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Sex Love Psychedelics

258 episodes - English - Latest episode: 27 days ago - ★★★★★ - 150 ratings

We’ve done some revamping over here on the podcast transforming Eat Play Sex into Sex Love Psychedelics.
Sex Love Psychedelics with Dr Cat Meyer will stimulate + titilate your brain with all of the psycho-sexual conversations + guest experts to answer your curiosities on sex, love, and the psyche. Whether we are analyzing the complexities of love, giving tips on energetic orgasms, or getting off on the latest research in psychedelics, it’s going to be a very WILD + expansive experience for us all.
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Episodes

159: Ethical Porn, Hedonism as Healthy, + AI or Audio Boyfriends with Gina Gutierrez with Dipsea

March 28, 2024 11:00 - 49 minutes - 45 MB

Craving erotic stories and audio POV boyfriends who will tell you what a good girl you’ve been? Dipsea is a people-powered story studio that produces a wide range of erotic, female-focused audio content. Co-founder of Dipsea, Gina Gutierrez joins me to share about their work. In this episode, you’ll hear: The evolution of the erotic audio industry and Gina's journey of co-founding Dipsea Popular themes within erotic fantasies Establishing emotional bonds with characters The creative p...

158: Psychedelic Eros, Archetypes, + the Seduction of Intellectualization over Integration with Dr Ido Cohen

March 14, 2024 08:00 - 56 minutes - 52 MB

Dr Ido Cohen is here with me today to talk about the power of integration, why people struggle with it, and what golden nuggets you can extract. So you can support yourself with actual lasting change.  In this episode, you’ll hear: The various expressions of eros energy and the role of sensuality Integration: An ongoing process to create long term sustainable change Psychedelic integration using archetypes and the collective unconscious  Why we project archetypal and shadow traits in re...

157: Self as Divinity, Ancient Fertility Rituals, + Manifesting through Pleasure with Emily Fletcher

February 29, 2024 17:05 - 55 minutes - 51.1 MB

World renowned meditation teacher, Emily Fletcher joins me to explore how to create a life from the seat of pleasure + desire. Emily is the podcast host of the Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? https://link.chtbl.com/whythis, the founder of Ziva,  bestselling author, + alchemical teacher teaching her practice the Sacred Secret. In this episode, you’ll hear: Manifestation Rituals and the Complexities of Emotional Experience Creating Safe Spaces for Authentic Expression and Emotional Alchemy ...

156: Relationship Power Trips + Grieving Old Love While in New Love with Starielle Hope

February 16, 2024 16:42 - 58 minutes - 53.2 MB

Relationship & Intimacy Coach Starielle Hope joins me to explore relationships as their own arena for growth. We share practices that you as an individual or you and your beloved can do to recognize + take accountability for your patterns around love. In this episode, you’ll hear: Common mistakes people make in relationships + how to solve them Reprogramming “the happy ever after” fantasy Cultivating high-level relational skills to create soul-fulfilling connections Taking self-respons...

155: Sensuality of 5 MEO DMT, the Tradition of Priestesses, + Being Your own Shaman with Flor Bollini

February 01, 2024 12:00 - 55 minutes - 51 MB

Named The Corporate Shaman by Forbes Magazine, Flor Bollini is regarded as one of the trailblazers in the plant medicine world. Flor joins me to share her Shamanic perspective in the work of psychedelics + sexuality and how we can discern for our own selves what feels right for us. In this episode, you’ll hear:  The convergence of ancient cultures in relation to psychedelics and sexuality Flor's personal journey highlighting the symbiotic relationship between sexuality and psychedelics ...

154: Pleasure, Psychedelics for Queer BIPOC + Connecting to Ancestral Guides with Courtney Watson

January 18, 2024 12:00 - 45 minutes - 42.1 MB

In this episode with Courtney Watson, we talk about how psychedelics can be a powerful tool for personal exploration in identity, pleasure, + resilience. She shares about her work with Queer BiPOC , as well as, practices + rituals to access inspiration from ancestral wisdom. In this episode, you’ll hear: Building resilience strategies amidst complex trauma Navigating the repercussions of the pandemic and reclaiming a connection to pleasure Courtney's impactful work with Queer BiPOC  Ho...

