Girls Gotta Eat
438 episodes - English - Latest episode: 18 days ago - ★★★★★ - 28.3K ratingsWhy do guys just want to f*ck you once then stalk your Instagram forever? Should you ditch the apps and meet people in the wild? How do you get over a breakup when you feel like you're gonna die?
These are all topics discussed on Girls Gotta Eat -- a comedy podcast about dating, sex, and relationships co-hosted by Ashley Hesseltine and Rayna Greenberg.
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Episodes
When to End a Relationship (and Stop Stalking Your Ex) with Amy Chan
March 27, 2023 04:01 - 1 hour - 144 MBShe’s baaack! We’re so excited to welcome back our friend, GGE favorite, author, and founder of Breakup Bootcamp Amy Chan! We’re diving deep into the psychological reasons we stay in dead-end relationships and situationships, how to know when to end things, not falling for “the dangle” (don’t worry, we’ll explain), and tips for actually breaking it off. And then we discuss stalking your ex online – how it affects your brain and a pro tip for stopping the behavior (or never starting). Before ...
Are Bad Manners a Dealbreaker?
March 20, 2023 05:52 - 1 hour - 154 MBWe’re talking about the importance of manners out on these dating streets – everything from how someone holds a fork to opening doors to phone behavior at the table to making sure you get home after a date. We have poll results from our audience on what matters/doesn’t matter to them, and we’re sharing dealbreakers, turn-ons, icks, personal stories, and more. Before we dive into the topics, we’re catching up on Rayna’s rendezvous with an ex, Ashley’s latest date, and fresh TV/movie recs. Enj...
Our Voices in the Bedroom, Boardroom, and Beyond feat. Lake Bell
March 13, 2023 04:01 - 1 hour - 146 MBThis week’s episode is about something near and dear to our hearts, careers, and dating lives: Voices. We are joined by actress/screenwriter/voiceover icon Lake Bell to speak on all things voices – why our voice sounds different in our head vs. listening back, regional accents and stigmas, what our voices say about us, why we’re attracted to certain voices, and changing your voice to be more appealing/get something you want/be taken more seriously. And we’re discussing the Sexy Baby voice – ...
What You Need to Know About Someone Before Committing feat. Lewis Howes
March 06, 2023 05:01 - 1 hour - 140 MBWe are joined by author/podcaster/former pro athlete Lewis Howes to discuss trauma when it comes to dating, therapy, sex, and more. We dive into why we attract people with trauma, being on a healing journey while you’re dating, the difference between coaching your partner and empowering them, the role of therapy in a relationship, holding off on sex when you first start dating someone, the problem with men not opening up, and the three things you need to know about someone before you enter i...
Watch Out for the Dating Filibuster
February 27, 2023 05:01 - 1 hour - 134 MBKeep running into guys with secret girlfriends? Have you fallen victim to the frustrating “dating filibuster”? We’re here to explain and break down the recent trends we’ve seen on these streets. Before we get into that, we’re chatting about being in different life stages than your friends (and why you shouldn’t worry), Ashley recaps her best month ever, Rayna shares a chaotic story about meeting a new crush, and a listener DM brings us to tears (again). Enjoy! Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodca...
Hoe Phases, Trust, and Working Together with Lauren Riihimaki and Jeremy Lewis of Wild ‘Til 9
February 20, 2023 05:01 - 1 hour - 128 MBWe're getting wild with our friends (and newly engaged couple) Lauren Riihimaki (aka @LaurDIY) and Jeremy Lewis of Wild ‘Til 9 podcast. We chat about the roller coaster of their dating origin story, Lauren's surprising opening line, trust and privacy, how to feel about your partner's sexual past/hoe phase, and tips for making a relationship work when you live, work, and play together. We also discuss why men tend to drift apart from their friends when they get into relationships when women d...
