two commitments for lifes best results

Today we're going to be talking about the two commitments that are going to get you the best results out of life.

Now, the first commitment is always be one that chooses your experience.

Be the person in charge of your life.

Don't live your life for other people.

Live for yourself and don't let other exterior things determine what your life experience is you have to be in control of your life.

Otherwise life will control you.

You have your growth mindset and then you have your closed mindset.

You have to always be growing so that you can be in charge of your own experience.

Life will happen to you whether you like it or not.

Whether or not you get to pick your experiences is truly up to you.

So you can become anything you want in life.

If you work hard enough and you stay focused.

The main takeaway is that you want to be in charge of your own experience of your own life.

You have choices, you do not have to do what anyone else tells you to do.

And that's very important.

Especially if you're going to be an entrepreneur.

Since everyone is really in the business of themselves.

Then it is important that they realize that they should be in control of the experiences.

It's important to know how to say no to people.

It's important to understand that sometimes you are the most important thing in the world.

You don't have to go along just because everyone else is going a certain way.

You don't have to watch TV because everybody else watches TV.

You don't have to go and work nine to five at a job you hate because everybody else works nine to five at a job.

They hate, you have to be the person that is in charge of your experiences.

That's how you're going to get the best results out of life.

Best results out of your own experience by controlling your experience.

By going where you want to go.

By going on vacation or taking a break if you need to.

By taking the time to build the business of your dreams.

To create something beautiful that is uniquely yours.

You don't have to do what everybody else is telling you to do.

You don't have to go to college because somebody told you that's what you should do.

You don't have to go join the military because that's what people say you should.

You should do what is most important to you and your experience this life.

The second commitment is to be the one who pays there own way in life.

Take command of your life.

Make this a discipline.

Don't let anyone else pay for your life.

You should pay for your own experiences.

You should take care of yourself.

Grow up and be the person that you know you can be.

Who is fully committed and fully engaged in is paying for themselves all the way.

Don't take on debt.

If you can't pay it back.

Don't use credit cards to get it there.

Pay for yourself.

Don't take money from your parents, from your friends, pay for yourself because even if you're starting a really crazy business.

If it doesn't really have profit in the beginning, then it might not have profit all the way through and it's better just to take care of yourself and take responsibility.

Be a responsible person who holds their own.

If you don't have money, it doesn't matter because you can still control your own experiences.

The most important thing is that you are paying for yourself all the way.

Have you ever gotten something for free and then never really checked it out again or downloaded a free ebook and then never read the thing?

See, if you actually pay for a course or you pay for a seminar, you're going to be more engaged, more aware.

You're not going to leave early.

You're not really going to cut corners.

Because your paying your way through and you have committed to paying your way through.

Means that you have decided that your life energy and money is being put into this and it means something to you.

That’s what gives it meaning.

So you're going to pay your way through and you're going to pay more attention to life.

You're going to see the nuances.

You're going to see the subtleties in things that you wouldn't normally take a look at.

You'd be taking it for granted if everything was given to you.

So, be someone who controls their experience.

Be in it for the experience, not just to be there, and then be someone who is paying for themselves and paying their way all the way through.

Not just collecting a paycheck and half assing at work just to pay some bills.

You have to actually live a life that's worth living.

And these are the two commitments that you can make right now.

That will make it so your life gets the absolute best results.

And I hope you the best and I'll see you in the next one.