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From The Bachelor To The Burbs

36 episodes - English - Latest episode: almost 3 years ago - ★★★★★ - 106 ratings

Have you been a Bachelor and Bachelorette fan since the beginning? If so, you might remember me, Jen Schefft, one of the show’s original stars. I “won” the proposal from The Bachelor Andrew Firestone on season 3 of the infamous ABC television series, that relationship ultimately ended, but I was given another chance at finding love as The Bachelorette - and I was the first Bachelor or Bachelorette star in the show’s history not to make a match! The backlash I experienced led to me writing a book, Better Single Than Sorry: A No-Regrets Guide to Loving Yourself and Never Settling.

After leaving the limelight, I DID find love, and married Joe Waterman, who I met on a blind date. We left Chicago after close to 20 years, and settled into an adorable little Ohio suburb outside of Cleveland with our two daughters, Mae and Charlotte.

From The Bachelor To The Burbs chronicles my life as it is now - a relatable 44-year-old suburban wife and mother of 2, dealing with all the joys and struggles that come life’s way. From chatting about the Bachelor and my incredible experiences on the show to commiserating about the highs and lows that come with marriage, parenting, working, health, beauty and aging - you won’t want to miss it!

Will you accept this rose, and join me on this journey?

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Episodes

Ep. 35 - The Focus Within

July 06, 2021 13:05 - 37 minutes - 30 MB

I’m joined by fellow podcaster Angela Marie, certified health coach and founder of The Focus Within, who shares how a devastating cancer diagnosis led her to focus on the mind-body connection. She has an incredible story and you won’t want to miss it! Special thanks to Podcorn for sponsoring this episode. Explore sponsorship opportunities and start monetizing your podcast by signing up here: https://podcorn.com/podcasters/

Ep. 34 - Britney Spears and the Price of Fame

June 28, 2021 14:18 - 42 minutes - 34.4 MB

Are you as riveted by the latest Britney Spears news as I am? My gal Stephanie Llewellyn sits down with me to talk about Britney’s conservatorship and her desire to be free. We also talk about fame and what fame can do to a person...which is something I happen to know a little bit about. Make sure to listen!

Ep. 33 - Jen & Joe

June 21, 2021 13:05 - 38 minutes - 30.5 MB

Today, I’m chatting with my husband Joe, or as some like to call him, the winner of my season of the Bachelorette. We talk about how we met, having two daughters, what it’s like being married to me, his podcast - The Market Makers Club - plus so much more. Make sure to check us out!

Ep. 32 - Left On Read

June 14, 2021 14:36 - 44 minutes - 35.9 MB

My friend Jenny, who has been on with me before, joins me in this entertaining episode where we talk all things ‘suburban mom.’ We break down our HOA board, substitute teaching, the new thong bikini trend, Chris Harrison leaving The Bachelor, mean reviews of my podcast, puberty and so much more. This is a fun one!

Ep. 31 - The Teen Life Coach

June 08, 2021 00:06 - 40 minutes - 32.8 MB

Today I’m joined by Michelle Marie King, Founder & CEO of Positive Presence Global, a life-coaching service for teens and young adults. Michelle has an incredible story herself and has made it her mission to help teens navigate this crazy world we live in. If you are a parent of a pre-teen or teenager, you really won’t want to miss this one!

Ep. 30 - Skin Care 101

May 31, 2021 14:03 - 40 minutes - 32.6 MB

Do you know how to best take care of your skin? Don’t we all want to age gracefully and slow down the aging process? I’m joined by Heather Hallen, managing esthetician at NEOSkin Center in Hudson, Ohio, who is here to help. We discuss all sorts of skin care concerns including anti-aging, rosacea, melasma, teen and adult acne, facials and much more. Make sure to tune in!

Ep. 29 - Surviving The Race

May 24, 2021 21:01 - 24 minutes - 19.8 MB

Are you a Survivor fan? If so, you probably remember my guest, Eliza Orlins. She was a two-time castaway on Survivor and also appeared in The Amazing Race. Her real job, however, is a pretty big deal. She’s a Manhattan public defender who is now running for Manhattan District Attorney, with a platform designed to transform criminal justice and make New York safer for everyone. Don’t miss this one!