The Power of Female Friendship
February 13, 2023 05:01 - 1 hour - 140 MBIt’s our 5-year anniversary episode (!!!) and we’re covering a lot of ground – sharing what we’ve learned over the last half-decade, gushing over our audience, and answering the questions you have about past hookups, our LA move, best/worst/drunkest guests, and much more (YES we are finally spilling the tea on the male escort interview that never aired and why). Then we’re moving into the friendship conversation – the importance and power of the relationships we have with our girlfriends, wh...
All About Anal (and Other Butt Stuff) with Dr. Evan Goldstein
February 06, 2023 04:00 - 1 hour - 130 MBIt’s our long-awaited episode all about anal (and other butt stuff) with Dr. Evan Goldstein, nationally renowned anal surgeon and founder/CEO of Bespoke Surgical. Dr. Evan explains the inner workings of our butts and the anal orgasm, and gives a step-by-step process for preparing your body/booty for anal sex. We’re also answering those burning questions about poop, positions, eating ass, and more, and he shares the craziest things he’s had to remove from someone’s butt. Before the doctor com...
What You Need to Know About Finding (and Keeping) Love with Jay Shetty
January 30, 2023 05:30 - 1 hour - 192 MBWe are so honored to have Jay Shetty join us to talk about love – how to realistically look at love, the three ways you should prepare yourself to find it, and keeping it once you have it. We’re also discussing the misconceptions we’ve been conditioned to believe, the importance of self-love and non-romantic love, what the “list” we have for our perfect partner should and shouldn’t look like, how to structure your social calendar when you’re in a relationship, and more. Before Jay joins us, ...
Why Do We Sabotage Relationships?
January 23, 2023 03:00 - 1 hour - 136 MBIt’s an episode dedicated to something we all (or most of us) have done and aren’t proud of – sabotaging a relationship. We discuss all the ways people sabotage relationships, the reasons we do it, and how to stop, plus we’re sharing our experiences and the saboteur behavior our listeners opened up to us about. Before we get into the topic, we’re breaking down the correlation between chicken wings and blowjobs and recapping another week in LA (spoiler alert: Rayna tripped again, Ashley had t...
Dick Size, Masturbating, and Guy Behavior Explained with Trevor Wallace and Michael Blaustein
January 16, 2023 05:18 - 1 hour - 148 MBComing to you from LA, we are joined by the hilarious Trevor Wallace and Michael Blaustein of Stiff Socks podcast. We’re having an extra uncensored discussion about dick size, the “unique” ways guys masturbate, and porn watching habits. Then they “mansplain” the reasons guys: Watch your Instagram stories after they ghost you, talk about future plans when they don’t want a relationship, always resurface (sometimes after years and years), continue to DM/text you when you don’t respond, and mor...
What’s In and What’s Out for Dating in 2023
January 09, 2023 02:01 - 1 hour - 136 MBIt’s a new year with new dating goals and new trends on the horizon, and THE STREETS ARE CALLING! We’re breaking down what experts and our listeners are expecting for 2023, from conscious swiping to skinny kings to “death of the dinner date," and more. We’re also talking about what we’re NOT doing anymore and how to manifest what we want. Before we dive in, we’re recapping Ashley’s hometown holidate, Rayna’s NYE booty call, and books we’re loving. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottae...
How to Break Bad Habits and Build Good Ones with James Clear
January 02, 2023 03:02 - 1 hour - 173 MBWe are so excited to kick off a new year with such a special guest – James Clear, author of the best-selling book Atomic Habits. We chat with James about why bad habits form and how to break them, how to build better habits and stick to them, the most common mistakes people make and how to avoid them, plus understanding and achieving our goals. Before the interview, we’re sharing our own goals for 2023, a hilarious date story about Rayna’s dad, and Ashley’s sex toy/doorman encounter. Enjoy a...