153: Shameless Sex + Psychedelics with April + Amy

January 04, 2024 09:00 - 1 hour - 56.5 MB

We are exploring my favorite topic + the focus on this show: Sex and Psychedelics. Amy + April from Shameless Sex and I all play moderators as we muse on our personal explorations + discoveries in plant medicine + psychedelics.  Some of these stories are beautiful + sweet, and some of them represent the darker, harder lessons we had to identify. Each of them is profound and valuable. Hopefully this talk inspires you, and if you need more support, I’ve created a guide for you. In this epis...

152: Plant Medicines: Preconception + Pregnancy to Postpartum with Mikaela de la Myco

December 14, 2023 17:36 - 1 hour - 72 MB

Mikaela de la Myco has been a leading voice in this space connecting plant medicine for fertility, motherhood, + womb health. For new moms + moms-to-be who are curious about entheogens… This episode will be for you. We dive into how plant medicine can support women during their pregnancy journey, and the key considerations to be mindful of along the journey.  As a reminder, this is for informational purposes only. Please consult your healthcare provider before pursuing any of the products ...

151: Psychedelic Supplementation with Shawn Wells

November 30, 2023 12:00 - 1 hour - 63.5 MB

Today I’ve got Shawn Wells who is brilliant at mapping out how we can support our nervous systems, energy, brain, + cellular health from a supplement + biohackers perspective especially if we are journeying with psychedelics. In this episode, you’ll hear: Key principles or practices that are essential for a balanced and sustainable approach to biohacking Common pitfalls encountered by individuals in their pursuit of biohacking for optimal health and energy, along with strategies to avoid ...

150: Legal Psychedelic Retreats + the Uniqueness of Facilitating in Partnership with Austin Mao + Chuchu Wang

October 19, 2023 16:23 - 49 minutes - 45 MB

Co-founders of Ceremonia, a non profit psychedelic church, Austin Mao + Chuchu join me in this epic conversation. We explore the need for structure and discernment in finding the right guides for your journey. We emphasize the importance of preparation and integration in these deep journeys, offering valuable insights into the path of healing and growth. I really enjoyed dropping in with these two and I’m stoked to share our conversation with you. In this episode, you’ll hear: The origi...

149: BIPOC Sexuality, Tenderness, + the Impact of being Chronically Under Touched with Aaron Johnson

September 28, 2023 11:00 - 53 minutes - 73.1 MB

Today we dive into topics that are sensitive + complex in nature- discussing the black male brute archetype, how it came about + perpetuates across history and how it impacts sexual expression, tenderness, + platonic touch for men. THIS episode depicts the impact  to us + the culture at large when we don’t take the time to understand nuance.  Let’s change the cultural narrative by inspiring conversation. If you resonate with this episode be sure to share the podcast or leave me a review.  ...

148: Quickie: Negotiating for Threesomes + Sex Fantasies

September 22, 2023 16:08 - 34 minutes - 31.4 MB

Have different desires than your lover? Does this mean that you're not compatible? Does this mean you can’t have the sex life that we desire?  Worry not, my lovers. I really believe in the power of all of us having the sex life of our dreams. ....And I also understand how threatening it can feel when our partner doesn't have the same desires that we do… Tune into this ep to hear the strategies for negotiating for threesomes and sex fantasies. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL HEAR: The dynamics tha...

147: Tantric BDSM + Play Parties as Catalysts for Evolution with Yossef Sagi

September 15, 2023 15:46 - 1 hour - 60.5 MB

The maestro of play party ceremonies, Yossef Sagi joins me to share about the healing + evolution that occurs in the nuance of love, of sex. Tantra and BDSM help us discover our personal patterns, desires, + fantasies. Starting the first week of October, Yossef will be one of my guest teachers for my course: Sex Love Psychedelics: Alchemy. In this episode you’ll see these ways that we apply spiritual theory into practical applications. In this episode, you’ll hear: Maintaining integrity i...

146: Couples and Ketamine: The Healing Link?

