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Gaydars for Gaysians

55 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 2 years ago -

Join two queer asians as they talk about relationships, holes [and sex], daddies (or the lack thereof), intersection and identities, and the tops and bottoms of their lives. You better be ready for one hell of a ride. Hosted by Aster Hwang and Kenneth Kang.

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Episodes

47. Ex-GF Speaks: Straight Person Going into a Queer Relationship (ft. Bella)

May 17, 2022 04:00 - 49 minutes - 33.8 MB

The long wait brings the most special guest ever...the ex. Aster brings on his ex-girlfriend (cis and straight) to spill the whole tea about their past relationship: how they met, why they were attracted to each other how they broke up, what challenges they faced, ~technical difficulties~, yadayadayada. You never wanna miss this one.  If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Send us your questions and stories through our instagram @gayda...

46. Trans Sex Liberation: How Trans People Enjoy Sex While Feeling Dysphoria

March 29, 2022 14:00 - 56 minutes - 39.2 MB

Aster's back with a steamy topic that cis people have been craving about for decades: how do trans people have sex? Joined by our first trans femme guest, Vera, the two trans hotties talk about how they navigated their gender journeys, how their relationships with their bodies and sex have changed over time, and how they enjoy sex while dealing with body dysphoria. The ultimate trans sex liberation has come! Tune in till the end to listen to Vera's hookup stories, which are the wildest ones ...

45. Interviewing Robert Steele: The Author of Banned From California

March 04, 2022 03:00 - 41 minutes - 28.3 MB

Aster's back from his long break (I promise I'll be back next week) with a steamy interview with Robert Steele, the author of Banned from California, a biography of Jim Foshee, a gay runaway—and later, gay rights activist—who, after a childhood spent first in an orphanage and then a mental hospital, found himself in the underground world of the early queer scene of 1950s Los Angeles.  Robert explains why he chose Jim as the subject of his book, how Jim endured his abusive childhood and his t...

44. How to Deal with Rejections (Or Not) (ft. Karen)

February 02, 2022 14:00 - 59 minutes - 41.2 MB

Who has been showered with rejections before? I know I have. Aster is back with our favorite Single Since Birth Karen (ep 14,15,29) to talk about rejections. Join us in our verbal diarrhea of healing from rejections from career opportunities, relationships, and family, as we bare all of our most embarrassing stories of rejections. Sharp right, we give fashion tips because we be fashionable like dat. Cheers!  If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on...

43. What Do We Talk about in Therapy? (ft. Dr. Pepper)

January 11, 2022 17:00 - 1 hour - 53.6 MB

And we're back! Aster has been taking some time off because he was vacationing in therapy. In this episode, he sits down with a psychiatrist-to-be Dr. Velma Pepper to talk about everything therpy: why we started therapy, what we talk about in therapy, what kind of therapists we love & hate, why people don't go to therapy, and why therapy can be questionable at times. Tune in to learn about our deepest darkest secrets, and answers to our listener questions collected through instagram related ...

42. Eating Disorder, Body Dysmorphia & Fitness Culture (Jackie pt.2)

November 01, 2021 18:00 - 47 minutes - 32.7 MB

Hi, pretty bitches Jackie and Aster are back talking about everything related to our lewks and bodies, this time specifically about eating disorders, body dysmorphia, and fitness culture. Jackie goes deep into her history with various eating disorders, while Aster rants about how his OCD facilitates his body dysmorphia, separate from his body dysphoria. They discuss fitness culture as well, which they have distinct experiences regarding fitness trainers. You won't expect what Aster had to go...

EP 41. Drag Anime She-ro: Maxxie LaWow

October 12, 2021 00:00 - 42 minutes - 29.1 MB

Aster has his first legit interview with Anthony Hand, the creator of Maxxie LaWow: Drag Super-Shero, a feature-length animated film anticipated to be released in Spring 2024. Introducing pop culture's very first drag heroine, our super-shero’s first silver screen adventure pits her against her archnemesis Dana Bolical. With a nefarious scheme tucked-up and ready for every situation, Dana will quickly become the villain audiences love to hate. Maxxie LaWow will feature a strong LGBTQ+ and BI...

