Growing In Marriage
250 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 month ago - ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsHosts Rich and DeAnna Millentree help Christian couples remove obstacles keeping them stuck in their marriage. You deserve to be married to your best friend! Using their marriage as examples of what to do and what not to do, they help couples create new intimacy and build an exciting friendship with their spouse. You and your spouse are sure to grow in your relationship and connect at a much deeper level.
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230. Is Your Marriage Savable?
March 13, 2024 07:00 - 42 minutes - 57.9 MBToday, Rich and DeAnna are having fun and answering questions a marriage counselor would ask to determine if their marriage is savable. The reality is we believe all marriages are savable if you do them God's way. As Jimmy Evans would say, you have a 100% chance of success if you do it God's way. And to that, we say, "Amen!" Growing In Marriage Growing In Marriage Website Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have meaningful conversations with the person you love...
229. Does Your Spouse Have Your Back?
March 06, 2024 08:00 - 43 minutes - 59.1 MBEver wonder what it truly means to have your spouse's back, in the good times and especially the bad? In this heartwarming episode, Rich and DeAnna dive into the art of being there for your spouse. We'll explore how these actions not only deepen your bond but also honor God's design for marriage. Tune in as we unpack practical tips, share inspiring examples, and delve into Scripture to guide you in cultivating a relationship where you and your spouse are each other's greatest allies, no matt...
228. Do You Really Want to Know Your Spouse?
February 28, 2024 08:00 - 38 minutes - 53 MBHello, Jill Zimmerman from Pennsylvania! 👋🏻👋🏾 We've got a cool story to share about you today! We've been diving into a skill that can really change the game in your marriage: empathy. It's not always easy, but mastering it can make a huge difference. Research shows that couples who get good at empathy have over 30% better conflict resolution and repair skills. Plus, they tend to have happier, more successful marriages overall. So, what exactly is empathy, and why is it such a big deal? ...
227. Healing Intimacy (with Drew Boa): Overcoming Unwanted Sexual Behaviors for a Thriving Marriage
February 07, 2024 08:00 - 1 hour - 89.8 MBToday's episode is a real eye-opener as we delve into the often-taboo topic of overcoming unwanted sexual behaviors (e.g., porn) and understanding the complexities of sexual fantasies within marriage. We're joined by a remarkable guest, Drew Boa from Husband Material, who brings a fresh perspective to the table. Drew's journey from struggling with pornography to finding true freedom has been transformative, and he's here to share his insights on how addressing these challenges can have profo...
226. Happily Married
January 31, 2024 08:00 - 35 minutes - 49 MBIntroducing the Happily Married Workshop. Rich and DeAnna spill the beans on their new in-person event. If you are local to the Central Valley of California: Bay Area, Sacramento, Fresno, Foothills then you don't want to miss this fun one-day workshop that will help you achieve the kind of relationship others will be asking, "How do they do it." Sign Up for The Happily Married Workshop Register for the Happily Married Workshop Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and b...
225. Transforming Criticism Into Compassion in Marriage
January 24, 2024 08:00 - 53 minutes - 73.6 MBToday Rich and DeAnna are talking about a topic that affects every marriage, but often lurks in the shadows of the relationship. This darkness leaves a silent but very profound impact on both spouses—it’s criticism! So, grab a cup of coffee, find a comfortable space, and listen to us engage in a conversation that could breathe new life into your relationship. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich...
224. DeAnna's Back
January 17, 2024 08:00 - 25 minutes - 34.8 MBRich and DeAnna finally deliver a "short" episode. In this podcast, DeAnna's back and she is sharing how she celebrated her 50th birthday and created a memory we will NEVER forget. 😂 Tune into this fun episode that's sure to make you smile and gasp all within 24 minutes. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. Show Links Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Maste...
223. Start Caregiving and Step Into Intimacy
January 10, 2024 08:00 - 56 minutes - 77 MBToday, Rich is teaming up with Shannon McKiernan as she fills in for DeAnna. DeAnna had an unexpected event take place that sidelined her for this episode. We want you to step into intimacy in your marriage. One of the ways to do that is through caregiving. Listen as Rich and Shannon discuss why careging is necessary in your marriage and what it looks like. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Ric...
