Getting Into The Swing Of Things

Episode No. 33 - The Last Episode (or There Are Aliens, I’m Not Going To The Club)

August 16, 2023 16:13 - 35 minutes - 32.6 MB

After 6 years of swinging, and a lot of thinking since 2020, we are out of the LS as it no longer serves us. In this episode, we talk about what led to this decision, how we’ve been feeling, and what we’re doing next. It’s time to move on to the next adventure. You can find Mrs. Tequila as Deep House Domme on Insta, Twitter, SoundCloud, Etsy, and OnlyFans.

Episode No. 32 - Mrs. Tequila’s Hedo Trip

February 24, 2022 19:11 - 2 hours - 123 MB

Mrs. Tequila goes to Hedo with 10 of her friends for a birthday party. Mr. Steak’s dad passes the first day she’s there. This episode shares our intimate conversation, the experience of a Hedo vacation, the dichotomy between lifestyle adventures and grief, and Hotwife fantasy to reality triggers.

Episode No. 31 - Covid and Cancer

December 23, 2021 00:29 - 44 minutes - 30.3 MB

Our year-long hiatus is over! We took a break from swinging because of the pandemic, and then just as we were vaccinated, Mr. Steak’s dad was diagnosed with cancer. We talk (and cry) about isolation, mental health, death, and ending our hiatus with Mrs. Tequila’s trip to Hedo.

Episode No. 30 - Pandemic, Protests, and Porn

June 16, 2020 15:56 - 47 minutes - 32.3 MB

COVID took us out for a 4-month hiatus, as all of our LS fun was put on hold. In this episode we talk about our adventures right before quarantine, what we did to entertain ourselves in lock down, how we made the decision to sort of come out of isolation, pissing people off with opinions on the protests, and navigating life in chaos.

Episode No. 29 - Hard Conversations and an Unexpected Crossed Boundary

February 24, 2020 17:54 - 1 hour - 42.1 MB

The Lifestyle is a journey in personal growth. In this episode we talk about the evolution of our communication as a couple. We discuss having hard conversations with swinger friends and what happens with an unexpectedly crossed non-sexual boundary.

Episode No. 28 - Kinky Christmas

December 27, 2019 04:48 - 57 minutes - 39.3 MB

Kinky Christmas is a night of indulging in various kinks not typically experienced in swinging. After our marathon of sexy kinks, we’re joined that morning with our friends from Vegas, B and L, to recount our night together as special guests in the podcast.

Episode No. 27 - Ladies Hotel Getaway Weekend

December 26, 2019 06:12 - 1 hour - 59 MB

Mrs. Tequila and FWB Unicorn go on a weekend date down in the city together. They have too much fun and end up staying in the room for the entire time having an incredibly hot party night. Mr. Steak comes in with double princess treatment and saves the Sunday rounding out an amazing experience together.

Episode No. 26 - Princess Week For Mrs. Tequila

December 05, 2019 05:59 - 1 hour - 52.5 MB

Mrs. Tequila wins a bet with Mr. Steak and has “princess week” where she gets to do all of the sexy things she wants. We detail our adventures that week, including ending it with an incredible MFM and getting kicked out of the hotel. Whoops!

Episode No. 25 - Our first unicorn experience, and she joins us as a special guest!

October 08, 2019 15:55 - 44 minutes - 30.6 MB

In this episode we share our first unicorn experience with our super hot and fun FWB turned unicorn, and she joins us as a podcast guest! Also making her our first guest ever! It’s a sexy one, so be ready...

Episode No. 24 - First DP And DVP With Vegas Friends

August 22, 2019 17:05 - 37 minutes - 26 MB

Our friends we made in Vegas from episode No. 23 make a special detour on their vacation to visit us. The first time someone has traveled to swing with us. We share a classic steak & tequila dinner and lingerie dance night with them. They share a DP and DVP experience with us!

Episode No. 23 - Steak And Tequila Go To Vegas

June 17, 2019 17:14 - 49 minutes - 22.8 MB

We celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary in the city we met, married and lived our early years of debauchery - Vegas! We visit PlayhouseLV for swinger fun, resonate with “attracting the energy you want” - a philosophy a new fun couple shares with us, and have a wild sexy time that ends in another unexpected orgy.

Episode No. 22 - Getting Groped in The Lifestyle. It’s Happening

January 30, 2019 18:35 - 44 minutes - 30.8 MB

Everyone always talks about the importance of consent in the lifestyle, but it doesn’t mean that it’s always practiced. We talk about our inappropriate touching experiences we’ve had, our struggles on how to deal with it, and sexual assault awareness training we’ve taken being in the music industry to make a difference for our fans. But can that be replicated in swinging? We’re not sure.

Episode No. 21 - The Story Of A Totally Unexpected, Unplanned, Orgy

December 21, 2018 21:37 - 59 minutes - 41 MB

Mrs. Tequila models in a photoshoot that ends up in a MFFFFM orgy afterward. There was play that was too rough that needed navigation, and details on how to make a tricky situation work out in the end.

Episode No. 20 - When Swinger and Professional Life Collide At A House Party

December 03, 2018 17:05 - 43 minutes - 30 MB

Running into someone from your professional life in a lifestyle environment is what swinger nightmares are made of. In this episode we talk about how it happened to us and how we were outed. We also talk about house party happenings and Mrs. Tequila’s feeling about being a party girl.