EXTRA: Paper Hearts - Tori Kelly (cover by Aster)

September 08, 2021 13:00 - 3 minutes - 2.4 MB

Not an episode, but a new cover! I promise there will be an episode coming up soon; I'm super busy because I just arrived in the States. Enjoy!

40. Pretty Bitches: Lookism & Trans Beauty Standards (Jackie pt.1)

August 29, 2021 08:00 - 48 minutes - 33.1 MB

TW: Eating disorder, Suicidality, Transphobia, Transmisogyny I'm late because I moved across the ocean, but here's another insightful episode. This week, we're back with another straight girl, Jackie, to talk about how rough her life has been being the "objectively beautiful" one. Can you imagine having every single guy fall for you the moment he lays eyes on you? Every gay man's dream! No but seriously, we talk about the pervasion of lookism in our contemporary society through the lens of...

39. Bipolar Chad Teaches How to Get a Brad

August 18, 2021 14:00 - 1 hour - 42.8 MB

TW: Extremely dark humor regarding mental health and disorders,  self-harm, & self-worth This episode, we're with aromantic heterosexual Haidy who opens up everything about being bipolar and having ADHD. Currently in her manic stage, she owes up to her God complex and irresponsible sexual decisions. BTW, we're using very dark humor in this episode, so don't take us so seriously. But please, practice safe sex and take your meds! If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the milit...

38. What the Gays Think About Marriage (ft. Rowan & Aiden)

August 11, 2021 07:00 - 1 hour - 47 MB

Pride Month Event is over, but the studio is ever more flowing with the gays. Your fav gay guests,  Rowan (ep 17, 22) & Aiden (ep 35), are back to discuss all about marriage. What do we think about marriage? Do we even wanna get married? Do we want kids, if we can ever have them? What about our ideal honeymoon? Tune in to hear about Rowan's nude cliff wedding fantasy and Aiden's Zoom wedding & love story with Sangwoo. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send hi...

37. Transphobia & Radical Feminism in Korea (ft. polypan dolphin)

August 04, 2021 13:00 - 1 hour - 49 MB

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account! TW: Transphobia, Transmisogyny, Misgendering We end our ...

36. Self-Image & Plastic Surgery: The Double-Eyelid-Dilemma (ft. Irene)

July 28, 2021 06:00 - 48 minutes - 33.6 MB

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account! Have you ever considered having plastic surgery? Fear no...

35. GS Stands for Gay & Sad (also gay sex) (ft. Aiden)

July 14, 2021 14:00 - 1 hour - 49.8 MB

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account! If you thought last week's episode was t...

35. GS Stands for Gay & Sad (also gay sex)

July 14, 2021 14:00 - 1 hour - 49.8 MB

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account! If you thought last week's episode was t...

34. Have You Heard of the Queer Fraternity?

July 08, 2021 16:00 - 1 hour - 45.1 MB

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account! Pray to God, because sexual depravity in...

33. Why the White Girl Was So Late to the Homo Game

July 01, 2021 14:00 - 42 minutes - 29.3 MB

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account! This week, we finally have a queer guest...

32. When Your Multi-Cultural Background Gives You ~trauma~

June 22, 2021 12:00 - 1 hour - 44.2 MB

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account! We're welcoming our five-week Pride Mont...

32. When Your Multi-Cultural Background Gives You ~trauma~

June 22, 2021 12:00 - 1 hour - 44.2 MB

**PRIDE MONTH EVENT ALERT** 3rd tier: Share our podcast on Instagram story or post---and get stickers & badges! 2nd tier: Share on a bigger public forum (ex: Reddit, Facebook groups, email listserv, etc)---and get a t-shirt! 1st tier: Share on both Insta & public forum---get both stickers/badges, t-shirt AND a handwritten note from our team! ***If you're sharing on a public forum, please send a screenshot to our @gaydarsforgaysians Instagram account! We're welcoming our five-week Pride Mont...