2022: F*cked More, Worked More, Cried More, Vibed More
December 19, 2022 05:01 - 1 hour - 112 MBIn traditional GGE fashion, we’re recapping the whirlwind year that was 2022! We’re sharing the milestones we had and lessons we learned, the guys we f*cked and the friendships that got us through. Ashley presents her annual Top 10 Moments, Rayna recaps the best/worst celebrity breakups, and we’re sharing our listeners’ biggest accomplishments this year. Before we review 2022, we’re discussing Ashley’s emotional move, what happened with Rayna’s latest hookup, and masturbating with long nails...
Managing a Mama's Boy (and His Mom) feat. Therapist Whitney Goodman
December 12, 2022 06:12 - 1 hour - 145 MBIt's finally here -- the long-awaited mama's boy episode! We brought in marriage and family therapist Whitney Goodman to break down the mother-son dynamic and how the "mama's boy" forms, how it can look when you're dating/married to one, the different levels of impact it has on your relationship, how to approach the situation, what NOT to do and say, and more. We're also sharing our own experiences, our listeners' top mama's boy concerns, and a hilarious/ridiculous story submission that blew...
Secrets to Keeping It Spicy with Lauryn and Michael of The Skinny Confidential
December 05, 2022 05:01 - 1 hour - 155 MBIt's a rare and special occasion: A couple on the show! We loved chatting with Lauryn and Michael Bosstick of The Skinny Confidential about their decades-long love story (they met/dated/got caught hooking up when they were 12) and how they keep their marriage and sex life spicy when they've been together so long, have children, and work together (partially). We're also discussing how two alpha personalities can work as a couple, and blowjob tips, including the "coin technique." Before our gu...
Should I Be Mad About This?
November 28, 2022 05:01 - 1 hour - 151 MBChances are, your partner does things to annoy, frustrate, or even infuriate you, and we’re here to discuss them – everything from leaving wet towels on the floor to not posting you on social media to prioritizing his friends over you to well, breathing. We’re breaking down the question of “Should I be mad about this?” and offering advice for how to communicate your discontent and/or let some things bother you less. Before we tackle the topic, we’re sharing our hometown hookup stories, remin...
How to Have the Sex Life You Want feat. Psychotherapist Vanessa Marin
November 21, 2022 05:01 - 1 hour - 165 MBWe could not love this episode more, and are so happy for you to hear our conversation with sex therapist Vanessa Marin about communication in your sex life. She explains how to bring up a sexual slump or frustrations in your relationship with the exact language to use and type of conversations to have, how to tell your partner to stop doing something you don't like and start doing what you do like, techniques for spanking and choking and how to get your partner to do these things the way yo...
Using Your Astrology to Live Your Fullest Life with Dr. Jennifer Freed
November 14, 2022 06:02 - 1 hour - 166 MBWe are thrilled to be joined by psychological astrologer and author Jennifer Freed, Ph.D. who walks us through the four astrological elements and discusses how to use our cosmic DNA to live our fullest lives, choose partners, and have better sex. She debunks the narrative of certain signs being compatible with each other, provides life hacks for finding a healthy partner if your picker is off, and explains why we choose partners like our parents. And she educates us about what being "above t...
Can You Turn Around a Toxic Relationship? with Chris Distefano
November 07, 2022 05:01 - 1 hour - 154 MBOur fave Chrissy D/Chrissy Chaos/Chrissy Daytime is back for his third GGE appearance, and opening up about everything that's changed in his life, and how his (formerly tumultuous) relationship has done a 180. We talk about bombing on daytime TV, why he got off social media and the effect it's had on his relationships and career, butt stuff, and we answer some "Is This Weird?" submissions. Before Chris joins us, we're discussing Ashley's move for when you get ghosted, Rayna's secret stepfami...
What Counts as Cheating?
October 31, 2022 02:50 - 1 hour - 153 MBWe’re diving into that gray area of infidelity and discussing strip clubs, lap dances, happy endings, emotional affairs, Only Fans, and porn. We’re sharing results from 30K+ listeners polled, and the wide range of feelings people have about all of these occurrences in their relationship. Before we get into the topic, we’re announcing a new member of the family (!!!), chatting about our preferred couple behavior at a party, and discussing the new season of Love is Blind. Enjoy! You can now ...