August 17, 2023 11:55 - 33 minutes - 30.4 MB

I'm here to debunk myths about ketamine and reveal its healing potential within couples' therapy. This episode offers a peek into what it's really like to work with me in a couples’ session, guiding you through the full journey's arc – from preparation to integration. It's more than just the dose; it's a holistic experience. In this episode, you’ll hear: Dr. Cat's personal experience with ketamine The role of ketamine in nurturing closeness among couples and its capacity to heighten empat...

145: Energetic Love Making + Sex while Grieving with Bibi Brzozka

July 20, 2023 12:00 - 54 minutes - 49.6 MB

Energetic lovemaking guide + Sex and Relationship coach Bibi Brzoka joins me explore the concept of energy + how it affects our body, our love, + even the vibrance on our life. My life changed when I realized that sex was energy. No longer was it just this experience of friction between body parts, but that we could penetrate with the invisible, yet palpable extension of energy. There’s some juicy energetic practices + practical tips within this conversation. All of which highlight truly ho...

144: Psychedelics as a Healing Tool for Sexual Assault Survivors with Melissa Barker

July 06, 2023 12:00 - 58 minutes - 53.4 MB

Dr. Melissa Barker is an advocate for psychedelics + the improvement of protocols for complex PTSD. In this episode, you’ll hear our personal experiences with trauma, therapy + how psychedelics helped.  If you have a loved one experiencing the pain of trauma + sexual assault, perhaps this will provide the words they need to hear. In this episode, you’ll hear: The embodied practices that can support a trauma survivor How the word “trauma” can become an excuse to remain disempowered Pop p...

143: Creating Security in Non-monogamous Relationships + Being Friends with Your Partner’s Lover with Irene Morning

June 08, 2023 15:49 - 51 minutes - 47.2 MB

Whether you're in a non-monogamous relationship, or if you’re just curious, this episode is for you. Irene Morning, MS (she/her) is a somatic pleasure coach, intimacy educator, and bestselling author of The Polyamory Paradox: Finding Your Confidence in Consensual Non-Monogamy.  We get into the nuances of non-monogamous relating and how you can support yourself + your loves with compassion + care.   In this episode, you’ll hear: Creating security in non-monogamous relationships Irene’s i...

142: Consciousness in Capitalism, Sexual Shadows, + the Business of Beckley Psychedelic Retreats with Sylvia Benito

May 25, 2023 12:00 - 59 minutes - 54.7 MB

Indigenously trained shaman, CFA charterholder, + chief investment officer for a billion-dollar portfolio, Sylvia Benito joins me to connect the consciousness to capital. We dive into psychedelic tourism and some of the questions + considerations we need to have as we both build out psychedelic companies, but also change the relationships we have with money (and sex) for ourselves. ...It's juicy. You'll love it. In this episode you’ll hear:  The difference between an independent psyched...

141: Microdosing Guides, Amplifying Herbs, + Psychedelic Coaching with Paul Austin

April 27, 2023 12:00 - 58 minutes - 53.5 MB

Microdosing. It’s hot. It’s trendy. You might hear that you neighbor or daughter started doing it. But what is it good for + how do we do it in the most effective way?  Paul Austin, one of the most prominent voices in the world of psychedelics joins me on the show to cover our microdosing foundations. Paul is the founder of Third Wave + author of Mastering Microdosing: How to Use Sub Perceptual Psychedelics to Heal Trauma, Improve Performance, and Transform Your Life. If you’re passionate ...

140: Natural Boner Growth, Low Testosterone Levels + Improving the Taste of Semen with Jackson Hightower

April 13, 2023 12:00 - 53 minutes - 48.6 MB

Can you make your cock bigger naturally? That’s one of the questions Jackson Hightower and I get to answer in this new episode. Jackson Hightower is a biohacker and men’s sexual health expert + founder of Natural Jackson--providing natural solutions for men’s sexual vitality. But even more than that, we talk about the cultural pressure around what it means to be masculine, who gets to be it, + what changing levels of testosterone are affecting the health + functioning of men, and what we c...

