Fleekazoid
36 episodes - English - Latest episode: 5 months ago - ★★★★★ - 166 ratingsTopics on life, dating, scams, created by Fleeksie, inspired by current events, your questions and requests on Fleeksies social media accounts.
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Hate is heavy to live with: when you cant stop ruminating
November 27, 2023 21:56 - 23 minutes - 21.2 MBListen to this when you can't get over how much you hate a person, place or thing and want to take your mind back.
Re-Romanticizing your life: yeah, it's gonna take a few tries.
June 12, 2023 05:11 - 28 minutes - 25.8 MBRe-romanticizing is the name we’re going with today because this shit is a life practice that never stops. Today’s topic covers 11 talking points of how to treat it like one. Whether you arrived at this place from heartbreak, job woes, toxic circles and surroundings, or just pure ennui. This is for embracing inner, outer, audible and tangible change.
When they wont let you move on
June 01, 2023 04:11 - 14 minutes - 13.2 MBNothing I say can ever prepare you for the logic that will inevitably fly out the window if you feel even a slither of emotion for someone you’re trying to move on from. Let’s start there. However, I am not going to make you feel bad about it. Here’s my indepth thoughts on how to deal, heal and self talk when you’re dealing with a man who won’t let you move on.
Deciding who you are after the breakup: Alone at last
November 21, 2022 05:14 - 17 minutes - 16.2 MBSo you went through a breakup. Now what? Well, it’s time to decide who you are (you know, after you peel away from all the parts of you that you became while dating that person). No, this isn’t a long episode about how you need to “just love yourself”. Infact, I didn’t even say that phrase once in the entire episode. This is for anyone who is grappling with all the little things. Like, do you stay friends with their friends? Do you go back to the girl friends they dubbed as “hoes”? And all ...
When you just dont want to move on - but how to get there
October 07, 2022 11:00 - 25 minutes - 17.6 MBYou don’t want to move on, but everyone around you is telling you it’s been time to. And yet, here we are. I’m not here to shame you, because I’ve been you. Outer circle of people begging me to move on and all. Here’s an understanding take on how to move on when you secretly don’t want too, and what it takes to get you to that place. https://www.patreon.com/fleeksie
Ghosting: Why they do it, How to deal with it and Bounce back
October 03, 2022 12:00 - 26 minutes - 18.1 MBThe infamous topic of ghosting has arrived. Ghosting sucks and you’re totally normal for being affected by it. In today’s episode, I attempt to address the need for feedback, closure, answers, an apology, and how to make sense of it all and bounce back when you’re sitting in the feeling of rejection. I also talk about the types of ghosters, reasons they do it, and how it’s not your job to make them unghost you.
Stop identifying with the anger and pain of a unfortunate moment, bad event, and separation
September 21, 2022 15:17 - 21 minutes - 15.1 MBIn today's episode we discuss making an identity out of pain and how we end up letting moments of rejection, separation or unfortunate situations unnecessarily define us. How this can be harmful to us, why we shouldn't do it, and allowing ourselves to move forward with self forgiveness and fluidity. This is discussed in relation to breakups, losing jobs, and any jarring life event that feels like we'll never be able to let go or move on from. Support the patreon: https://www.patreon.com/fl...
Audio Version - Moving out for those who never left their parents - A guide on getting your first place/apartment - Video Edition
September 07, 2022 20:52 - 37 minutes - 34.5 MBMoving out of your parents for the first time? This video podcast starts with financial expectations and the general amount to have saved. We discuss moving (getting boxes, moving companies vs task rabbits and renting a van). The topic then expands into requirements to anticipate based on wherever you are applying to move. How to apartment shop online, how to prepare documents to send on your application, and what to expect on your application. We try to cover every little corner and ...
