Family Goals with David Pollack and Pastor J
165 episodes - English - Latest episode: 4 days ago - ★★★★★ - 379 ratingsDavid Pollack, former College GameDay Analyst, and Jonathan Howes, Lead Pastor of Graystone Church, talk about all things God, Family, Marriage, and Sports. Dive in for wisdom, encouragement, fun, and laughter.
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97: 5 Ways to Connect With Your Spouse
April 15, 2024 08:00 - 26 minutesThis is Part 2 of our amazing conversation with marriage counselors and founders of The Marriage Adventure, Daniel and Bonnie Hoover. In this episode, we talk about the 5 ways to connect with your spouse and how to check-in with your spouse. If you haven’t heard part 1, check it out here! Check out https://themarriageadventure.com to find retreats, podcasts, and other resources to help your marriage. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a ...
96: Connecting in Your Marriage with Daniel and Bonnie Hoover
April 08, 2024 08:00 - 22 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor talk with marriage counselors and founders of The Marriage Adventure, Daniel and Bonnie Hoover. This conversation is filled with great advice for all married couples from facing “adventures” to red flags and when to make changes. Tune in for Part 2! Check out https://themarriageadventure.com to find retreats, podcasts, and other resources to help your marriage. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, ...
95: Taking a Stand with Sage Steele
April 01, 2024 08:00 - 39 minutesIn this episode, we continue our conversation with former ESPN anchor, Sage Steele. We hear about her time with ESPN, standing firm on what you think is right, and admiring women’s basketball during this season. If you haven’t heard part 1 “Letting God Take Control”, check it out! This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals
94: Letting God Take Control with Sage Steele
March 25, 2024 08:00 - 25 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J have a conversation with former ESPN anchor, Sage Steele. You will hear about her current season of life, struggles with her divorce, and her choice to “let go” and “let God” work in her life. This is part 1 of the incredible conversation, so tune in for part 2. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals
93: Coaching and Parenting in Kids’ Sports
March 18, 2024 08:00 - 18 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J finish with their advice for the coaches and parents in kids’ sports. We want our kids to learn, be a great teammate, and have a great attitude. Character always trumps performance. How can you be the best coach? How can you encourage your kids as they play in sports? Let’s talk about it. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals
92: Doing Hard Things
March 11, 2024 08:00 - 23 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor talk about marriage and making healthy choices. The best thing your can do for your kids is to have a healthy marriage. The best thing you can do for yourself is doing hard things that will make a better version of you over time. Let’s make great decisions and choose what is best for us and our families. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals
91: Great Marriage, Great Parenting
March 04, 2024 09:00 - 28 minutesIn this episode, we talk about careers, marriage and parenting. What are some basic steps we can take to make our marriages better? How can we be great parents and teach our kids valuable things? Let’s talk about it. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals
90: The Impact of a Simple Invite
February 26, 2024 09:00 - 23 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J bring a challenge to the men and end with a challenge to the Church. Would you say that you are leading your family? that you are standing firm on God’s word? Our challenge as believers is to stand firm on the Truth of God’s word and also be the love of Jesus to everyone. The Gospel is for all. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals
89: White Flags
February 19, 2024 09:00 - 40 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J talk about a recent message from Graystone Church’s Annual Men’s Conference. Pastor Mike Linch from NorthStar Church in Kennesaw, GA shared about white flag moments and our response to them. When moments of doubt, loneliness, or trials come, what we choose to do matters. Let’s talk about it. To listen to Pastor Mike’s message “Finish Strong,” you can watch it here or listen anywhere you stream your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by Compassion Interna...