222. Stop Taking Care of Your Spouse
January 03, 2024 08:00 - 48 minutes - 66.9 MBTo some degree, we all love being taken care of at times, especially when the care is coming from our spouse. Today, Rich and DeAnna want you to stop taking care of your spouse in exchange for something better. Listen as they discuss why caretaking is detremental to your marriage and what you should do instead. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. Show Links Grab ...
Replay: How Do You Handle Rejection?
December 27, 2023 08:00 - 36 minutes - 49.7 MBRich and DeAnna are replaying a popular episode from two years ago. Settle in and listen again to Rich and DeAnna share how you can handle rejection from your spouse and in your marriage. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. Show Links Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have meaningful conversations with the person you love using our best se...
221. Inside Our Marriage: What Really Happens Behind Closed Doors
December 20, 2023 08:00 - 39 minutes - 53.8 MBRich and DeAnna are spilling the beans on what happens behind closed doors in their marriage. Enjoy this fun, light-hearted episode that sure to make you smile. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. Show Links Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have meaningful conversations with the person you love using our best selling book, Face to Face Stud...
220. Cozy Moments and Cheer: Embracing Holiday Warmth
December 13, 2023 08:00 - 38 minutes - 52.4 MBToday, Rich and DeAnna aim to equip couples with practical strategies and guidance to navigate the holiday season more smoothly, reducing stress and overwhelm. It's the perfect opportunity to fostering emotional closeness, rediscover intimacy, and create meaningful moments together. Learn to embrace and relish the holiday moments as a team, fostering a sense of joy, togetherness, and shared celebration. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upco...
219. 5 Moves from Amateur to Pro Communication
December 06, 2023 08:00 - 44 minutes - 60.8 MBEver felt like you and your partner are speaking different languages, even when you're saying the same things? This podcast episode is the ultimate playbook for upgrading your relationship communication skills. Rich and DeAnna are addressing five powerful moves to help you ace those heart-to-heart talks. From genuinely tuning in and understanding your partner's vibes to nailing that tricky balance between words and body language, this episode is all about practical tips to make your conversa...
218. Love Without Hurt: Ditching Punishment in Marriage
November 29, 2023 08:00 - 43 minutes - 59.6 MBJoin us as we chat about something vital for your marriage: ditching the whole punishment thing in your relationship. We're all about tossing out the idea of giving your spouse the cold shoulder or dealing out penalties. Instead, let's dive into how to turn to your partner with love, even in tough times. Rich and DeAnna are sharing down-to-earth advice and biblical wisdom on how choosing love over punishment can totally transform your marriage. Get ready to learn how to build stronger connec...
The Pop In
November 09, 2023 08:00 - 9 minutes - 12.8 MBHey guys! We miss you. We wanted to pop in and update you on two things, really quick. Purchase Growing In Marriage Date Night Tickets Show Links Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have meaningful conversations with the person you love using our best selling book, Face to Face Study God's Word together in our Couples Bible Study Purchase our Couples Bible Study Book a Coaching Intensive and spend half a day working with us on your marriage Need help reigniting your friendship and...
217. Introducing the Confident Husband Mastermind
September 20, 2023 07:00 - 31 minutes - 43.1 MBRich and DeAnna have some exciting news for all you husbands (and wives) out there. Today marks the launch of something that's going to revolutionize your marriage – it's called the Confident Husband Mastermind, and trust us, you don't want to miss out on this. We're talking about a game-changing resource tailor-made for husbands, designed to supercharge your relationships. So, put your listening caps on and get ready to dive in as we spill the tea on this powerful new tool. It's time to lev...
216. Be the Friend You Wish You Had
September 13, 2023 07:00 - 42 minutes - 58.1 MBToday, Rich and DeAnna explore the significance of being a supportive friend who stands by your side through life's ups and downs. We share personal stories about the impact of such friendships, drawing inspiration from Jesus as the ultimate example. Plus, we delve into how these friendships can strengthen marriages. Join us for a heartwarming conversation that will leave you inspired to be that kind of friend and improve your relationships. You won't want to miss it! SHOW LINKS: -Get on...
215. Heartfelt Conversations: Navigating Emotions In Marriage
August 30, 2023 07:00 - 48 minutes - 66 MBToday, Rich and DeAnna are diving into your emotions. Join us as we unpack why it's essential to recognize and share our feelings in a healthy way within our marriages. Get ready for some real talk on self-awareness, communication that rocks, and making your connection even stronger. We'll have a look at God's Word to show us how emotional intelligence and faith go hand in hand. Grab your coffee, and let's journey together towards heartfelt conversations and a more solid marriage. SHOW LIN...
