Steena Marie just finished reading my memoir, my 20th book that was published in 2020. She only cried 5 times while reading the book. Steena is my biz bestie and best friend. We talk 2-3 times a day. Some days she talks to me more than her own partner. As she was reading, Steena was actually finding stories she didn't know about me. She saw similarities between both of our first marriages and how we needed to do so much processing before bringing things to our partners, rather than processing with them. We were constantly doing our best, not to trigger our spouses.