88: Enduring Through Prayer
February 12, 2024 09:00 - 30 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J talk about the book "Draw The Circle: The 40 Day Prayer Challenge" and what it means to endure through prayer. Prayer is crucial in our walks with God and challenge us to take steps of obedience. If you would like to read this book and deepen your prayer life, you can purchase this book here. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals
87: Deeper Conversations with Your Kids
February 05, 2024 09:00 - 26 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J talk through deeper conversations with your kids that help them set goals, learn the why, and ultimately to strengthen your relationship as their parent. They give many practical steps and encourage all of us to teach our kids how to live for Jesus, live like Jesus, and be the best person they can be. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals
86: Stepping Out of the Boat
January 29, 2024 09:00 - 31 minutesWe are back with Season 6! In this episode, David and Pastor J talk about prayer and how to answer when God asks us to do things. When we’re purposeful in prayer, we’ll find those divine appointments and see God's provision. The book referenced is "Draw the Circle: 40 Days of Prayer" by Mark Batterson. We highly encourage you to purchase the book and step out of the boat! For a free month of Minno, go to https://gominno.com/familymade.
85: Inside the Marriage with Lindsey Pollack and Jennifer Howes
December 11, 2023 09:00 - 42 minutesThe wives are back for our Season 5 finale! This conversation is about good communication in marriage, the importance of Godly friendships, and spending quality time together as a couple. A godly marriage is realizing that God has a higher calling for your marriage than just being happy. Our prayer is that every listener would take steps to ensure their marriage is built on the solid foundation of faith in Jesus Christ and their spouse comes before all other things. For a free month of Minno,...
84: Growing in Grief with Lindsey Pollack and Jennifer Howes
December 04, 2023 09:00 - 40 minutesThe wives are back for another special episode! This conversation continues with grief as both families have lost loved ones this year. We will hear what Jennifer has learned since losing her mother and how the Pollacks are grieving their close friend and supporting the Whitakers in this season. For a free month of Minno, go to https://gominno.com/familymade.
83: While in the Waiting with Lindsey Pollack and Jennifer Howes
November 27, 2023 09:00 - 31 minutesThis is a special episode with the wives, Lindsey Pollack and Jennifer Howes. David and Lindsey speak about their time since David’s layoff from ESPN, their season of waiting, and trusting God in every moment, even when it doesn’t make sense. For a free month of Minno, go to https://gominno.com/familymade.
82: Truly Living by the Word of God
November 20, 2023 09:00 - 29 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J talk about correctly handling God’s word and what it means to be a clean vessel. We want to be used by God and to fulfill His purpose for our lives. Within the process, we must have accountability. Are we truly listening to our convictions? Are we in the Word of God and truly living by it? Are we confessing our sins to God and repenting? There are some great thoughts and challenges within this episode, and we pray God speaks to you. For a free month of Mi...
81: Hard Things Are Necessary
November 13, 2023 09:00 - 30 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J talk about when trials and difficult times come. The reality is that we are all going to face hard things. God is using the fire to refine us into the people He calls us to be.
80: Choosing Eternity Over Sports with Coach Scott Drew
November 06, 2023 09:00 - 51 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J talk with NCAA Baylor Basketball Coach, Scott Drew. This conversation is packed with wisdom for coaches, parenting, and recruiting. Essentially, Coach recognizes the importance of eternity with Jesus, sharing your faith with your kids and players, and being a great leader. We hope you enjoy this conversation as much as we did. Purchase his book “The Road to J.O.Y.: Leading with Faith, Playing with Purpose, Leaving a Legacy” here - https://a.co/d/hEC0cra *Th...
79: Holy Grit with Dr. Dean Register
October 30, 2023 08:00 - 43 minutesDavid and Pastor J sit down with Pastor J’s very own pastor of 38 years, Dr. Dean Register. Their conversation is geared by Dean’s new book “Holy Grit: The Will to Persevere” and just a small preview into his wisdom and awesome teachings from God’s Word. If you are struggling with your faith, your doubts are going or you are ready to give up, this episode is for you. You can also purchase “Holy Grit: The Will to Persevere” here - https://www.amazon.com/Holy-Grit-Persevere-Dean-Register/dp/166...