214. Passport to Passion: Unveiling the Magic of Romantic Getaways for Couples
August 23, 2023 07:00 - 36 minutes - 50.4 MBWe've got a fun episode for you today. Kick back and relax as we spill the beans on why planning and going on those dreamy romantic vacations can seriously add excitement to your love life. From rekindling the spark to building unbreakable bonds, we're talking about ten benefits this will have in your marriage. So, let's dive into the world of romance and adventure! SHOW LINKS: - Register to attend the Growing In Marriage Retreat 2023: https://www.growinginmarriage.com/retreat - Ge...
213. Secrets and White Lies: Navigating Trust and Honesty in Relationships
August 16, 2023 07:00 - 51 minutes - 70.5 MBJoin Rich and DeAnna in this eye-opening podcast episode as they dive headfirst into the world of white lies, trust issues, and the tangled web of emotions that come with them. 🕵️♂️🔍 Ever caught yourself telling a harmless white lie to your partner? Well, we're getting real about how those seemingly innocent fibs can snowball into something way bigger. From the fear of disappointing your significant other to the dangerous dance of people-pleasing, Rich and DeAnna spill the tea on how thes...
212. Training Your Marriage for Unmatched Connection
August 09, 2023 07:00 - 35 minutes - 48.7 MBHey guys, we're back with another episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast! This time, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of 'Training Your Marriage for Unmatched Connection.' Get ready for some real talk, personal stories, and a bunch of laughs as we spill the beans on how to amp up the love, deepen the talks, and keep that spark alive in your marriage. Tune in and let's get your relationship rockin'!" SHOW LINKS: - Register to attend the Growing In Marriage Retreat 2023: https://...
211. Shaking Up Your Routine
August 02, 2023 07:00 - 34 minutes - 46.7 MBSome of the routines you have in your marriage are causing problems in your relationship and you don't even know it (or maybe you absolutely knonw it). It's time to do something different with those routines. Stop arguing over silly stuff, or holding on to low-key resentment all because of a routine that has gotten out of hand. It's time to kick frustration to the curb, and enjoy more connection with your spouse and peace in your relatioship. SHOW LINKS: - Register to attend the Gro...
210. Do You Allow Your Spouse to Make Mistakes?
June 14, 2023 07:00 - 45 minutes - 62.6 MBDeAnna has some new visitors she has been keeping an eye one and Rich is excited about an upcoming holiday. Some fun giggles to start the show for sure. Have you ever made a mistake and as soon as you do your spouse is right there letting you know how bad you failed? Do you feel like you can't make a mistake without your partner rubbing it in your face? Today we are going to talk about what you and your spouse can do in these anxieity filled moments to let go of that unwanted tension and ...
209. When Your Spouse Refuses to Accept Your Apology
May 31, 2023 07:00 - 41 minutes - 57.2 MBToday, Rich and DeAnna talk about what to do when your spouse refuses to accept your apology. SHOW LINKS: - Register to attend the Growing In Marriage Retreat 2023: https://www.growinginmarriage.com/retreat -Want to purchase Face to Face? Visit our website at: https://growinginmarriage.com/face-to-face - Purchase our Couples Bible Study: https://growinginmarriage.com/couples-bible-study-details - Want us to spend half a day working with you and your spouse on your marriage? ...
208. What Coaching Has Taught Us
May 17, 2023 07:00 - 39 minutes - 54.6 MBThere are some lessons we have learned in our coaching office that make us tremble before the Lord and so grateful for His grace. We are so blessed to walk side-by-side with the couples who come into our practice. Listen this week as DeAnna and I share some of our favorite lessons we have learned in our office. SHOW LINKS: - Register to attend the Growing In Marriage Retreat 2023: https://www.growinginmarriage.com/retreat -Want to purchase Face to Face? Visit our website at: https://g...
207. Grow and Change
May 10, 2023 07:00 - 45 minutes - 62.4 MBJoin Rich and DeAnna as they have a casual conversation about how they grow and change and what growth and change can look like in your life. SHOW LINKS: - Register to attend the Growing In Marriage Retreat 2023: https://www.growinginmarriage.com/retreat -Want to purchase Face to Face? Visit our website at: https://growinginmarriage.com/face-to-face - Get our newest Cheat Sheet: https://growinginmarriage.com/validate-ig - Purchase our Couples Bible Study: https://growinginmarr...