EXTRA: UN Village - 백현 Baekhyun (cover by Aster)

June 14, 2021 15:00 - 3 minutes - 2.82 MB

Hai I know we've left for a hot sec and we promise that we're gonna come back with a very important announcement real soon, but in the meantime, enjoy my cover of UN Village by Baekhyun. It's a one-take recroding without any edits via my phone, so please be generous with the low quality. Let me know if you like it! Any positive reinforcement makes Aster stray a day longer from his depression :) 

31. Perks of Being Gay (if there is any)

June 01, 2021 12:00 - 41 minutes - 28.9 MB

From the title, you know that you have our shortest episode coming up hot. Joined by our dear host Ken again, we paint rainbows of joy regarding our amazing, wonderful lives as Gaysians. Hurry, because it's gonna rain pretty soon ;)  If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

30. Gay Military Horror Stories

May 23, 2021 12:00 - 1 hour - 42.4 MB

Apologies for the late update, but we're back with our 30th episode with no other but our own host, Kenneth! He spills all the tea about gay men in the military, straight fuckboy-wanna-be's, & his No Nut November. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

29. Heterosexual Olympics: Who's The SSapterosaurus

May 10, 2021 10:00 - 1 hour - 42.8 MB

You don't want to skip the intro music this episode because this week we're not G4G, but Heteros for Peperos. With Aster's friend, Master, as the judge, three brave contestants of the H.E.T.E.R.O. community compete ferociously in the Heterosexual Olympics, to win the title of SSapterosaurus  of 2021. How do these people survive as cisgender straight individuals in today's oppressive society? Tune in to find out as they are graded on 5 categories: physical experience, emotional attraction, se...

28. Korean & American Medical Perspectives on Queer Issues

April 27, 2021 16:00 - 1 hour - 43.9 MB

TW: Bodily discussions of trans people, AIDS This week, get ready to get educated by two medical students from Korea & America respectively to discuss medical perspectives on queer identities and experiences. Topics include education about LGBT health care (or the complete lack thereof), transgender health care, blood transfusion & AIDS, etc. Wait till the end to hear their ~professional~ opinions on whether to Fuck, Marry, or Kill needles, stethoscope, & surgical knife.  If you want to se...

27. Asian Racism Part 2: Racism within Asia

April 20, 2021 14:00 - 53 minutes - 37.2 MB

We tried our best to address the elephant in the room, racism in Asian communities. We ask for your gracious understanding as we uncover delicate and sensitive topics such as Asian friend groups, internalized racism, Yellow Fever,  and racism/ colorism in Korea.  DISCLAIMER: We address the topic with our perspectives as Koreans. While we're only able to speak on our own behalf, we acknowledge that the term "Asian" encompasses far more diverse backgrounds. If you want to send Kenneth a mes...

26. Asian Racism Part 1: We Speak English Too M*therf**kers

April 07, 2021 15:00 - 1 hour - 41.4 MB

This week, Aster snatches Dom Daddy Angela away from her vacation to talk about what needs to be addressed: Asian racism. We start unpacking this heavy load by going over some traumatic childhood stories tainted by racist classmates and the pressure to have "English" names . Oh a PSA by the way, WE ALSO SPEAK ENGLISH if you hadn't noticed yet. Next, we delve deeper into more serious discussions of institutional racism in college endorsed by professors and the "Asian bubble." Tune in to next ...

25. Hayden Royalty Part 2: The Dating Influencer

April 02, 2021 15:00 - 36 minutes - 25.1 MB

I'm know I'm late so I'm gonna cut right to the chase: Hayden and I talk about dating and sex as trans individuals, while Hayden also parts wisdom to the future celeb-to-be (yes, that's me, Keeping Up with Aster). Stay till the end to hear us play Fuck, Marry, Kill with cleansing toiletries (wink wink). Follow Hayden @hayden.royalty! If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhw...