78: Grief and Suffering Loss
October 23, 2023 08:00 - 22 minutesDavid and Pastor J talk about grief and when you lose a loved one. On October 13th, one our special Graystone members, Jodi Whitaker, suddenly passed away leaving behind her husband, Jeff, and two young kids. David talks about how his small group is impacted and how he has been inspired by Jeff. Please join us as we pray for Jeff and their kids, their families, and all who loved Jodi.
77: Fanning your Faith into Flame
October 16, 2023 08:00 - 27 minutesDavid and Pastor J talk about ways we can fan the flame of our faith. We have a choice to be discipled by Jesus or by the world. That’s reflected in what we listen to, what we watch, and who surrounds us. Find good Christian fellowship with like-minded believers and get plugged into your local church. *This episode was recorded on October 2 before the Holy Land Trip and attacks in Israel. We are continuously praying for Israel, for protection, peace, unity, and wisdom over leadership.
76: Developing a Faith of Your Own
October 09, 2023 08:00 - 29 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J dive into a conversation on the importance of having a faith of your own. We have the privilege of being able to pass our faith onto our kids, but they eventually will have to claim it on their own. What steps do you need to claim your faith and make an impact in your family?
75: Are You on the Path?
October 02, 2023 08:00 - 39 minutesAs we continue going through Psalm 1, we discuss that the path of the godly is through the life of service. Jesus, the son of God, was the ultimate example of how to serve others. Are you serving your spouse? your kids? your coworkers? Find ways to put those around you first. Use that model that Jesus set out for us and live a life of the godly. If you are serving others, take a look around you. Who is someone that you can encourage to serve? Give somebody a job. Someone out there is looking ...
74: Faith With Intention with Robert Griffin III
September 25, 2023 08:00 - 48 minutesDavid and Pastor J have a conversation with ESPN football analyst and former NFL quarterback, Robert Griffin III. They talk about when he accepted Jesus after tearing his ACL, how his parents’ faith impacted him growing up, and how his spiritual walk plays a big part of his life now. *This episode was recorded on June 5, 2023 before David’s layoff from ESPN.
73: Relative Truth vs. God’s Truth
September 18, 2023 08:00 - 37 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J have a conversation about the truth of God’s word and the part it plays in our lives. We have a real enemy that is twisting the word of God and impacting our culture. What steps can we take to live by the word of God? How can we teach our kids the word of God? Let’s talk about it. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals
72: A True Story of Life-Change From One of Our Listeners
September 11, 2023 08:00 - 43 minutesIn August, we received an email from one of our listeners in New Jersey. In his email, Garrett shared how he came across the podcast, gave his life to Christ, ordered his family through God’s design, and wanted to be baptized at Graystone Church in Georgia. This testimony blew us away, so we invited Garrett to come on the podcast to share his story with you. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familyg...
71: Meeting with God in the Sacred Places
September 04, 2023 08:00 - 30 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J begin with recapping their summers and time off. Then they talk through Jonathan’s message “True Prosperity“. This message touches on meeting with God in our sacred places. What makes a place sacred? What does it look like to meet with God throughout your day? Let’s talk about it. You can listen to Pastor J’s message “True Prosperity” at Graystone Church on our website or anywhere you stream your podcasts. graystonechurch.com/messages This episode is spons...
