Be Better Than Before
10 episodes - English - Latest episode: almost 5 years ago - ★★★★ - 1 ratingAre you hurting?
Are you needing an answer?
Are you failing to see your way through?
Well - you have come to the right place!
Get 10 lessons on the go as you hear a personal account of author Cole Johnson of his divorce.
Do you have to throw your pain away? Well - listen to Be Better Than Before - the Get Over Divorce On The Go edition ... as this is exclusive. Only YOU get to hear this. Your answer is here! This is a companion to accompany the book "Be Better Than Before." Listen to these exclusive episodes - and you will be better than ever before!
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Episodes
Take Yourself Out Tonight
October 03, 2019 13:00 - 29 minutes - 26.6 MBThe most precious commodity in your life, right now ... is you! You now are alone. You have no dates. You may not even have a Girls' Night Out or hang with the boys. You probably don't want to hang with anybody else. You may not want to spoil yourself. That's why you should! Make it a circle of one night and enjoy yourself. It is allowed. You need to find happiness right now. Enjoying your own space forces you to find things about yourself that you probably didn't know existed. Don't pay a...
Blue Funk
September 26, 2019 13:00 - 29 minutes - 27.1 MBOne of the most painful moments during heartbreak or divorce is the moment loneliness seeps in so deep that it overtakes you. Some may be strong enough to avoid sinking deep into the clinical version of it. However, all go through feeling a heavy level of dejection at some point of healing. What you are experiencing is something called depression. It is emotionally painful, mentally crippling and psychologically damaging ... should you not do things to confront, combat and overcome it. Some...
Hate Is Normal
September 19, 2019 13:00 - 29 minutes - 27.4 MB"I hate you." "You disgust me." "I wish you were never born." "You need to die." All of these words you either have heard at one time or another ... or have said them - maybe even both. The feeling is hate. However, what if we were to tell you that it is normal for you to feel this way? Of course, it's not something you should forever want to feel. However, when discourse happens - intense feelings start to develop. And what better (or worse) to feel - than hate. Cole talks about the time ...
No Ordinary Pain
September 12, 2019 13:00 - 29 minutes - 27.2 MBYou've cut yourself. You've fallen to the ground. You've accidentally slammed your hand in your car door. All those scenarios hurt ... but not like being rejected by someone you love. There is something profoundly different about healing from a divorce. Healing from a break-up is bad enough. Literally seeing your family, your existence, your life split in two ... can prove to be devastating. Cole walks you through the time when he recognized that divorce is something you can't simply brush...
Pawns
September 05, 2019 13:01 - 28 minutes - 26 MBThis is where it gets tricky. Treacherous waters are ahead - because, quite frankly, you are being a liability too those you love. If you don't watch out, you may alienate them for the rest of your life. Many people feel like they are pawns in the huge chess game of life. Either they serve your purpose as your personal Amen Corner ... or they serve as a huge distraction when you aren't ready to hear the truth come out of their mouths about your erratic (and hurtful) behavior. This is where...
Convenience Of Your Solitude
August 29, 2019 12:57 - 29 minutes - 27.2 MBOne of the greatest tools known to a divorcee is never discussed. Considering the volatile state you are undergoing, being away from others is a good thing. No, scratch that. It's a great thing. Going through any journey alone is never fun. However, it sometimes is necessary. this is when you can gather your thoughts, lick your wounds, and - most importantly - learn who you truly are. Cole speaks about the times that he needed to undergo being alone in order to be a better friend, mate and...
Death On Earth
August 22, 2019 14:35 - 29 minutes - 27.3 MBSo ... you made that decision to separate. Your world of debating over assets, blame, events of the now-former union and sanity now begins. And we haven't gotten to the biggest collateral damage whenever divorce happens ... children. Innocent figures almost overnight turn into bargaining chips between two people who are no longer in love with each other. Every divorcee goes through the raw, unrelenting process of pain. You experience a death on earth, and Cole describes his moment in great...
Don't Do It
August 15, 2019 19:18 - 29 minutes - 27.4 MBGoing into a death spiral after matrimony is not an easy decision to make. It should never be taken lightly. In fact, divorcee-to-be, your life will never be the same should you go through with marriage dissolution. Before you enter the realm of separation, think it over ... and over .. and over. Do everything you van to avoid going through a divorce. If you see a way to resolve your marriage, please take the opportunity to do so. Cole expresses his journey in entering a world where loneli...
What Do You Mean By ... ?
August 08, 2019 21:20 - 29 minutes - 27.1 MBIt is well known that divorce is like a death on earth. You go through a grieving process. However, to say "get over divorce," it sounds callous, harsh and cruel. This episode explains the title of the podcast. Divorce is a stigma. You get through the pain. In order to get to a better place in life, you must get over all the generalizations of it. You have permission to rip off the scarlet letter 'D' for divorce ... forever! Cole candidly talks about the moment he realized divorce wore him...
How To Heal From Heartbreak
March 19, 2019 01:27 - 8 minutes - 7.44 MBIt is never easy for you to go through heartbreak. You don't know what do you .. where to turn ... how to be. Well ... your answer is right here! The way all of us can get to the ultimate level of joy and optimal happiness is if we tend to our hurt. Cuts need care. Wounds need to be treated. Your heart is no different. Before any lesson can be administered - this is the first step to your 'new day' and 'new you.' This is how ... you heal ... from heartbreak ... forever! Hosted on Aca...