139: Sex Priestess + the Modern Tantric Path with Nadine Lee

March 30, 2023 11:00 - 51 minutes - 46.7 MB

Nadine Lee, founder of Tantric Alchemy + the newly released book Sex Priestess is a badass + embodies the modern experience of the tantric life.  Where some of the ancient practices can feel far beyond us, or like we really need to be in an ashram or monk life to live out, Nadine shares about the integration of her inner experiences + the external happenings in a way that is beautiful + accessible. In this episode, you’ll hear: The vulnerable journey of launching Nadine’s new book: Sex Pr...

138: Psychedelics, Resurfacing Trauma, + Healing through Community with Lauren Taus

March 23, 2023 11:00 - 44 minutes - 40.5 MB

What happens when someone takes psychedelics + they experience painful memories or an overload of emotion + thoughts that they aren’t equipped to handle by themselves? Lauren Taus, psychedelics assisted therapist, educator, advocate + founder of In-bodied life, joins me to dive into the relationship of psychedelics + trauma.  We get deep into some conversations about how psychedelics effect on our brain + body, which substances do we see as having a greater effect in working with trauma, w...

137: Autoimmune, Trauma’s Effect On Hormones + How To Fix Your Cycle with Dr Jolene Brighten

March 16, 2023 11:05 - 58 minutes - 53.2 MB

Board certified naturopathic endocrinologist, trained clinical sexologist and author of the new book “Is This Normal?” Dr. Jolene Brighten joins me to breakdown all the complex questions that come with sex, hormones and PMS. You’ll hear Dr. Jolene addresses some of what our culture has adopted as normal + the underlying hormone imbalances that may be causing it. We even get into the issue of vaginal dryness, what causes it + how we can support our bodies' natural production again. In this ...

136: BDSM for Spiritual Transcendence, Embodying Power, + Managing Public Projections with Colette Pervette

March 02, 2023 13:00 - 57 minutes - 52.7 MB

Professional dominatrix Colette Pervette joins me to look at BDSM as a microcosm of the macro culture + our lives, and how you can find transformation with the intentional embracing of power roles, toys, tools, scenes--whether that’s with a partner or with a professional dom. I’ve brought many experts on to talk about BDSM, but this episode is hands down my favorite. Probably because Colette has such a brilliant + academically inclined mind, as well as, someone who is deeply devoted to spir...

135: Erotic Endurance, Extended Climax, + Unconscious Power Dynamics with Court Vox

February 16, 2023 13:00 - 59 minutes - 54.8 MB

 Sex isn’t as straightforward as we might put pressure on ourselves to believe. Great sex takes time in demystifying + reconstructing concepts, narratives, + skills. Court Vox is a Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach Surrogate Partner Intern and Sacred Intimate based coach. He’s the Founder of The Body Vox and Co-Founder of SQUIRM. Court works with individuals from all genders with somatics, teaching them to come back to the relationship with the body to understand the internal cues that make or...

134: The Eroticism of Ayahuasca + Shadow Side of Psychedelic Culture with Rev Briana Lynn

February 02, 2023 12:00 - 51 minutes - 47.4 MB

Rev Briana Lynn is a spiritual mentor and facilitator on the intersection of the silly, sacred and sexy. She is here to wade through the plant medicine waters to help us understand the relationship of eroticism to plant medicine. The two of us unpack the unfortunate abuse of power + sex that can occur in the psychedelic and shamanic plant medicine world and how you can move forward more informed and safe. In this episode, you’ll hear: The erotic nature of plant medicine - flora, fauna, and...

133: Sluts, BDSM as Ritual, + Merging the Sacred + Profanity with Gabriela Herstik

January 19, 2023 13:00 - 58 minutes - 53.7 MB

Do you identify as a slut? Or do you feel repulsed or turned off by the word?  If you're ready to  embody the sacred slut and harness your sexuality as a form of healing, I’ve got an edgy + intelligent conversation for you. Gabriela Herstik is the author of Sacred Sex, Inner Witch, Bewitching the Elements, and Embody Your Magick, as well as the essay series "Diary of A Sacred Slut."  In this episode you’ll hear: Gabriela’s journey of embracing the world of Sex Magick, BDSM + Kink Merging...

