Find The Right 1 with Eli Schostak
36 episodes - English - Latest episode: 3 months ago - ★★★★★ - 3 ratingsHealthy Dating & Relationship Advice with Relationship Coach Eli Schostak. For more information go to elischostak.com or findtheright1.com
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Episodes
How To Deal With Insecurities In A Relationship
January 15, 2024 18:00 - 15 minutes - 10.7 MBIn this episode, Eli discusses how to deal with insecurities in a relationship. Whether you struggle with jealousy, trust issues, or low self-esteem, do not worry... we all have some of these challenges! These tips will help you overcome your insecurities and have a healthier, happier relationship.
How To Decide Between Attraction vs Connection?
January 09, 2024 02:00 - 19 minutes - 13.7 MBAre you torn between the butterflies in your stomach and the spark in your brain? Then this episode is for you. Eli tackles the age-old question: how do you decide between attraction and connection?
How to Date in the New Year: The Complete Guide
December 27, 2023 18:00 - 10 minutes - 7.24 MBIn this episode, Eli shares everything you need to know about healthy dating in 2024.
What Is The No Contact Rule After A Break Up?
December 18, 2023 17:00 - 9 minutes - 6.78 MBIn this episode, Eli talks about the "no contact" rule after a break up. He discusses whether or not it's beneficial to stick to this rule, and whether or not it works in all cases.
Why typical dating advice fails: Unveiling the truth
December 12, 2023 16:00 - 8 minutes - 5.81 MBIn this episode, Eli reveals the truth behind typical dating advice.
3 Steps To Overcome Relationship Self-Sabotage
December 12, 2023 16:00 - 17 minutes - 12 MBIn this episode , Eli shows you 3 steps to overcome relationship self-sabotage.
Can Rebound Relationships Be Healthy?
December 12, 2023 16:00 - 6 minutes - 4.47 MBIn this episode, Eli explores the question of whether rebound relationships can be healthy. He looks at the various reasons why people might want to rebound and whether or not that's a healthy decision.
What Is Love Bombing?
December 27, 2022 13:00 - 10 minutes - 7.21 MBIn this episode, Eli discusses what love bombing is, how to handle it and why we fall for it.
3 Steps To Get Into A Genuine Relationship
December 14, 2022 22:00 - 6 minutes - 4.59 MBIn this episode, Eli discusses the 3 steps it takes to date and get into a genuine relationship.
How To Stop Self Sabotaging Relationships
October 11, 2022 13:00 - 5 minutes - 3.86 MBIn this episode, Eli discusses how to stop self sabotage when it comes to dating and relationships.
Maybe You Should Grow A Pear!
August 12, 2022 16:00 - 7 minutes - 5.29 MBIn this episode, Eli discusses how "shoulds" create suffering in dating and relationships.
My Ex Is A Narcissist - Now What?
August 07, 2022 16:00 - 12 minutes - 8.54 MBIn this episode, Eli discusses how the words we use to describe our Exes may prevent us from getting into healthy relationships.
Why Are You Still Single?
July 11, 2022 15:00 - 9 minutes - 6.56 MBIn this episode, Eli discusses how this obnoxious question can actually empower you to get into and keep a healthy love relationship.
How To Let Go Of The Ex
June 15, 2022 15:00 - 10 minutes - 7.16 MBIn this episode, Eli discusses how to view "LOVE" differently so it is easier to let go of an ex in your mind.
Are You A Kittenfisher?
June 06, 2022 21:00 - 7 minutes - 5.42 MBIn this episode, Eli discusses what kittenfishing is in regards to dating and what it really says about you if you are one.
Can Celebrity Trials Teach Us About Healthy Dating?
May 19, 2022 22:00 - 12 minutes - 8.34 MBIn this episode, Eli discusses how we can learn about healthy and unhealthy dating from the defamation trial of the century.
How You Treat Someone Is How You Treat Everyone
May 13, 2022 15:00 - 8 minutes - 5.76 MBIn this episode Eli discusses how to tell if you are dating in authentic way.
How To Dream Correctly About A Healthy Relationship
April 20, 2022 22:00 - 9 minutes - 6.6 MBIn this episode, Eli discusses how we often dream incorrectly about getting things to solve our relationship challenges. This way of thinking actually prevents us from getting what we truly want.
How To Deal With Pocketing
April 07, 2022 15:00 - 8 minutes - 5.82 MBIn this episode, Eli discusses how people are getting "Pocketed" in dating and relationships and what to do about it.
Are Healthy Relationships Hard Work?
March 31, 2022 12:00 - 7 minutes - 5.22 MBIn this episode, Eli discusses how our mind's vocabulary impacts our dating and relationships.
Are Your Dating Beliefs Helping Or Hurting You?
