EMM Ep. 4 What Have I Learnt pt.2

Energy is important. Energy expended over time is something you can’t get back. The time, nor the energy. You really should be careful of who you give your energy too. I have some friends that I grew up with and have never felt comfortable around really. Not fully. MJ said it to me in a voice message (that had me blushing all day) she sent after one of my episodes and I so hate that I can’t respond (or maybe I can and I just don’t know how). Yeah, she said she’s felt like an outsider for most of her life and it resonated with me. Greatly resonated with me. This is why I created HyerVale. Firstly so that myself and my best friend at the time could have somewhere to belong. He eventually found other places where he was wanted and where he belonged so he left the Vale (the Valley) behind. Literally said he wanted nothing to do with it. And that’s someone I did a lot for. That’s someone I thought would be around in my life for a really long time. So even that experience shaped me to being selective with my energy and time. I’m thankful for the tribe I’ve now become a part of. Tribes are my thing. I’ll do an episode on that later. Shoutout Merrique one time. But yeah, what have you learnt? I’m curious.