What Their Money Style Says About Them as a Partner feat. Financial Journalist Nicole Lapin
October 24, 2022 04:01 - 1 hour - 168 MBIt's another episode about moneeey, and this time, we are joined by financial journalist and best-selling author Nicole Lapin to chat about money and dating – what someone’s money style says about what kind of partner they’ll be, red flags to look for on a date, how to approach awkward conversations about finances, handling salary disparity with your partner when it comes to rent, vacations, etc., and more. Plus, we’re also tackling money issues with friends (like that one friend who never p...
Managing Depression + Reparenting Yourself with Jade Iovine
October 17, 2022 04:01 - 1 hour - 140 MBWe sat down with our new friend (and fellow podcaster) Jade Iovine for a raw and vulnerable conversation about mental health. Jade opens up about her depression and anxiety, coming out of her rock bottom, her journey with (and feelings surrounding) medication, and being in a relationship when you have mental illness and your partner doesn't. We also discuss the damaging effects of social media and how to stop letting comparison steal your joy, and Jade introduces us to the concept of reparen...
How to Fire Up Your Foreplay
October 10, 2022 04:01 - 1 hour - 153 MBWe're talking about everything BUT sex this week, and how to spice it up in the bedroom sans penetration. We deep dive on kissing (what makes a good makeout, bad kissers, how and when to make the first move), then cover everything from sexy massages to hand jobs to lingerie, and share listener tips and "foreplay gone wrong" stories. Before the foreplay, we're discussing an unprecedented text Rayna sent to a guy, Ashley's wildest Covid test, and what to do (and say) when guys won't leave you ...
Toxic Partners + Dating Your Best Friend feat. Deepti Vempati
October 03, 2022 03:00 - 1 hour - 137 MBDEEPTI IS HERE! We're so excited to have the Love is Blind star and new author join us in studio to spill the tea and inspire us with her self-worth journey. We're talking about what went down with Shake off camera, how her and Kyle finally got together (and why they broke up), her family's feelings on the show, her struggles with insecurity and how she's become the "I choose myself" icon she is today, and more. Before Deepti joins us, we're catching up on Rayna's date, Ashley's rash, and wh...
How to Complain to Your Partner (and Friends) the Right Way feat. Psychologist/Author Guy Winch
September 26, 2022 04:01 - 1 hour - 163 MBWe have another free therapy session with a favorite return guest -- psychologist, author, and speaker Guy Winch! On this episode, we're breaking down complaining from all angles, including the problem with not voicing your complaints to your partner, to how much complaining is too much in a relationship. We're also discussing the most effective way to complain both in relationships and in general life situations (like with a retailer or landlord), how to deal with chronic complainers (wheth...
Repairing the Mother-Daughter Relationship with Therapist/Author Lori Gottlieb
September 19, 2022 04:15 - 1 hour - 162 MBWe are honored to be joined again by psychotherapist and bestselling author Lori Gottlieb to discuss a topic so many can relate to: The mother daughter relationship. Lori expertly and compassionately walks us through how to navigate a strained relationship with a mother (or parent) if you have resentment about your childhood/their parenting, feel like they are critical or competitive with you, are lacking boundaries or the tools to express your feelings to them, or just want a better relatio...
Career Advice and Quiet Quitting
September 12, 2022 05:12 - 1 hour - 156 MBWe're talking about the trend of "quiet quitting," and if you don't know what that is -- don't worry, we're breaking it down and sharing our feelings. We discuss our careers, millennials vs. Gen Z, and give tips for having a career you love (if that's what you want). Also Rayna recaps her (second) breast reduction, and Ashley shares a date story and the best text response when someone from your past hits you up. Plus, we have TV and book recs. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpo...