Ep. 28 - Getting Crafty with Kristin Gambaccini

May 17, 2021 16:01 - 1 hour - 52.2 MB

Today I’m joined my Kristin Gambaccini, author of a new book called Crafty Family Ideas, who describes herself as an “average mom of 8 that can cook a mean homemade-ish dinner and bake cookies like a Bad Mama Jama.” She’s a hilarious DIY’ing wunderkind who has all sorts of fun ideas to help moms like you and me. Tune in to hear all about her!

Ep. 27 - Talking (and Laughing) with Tom Kelly

May 10, 2021 13:50 - 1 hour - 55.6 MB

Today, I'm joined by comedian and fellow podcast host, Tom Kelly (tomkellyshow.com). We dive into his latest escapades as he navigates his stand-up comedy career amid the pandemic. To say he's hilarious is an understatement. I'm not sure how else to summarize this episode except to say that it is funny, and I promise you will laugh as much as I did. Don't miss it!

Ep. 26 - Bachelor Talk with MJ Snyder

May 04, 2021 02:47 - 59 minutes - 47.7 MB

The beautiful and bold MJ Snyder is with me this week, dishing about her time as a contestant on the latest season of The Bachelor with Matt James. We talk about her experiences on the controversial season, get some behind-the-scenes scoop on how editing can mislead the viewers, and find out what she's up to now. Don't miss it!

Ep. 25 - Dealing With Infertility

April 26, 2021 12:57 - 37 minutes - 30.3 MB

Did you know 1 in 8 struggle with conceiving a child, while 1 in 4 suffer a miscarriage or a loss? I’m joined by International Fertility Coach, Elizabeth King, who explains her mission to help men and women navigate infertility. She describes how she helps to ensure people do not feel alone or isolated if or when it’s happening to them. You won’t want to miss it.

Ep. 24 - It's Breast Cancer

April 19, 2021 15:45 - 50 minutes - 40.8 MB

“It’s breast cancer” are three words no one wants to hear. My guest and one of my dearest friends, Erin Henkel, was 35-years-old and a new mom when she was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer in 2016. I was watching her two young daughters when the doctor said those exact three words to her and her life turned upside down. Erin shares how she fought this terrible disease with grace and determination. She’s definitely one of the strongest people I know, and I can’t wait for you to hear her st...

Ep. 23 - Mrs. Universe

April 12, 2021 16:06 - 39 minutes - 31.7 MB

Today I’m joined by Shannon Ford, a fellow contestant from my season of The Bachelor, and the current Mrs. Universe. We give lots of scoop on our not-so-great experiences on the show, what she’s up to now and how she won the Mrs. Universe crown. It’s a fun one, so make sure to tune in!

Ep. 22 - The Unbalanced Paddleboarder

April 05, 2021 12:00 - 34 minutes - 27.7 MB

My guest this episode is an incredible inspiration. Mike Shoreman tells me how he went from being a professional paddleboarding coach to developing a neurological condition which caused his face to collapse and lose his sense of balance. He shares how he fought the odds and let’s us know we’re all capable of doing amazing things. His book, "Diaries of The Unbalanced Paddleboarder: Crash and Rise", is a can’t miss....just like this episode!

Ep. 21 - Getting It Together

March 29, 2021 13:18 - 43 minutes - 34.7 MB

Today I’m joined by Angela Altier, personal trainer and health and fitness expert. I also brought my friend Jenny Spitalieri along to chat with Angela and ask all the right questions. We talk about ways to stay motivated, the 3 exercises that everyone needs to do, eating real foods and so much more!

Ep. 20 - Dishing with DeAnna

March 22, 2021 17:09 - 35 minutes - 28.4 MB

If you’re a fan of The Bachelor franchise, you know DeAnna Stagliano. She was the next Bachelorette after me, but we didn’t officially meet until recording this podcast. She is just as lovely and sweet as you think and hope she’d be. We talk about her experiences as the Bachelorette, what she’s up to now and give our thoughts on the latest controversy. Make sure to tune in!

Ep. 19 - If You’re Arguing With An 8-year-old, You’ve Already Lost

March 15, 2021 19:42 - 46 minutes - 37.3 MB

If you’re anything like me, your kids can test your patience. How can I get them to listen and have a more peaceful household? To help answer this, I’m joined by behavioral therapist Brittany LaCava, founder of Two Things Consult Services, who shares her tips on navigating challenging behavior and teaches us how to shift our mindset to get the results we want. Don’t miss it!