206. Opposite-Sex Friendships
April 26, 2023 07:00 - 32 minutes - 45.1 MBHas the topic of opposite-sex friendships come up in your marriage? Today, Rich and DeAnna talk about this dynamic and how to navigate the subject. There is not a one-size-fits-all approach or answer, but there are some things you need to be aware. Join us for a fun discussion on opposite-sex friendships in marriage. SHOW LINKS: - Register to attend the Growing In Marriage Retreat 2023: https://www.growinginmarriage.com/retreat -Want to purchase Face to Face? Visit our website at: htt...
205. The Four Horsemen
April 19, 2023 07:00 - 59 minutes - 81.9 MBRich and DeAnna attended a marriage conference in Seattle, Washington, about five years ago. Rich and DeAnna were introduced to the Four Horsemen at that conference. What they learned was life-changing, and they think it will also be for you and your marriage. Listen along as they discuss the Four Horsemen and how you can limit their presence in your marriage. SHOW LINKS: - Register to attend the Growing In Marriage Retreat 2023: https://www.growinginmarriage.com/retreat -Want to purch...
204. Six Years
April 05, 2023 07:00 - 30 minutes - 41.4 MBEvery marriage gets stuck. But did you know the average couple waits six years before seeking help for their problems? Today, Rich and DeAnna discuss why couples shouldn't wait to get the help they need. They will also share the benefits of seeking help and where to start if you need help now. SHOW LINKS: - Want to purchase Face to Face? Visit our website at: https://growinginmarriage.com/face-to-face - Get our newest Cheat Sheet: https://growinginmarriage.com/validate-ig - Purchase ...
203. Your Time Starved Marriage
March 29, 2023 07:00 - 41 minutes - 57 MBEvery marriage needs time. The cool thing about time is every marriage gets the same amount of it. No marriage is at a disadvantage. So, why are our marriages time starved? We are busier than ever and our marriage and spouse suffer. Today we are going talk about how you can get back more of your time and create a deeper connection with your spouse in your relationship. SHOW LINKS: - Want to purchase Face to Face? Visit our website at: https://growinginmarriage.com/face-to-face - Get ...
202. 4 Ways to Change Your Attitude
March 22, 2023 07:00 - 44 minutes - 61.1 MBAttitude is everything! The wrong attitude will keep you stuck, and the right attitude has the potential to shift everything. Today, Rich and DeAnna will share with you why your attitude can be so negative and what you can do to change it. When you change your attitude, you change your marriage. SHOW LINKS: - Want to purchase Face to Face? Visit our website at: https://growinginmarriage.com/face-to-face - Get our newest Cheat Sheet: https://growinginmarriage.com/validate-ig - Purcha...
201. Impromptu Conversation for Wives
March 15, 2023 07:00 - 36 minutes - 49.8 MBToday, DeAnna is in the studio with a great friend, Shannon McKiernan, recording her first podcast all alone and having an impromptu conversation for wives. Husbands and wives, this conversation is one you don't want to miss. Listen in as they talk about what submission looks like and why it's so important. SHOW LINKS: - Want to purchase Face to Face? Visit our website at: https://growinginmarriage.com/face-to-face - Get our newest Cheat Sheet: https://growinginmarriage.com/validate-ig...
200. 200 Episodes!
March 08, 2023 08:00 - 44 minutes - 60.7 MBWe are celebrating 200 episodes of the Growing In Marriage podcast. Listen in and join the fun! Trust us; there will be plenty of laughs and some behind-the-scenes stuff we've never discussed.
199. Another Impromptu Conversation for Husbands
March 01, 2023 08:00 - 42 minutes - 57.9 MBToday, I (Rich) am in the studio with one of my close friends, Tommy McKiernan, recording another impromptu conversation for husbands. Husbands and wives, this conversation is one you don't want to miss. Join us as we talk about what intimacy looks like and why it's so important.
198. When You're Both Dug In
February 22, 2023 08:00 - 28 minutes - 38.8 MBYou ever get to that place in your marriage where you and your spouse are no longer going to do anything until your spouse changes first? Today, Rich and DeAnna talk about what it will take to break free from this kind of gridlock in your marriage.