70: Coach Dabo Swinney: Relationships Over Outcome
August 28, 2023 08:00 - 59 minutesWe had the privilege to sit down and talk with Clemson University's head football coach, Dabo Swinney. Coach Swinney shares his journey on becoming the Clemson Tigers' head coach and how the atmosphere around the football program has changed over the years. *This episode was recorded on June 5, 2023 before David’s layoff from ESPN. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals
69: David Pollack's First In-Depth Interview Since Being Laid Off By ESPN
August 21, 2023 08:00 - 39 minutesIn this episode, David shares about the ESPN layoff, what he's learning in the process and what could be next through the art of the possible. We praise God for directing David's steps as he continues to share his story for God's glory. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals
68: Secrets to a Long Healthy Marriage
June 05, 2023 08:00 - 40 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J talk through lessons they have learned through their marriages. Whether you have been married a long time, are newly married, or want to be married one day, this is for you. We hope you learn from this episode and seek to strengthen your marriage and relationships. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals
67: How To Be Incredible
May 29, 2023 08:00 - 41 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J continue talking about becoming credible through the Beatitudes that Jesus teaches us in Matthew 5. What does it look like for you to pray for others, to show mercy, to stand beside people? "If you want to be incredible, you first have to be credible." We hope you enjoy! This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals
66: Building Character When No One is Watching
May 22, 2023 13:43 - 32 minutesIn this episode, you will hear about our new sponsor, Compassion International, why we love them, and their mission to release children from poverty in Jesus’ name. We'll recap the Pollack Family Foundation Celebrity Golf Tournament, and then David and Pastor J talk through becoming credible, trustworthy, and building character when no one is watching. Think about it: "If you want to be incredible, you first have to be credible." We hope you enjoy! This episode is sponsored by Compassion Int...
65: Your Kids and Phones
May 15, 2023 08:00 - 32 minutesDisclaimer: please use discretion when listening around kids. This episode contains sensitive subjects and may not be suitable for your kids. In this episode, David and Pastor J talk through the number one fear that parents have, which is something bad happening to your kids. More specifically, there are many dangers that come with your kids being exposed to or having their own phones. Let's talk about some boundaries and ways to help parents navigate these struggles.This episode is sponsored...
64: Training Your Kids In The Way Of The Lord
May 08, 2023 08:00 - 35 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J discuss the differences in teaching and training your kids in the way of the Lord. As believers, we are supposed to look different from the world, and as parents, it's important to model that through our personal walks with Jesus. How do we train them well? How can we prepare them for real life? Let's talk about it.This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals.
63: Being The Man That God Called You To Be
May 01, 2023 08:00 - 43 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J finish talking about God’s design for the family and specifically, the husband/father being the leader of the family. What does that mean? What does that look like? Let’s talk about it. We hope this episode challenges and encourages you.This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. For more information or to sponsor a child, go to https://compassion.com/familygoals.
62: Meeting Your Kids Where They Are
April 24, 2023 08:00 - 30 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J talk continue talking about God’s design for the family, and your relationship with your kids being after your relationship with God and your spouse. We hope this episode challenges and encourages you.
61: Doing Life Together as Husband and Wife
April 17, 2023 08:00 - 25 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J talk continue talking about God’s design for the family, and marriage being your next priority after your personal relationship with God. Yes, your marriage must be your number one relationship, even before your kids. Let’s hear why. We hope this episode challenges and encourages you.
60: Ways to Have a God-Centered Family
April 10, 2023 08:00 - 29 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J talk continue talking about God’s design for the family, and the first priority being Jesus. Having your personal relationship with Jesus is the most important for you as a parent/spouse/ individual and they talk about showing your kids how to prioritize God in your life.
59: God’s Design For The Family
April 03, 2023 08:00 - 27 minutesIn this episode, David and Pastor J talk about exchanging the kid-centered family for God's design for the family. What does that look like? How can we make that happen? Let’s talk about it. We hope this episode challenges and encourages you.
58: A Look Back On Our Conversation With Jeff Foxworthy
March 27, 2023 08:00 - 25 minutesThis is a look back on episode 9 where David and Pastor J interview Jeff Foxworthy. In this episode, our conversation will include priorities, boundaries, and building trust in our relationships. We hope you are encouraged, and if you would like to hear more of this interview, you can go back to episodes 8 and 10.Episode 8: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/family-goals-with-david-pollack-and-pastor-j/id1585214791?i=1000541950203Episode 10: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/family-goa...
57: Choosing Family Over Football with Matt Luke
March 20, 2023 08:00 - 24 minutesThis episode is from Graystone Church’s 2nd Annual Men’s Conference. David and Pastor J interviewed Matt Luke, former Head Coach for Ole Miss and Offensive Line Coach for UGA. Matt shares some great stories from how he became a college football coach and why he made the choice to leave football. We hope you are encouraged by this interview!