132: Squirting, Sex Hacks, + Navigating Consent Grey Zones with Kenneth Play

January 05, 2023 12:00 - 56 minutes - 51.9 MB

International sex expert and sex educator and author of the new book Beyond Satisfied, Kenneth Play joins me to give us some techniques for face sitting, oral sex, flow states, and navigating the grey zone in consent. …This whole episode is full of skills to start incorporating in your sex play NOW. There’s so much we can discover about our bodies + about sex. When we approach it not from an achievement standpoint, but from a playful exploration… “let’s see what we can learn”, it can keep s...

131: Erotica, Instagram Censorship, + Art as Sexual Medicine with Tales of Lara

December 22, 2022 15:00 - 47 minutes - 43.3 MB

The author of the erotic poetry book Tales of Lara + host of the podcast ‘Pussy Church” joins me to share her intimate process in writing erotica, where she’s gotten her inspiration, how she sees her work as a fight against the patriarchal social expectations around sex + dating, as well as, how this practice of erotic writing changed her love life. If you want to not only be turned on, but given drip worthy reference points of an empowered erotic life, this episode is for you, your best fr...

130: Sexual Controversies, Men’s Pleasure, + the Issue with Polarity Culture with Cam Fraser

December 08, 2022 13:00 - 51 minutes - 46.8 MB

Certified Professional Sex Coach and Sexologist, and host of men, sex, pleasure podcast, Cam Fraser joins me to talk all things sex, masculinity + pleasure. Cam + I highlight the cultural assumptions that form our internal models of how masculinity + pleasure ”should” be… We also speak on how authentic masculinity can also include a touch of sensuality, play + pleasure.  It’s so good. I am buzzing for you to hear it. In this episode, you’ll hear: The cultural narrative + normativity we p...

129: Medication Tapering for Psychedelics with Dr Ben Malcom

November 24, 2022 13:00 - 58 minutes - 53.3 MB

Clinical psychiatric pharmacist Dr Ben Malcom with Spirit Pharmacist, joins me to share which medications don’t mix with which psychedelics, the process of combining the worlds of psychopharmacology + psychedelics AND his consultation practice that advocates for safe psychedelics exploration. In this episode, you’ll hear: The cultural narrative about depression, SSRIs + the combination of psychotropic meds and psychedelics. How the DSM5 diagnoses depression How psychedelics can help trea...

128: Kambo Sessions, Spiritual Bypass, + No-Bullshit Facilitation with Ginny Rutherford + Steve Dumain

November 10, 2022 14:20 - 1 hour - 59.2 MB

You may have heard about the frog serum kambo as a trending deep cleanse, and honestly it’s so much more than that. I had the honor to interview the founders of Kambo International and my two master teachers, Ginny Rutherford + Steve Dumain. The two of them provide a no-bullshit approach to the benefits, experience and the facilitation of this medicine. In this episode, you’ll hear: What Kambo is + where it comes from What an experience of sitting for a ceremony with Kambo looks like Dis...

127: Bi+, Queer, Pan-curious + Sexual Fluidity

October 27, 2022 12:00 - 45 minutes - 41.6 MB

Ready to learn about bicuriosity, queerness, + pansexuality? In this sexy episode I break down what each identity means, how identity influences the culture and why men have a harder time being able to explore their identity.  This episode may inspire you to play into your gay. ...If you want to. (Consensually, of course.) In this episode you’ll hear: -What bicuriosity, bisexuality, queerness, + pansexuality really means -Dr Cat’s personal journey in exploring sexual fluidity and attrac...

126: Falling in Love Outside Your Relationship + CNM with Jessica Esfandiary

October 13, 2022 12:00 - 56 minutes - 52.1 MB

Facilitator and coach of non-traditional relationships, and the host of Open Late Podcast, Jessica Esfandiary joins me to share her insight on non-traditional relationships. The two of us talk about how to navigate the bias of people who want to tell you these types of dynamics “don’t work”, the essential qualities to making these relationships healthy and tips to thrive when falling in love with people who are not our significant other. It’s a *juicy* episode that truthfully can be applied...