March 17, 2022 14:00 - 16 minutes - 11.4 MBIn this episode, Eli discusses how to be aware of your dating beliefs and how shift can help people get into a healthy relationship.
How To Stop Being Negative About Dating
March 07, 2022 02:00 - 9 minutes - 6.23 MBIn this episode Eli discusses how negative thinking contributes to unsuccessful dates and relationships and what you can do to turn that around.
Singles & The Holiday "Have To's"
November 29, 2021 22:00 - 16 minutes - 11.2 MBIn this episode Eli and Tamara discuss how singles get judged often during the holiday season and what empowering things one can do about it.
How To Detect An Online Dating Fake
November 22, 2021 15:00 - 30 minutes - 21.2 MBIn this episode Eli and Tamara discuss how to detect a scammer and what to do when you have.
Celebrity Thoughts On Relationships
November 15, 2021 18:00 - 19 minutes - 13.3 MBIn this episode Eli and Tamara discuss how celebrities can help us learn different views on relationships. Some may help, while others may hurt.
3 Questions For Dating Someone Widowed
November 08, 2021 18:00 - 26 minutes - 17.9 MBIn this episode Eli and Tamara discuss dating someone who is widowed. Getting clear on communication and how one tiny mistake can mess up your online dating profile.
3 Questions For Dating Someone Widowed
November 08, 2021 18:00 - 26 minutes - 17.9 MBIn this episode Eli and Tamara discuss dating someone who is widowed. Getting clear on communication and how one tiny mistake can mess up your online dating profile.
How To Overcome The Fear of Rejection
November 01, 2021 17:00 - 23 minutes - 16.5 MBIn this episode Eli and Tamara discuss the fears of being rejected and how to empower yourself through communication in the world of dating. You will also learn how a toupee gets put on with glue and braids.
How To Overcome The Fear of Rejection
November 01, 2021 17:00 - 23 minutes - 16.5 MBIn this episode Eli and Tamara discuss the fears of being rejected and how to empower yourself through communication in the world of dating. You will also learn how a toupee gets put on with glue and braids.
How To Enjoy Online Dating
October 25, 2021 19:00 - 32 minutes - 22.2 MBIn this episode meet Eli Schostak Founder of Find The Right 1 coaching program for singles looking to get into and keep a healthy relationship and Tamara Elizabeth, online dating specialist discuss how to enjoy dating online.
Why You Stay in Bad Relationships (And How to Break Free)
January 18, 2020 14:00 - 8 minutes - 5.69 MBEver wonder why you stay in a bad relationship even when you know it isn't good for you? You're not alone. In this episode Eli dives into the psychology behind loss aversion, a powerful force that keeps us clinging to what we have, even when it's unhealthy. You'll learn: How loss aversion influences our relationship choices The surprising connection between sunk cost fallacy and unhealthy relationships Why the fear of loss can be stronger than the desire for happiness Practical tips on ove...
Can You Love Someone New And Still Love Your Ex?
January 10, 2020 14:00 - 12 minutes - 8.79 MBEver wondered if you can love someone new while still having feelings for your ex? In this episode Eli dives deep into this complex question, exploring why we get stuck in patterns of thinking that hold us back from finding new happiness. Eli shares insights on how to: Understand the difference between loving someone and being in a healthy relationship Recognize the ego's role in influencing our feelings after a breakup Break free from limiting beliefs about love and relationships Open...
Conquer Your New Year Relationship Goals with Eli and Brooke
January 02, 2020 14:00 - 21 minutes - 14.5 MBIn the New Year, Eli Schostak sits down with his wife Brooke for a special Q&A session! They answer questions about relationships, dating, and overcoming challenges, all while offering their unique perspectives and insights. In this episode, you'll learn about: The difference between resolutions and mindsets: Why setting goals can backfire, and how to shift your mindset for lasting change. Maintaining a healthy relationship: Tips for communication, commitment, and keeping the spark alive,...
Is It Healthy To Want Your Partner To Change?
December 24, 2019 14:00 - 14 minutes - 9.9 MBDo you want to change your partner? Are you hoping they'll become someone else if you just love them enough? Is it ever healthy to want your partner to change? In this episode Eli explores why that approach sets you up for heartache and how radical acceptance can lead to healthier, happier relationships. Learn more at elischostak.com or findtheright1.com
Stop Chasing After Love
December 22, 2019 14:00 - 22 minutes - 15.7 MBChasing after love is not only futile, but it also leads to a lot of pain and disappointment. In this episode Eli discusses how to find love and contentment without getting it from someone else.
How To Get Through The Holidays Single
December 22, 2019 14:00 - 18 minutes - 12.8 MBAre the holidays stressing you out being single? You're not alone! In this episode Eli discusses how to break free from the holiday"have-to's" and reclaim your power to choose.