Are We Done With Dating Apps? feat. Jared Freid
August 29, 2022 04:55 - 1 hour - 144 MBAs the 10th anniversary of dating apps approaches, we're answering the question: What are we even doing here? We're joined once again by GGE fave, Jared Freid, to get inside the male mind when it comes to the apps (Why are guys on them? Why do they pen pal? How do you know if a guy only wants to fuck?), discuss the love and hate for them, and how to best approach the swiping experience. We're also reporting our audience poll results for how many people are actually on the apps and succeeding...
DON'T LET THAT LOSER MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE SHIT!
August 22, 2022 07:00 - 1 hour - 142 MBIf you’ve ever been ghosted or gaslit by someone who wasn’t deserving of your energy in the first place, this episode is for you. We’re discussing how we allow people we’re dating (or barely dating) to make us feel anxiety and self-doubt, why we shouldn't, and how to reframe these situations. We’re sharing our experiences and our listeners’ answers to “I knew I was too good for them when”, and before we get into the topic, we’re joking about our travel quirks/differences, discussing a hot gu...
When the Dick is Dysfunctional feat. Dr. Rena Malik
August 15, 2022 03:32 - 1 hour - 147 MBGet excited, it's our ED episode! We're joined by urologist Dr. Rena Malik to discuss all things erectile dysfunction, including the different types (getting an erection, keeping an erection, premature ejaculation, trouble climaxing), reasons why they occur, treatment, and how to handle in the bedroom. We're also discussing penis problem related to masturbation and porn addiction. Before Rena joins us, we're discussing hooking up with your neighbor, which one of us has dibs on Pete Davidson,...
Can You Fix a F*ckboy? with Nikki Glaser
August 08, 2022 03:00 - 1 hour - 156 MBWe have one of our favorite guests back discussing one of your favorite topics -- Nikki Glaser on fuckboys. The hilarious comedian and host of FBoy Island on HBO Max is spilling tea on the show, answering our (and your) burning questions, and tackling the age-old question: Can you fix a fuckboy? Nikki also opens up about her relationship, and we're deep diving on the topics of getting back with an ex and setting boundaries for self-preservation. Before she joins us, we're sharing a recent st...
Should You and Your Partner Have the Same Party Habits?
August 01, 2022 04:01 - 1 hour - 132 MBIt's PARTY TIIIME....and by that we mean discussing party habits in a relationship. We're deep diving on drinking and dating and how to assess the dynamic when you and your partner don't align, plus chatting about drugs, socializing (introverts vs. extroverts), trust issues, drunk fights, our past experiences, and more. Before we get into the topic, we're analyzing a never-before-seen dating app behavior, and deciding whether to catch a cheater. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeat...
Eating A$$ and Paying on Dates feat. Medinah and Kiki of Cocktales
July 25, 2022 04:01 - 1 hour - 162 MBIt's one of our favorite types of episodes -- just four ladies sitting around talking about dating and dick. We had Medinah Monroe and Kiki Said So of Cocktales Podcast in studio for a hilarious conversation about traveling for dick, being sexually fluid/eating pussy, paying/not paying on dates, how much a first date should cost, eating ass, blowjob tips, and more. Before the ladies join us, we're talking about siblings dating someone you don't like, Rayna's plane behavior, Ashley's new dati...
Why Are We Bad at Dating? feat. Mark Groves
July 18, 2022 04:01 - 1 hour - 144 MBWe're so excited to welcome a much-requested, long-awaited guest on the show -- Mark Groves! As a human connection specialist and incredible voice in the relationship analysis space, we tapped into him to ask a burning question: Why are people so bad at dating? We also discuss finding your true self in a culture where so much value is placed on relationships, being a people pleaser and setting boundaries, the only way you can get back with an ex, and more. Before Mark joins us, we're recappi...