125: Quickie Lost My Eroticism

August 25, 2022 12:00 - 30 minutes - 28.1 MB

Feelin' like you've lost your erotic fire? it doesn’t mean you’ll be stuck in low libido forever. In this quickie episode, I’m here to highlight each stage of sexual healing, and how you can bring your sexy back. In this episode you’ll hear: What is eros? And how do you connect to it? The stages of sexual healing to transcendence: Resting Healing, Curious, Adventurous, Transformative Why your body can’t produce sex hormones and stress hormones at the same time How to navigate our experi...

124: Plan C, Abortion Stigma, + Clarifying Your Options with Amy Merrill

August 04, 2022 11:11 - 53 minutes - 49.2 MB

To help us make sense of the SCOTUS ruling on abortion rights, I have with me today Amy Merrill, the founder of Plan C, an organization here to give you the information + support necessary for you to take back the agency of your own body. This is an incredible conversation we get into, one that not only touches on what’s happening in our political system around abortion, but also what’s brought us to this point. In this episode, you’ll hear: The real process of getting an abortion. What ...

123: My Experience with Ketamine Therapy

July 21, 2022 13:00 - 35 minutes - 32.4 MB

In this quickie episode, you'll hear my experience working with ketamine assisted therapy as a client and a clinician. As I've studied ketamine more in a clinical setting, my reverence for this medicine has grown to be so strong. I lead this discussion with the importance of doing this work with a therapist + in the safe confines of a clinically regulated medicine. In this episode you’ll hear: What is ketamine? The unique properties What is ketamine assisted therapy How I used it after ...

122: Identity Alchemy with Nick Onken

June 23, 2022 13:00 - 40 minutes - 37.2 MB

How do you self-identify? Do you feel in alignment with your identity? Or are you sensing the subtle dissonance? Nick Onken, identity wizard, world-renowned photographer, and creative alchemist joins me on this episode of Sex Love Psychedelics to talk about re-inventing ourselves and alchemizing old wounds can allow us to live our most authentic expression.  In this episode, you’ll hear: Nick’s journey with self-identity and re-inventing the self The complexity of tying your self-worth t...

Season 4: Sex Love Psychedelics

June 20, 2022 11:00 - 1 minute - 1.11 MB

We’ve done some revamping over here on the podcast transforming Eat Play Sex into Sex Love Psychedelics. Sex Love Psychedelics with Dr. Cat Meyer will stimulate + titillate your brain with all of the psycho-sexual conversations + guest experts to answer your curiosities on sex, love, and the psyche. Whether we are analyzing the complexities of love, giving tips on energetic orgasms, or getting off on the latest research in psychedelics, it’s going to be a very WILD + expansive experience fo...

121: Polarity, Spirituality, + Sensuality in BDSM with Miss Lila Sage

April 13, 2022 16:14 - 46 minutes - 42.8 MB

Are you curious about embodying a dominant role in the bedroom? My dear friend Miss Lila Sage joins me on the most recent Eat Play Sex podcast to share about her work. Lila is an international Dominatrix, certified hypnotherapist, and performance artist. Her work is a prime example of how eroticism can be an enriching and activating experience, rather than depleting. I’m honored Lila will be teaching about power play, polarity, and BDSM in the next round of Erotically Undone! In this episo...

120: Quickie - Edging to Amplify Your Orgasms

March 31, 2022 13:00 - 22 minutes - 20.3 MB

In this week’s Quickie Episode of Eat Play Sex podcast, I introduce to you one of my favorite s/xual techniques: Edging. Edging is the practice of teasing the F*ck out of yourself or your lover so that their desire turns into CRAVING + their orgasmic potential becomes potent + body shattering. This is a non-gendered experience of frustration + ecstasy that can be enjoyed by all. It teaches you how to transform the frustration of non-fulfillment in order to access the gold of your orgasmic b...

119: Mastery of Primal Sexual Energy for Men with Destin Gerek

March 24, 2022 13:00 - 51 minutes - 47.4 MB

As more men access their primal s.xual energy, the world will be a more balanced place. In this fiery episode, Certified Sexologist + CEO of The Evolved Masculine, Destin Gerek joins me to talk about accessing the primal sexual energy as a man, what might be getting in the way of your being able to harness it, + techniques for sex that will amplify your orgasmic potential. We even give the partners of men tips on how to invite the conversation towards more sensual, slow, and present type of...