Video Version - Moving out for those who never left their parents - A guide on getting your first place/apartment
September 07, 2022 18:58 - 37 minutes - 34.4 MBMoving out of your parents for the first time? This video podcast starts with financial expectations and the general amount to have saved. We discuss moving (getting boxes, moving companies vs task rabbits and renting a van). The topic then expands into requirements to anticipate based on wherever you are applying to move. How to apartment shop online, how to prepare documents to send on your application, and what to expect on your application. We try to cover every little corner and ...
Moving out for those who never left their parents - A guide on getting your first place/apartment
September 07, 2022 18:58 - 37 minutes - 34.4 MBMoving out of your parents for the first time? This video podcast starts with financial expectations and the general amount to have saved. We discuss moving (getting boxes, moving companies vs task rabbits and renting a van). The topic then expands into requirements to anticipate based on wherever you are applying to move. How to apartment shop online, how to prepare documents to send on your application, and what to expect on your application. We try to cover every little corner and ...
How to know you are in a situationship
September 03, 2022 12:00 - 25 minutes - 23.3 MBYou might not even realize you're in one. You might be thinking "he said he likes me" or "he said he loves me", and you might think that situationships are only for the people in one sided dynamics. Well my friend, I'm here to expand your view. I'm also here to explain how situationships exist on a plane of emotional ab**se. Today's episode is also packed with advice as well.
Why I don't like dating apps
August 15, 2022 12:00 - 16 minutes - 11.6 MBSo many reasons to dislike them, where does a girl even start? Today's episode is a rant styled list of reasons of why I dislike dating apps and have discontinued my use of them.
Situationships end when you stop asking how they feel and start asking how you feel
August 11, 2022 16:05 - 25 minutes - 17.4 MBIn today's episode, we talk about how we find ourselves in situationships. How they thrive under our noses, and how we can either push them forward or keep it pushing all together. The main theme: it's not about how they feel about you, it's about how you feel about you and what you feel like you're worth (which is so much more than a situationship).
Personal upload + Life update: Why I'm not giving weekly/daily updates on my move across the country anymore. (TW: sad)
August 02, 2022 16:59 - 9 minutes - 8.74 MBI'm sorry for the bad vibes in this release and how out of line it is with everything else I've uploaded on this podcast until now, I don't know where else all my followers watch and listen to my stuff in one place where they can catch it in live time because of the algorithms on tiktok, ig, twitter. I just want everyone to be on one page so I don't have to constantly repeat myself in live time on my live streams or on twitter. I'm also sorry to my family, I know I make life harder for every...
Having expensive energy and protecting yourself from energy vampires
July 30, 2022 18:04 - 23 minutes - 16.4 MBNo, we're not just talking about a dollar value and who you date. This is about the intrinsic value of your time and mental energy and being intentional with it across the board of whoever you deal with, and how to recognize when it's being drained or even exploited. This is meant to hype you up to gtf away from these mofo's, or to atleast set boundaries with them. It's also me voicing my frustrations to a certain degree. Yeah, sorry about that in advance.
The "need" behind the meaning (recognizing your needs)
July 29, 2022 11:03 - 17 minutes - 12 MBThat tense, heightened, intense feeling that makes you wonder if you're crazy? Yeah, that’s your needs and emotions demanding to be recognized. Today we break it down, and talk about how you can recognize yours.
Cut throat attitude towards disrespectful people (negging and flaw exploiters)
July 02, 2022 18:06 - 24 minutes - 16.5 MBWhat they said was kinda mean, but that’s just how they are… SIKE! They’re a**holes. Today’s episode is talking about negging, and people who use flaw finding and flaw exploiting as a conversational device. This addresses a range of people, i.e; those who you just met, long term relationships, friendships, and co workers. Why you should shut that sh*t down, and let it burnnnnnn (the connection that is). Because you shouldn't have to gaslight yourself another second longer. It's not normal, c...