Ep. 18 - Why This, Why Now?

March 08, 2021 15:25 - 37 minutes - 34 MB

Why am I doing a podcast now, after all this time away from the spotlight? I get asked this question often, so I brought my friend Stephanie Llewellyn along to help me break it down for you. We dive into what I’ve gone through over the last few years--including a big move and illness--and preview what’s to come on future episodes. I am guessing a lot of you will be able to relate to this one! Don’t miss it.

Ep. 17 - My Kind Of Town...Chicago

March 01, 2021 15:23 - 1 hour - 56.7 MB

This was a fun episode for me to record. Three friends and I (along with some champagne) break down lots of interesting topics - from dating in the city and freezing eggs to Britney Spears and bonding over our shared love of the best city in the world, Chicago...nothing was off limits. Make sure to tune in!

Ep. 16 - Bachelor Bygones

February 22, 2021 14:56 - 51 minutes - 41.5 MB

I couldn’t be more excited to share this episode with you. I’m joined by the lovely Kirsten (Buschbacher) Aires, who was the runner-up on my season of The Bachelor. At the time, the two of us were portrayed as polar opposites; she, the hot, vixen-type who didn’t play well with the other women, while I was billed as the nice, motherly (aka plain) girl-next-door. As we all know, appearances aren’t always what they seem. Close to 20 years has passed, and who you are in your 20’s is not who you b...

Ep. 15 - Flipping The Script with Kate Casey

February 15, 2021 20:39 - 1 hour - 55.2 MB

This week, I'm joined by the amazing Kate Casey, host of the podcast "Reality Life with Kate Casey" (and mother of 5!), to discuss her love of unscripted television. We chat about her watchlist of unscripted TV shows, including the latest Britney Spears documentary, as well as her recent Southern Charm/ARod scoop. Kate then turns the tables on me, and we talk about what she remembers from my seasons of The Bachelor and The Bachelorette. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did!

Ep. 14 - Dr. Bedrick, Part 2: Body Sculpting!

February 08, 2021 14:31 - 48 minutes - 44.3 MB

Back by popular demand is Dr. Tricia Bedrick, aesthetic physician and owner of NEOSkin Center in Hudson, Ohio. After giving us the low down on Botox and filler in episode 9 (“But First, Botox”),  Dr. Bedrick is back and talking about the latest and greatest non-surgical body sculpting procedures CoolSculpting, Emsculpt and Exilis. We also go deeper into ZO Skin Health, medical grade skin care products that work wonders. Make sure to tune in!   

Ep. 13 - Getting Real with Reality Steve

February 01, 2021 14:58 - 1 hour - 61.6 MB

If you love The Bachelor and The Bachelorette, you KNOW Reality Steve, and I’m so excited to have him as a guest on this episode. We both got our start in reality TV at the same time, so it was fun to reminisce about the Bachelor franchise and how much it has evolved over the years. I loved hearing his insight and learning about the inside scoop on how he does what he does, and so will you. Make sure to tune in!   

Ep. 12 - Champagne, Yachts, and Moira Rose

January 25, 2021 14:23 - 49 minutes - 40 MB

This week I’m joined by some of my hilarious, suburban-mom girlfriends. We discuss everything from their burning Bachelor and Bachelorette questions to parenting, boating, and Schitt’s Creek. We added champagne and things got extra fun! 

Ep. 11 - Better Single Than Sorry

January 18, 2021 17:44 - 45 minutes - 41.9 MB

Years ago, I wrote a book called, “Better Single Than Sorry - A No Regrets Guide To Loving Yourself And Never Settling.” On this week’s episode, I revisit this time in my life with my friend, @stephllewellyn as we talk about why I wrote the book, single life struggles of today vs. back then, and re-reading my book through a different lens. You will definitely want to listen to this one! 

Ep. 10 - I'm Here For The Right Reasons

January 11, 2021 20:35 - 39 minutes - 36.6 MB

In this episode I’m joined by my friend, social media influencer and owner of The Social Vine, Stephanie Llewellyn. For the first time in many years, I watched the season premiere of The Bachelor with Matt James. We break it all down for you with a behind-the-scenes look at what really goes down that first night. We talk about how much things have changed, yet stayed the same (think buzz words like “journey” and being there “for the right reasons”) since my time on the show. If you like the B...