118: Quickie - Anal Sex Guide

March 17, 2022 12:00 - 22 minutes - 20.9 MB

I’m giving you another quickie today focused on tips to help your anal sex game. Getting to know your own ass-ets can be an incredibly fun and pleasurable sexual activity. This episode will tell you everything you need to know about booty play. In this episode you’ll hear: My top tips on anal play The anatomy of your butt and how you can educate yourself to strengthen your connection with your body How to receive the most pleasure from your ass Why it’s important to find a sex-positive ...

117: Quickie - Friends With Benefits + Loverships

March 02, 2022 14:00 - 30 minutes - 28.3 MB

It's time to get back into your pleasure-filled game. This "quickie" sex share episode is full of important factors you need to consider when you’re stepping into (or contemplating) a Friends with Benefits. Love + non-attachment are two key elements here, and I even share my personal process when creating lovers from friends, and friends from lovers.  In this episode you’ll hear: -Questions to guide you if you’re curious about entering into a friends with benefits. -Perspective of why it’...

116: Psychedelics, Non-traditional Marriage, and Vulnerability in Love with Kelli + Conner Moore

February 23, 2022 14:00 - 1 hour - 67.8 MB

Sex love and psychedelics are probably my three favorite topics to talk about. In my opinion, all three of these are massive catalysts for personal evolution. Kelli + Conner Moore, an epic power couple, join me to jam on relationships, life after marriage, and how to navigate them when you + your boo think and talk and have an interest in different things. Aka most couples. In this episode you’ll hear: The personal + relational expansion that comes with managing conflict, exploring with ps...

115: Breakups, Boundaries + Overcoming Unhealthy Dating Patterns with Amy Chan

January 20, 2022 14:00 - 49 minutes - 45.7 MB

How do you handle breakups? Are your go-to tools a pint of ice cream watching chick-flicks with your best homegirl while throwing used kleenex at the screen? Or do you believe the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else? ⠀ Amy Chan, the brilliant founder of Breakup Bootcamp Retreat and author of the Breakup Bootcamp is here to help us through the process of healing our hearts after a breakup. We even get into the ways you can improve your dating life + release the pattern...

114: Gender Fluidity, Navigating Pronouns, + Identifying as Non-binary with Eleven XX

January 13, 2022 20:20 - 50 minutes - 46.2 MB

There’s a lot of talk about the concept of gender, and the conversations can move fast about what is most inclusive + accurate. Eleven XX is a two-spirit and identity alchemist + advocate here to drop some magical knowledge about the gender spectrum. You'll hear both the raw, lived, spiritual process of a person going through their discovery around gender + identity, as well as, my more clinical voice from the experience of research and some of my students. In this episode you will hear: T...

113: Initiating Sex

December 29, 2021 14:00 - 33 minutes - 30.3 MB

“Not tonight honey.” 3 infamous words that can sting like a dagger to the heart. But what if there was more information hidden behind these words that could help revive our sex life + desire? Sexual initiation is a vulnerable act. We can help ourselves when we know how our body and that of our partner best receives our efforts. Here we talk about the different styles of initiation that we can approach out partner with in more effective + meaningful ways that are unique to them + you. In thi...

112: To Please a Pussy

December 22, 2021 14:00 - 45 minutes - 41.3 MB

Does your pussy struggle with experiencing orgasm at times or always? There are many reasons why our orgasms may be elusive. In this episode, we explore what some of the blocks + barriers may be for sex that is more optimal for your pussy. We look outside the traditional sense of “sex” + into concepts that might be more authentic + exciting for your body needs.  We also discuss different tips + techniques to broaden your options for play. In this episode you’ll hear: Why women/femme may st...

111: Sex + Depression with Nicoletta Heidegger

November 24, 2021 15:00 - 45 minutes - 41.2 MB

You may have heard about how sex + orgasms affect mental health, but what about when mental health affects sex? Depression affects so many people not only in the US, but globally. Especially since the start of the pandemic, we’ve seen the sexual health of individuals + couples alike struggling because of it. Sex therapist Nicoletta Heidegger is here to talk to us about the complications of depression + sexual desire, what medications could be doing to contribute, + how you can empower your o...

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