Girls Trips, Couples Vacays, and Solo Travel
July 11, 2022 04:01 - 1 hour - 174 MBIt's been 4+ years since our travel episode, so we figured it was time for a reboot! We're sharing general airport/packing/passport tips, then discussing traveling with friends, your partner, and solo. We're covering how much to plan/not plan, expenses, eating, pooping, and more, plus sharing some wild listener vacation stories as well as our own. And we're recapping our Mykonos trip (and pit stop in London), from a massive flight fuck-up to the sexy adventures that ensued. Hope you enjoy an...
Going Off About Abortion Rights
June 28, 2022 04:08 - 31 minutes - 28.7 MBWe are sharing our thoughts, feelings, and actions regarding the overturning of Roe v. Wade. Thank you for listening, and we're listing some of the links mentioned below: Check your state and local elections HERE and HERE Act Blue National Network of Abortion Funds DemandJustice.org Emily In Your Phone The Cut Women's Health Protection Act Contacting Your Senators
Being Secure In Your Job, Body, and Relationship feat. Bella Swaak
June 27, 2022 04:21 - 1 hour - 150 MBThe snacks said GIVE US BELLA! and we have finally delivered. Our assistant/live-show-runner Bella Swaak is in the interview chair, and we're chatting about her background, getting the job, her love life, and more. We're discussing how she runs shit at our theatre shows, developing confidence as a taller woman, and she's spilling the tea on her breakup and current relationship. Before Bella joins us, we cover a lot of ground -- Cancer season, our upcoming vacation, Ashley's dating update, an...
The Rules of F*ck Buddies and Sexual Slumps with Shan Boodram
June 20, 2022 04:01 - 1 hour - 140 MBWe are so happy to welcome back one of our faves, sexologist/author/intimacy educator Shan Boodram, and cover some incredible topics. Shan walks us through her fuck buddy turned husband, how to set boundaries and navigate a fuck buddy situation, and speaking up when someone's communication isn't doing it for you. We're also discussing rekindling with "the one that got away" and working through sexual slumps with your partner. Lastly, Shan is giving some exceptional masturbation tips so you c...
Take Your Dirty Talk to the Next Level
June 13, 2022 04:01 - 1 hour - 137 MBIt's an episode about one of our favorite topics/hobbies: DIRTY TALK. And we're announcing the other half of Vibes Only (!!!), an app that is going to elevate the dirty talk in your life and allow you to experience your wildest sexual fantasies (don't worry, we'll explain). We're discussing how to start talking in the bedroom if you're a novice and getting your partner to speak up more, and also addressing more advanced dirty talkers, complete with foolproof lines and tips for all levels. We...
Our New Company + Your Best Orgasm
June 06, 2022 04:01 - 1 hour - 110 MBWe are SO excited and proud to announce our new company VIBES ONLY (!!!), a line of premium pleasure products designed to give you the ultimate orgasm. So naturally, we've dedicated this episode to the topic at hand (pun intended), and are chatting about our motivation for starting the company, sharing our masturbation journeys, and offering pro tips for the best self-pleasure experiences. We're also telling our and our listeners' most embarrassing and hilarious vibrator stories. AND this is...
Your Brain, Body, and Libido on Birth Control feat. Sarah Hill, PhD
May 30, 2022 04:01 - 1 hour - 153 MBLet's dive into one of the great joys of being a woman: Birth control! We are joined by Dr. Sarah Hill, evolutionary psychologist and author of the book This is Your Brain on Birth Control, to discuss our menstrual cycles and all the ways we are affected by birth control. We're getting an education in all things hormones, PMS, sex drive, the way we pick partners when we're on birth control vs. off, whether birth control affects fertility, how to choose what's best for your body, and more. Be...
Are You In a Situationship?
May 23, 2022 04:01 - 1 hour - 130 MBYou know it all too well -- the dreaded situationship -- and we're unpacking it on this week's episode. We're talking about what a modern-day situationship looks like, how to assess one before determining a course of action (or no action), and discussing the age-old question "How can I make this person commit?" We're also sharing our own situationship experiences, telling you the one thing most people want in a partner, and hyping you to have your best summer. Before we dive into the topic, ...
