Dyking Out - a Lesbian and LGBTQIA Podcast for Everyone!
291 episodes - English - Latest episode: 10 months ago - ★★★★★ - 995 ratingsHosted by New York City-based comedians Carolyn Bergier & Melody Kamali, Dyking Out is a podcast about lesbian / queer life, news, and pop culture. Each week, Carolyn and Melody invite a special guest (comedians, musicians, actors, crushes) to dyke out with them about a topic that's relevant to the LGBTQIA world. But really, it's just another way to advance the gay agenda.
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Episodes
"I Check a Lot of Boxes" w/ Brittani Nichols (Re-release)
June 29, 2023 15:43 - 1 hourWe support the writer's strike! Check out this recent article featuring Brittani about why queer folks should support the strike: https://www.out.com/gay-tv-shows/wga-brittani-nichols-writers-strike 33:36:31 As a reminder, you can listen to past Dyking Off Topic episodes with Carolyn and Melody on our Patreon for $5/month. Sponsored by BetterHelp Online Therapy: As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at betterhelp.com/do Learn more about your ad choices. V...
"New Queer Face of 9/11" w/ Emily Dayton Evans (Re-release)
June 01, 2023 12:00 - 1 hourSome of us truly live for the applause, and this week's guest will not shy away from that fact. Comedian and performer Emily Dayton Evans joins us to talk about her journey from fragile human to saliva-swapping comedian. Did you know it was possible to grown up in Vermont without a driver's license? Are walkie talkies a couples' gift or intended for one person only? What's the hot goss with age gap relationships on TikTok? We cover all this and so much more. As a reminder, you can listen to p...
Quick updates / Jen Tullock on the "You Might Know Her From" podcast
May 17, 2023 21:01 - 1 hourListen to Liz Glazer's comedy album A Very Particular Experience Enjoy this episode of a FANTASTIC podcast, You Might Know Her From with Anne Rodeman and Damien Bellino featuring an interview with actress Jen Tullock (Interview starts at 14:56) As a reminder, you can listen to past Dyking Off Topic episodes with Carolyn and Melody on our Patreon for $5/month. Sponsored by BetterHelp Online Therapy: As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at betterhelp.com/do...
Love's A Pitch w/ Phil Corin
May 03, 2023 13:05 - 52 minutesPhil Corin's ep of Love's A Pitch. As a reminder, you can listen to past Dyking Off Topic episodes with Carolyn and Melody on our Patreon for $5/month. Sponsored by BetterHelp Online Therapy: As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at betterhelp.com/do Sponsored by Nutrafol: Get free shipping on every order and $15 off at Nutrafol.com with promo code "DO" Sponsored by Kikoff: Kikoff.com to get started! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/ad...
"Getting 'Bravo Dyke' Out There" w/ Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya (Re-release)
April 19, 2023 23:22 - 1 hourWe're makin' it NICE this episode with our fave L-Word reviewer and writer, Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya! But we're not dyking out about Gen Q. We're dissecting the Real Housewives franchise for all the queer and queer-coded content it regularly serves up. These ladies are acting gay AND doing crimes, so what's more queer than that? And they're not just acting gay, some franchises have queer women amongst the cast. Also, we manage to make comparisons to The L Word. We make the case that The Real Ho...
"Being Present With Birds" w/ Grace Bonney (Re-release)
April 12, 2023 22:22 - 1 hourThe bird's the word on this episode with author and blogger Grace Bonney. Grace's love of watching birds is queer and contagious. So what's the big deal about birding anyway? How can it positively affect your mental health? What's the community like? Why does it feel so queer? Which birds seem most sapphic? Are all pigeons elder queers? We answer all these questions and nerd out about so much more. Plus, we also talk about Grace's latest book, Collective Wisdom, and what they learned in the p...
"Rose-colored Glasses" w/ Rivkah Reyes (Re-release)
March 21, 2023 16:00 - 1 hourMight as well face it you're addicted to (things that actually aren't but can sometimes trick you into thinking it's) love! Actor/Musician/Comedian/Writer/Reader Rivkah Reyes joins us to dyke out about their recovery and journey to being spiritually healthy. Listen to Carolyn's new podcast Love's A Pitch on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. As a reminder, you can listen to past Dyking Off Topic episodes with Carolyn and Melody on our Patreon for $5/month. Sponsored by BetterHelp Online Therapy: As a...