56: Trusting God Through Loss and Tragedy
March 13, 2023 08:00 - 22 minutesIn this episode, Davey and Pastor J talk about loss and tragedies. We understand this episode could be difficult for some of our listeners. Please use discretion, but ultimately we pray that you are encouraged to trust in who God is and His sovereignty.
55: Presence > Presents
March 06, 2023 09:00 - 35 minutesIn this episode, Davey and Pastor J talk about the last of five love languages: gifts and acts of services. Essentially, gifts are not rewards or bribes, but a way you can tell your child that you love them. You can also encounter many opportunities to show your kids you love them by serving them. We hope you are encouraged to show love to your kids through gifts and serving them.If you would like to take the Love Languages test for yourself, you can click here.Check out "The 5 Love Language...
54: Love is spelled T-I-M-E
February 27, 2023 09:00 - 32 minutesIn this episode, Davey and Pastor talk about the third of five love languages: quality time, which is defined as focused, undivided attention. You will hear various ways that we can be intentional with our kids and even how it can be a sacrifice for us as parents. We hope you are encouraged and take next steps to spending more quality time with your kids.If you would like to take the Love Languages test for yourself, you can click here.Check out "The 5 Love Languages" books here! There are ed...
53: Speaking Life or Death Into Our Kids
February 20, 2023 09:00 - 37 minutesIn this episode, Davey and Pastor talk about the second of five love languages: words of affirmation. You will hear more specifically about how your words as a parent have more weight on your child than they would from others. Words of affirmation is valuable for you as a parent to give to your child, but you also must know the level that they need to be affirmed and encouraged. If you would like to take the Love Languages test for yourself, you can click here.Check out "The 5 Love Languages"...
52: The Value of a Hug
February 13, 2023 13:00 - 29 minutesIn this episode, Davey and Pastor J dive deeper into the first of five love languages: physical touch. You will hear examples of how this can look for our kids at different ages and that it is always necessary. Listen to Matt and Mary Ellen Smith family's testimony here.If you would like to take the Love Languages test for yourself, you can click here.Check out "The 5 Love Languages" books here! There are editions for everyone, children, men, teenagers, singles, and blended families. The 5 Lo...
51: How To Make Sure Your Kids Feel Loved
February 06, 2023 09:00 - 34 minutesWe’re back for Season 4! In this episode, Pastor J and Davey catch up, talk a little NFL, and then we dive into an overview of The 5 Love Languages Of Children book. We are excited about learning more about the five love languages and which ones are primary for our own kids.If you would like to take the Love Languages test for yourself, you can click here.Check out "The 5 Love Languages" books here! There are editions for everyone, children, men, teenagers, singles, and blended families. The...
Season 4 trailer - We back, baby!
February 03, 2023 10:00 - 1 minuteWe are excited about Season 4 of the Family Goals Podcast on Monday, February 6th We have great topics and guests lined up, but we will be starting with “The Five Love Languages for Children” book. We love our kids and know that you love your kids, but let’s make sure they feel loved. See you February 6th!
50: When God Tests Us
December 19, 2022 09:00 - 33 minutesThis is our season 3 finale! Thank you so much for listening. We’ll be back with Season 4 in 2023. In this episode, we dive into the story of Abraham and Isaac and what we can learn from that story. We reflect on God’s goodness, prioritizing our faith in Him, and persevering through difficult times.
49: How to Fight For Your Family
December 12, 2022 09:00 - 37 minutesThere are more distractions than ever that try to break apart our families and marriages. Today we are diving into ways we can fight for our family. The first way is prayer, but more specifically what to pray, then priorities and participation. We hope you are encouraged and pray that we fight for our families to know and love Jesus. Podcast reference: "Fighting for the Next Generation: How We Are Pivoting to Reach Gen Z" by GrowLeader Podcast with Chris Hodges