Ep. 9 - But First, Botox

January 04, 2021 15:10 - 42 minutes - 38.6 MB

In this episode, I’m joined by my boss, Dr. Tricia Bedrick, aesthetic physician and owner of NEOSkin Center (a medical spa) in Hudson, Ohio. Dr. Bedrick talks about how we age and explains what we can do medically to slow down the process. We discuss her start in aesthetics, why she is so passionate about the industry and dive into what you can expect from your first med spa appointment. We chat all about Botox (I’m a  big fan!), medical grade skin care products and laser treatments. If you'r...

Ep. 8 - The One With The Friend

December 28, 2020 16:00 - 42 minutes - 33.8 MB

On this episode, I’m so excited to be joined by one of my oldest and dearest friends, Julie Stacey. She and I have been friends for years, and she was there for all of my Bachelor & Bachelorette adventures. We talk about everything from our sorority days at Ohio University, our 6 degrees of Kevin Bacon and meeting “Smith Jerrod,” to homeschooling, kids basketball, and sibling rivalry. Don’t miss it!

Ep. 7 - Meet The Watermans!

December 21, 2020 23:11 - 1 hour - 55 MB

  I’m trying something new this week. I’m joined by my husband Joe and our two daughters, Mae and Charlotte. To say I was nervous is an understatement. All I can say is that it didn’t go quite as planned, as is pretty much the case when you put an especially chatty 8-year-old in front of a microphone. I debated whether or not to whittle this down and make it sharper and more cohesive, but I decided to leave it as is. It’s unedited and unpolished....but that’s just how things go, especially t...

Ep. 6 - The Ladies Tell All

December 14, 2020 22:38 - 46 minutes - 42.7 MB

In this episode, I’m so excited to be joined by two lovely ladies from my season of The Bachelor, Anne-Michelle Barrett and Tina McRae (or as we called we her, Tina from Tennessee). Hear how they each landed on show, what their “journey” was like, and how much the show has changed since the early days. We give you lots of behind the scenes scoop - everything from our initial impressions on the first night to heavily edited exit interviews, it’s a can’t miss! 

Ep. 5 - Plain Jane Jen

December 08, 2020 02:12 - 45 minutes - 41.6 MB

I’m back with Brian, who describes how he first came to know of me years ago - through the runner-up from my Bachelor season and how she couldn’t believe she “lost” to plain old me. I explain why I haven’t participated in past Bachelor and Bachelorette related events throughout the years, and much more. Make sure you tune in! 

Ep. 4 - Will You Accept This...Condo?

December 01, 2020 00:52 - 37 minutes - 34.5 MB

I’m back with Brian chatting about our new quest to get me on Dancing with the Stars, The Bachelor’s longevity, and how many (many!) times I’ve been proposed to. We also talk about my girls and their YouTube aspirations, and I answer an oft asked question: What did I do with the ring? This is a must listen!

Ep. 3 - Dating Differences And Media Challenges

November 23, 2020 22:23 - 41 minutes - 38.1 MB

In this episode, Brian and I dig into my anxiety about media appearances, answer a listener’s question about the aftermath of my time on the Bachelor, and break down my recent guest spot on Brian’s Great Love Debate. We chat about my past dating habits and how I could never, ever survive in today’s dating world. It’s a can’t miss!  

Ep. 2 - One Crazy Week

November 16, 2020 01:00 - 36 minutes - 33.4 MB

Check out my latest show, where I’m once again joined by my favorite producer Brian Howie. We talk about Bachelorette text chains, the reality of reality TV, my daughter's birthday, family drama, and much, much more. Plus, we preview my appearance on The Great Love Debate!

Ep. 1 - Am I Ready To Do This?

November 09, 2020 00:22 - 37 minutes - 34.3 MB

Tune in to my very first episode, where I’m joined by my producer and friend Brian Howie. Brian helps me along as I try out this podcasting thing. We chat about my time on The Bachelor and The Bachelorette - and give you lots of behind-the-scenes scoop. Hear what I’ve been up to since the show, and get a taste of what else I’ve got up my sleeve! 

Let's Go...From The Bachelor To The Burbs!

October 14, 2020 15:39 - 1 minute - 1.25 MB

A sneak peek at what's ahead on From The Bachelor To The Burbs!