24. Hayden Royalty Part 1: The Nonbinary Genderqueer

March 23, 2021 14:00 - 37 minutes - 25.6 MB

G4G has made it! We finally have a not-a-friend-of-aster guest, and they are also internet-famous! Hayden Royalty, whose coming out video had made gayby Aster cry 4 years ago, kindly visited the studio to talk about their Korean-American queer experience, nonbinary-genderqueer identity, and social anxiety. We have a part 2 lined up next week focused on dating, sex, & being internet-famous, so keep an eye out for that as well! Follow Hayden @hayden.royalty! If you want to send Kenneth a mes...

23. Managing Conflicting Identities (ft. Erica)

March 09, 2021 13:00 - 1 hour - 50.4 MB

What's up Gaysians! What a ball-slapping comeback with Aster's partner-in-crime Erica Silver to spill so much tea (Trust me, so much tea).  Erica confesses her sins of calling herself feminist while being choked in bed by dom daddies, voting for democrats while fucking registered republicans, remaining Christian while being a raging bitch, & many more. We also discuss the Clubhouse phenomenon (RIP) and end the episode playing Fuck, Marry, Kill with Erica's various residences. Follow Erica ...

23. How to Be a Feminist Hoe (ft. Erica)

March 09, 2021 13:00 - 1 hour - 50.4 MB

What's up Gaysians! What a ball-slapping comeback with Aster's partner-in-crime Erica Silver to spill so much tea (Trust me, so much tea).  Erica confesses her sins of calling herself feminist while being choked in bed by dom daddies, voting for democrats while fucking registered republicans, remaining Christian while being a raging bitch, & many more. We also discuss the Clubhouse phenomenon (RIP) and end the episode playing Fuck, Marry, Kill with Erica's various residences. Follow Erica ...

22. Korean & American Queer Culture & Internalized Homophobia

February 18, 2021 11:00 - 1 hour - 50.6 MB

I'm lazy so I'm gonna get right to the point: Rowan's back and we talk about differences between Korean and American queer culture (particularly lesbian), and internalized homophobia (or how much we hate ourselves). To tip it off, we play Fuck, Marry, Kill with Rowan's favorite celestial objects.  If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram! Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube ch...

21. Polyamorous & Pansexual (ft. polypan)

February 04, 2021 03:00 - 1 hour - 43.4 MB

Sit down with our guest, Dolphin, and learn all about polyamory & pansexuality. What is it like to be in multiple relationships AT THE SAME TIME? How do you deal with all the fish in the water if you don't discriminate at all? But wait...she's also a devout 유교걸 (Confucian-girl) who loves coexistence with her not-so-tolerating family. Learn all about how you can be a good Korean girl while also attending dungeon parties. We also briefly touch on what it's like to have ADHD.  If you want to s...

20. #TinderQueen Tragic Stories (Victoria Vicious pt. 2)

January 27, 2021 08:00 - 41 minutes - 28.4 MB

Fuck the gym, and get ready for this ab workout as you follow  #TinderQueen Victoria's instructions on how to cockblock. She opens her vault of  stories of horny men all around the world, encountered online and offline. Trust me, you don't want to miss this. We also tackle the question of not feeling Asian enough, and play Fuck, Marry, Kill, & Save with Tinder, Hinge, CofeeMeetsBagel, and Bumble. If you're trying to warm up to the world of online dating, make sure you listen to the end!     ...

19. When Your Friend Changes Genders (Victoria Vicious pt. 1)

January 20, 2021 18:00 - 51 minutes - 35.6 MB

What do you do if your friend changes genders? Aster's friend Victoria Vicious has all the answers. As #tinder-queen, Victoria shows off her #trans-ally skills to give advice on how to help your trans friend as they are socially transitioning. Aster also rants about his damned attempts of pretending to be "stealth" in front of his vocal instructor and fucked-up Korean psychiatry as he got diagnosed with more problems.  If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send h...

18. Exhibit A - Straight Guy

January 06, 2021 13:00 - 1 hour - 47.8 MB

To be fully honest with y’all, today’s episode is definitely not the easiest to follow, but we can assure you that the rough journey will totally be worth it. We start with the introduction of our guest, an extremely heterosexual Korean man (Ken can attest to this, so you know it’s true) and we take a very, very sharp turn to talk about Aster’s highschool trauma from a third person’s point of view. Then we talk about Ken’s personal favorite topic — the army. Ken unpacks his excitement and an...