If you love them let them go (real talk)
June 23, 2022 17:53 - 15 minutes - 10.8 MBOk, literally *everyone* says this. But seriously, a large part of moving on is acceptance, and today’s episode is a walk down the brutal streets of acceptance lane. Why leaving someone alone who doesn’t want you in their life is the nicest thing you can do for them, and why you can’t love another person into loving you back.
Being a Doomer (why you should stop)
June 15, 2022 17:15 - 49 minutes - 34.2 MBIt’s a trying *ss time to be a positive person. Is this what living through history feels like? Today we’re talking about spiraling into a doom mindset and being a doomer. Making doom your identity and the center of all your conversations (without dismissing the times).
Girl where have you been? A personal upload
May 19, 2022 12:00 - 14 minutes - 10.2 MBToday's episode is answering FAQ and is a pre-episode as an intro to season 2 of the Fleekazoid podcast. We discuss where I've been, where I'd like to go, and give an update on my personal life (trigger warning: scorpio mention jump scare alert). The purpose is to set the mood for what's to come and to provide background context and personal notes behind the episodes and my content.
Safety in sugaring - scams, red flags, what to look out for.
May 05, 2022 04:32 - 26 minutes - 14.9 MBThis episode discusses scams, red flags, and things to look for when dating beneficially and sugaring. These are things that cross over into vanilla dating and can be helpful in scenario's outside of just regular sugaring.
Blocking and unblocking: Breaking the cycle
March 06, 2022 19:53 - 42 minutes - 29.1 MBSo you blocked and unblocked him? Maybe you've done this more than once. Maybe you've even done it over the course of years. Whether you did it unprompted or if he resurfaced and elicited you to do it, today's episode is for the girls who are stuck in this pattern, and we talk about how to break it and come to your senses (with love and compassion!).
No man = No value? Why this isn't true.
February 13, 2022 17:02 - 38 minutes - 26.1 MBToday's episode addresses the topic of feeling like we don't have value until a man decides to see it in us by dating, or committing to us. This episode fights back against the idea that you can't have excitement, purpose, and fulfillment in your world without a man in it. Why you CAN have all these things, and how waiting for man to fulfill that role can be codependent and toxic to your sense of self and progress.
Block him and never look back
February 06, 2022 03:12 - 42 minutes - 29.1 MBDebating on if it's time to block that man? Today's episode will push you over that cliff you're staring down. But first, two personal story times by Fleeksie! One based off a man from a previous podcast episode (Limerence and emotional dysregulation ft. the felon) and a second story time that inspired this episode specifically. This is meant to motivate you to stop holding out false hope that THAT man will ever change (spoiler alert - he wont) and to slam that door on his face once and for ...
Defining "dusty": What even is a dusty?
February 04, 2022 15:00 - 56 minutes - 39.1 MBThe word dusty gets thrown around so often, but what does it even mean? It seems like the ultimate insult, but is it an actual archetype? Today's episode defines dusty in the way fleeksie uses it and the ways it can be embodied by a man. We also discuss how these various embodiments of a dusty can affect your life, and what you should watch out for if you are dealing with this type of individual. We also discuss why it is so much more than a man who is just broke or 50/50 minded, and how you...
Emotionally unavailable men
January 13, 2022 17:59 - 36 minutes - 25.3 MBToday's episode discusses emotional unavailability in dating! How it can be socially ingrained, and why it's not your job to make a man who's emotionally unavailable, to available.
Confidence: why you should be feral and ruthless
January 06, 2022 07:22 - 42 minutes - 39 MBIn todays episode, we discuss why you should operate ruthlessly in favor of yourself and make it everyone else's problem! How this mindset plays into dating, self validation, and sense of self worth. We also discuss being judged, how you will never be able to avoid it, and why trying to mitigate and minimize judgement from outsiders is a band aid on an issue that will never go away.
Confidence: where does yours come from?
