy stories, and so much more. In addition, we play a hilarious voicemail I once received from someone dumping me via phone. Prepare to laugh your asses off. Every single...

We Should Just Have a POW Wow

July 15, 2018 20:02 - 27 minutes - 62.2 MB

He Said What Episode 26 features comedian and actress Joyelle Nicole Johnson. She has opened for Dave Chappelle, Maria Bamford, and Hannibal Buress, and was chosen as a semi-finalist in Vancouver for NBC's Stand Up for Diversity showcase which lead to NBC flying her to LA to perform as a top 10 finalist in the competition. She has also been featured on Late Night with Seth Meyers.  On this episode, we discuss how Joyelle got started with comedy and stand-up, the challenges of dating when y...

Without Further Ado: Dan Soder

July 09, 2018 04:00 - 30 minutes - 69.6 MB

He Said What Episode 25 features comedian and actor Dan Soder. He most recently has been seen on Showtime's Billions, and the Netflix comedy series, The Standups. On this episode, we discuss dating while constantly being on the road, social media etiquette with people you've dated, serial dating, groupies, and tons more!   To learn more about Dan Soder go to www.dansoder.com Follow @hesaidwhatpodcast on Instagram for updates and question submission! Follow us on Twitter and Facebook!...

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