17. Tips for Straight Men: How to Hit on Straight Girls (feat. Gay Woman & Trans Guy)

December 22, 2020 12:00 - 1 hour - 47.1 MB

Who says only straight men can date "straight" women? Sometimes, the queers do it better. In this episode, trans guy Aster invites gay girl Rowan to give tips to straight men on how to hit on straight women successfully. Before we dive into these absolutely practical pieces of advice, Aster touches on Elliot Page's coming out, the similarities between Corona and STD testings, and his unrequited love for his therapist.  If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send h...

16. ATTEN~TION!

December 01, 2020 15:00 - 52 minutes - 35.9 MB

Our dear boy Kenneth is going off to the military, so we decided to dedicate an episode to him (finally, after all that talk about Aster). We delve deep into his biggest fears (and fantasies) being surrounded by cishet men, his question of to-come-out-or-not-to-come-out, & his overall feelings about this process.  WARNING: This is not his last episode, so stay tuned in  for our following episodes, Gaysians! If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on i...

15. Single Since Birth pt. 2 How to escape singlehood 모태쏠로 특집

November 24, 2020 13:00 - 40 minutes - 27.8 MB

Our SinBs hit the studio again, but this time with advice on how to escape singlehood. So here are pieces of advice that you should follow that they all haven't followed (or have tried to follow but failed). Stay tuned in to keep up with Fun, Marry, & Save with our holy SinBs till the end!   Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

14. Single Since Birth pt. 1 모태쏠로 특집

November 10, 2020 14:00 - 1 hour - 44.5 MB

Isn’t it depressing that a 23-year old has never been in a relationship? Well, most Koreans will sure think so - but we are here today to prove you wrong. To prove to you that the lives of SinBs (Single-since-births) are more full-of-love than they look, we have invited two other SinB guests who will share their life stories along with our own SinB, Ken. In our first episode about SinBs, they will be talking about how they have managed to stay single until now and will prove you wrong if you...

13. How to Survive Family Holidays 101

October 28, 2020 14:00 - 57 minutes - 39.8 MB

It’s nearing end of October, and so we celebrate the creation of gay culture as we know it: Hocus Pocus and Mariah’s Christmas carol. But if you’re a gaysian, all that is probably behind you since we got to prepare for the deadliest, most stressful time of our lives - Thanksgiving. It is the holiday of family gathering with all our dear relatives paired with their loving advices. Well we will first talk about what we really think about these family gatherings (spoiler alert, we don’t like th...

12. Do All Suicide Survivors Think the Same? (Aster's Jubilee Review)

October 13, 2020 15:00 - 1 hour - 41.5 MB

TW: Suicide, mental health issues, depression, and anxiety. This episode, we have quite a lengthy introduction - we give you the explanation on our hiatus since we owe that to you guys and we have a little bit of fun by critiquing Call Me By Your Name with our vast literature-art knowledge. And with that, you probably can somewhat guess that this episode, we delve back into the past to celebrate the anniversary of a video - Jubilee’s video on suicide featuring Aster. We will be reflecting on...

11. Post Top-Surgery & Body Image

September 22, 2020 13:00 - 1 hour - 41.8 MB

What’s the recurring theme of our podcast? I mean there is a lot, but the big one is STD: Sexuality, Trauma, and Depression. And this episode sort of brings all those together. You will be hearing from Aster first how his top-surgery went (and he will also give out some very useful advice to anyone considering it as well). Then you will get to listen to our possibly the smoothest transition yet so far to the next topic of body image — with story of both body dysphoria and body dysmorphia, th...

11. Post Top-Surgery & Body Image

September 22, 2020 13:00 - 1 hour - 41.8 MB

What’s the recurring theme of our podcast? I mean there is a lot, but the big one is STD: Sexuality, Trauma, and Depression. And this episode sort of brings all those together. You will be hearing from Aster first how his top-surgery went (and he will also give out some very useful advice to anyone considering it as well). Then you will get to listen to our possibly the smoothest transition yet so far to the next topic of body image — with story of both body dysphoria and body dysmorphia, th...