December 27, 2021 18:49 - 37 minutes - 26.1 MBToday's episode addresses the highly sought out question of "Where did you get so much confidence?". We discuss misconceptions of confidence and self esteem, knowing who you are, defining yourself, and addressing the topic of putting yourself online on a social media platform when you have people in your sphere who might judge you for it. We discuss why those people are wrong and stupid, and why you should cut them all off! This episode also shares a small story time of fleeksie's upbringing...
Can men ever do anything with good intentions?
December 24, 2021 16:51 - 1 hour - 56.5 MBHas a man ever seemed like they were doing something kind, thoughtful, and in your favor, only for you to find out it was an action that secretly benefited him? Or worse, was being done to facilitate a false sense of trust, closeness, or to make himself seem more likable than he actually is? Today's episode details a list of actions men engage in that have secret hidden intentions that are gross, lame, or outright manipulative. Throughout each point, the questions are asked: why do they do ...
Entitled Trifling Dusties
December 03, 2021 19:16 - 46 minutes - 31.7 MBEver wondered if the man you're entertaining on a dating app is a dusty minded man who's entitled, before deciding to meet him? Today's episode looks at tell tale signs and nuances that give away when a man is approaching you with a self serving attitude, who could potentially be a thirsty MF who will try your life (online and in person). This episode is inspired by and recounts a story time with an entitled dusty fleeksie met up with, a week before this podcast was recorded, and another ent...
Limerence, Emotional Dysregulation, Post Vaccination Desperation & Fleeksie's Love after Lockup Experience
November 23, 2021 15:33 - 1 hour - 53.2 MBToday's episode takes a look at what it means to be "love drunk", or rather, the psychological terms for it, being limerent or even emotionally dysregulated. Defining both, how to manage if you deal with these things, and how these aspects of ourselves play into post vaccination desperation. Then, a personal story time of Fleeksie's experience dating a felon in her own post vaccination desperation episode (for comedic relief and a lesson in dating).
2021 Ninja Dusties - avoiding covert manipulators
August 24, 2021 12:54 - 1 hour - 65 MBTodays podcast is about the dusties of 2021. This episode is inspired and based on a very recent story time of a 25 year old, 5'7, self proclaimed money having man, who feigned to be things such as a "provider and protector" to speed run getting me (fleeksie) into the sheets, days before this was recorded. This is also an educational break down of the 2021 dusties who are learning tactics from red pill spaces that encourage conning, lying, conspicuous spending, and pretending to be something...
Starting at zero: 16 mindsets and standards to avoid dusty's in dating.
July 01, 2021 00:40 - 49 minutes - 33.7 MBToday's podcast is for the women who are new to having standards. A non sugar themed episode! The themes are centered on scouting out incompetence, behaviors of men who are of dusty-mindset, and on knowing when you are dealing with someone who is not genuinely interested in you. The goal is to empower and normalize dating as a woman for your own benefit and betterment, and to do so with Machiavellian like ruthlessness. To listen to the uncensored version of this podcast, go to the official ...
Why your friends have bad friends
May 02, 2021 13:03 - 20 minutes - 13.8 MBThis podcast episode focuses on friendships. Discussing why those we admire, call our friends, family, and coworkers do not distance themselves from those who are deemed bad by others or by ourselves.
Sugar Bowl Terms & Advice - Sponsors, tricks, mentors & more.
May 02, 2021 04:58 - 24 minutes - 22.9 MBThis podcast episode discusses sugaring terms, and includes advice that will helps those who are new to this world or those looking for affirmation on what they already know.
Michaela Pinks arrest: the allegations and thoughts within the community
May 02, 2021 04:32 - 25 minutes - 17.3 MBThis podcast discusses the allegations made towards Michaela within the sugar community. This attempts to have a fair, balanced, and direct conversation about the events that have transpired. Please do not send any hate to the creator being discussed. This upload is for entertainment and all allegations (as of the date of this upload) are just that, allegations. Since the original upload of this video (2/28/2021) Michaela is on bail and no longer in jail (5/1/2021). original youtube vide...