197. Impromptu Conversation for Husbands
February 15, 2023 08:00 - 38 minutes - 52.2 MBA buddy of mine (Rich) came over to hang out and I pulled him in the studio to have an impromptu conversation about all things relating to husbands. Join me as I talk with my good friend Tino Urias about the role of husband and what it looks like day-to-day.
196. 5 Reasons You're Not Having Sex
February 08, 2023 08:00 - 43 minutes - 60.3 MBToday Rich and DeAnna are having humorous conversation around sex and why you might not be having as much as you would like. Get ready to giggle and belly laugh with us as we laugh at ourselves and the funny things that become roadblocks to us having more sex.
195. The First Two Years (Part 2)
February 02, 2023 05:08 - 36 minutes - 49.6 MBWe surveyed couples who have gone through pre-marital counseling with us over the past two years about their first 24 months of marriage. We were surprised to hear their responses to a single question. Find out what we asked, and what they said, on today's episode of the Growing In Marriage Podcast.
194. The First Two Years
January 25, 2023 08:00 - 49 minutes - 68.4 MBWe surveyed couples who have gone through pre-marital counseling with us over the past two years about their first 24 months of marriage. We were surprised to hear their responses to our only question. Find out what we asked, and what they said, on today's episode of the Growing In Marriage Podcast.
193. Plastic Surgery and Your Marriage
January 18, 2023 08:00 - 46 minutes - 64.2 MBOn this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast we are sharing our thoughts about plastic surgery and how it could affect your marriage.
192. Pre-Marital Counseling - Don't Skip It
January 11, 2023 08:00 - 40 minutes - 55.7 MBAre you or someone you know getting married in 2023. If so, you do not want to miss today's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast. Did you know couples who have pre-marital counseling reduce their risk for divorce by 31%? That benefit alone is worth pursuing pre-marital counseling. Today, Rich and DeAnna discuss the benefits and dispel some of the myths and negative preconceptions associated with pre-marital counseling.
191. Happy New Year
January 04, 2023 08:00 - 32 minutes - 44.5 MBLet's start 2023 off right with realistic expectations and goals. Rich and DeAnna share some of theirs for the new year and how you can make achieving your goals in 2023 a reality.
190. Complaining Never Works
December 28, 2022 08:00 - 45 minutes - 62.1 MBWe complain so much we don't even recognize when we are doing it. It's a problem all marriages suffer from. The cure is found in asking for what you want. Today, Rich and DeAnna discuss how complaining derails your forward progress to intimacy and help you get back on track.
189. Finding Your Way Through Disappointment
December 21, 2022 08:00 - 45 minutes - 62.2 MBWe've all experienced disappointment in our lives. Some of those disappointments have been minor, like not receiving the birthday gift you hoped for, while others may be life changing, like not being able to get pregnant. Today, Rich and DeAnna will help you find your way through your disappointments.
188. 3 Reasons Your Marriage Can't Sustain Romance and Passion
December 14, 2022 08:00 - 40 minutes - 55.9 MBEver wonder where the romantic feelings and all of the passion has gone in your marriage? Today, we will give you three reasons why they're gone, and share practical ways to get them back.
187. 3 Reasons You Might Be Unable to Forgive Your Spouse
December 07, 2022 08:00 - 40 minutes - 55.5 MBTo forgive is to demonstrate how a true Image Bearer displays the character and nature of our loving Heavenly Father. Today, Rich and DeAnna discuss why you may be unable to forgive your spouse and how to overcome your inability.
186. GIM Update
August 14, 2022 00:02 - 13 minutes - 18.4 MBRich and DeAnna pop on to give an update with Growing In Marriage and what they've been doing. They also pull back the curtain to let you know about a few new things coming in the months ahead. Support the Growing In Marriage podcast. Donate using Venmo.
185. Living Together and Sex Before Marriage
May 25, 2022 07:00 - 47 minutes - 65.7 MBRead this week's show notes. Learn more about the Growing In Marriage Retreat. Support the Growing In Marriage podcast. Donate using Venmo.
183. Husband You Lead
May 11, 2022 07:00 - 41 minutes - 56.3 MBRead this week's show notes. Learn more about the Growing In Marriage Retreat. Support the Growing In Marriage podcast. Donate using Venmo.
182. When The Kids Are Gone
May 04, 2022 07:00 - 44 minutes - 61.8 MBRead this week's show notes. Support the Growing In Marriage podcast. Donate using Venmo.