10. Yaoi & Boys Love

September 15, 2020 15:00 - 1 hour - 44 MB

We are already at our 10th episode!! And what better way to celebrate it than with an exclusive episode about all stuff yaoi and BL featuring a special guest? With the help of our former Yaoi manga translator, we talk about the different types of bl involving bears and twinks, obviously some anal sex involving pregnancy, and try to understand what the f*ck a cake-verse entails. Our primary goal, as it always has been, is to ~educate~ our audience so by the end of this week’s episode, you’ll ...

9. How to Come Out to Your (Asian) Family

September 08, 2020 14:00 - 57 minutes - 39.7 MB

We’ve gone over so many topics in this podcast non-stop talking about the Gaysian Lifestyle™. But we’ve yet to cover possibly the most relevant and definitely the most traumatic one yet -- coming out to your (Asian) family. This episode, we become your wiki how and tell you step by step (with maybe too much detail) on how to actually make the best out of a dreadful event. Then we compare having to come out as gay vs. transgender and talk about how to continue to conversation post-coming out ...

8. How to Finesse K-Pop Fuckboys & Movie Stars

September 01, 2020 15:00 - 1 hour - 42.4 MB

Holy f*cking mother of god — that’s what you’ll be screaming when you finish listening to this week’s episode. For this episode, we have invited a guest who will talk about her scandalous (wink) life: from a K-Pop fuckboy’s ever-returning love for her to a once-in-a-lifetime experience with a movie star. She also gives some blowjob tips and we all get a little bit personal with our history of eating disorders. And then as if nothing had happened, we fuck, marry, and kill bananas, eggplants, ...

8. How to Finesse K-Pop Fuckboys & Movie Stars

September 01, 2020 15:00 - 1 hour - 42.4 MB

Holy f*cking mother of god — that’s what you’ll be screaming when you finish listening to this week’s episode. For this episode, we have invited a guest who will talk about her scandalous (wink) life: from a K-Pop fuckboy’s ever-returning love for her to a once-in-a-lifetime experience with a movie star. She also gives some blowjob tips and we all get a little bit personal with our history of eating disorders. And then as if nothing had happened, we fuck, marry, and kill bananas, eggplants, ...

7. Before Shit Went Down (Pre-Top Surgery)

August 26, 2020 12:00 - 56 minutes - 39 MB

Sit with us in this very special episode as we talk about all things Aster -- more specifically Aster’s top surgery. Before he goes into his top surgery, we’ll get to learn what top surgery really entails, how he feels, and what took him to get here. There’s going to be a whole lot of anxiety-coping-laughters, a shit load of more traumatic stories, and possibly a few drops of tears. After this week’s very special episode, we’ll see you guys again next week with another special episode with a...

6. For Straight People Pt.2: Queer Terms & Slangs

August 11, 2020 14:00 - 57 minutes - 39.5 MB

Were you ever confused when your friend said ‘That twink is so cute’? And then you tried to figure out if ‘that twink’ was that hulking tattooed guy, the long-haired girl, or the thin barista? Well we are finally here to teach you some queer lingo so that you’ll get the full tea when your friend says “Did you hear about the mtf girl dating that kinsey-level 3 twink with an Onlyfans page?” And speaking of tea, hear us spill some scalding hot tea as submitted by our listeners and fuck, marry, ...

5. Our Coming Out Story (the ~trauma~ never ends pt.2)

August 04, 2020 07:00 - 46 minutes - 32 MB

Surprise! The T pot isn’t fully empty yet. this episode we talk about something that all gays have to do (unless you are a homophobic politician) -- yes, we are talking about coming out. We start with some very early sexual awakening (involving THREE guys) and then move onto some more traumatic story. Prepare some tissue because you definitely will be crying (either from laughing too hard or empathizing). And as always, stay around as we try to fuck, marry, and kill some more bodily fluids. ...