Younger Men, Friend Breakups, and Exes with Selling Sunset's Mary Fitzgerald
May 16, 2022 04:53 - 1 hour - 132 MBWe had such a great time chatting with our Selling Sunset fave Mary Fitzgerald about her younger husband, being a teen mom, toxic friendships, the wild real estate climate, and more. She opens about her and Romain managing their finances, what she wishes they showed on the show, how she stayed friends with Jason after dating, and her fertility journey. Before Mary joins us, we're discussing weddings -- hooking up at them, bringing dates vs. riding solo, and more. Enjoy! Follow Mary on Inst...
The Truth About Marriage Laws, Divorce, and Prenups with Attorney Laura Wasser
May 09, 2022 04:01 - 1 hour - 156 MBIt was an honor to discuss the legalities of marriage and divorce with truly the best of the best -- attorney Laura Wasser. She explains the importance of knowing the laws of your state before getting married, and educates us on prenuptial agreements, from how they work to whether or not you need one. We're also discussing postnuptial agreements, annulments, how to be more informed about the finances in your relationship, and the advice she gives anyone considering or going through a divorce...
Do You Need a Prenup? feat. Divorce Attorney Laura Wasser
May 09, 2022 04:01 - 1 hour - 87.3 MBIt was an honor to discuss the legalities of marriage and divorce with truly the best of the best -- attorney Laura Wasser. She explains the importance of knowing the laws of your state before getting married, and educates us on prenuptial agreements, from how they work to whether or not you need one. We're also discussing postnuptial agreements, annulments, how to be more informed about the finances in your relationship, and the advice she gives anyone considering or going through a divorce...
Moving Cities and Making Friends
May 02, 2022 04:01 - 1 hour - 140 MBWe're talking about a life change that can be exciting/scary/transformational/anxiety-inducing/all of the above: Moving to a new city! We're sharing our experiences, then discussing all the aspects of starting over in a new place -- choosing where to live, making friends, dating, finding your community, dealing with the low moments, and even tips for hiring actual movers. Before our topic, we're talking about misjudging someone by their looks, Rayna getting back on the apps, Ashley's recent ...
Embracing Your Sexuality (Check), Finding True Love (Check), Kids (Questionable) feat. Comedian Ali Kolbert
April 25, 2022 04:40 - 1 hour - 148 MBWe have hilarious comedian and friend Ali Kolbert in the studio with us (and Azul) discussing coming out, her standup journey, her relationship, having kids, why she thought Ashley was bi, and more. She opens up about growing up while figuring out her sexuality, and shares the captivating story of her and her girlfriend (who never dated women before Ali), which truly had us on the edge of our seats. Then we're diving into the conversation of having children when one partner is sure and one i...
Attachment Theory and the Science of Desire feat. Andrew Huberman, Ph.D.
April 18, 2022 04:40 - 1 hour - 182 MBWe are joined by the brilliant Dr. Andrew Huberman and he's educating us on attachment theory and the science of love and desire. We're discussing how we develop our attachment style from childhood and how it affects our adult life and relationships, if/how it can change, our brains in different states (for example, when we're anxious and in love), power dynamics in a relationship, how to manage your anxiety in dating (and in everyday life), keeping the attraction and excitement alive in a ...
When Exes Come Back
April 11, 2022 03:36 - 1 hour - 128 MBAlternate title for this episode was "They Always Come Back" and we're talking about what to do when they do. We're laying out all the reasons why your ex will try to slip back into your life and how to assess their motivation and your feelings about it, then react (or not) accordingly. We're sharing a lot of own experiences, as well as our listeners' stories of the craziest ways exes have resurfaced. Before we get into the topic, we're circling back on short kings, discussing dick size, pop...