Love's A Pitch w/ Ruby Quinn (preview)
March 07, 2023 19:30 - 19 minutesListen to Love's A Pitch on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. As a reminder, you can listen to past Dyking Off Topic episodes with Carolyn and Melody on our Patreon for $5/month. Sponsored by BetterHelp Online Therapy: As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at betterhelp.com/do Sponsored by Nutrafol: Get free shipping on every order and $15 off at Nutrafol.com with promo code "DO" Sponsored by Kikoff: Kikoff.com to get started! Learn more about your ad choices. V...
Love's A Pitch w/ Jeena Bloom (preview)
March 02, 2023 18:02 - 20 minutesListen to Love's A Pitch on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. As a reminder, you can listen to past Dyking Off Topic episodes with Carolyn and Melody on our Patreon for $5/month. Sponsored by BetterHelp Online Therapy: As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at betterhelp.com/do Sponsored by Nutrafol: Get free shipping on every order and $15 off at Nutrafol.com with promo code "DO" Sponsored by Kikoff: Kikoff.com to get started! Learn more about your ad choices. V...
Love's A Pitch Ep 2 preview w/ Sheria Mattis
February 21, 2023 17:04 - 26 minutesListen to Love's A Pitch on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. As a reminder, you can listen to past Dyking Off Topic episodes with Carolyn and Melody on our Patreon for $5/month. Sponsored by BetterHelp Online Therapy: As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at betterhelp.com/do Sponsored by Nutrafol: Get free shipping on every order and $15 off at Nutrafol.com with promo code "DO" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Love's A Pitch: Trailer
February 14, 2023 19:32 - 3 minutesListen to Love's A Pitch on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. When it comes to making meaningful connections with people in the LGBTQ community, it can be brutal out there. But does it have to be? Love's a Pitch is a show about love, dating, desire, and ultimately, putting yourself out there. Each week, a new guest will pitch themselves to listeners, making their case for why they're a catch and joining the host in a conversation about all things love and dating. If you like what you hear, you can f...
Love's A Pitch is now out! Preview Ep. 1 w/ Karina Strom
February 14, 2023 19:22 - 22 minutesListen to Love's A Pitch on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. As a reminder, you can listen to past Dyking Off Topic episodes with Carolyn and Melody on our Patreon for $5/month. Sponsored by BetterHelp Online Therapy: As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting our sponsor at betterhelp.com/do Sponsored by Nutrafol: Get free shipping on every order and $15 off at Nutrafol.com with promo code "DO" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
"Too Much Breast Happening" w/ Michelle Badillo (Re-release)
February 08, 2023 04:13 - 1 hourFirst, another update from Carolyn! Then, another favorite ep of ours! Listen to Carolyn's new podcast Love's A Pitch on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Breasts, boobs, boobies, knockers, tits, titters, titties, honkers, hooters, melons, jugs, tatas - whatever you call them, we're dyking out about them with the crazy talented and boobacious Michelle Badillo (One Day At A Time, Vida, The Bold Type). Michelle and Melody bond over the trauma and triumphs of having large breasts, while Carolyn struggl...
"Two Lesbians Can Be Just Friends" w/ Valerie Complex (Re-Release)
February 03, 2023 03:57 - 1 hourListen to Carolyn's new podcast Love's A Pitch on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. We are THRILLED to be joined by the astute and prolific Valerie Complex to talk about all things Portrait of a Lady On -- Er...Female Gaze. We definitely do not spend half of this episode talking about how much we love a certain sapphic film and instead talk about why it makes a huge difference to treat women as subjects, not objects, on screen. Valerie is a film critic and freelance writer, and also a member of Port...
"Doctor Role Play" w/ Ro White (Re-release)
January 24, 2023 19:06 - 1 hourListen to Carolyn's new podcast Love's A Pitch on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Let's talk about hand sex, baby! Ro White is the new sex and dating editor at Autostraddle, and they're here to get fist-deep into our topic. Though as we learn, fisting is about fullness, not depth. We dyke out about the benefits of digital stimulation, and the role it plays in queer sex. Period sex? Squirting? Fisting? Masturbation? We're rounding all the bases. Plus, Ro talks about how Autostraddle is truly doing ...