Episode No. 19 - Foam Party, Flogging, Feeldoe, and Summer Sunday Funday

September 10, 2018 20:34 - 55 minutes - 38.1 MB

In this episode we go to our first summer foam party at the club. Mrs. Tequila discovers flogging in the lifestyle is fun. And then we leave our late night shenanigans to experience a swinger Sunday brunch, wrapping up our weekend of debauchery with a first time Feeldoe experience too.

Episode No. 18 - Gangbang Dick Juggling

August 28, 2018 00:33 - 58 minutes - 39.9 MB

In this episode we share the story of our first gang bang and the details of how we organized it. It was perfect!!

Episode No. 17 - Zen And The Art Of Group Fucking

July 17, 2018 02:55 - 1 hour - 48.9 MB

After 3 years in our lifestyle adventures, we finally meet our match with a FWB couple, have a series of first repeats, let go of boundaries on the fly, and get introspective about the key to Mrs. Tequila’s orgasm in swaps.

Episode No. 16 - Wading through apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Feeld to find a match to our wild ways

June 11, 2018 02:02 - 1 hour - 81.8 MB

In this episode we share how we utilize dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Feeld and share crazy stories of the people we’ve met so far, including finally finding that magical 4-way connection with a couple who can hang with our wild swinger ways!

Episode No. 15 - Our First House Party And Sybian Ride

May 14, 2018 01:16 - 57 minutes - 39.9 MB

We detail our experience of our first house party, Mrs. Tequila’s first time on a Sybian, and a straight up wild night with a super hot couple, that ended with a unicorn disappearing into the mist. We drunkenly thought holding the mics while recording this episode was a good idea. It was not. Sorry for the rando thumping going on in this one!

Episode No. 14 - Business Trip Hall Passes And Therapy Couches

May 02, 2018 03:30 - 1 hour - 72.4 MB

In this episode we discuss our business trip hall pass experiences from January, getting on Tinder to find dates, and share the heart-to-heart, tear-filled conversation about feelings of trying an open marriage and solo play for the first time. Mrs. Tequila also begins to realize her fear of intimacy around double-dates and that this is the reason why she enjoys the one night stand style. This is a mix of sexy stories and a therapy couch session.

Episode No. 13 - Bringing In The New Year With A Bang (Literally)

April 16, 2018 17:00 - 49 minutes - 34 MB

Our first swinging adventure coming out of hiatus was on New Year's Eve at the club where we had one hell of a party night. Fun conversation with friends, anonymous sex with strangers, and 5 hours of all night sexcapades.

Episode No. 12 - Back From Swinger Hibernation

April 11, 2018 00:00 - 36 minutes - 25.3 MB

We were out of the swing of things for a year, but now we are back from our swinger hibernation! In this episode we tell you why, and where we go from here.

Episode No. 11 - Our First Threesome With A Single Guy

March 16, 2017 17:45 - 42 minutes - 26.9 MB

After four months of waiting for the stars to align to meet the right single guy, we finally met up with someone we clicked with. People talk about how finding a single guy in the lifestyle is easy. It is not! Unless you don't have standards.

Episode No. 10 - You Don't Have To Be Perfect, As Long As You're Having Fucking Fun

March 02, 2017 18:22 - 47 minutes - 29.2 MB

After meeting new fun people at a meet and greet, we exchange numbers with some and end up having a super fun full swap a couple of days later. Best lesson from this experience, you don't have to be perfect as long as you're learning and having fucking fun.

Episode No. 9 - Wild Times On Our Second Visit at The Swingers Club

February 16, 2017 15:36 - 50 minutes - 30.8 MB

With little sleep, we recorded this episode from the hotel bed to share our story of EDM dancing, exhibitionist sex, excessive squirting, giving single guys rando BJ's, dealing with non-consent in the club, and how Mrs. Tequila has more fun with the ladies.

Episode No. 8 - Learning Not To Take It Personally

February 02, 2017 16:00 - 59 minutes - 36.5 MB

In episode no. 7 we discussed how the lifestyle is making us realize there are different flavors of disappointment, and Mrs. Tequila has an epiphany about taking rejection personally, remembering lessons from the book The Four Agreements.

Episode No. 7 - Our First Time at the Swingers Club

January 19, 2017 16:11 - 1 hour - 53.6 MB

We share our story about our very first time going to the swings club for the erotic holiday party. It's a story full of lessons learned the hard way. We fucked up, instead of getting fucked.

Episode No. 6 - First Time Swingers Club Jitters

January 05, 2017 18:02 - 46 minutes - 27.7 MB

The reality of getting ready to visit the swingers club for the first time starts to set in, and Mrs. Tequila experiences a pang of anxiety when Mr. Steak purchased the event tickets for the erotic holiday ball. So, what better time to work through nerves than on a podcast episode!

Episode No. 5 - The Hypocrisy of Communication in The Lifestyle

December 21, 2016 04:24 - 55 minutes - 34.7 MB

After our first swap-gone-wrong, we get back on the horse and start looking for a single guy for a MFM threesome party. We thought this would be easy to organize. Shockingly, it is not! We talk about online dating struggles and the inherent nature of The Lifestyle being full of flakes.

Episode No. 4 - Analyzing Complicated Feelings and the Emotional Roller Coaster After a First Swap

December 09, 2016 05:18 - 48 minutes - 22.2 MB

Things get deep and introspective in this episode as we process all of the feelings that Mrs. Tequila began to sort through after our first full swap. It got messy. We peel back the layers to understanding complicated feelings and how to get through the emotional roller coaster.