055: Change Ourselves a Little, Many Times with Keith Bennett
Greater Than Code
English - November 15, 2017 05:00 - 44 minutes - 40.4 MB - ★★★★★ - 42 ratingsTechnology Business technology psychology tech education humanity Homepage Download Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
00:16 – Welcome to “Metamours United For Frequent Dialogue” …we mean, “Greater Than Code!”
01:47 – Keith’s Background and Superpower
10:03 – Conflict Resolution
Open Spaces session on Conflict Resolution this summer at DevOpsDays D.C. (and the precursor to this conversation) (https://www.dropbox.com/s/jug4qxduj15u84i/Conflict%20Resolution%20Open%20Space%20Session%20from%20DevOpsDays%20DC%202017.mp3?dl=0)
Difficult Conversations: How To Discuss What Matters Most (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0143118447/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=therubyrep-20&camp=1789&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=0143118447&linkId=693c6377e3aba2669f78354de86f0543)
12:01 – Opinions on Mediators/Mediation
14:21 – Approaching Conflict
News Story Re: Portland Murders (https://www.oregonlive.com/portland/index.ssf/2017/05/police_responding_to_ne_portla.html)
17:31 – Radical Helpfulness/Kindness
Keith Bennett: Kaizen and Radical Helpfulness (https://medium.com/@keithrbennett/kaizen-and-radical-helpfulness-a207077cd7e7)
The Smoke Filled Room (https://www.dowellwebtools.com/tools/lp/Bo/psyched/16/Smoke-Filled-Room)
20:49 – Being Okay with Being Different and Speaking Up
Triumph Over Fear: A Book of Help and Hope for People with Anxiety, Panic Attacks and Phobias (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0553374443/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=therubyrep-20&camp=1789&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=0553374443&linkId=93d748861b4e04886f5d4d56bab0bebc)
Congressive/Ingressive Chat with Dr. Eugenia Cheng (https://www.greaterthancode.com/2017/07/05/episode-038-category-theory-for-normal-humans-with-eugenia-cheng/)
31:17 – Fire Alarms and Radical Helpfulness (Cont’d)
35:50 – Knowing When to Step Back or to Step Forward
Reflections:
Astrid: The way to change ourselves a lot is to change ourselves a little, many times.
Sam: Decide that you’re okay with being different and training yourself to be bold.
Jasmine: Be mindful of yourself and your actions.
Jessica: There’s a lot of conscious thought and choice in both being helpful and resolving conflict.
Keith: Working together to create a safer and happier world.
This episode was brought to you by @therubyrep (https://twitter.com/therubyrep) of DevReps, LLC (http://www.devreps.com/). To pledge your support and to join our awesome Slack community, visit patreon.com/greaterthancode (https://www.patreon.com/greaterthancode).
To make a one-time donation so that we can continue to bring you more content and transcripts like this, please do so at paypal.me/devreps (https://www.paypal.me/devreps). You will also get an invitation to our Slack community this way as well.
Amazon links may be affiliate links, which means you’re supporting the show when you purchase our recommendations. Thanks! Special Guest: Keith Bennett.
00:16 – Welcome to “Metamours United For Frequent Dialogue” …we mean, “Greater Than Code!”
01:47 – Keith’s Background and Superpower
10:03 – Conflict Resolution
Difficult Conversations: How To Discuss What Matters Most
12:01 – Opinions on Mediators/Mediation
14:21 – Approaching Conflict
News Story Re: Portland Murders
17:31 – Radical Helpfulness/Kindness
Keith Bennett: Kaizen and Radical Helpfulness
20:49 – Being Okay with Being Different and Speaking Up
Triumph Over Fear: A Book of Help and Hope for People with Anxiety, Panic Attacks and Phobias
Congressive/Ingressive Chat with Dr. Eugenia Cheng
31:17 – Fire Alarms and Radical Helpfulness (Cont’d)
35:50 – Knowing When to Step Back or to Step Forward
Reflections:
Astrid: The way to change ourselves a lot is to change ourselves a little, many times.
Sam: Decide that you’re okay with being different and training yourself to be bold.
Jasmine: Be mindful of yourself and your actions.
Jessica: There’s a lot of conscious thought and choice in both being helpful and resolving conflict.
Keith: Working together to create a safer and happier world.
This episode was brought to you by @therubyrep of DevReps, LLC. To pledge your support and to join our awesome Slack community, visit patreon.com/greaterthancode.
To make a one-time donation so that we can continue to bring you more content and transcripts like this, please do so at paypal.me/devreps. You will also get an invitation to our Slack community this way as well.
Amazon links may be affiliate links, which means you’re supporting the show when you purchase our recommendations. Thanks!
Special Guest: Keith Bennett.