"Hot, Talented, and Funny" w/ Jasmin Savoy and Liv Hewson (Re-release)
January 17, 2023 16:44 - 1 hourSome more updates from Carolyn, and a re-release of a time-relevant episode: We've got a delightful mix of queer joy and cannibalism on the agenda with actors Liv Hewson and Jasmin Savoy (Yellowjackets on Showtime). First, we get all of our fangirling out of the way by asking about our favorite new show, as well as Scream, Santa Clarita Diet, and other projects these two talents have under their very gay belts. Then, we talk about their new podcast (Most Presents: The Homo Schedule) and what ...
New announcements, plus Jess Rothschild interviews Ilene Chaiken
January 10, 2023 16:31 - 1 hourListen to Carolyn's new podcast Love's A Pitch on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Happy New Year! We've got a couple of updates and announcements from Carolyn, plus, we're sharing an episode that many of you will be interested in from friend of the pod Jess Rothschild. On this episode of Hot Takes and Deep Dives, Jess is joined by THE L WORD creator and show-runner Ilene Chaiken! Ilene discusses running Aaron Spelling's production company, her real-life version of The Planet, the head of Showtime ...
"Walk Like An Egyptian" w/Sabrina Jalees (Re-release)
January 03, 2023 14:37 - 1 hourListen to Carolyn's new podcast Love's A Pitch on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. The super hilarious Sabrina Jalees (Carol's Second Act) is letting us get all up in her jizzness as we dyke out about her queer family. Sabrina gives us all the deets into how Wolfie came to be, and why she's the daddy. We talk about how queer families are still sometimes othered, but we're also freaking out every time we see one in the wild. Plus, why are straight people always telling us who will steal our baby? An...
"The Coolest Lesbian Aesthetic" w/ Joanna Bradley (Re-Release)
December 27, 2022 18:52 - 1 hourMadras shorts, Kangol hats, 'Menswear,' vests, bold blazers, purposefully bad dye jobs...the spectrum of style in our community is wide and varied. So what is the lesbian aesthetic? Writer and comedian Joanna Bradley (SNL, The Break with Michelle Wolf) reflects on her own style, and that of other queer women she's encountered over the years. Can you tell if someone is a lez just by looking at them? What's that thing that makes you see someone and think "they're on my team?" Are style choices ...
"An Ongoing Process" w/ Mae Martin (Re-release)
December 20, 2022 14:36 - 1 hourComedian/Writer/Actor and all-around queer darling Mae Martin joins us to dyke out about fluidity this week. You all know Mae from their show Feel Good (stream it on Netflix, Channel 4) and hilarious comedy. They often talk about gender and sexuality on stage, so we loved having the chance to dive in deeper into that conversation. We talk about the value of labels and how things are changing over time. Please stream Feel Good and check out Mae's book Can Everyone Please Calm Down. Sponsored b...
"You Can Love Multiple People" w/ Ashley Ray (Re-release)
December 13, 2022 18:21 - 1 hourIf monogamy isn't for you, you never want to merge bank accounts with someone, but you're got a lot of love to give (and hope to receive it back), then perhaps solo polyamory is right for you! Comedian and writer Ashley Ray has been living that solo polyamory life (in a pandemic no less!) and joins us to correct common misconceptions about her love life. We talk about the funny and tragic red flags she sifts through when dating, how people react to her relationship structure, and why structur...
"We Are Not Possessions" w/ Alysia Brown (Re-release)
December 06, 2022 03:55 - 1 hourA dating episode in the midst of a global pandemic? If anyone can still have game when the world feels upside down, it's comedian Alysia Brown. From back-to-back dates to picking up audience members on Zoom shows and everything in between, Alysia does it all. She tells us about her dating life before COVID, during quarantine, and what she hopes to find for the future. We implore her to share her tips and go-to moves so that our listeners can learn from her experience. Plus, Melody tries to ch...
"Not Being Near Men" w/ Casey Jane Ellison (Re-release)
November 29, 2022 05:38 - 1 hourDykes just wanna have fun, and here to tell us all about it is herlarious comedian, performer, and artist Casey Jane Ellison! It's hard to put into words what makes being a lesbian so dang fun, but that didn't stop us from trying! Is it the sex? The freedom from the male gaze? Underwater waterfalls? THE SEX? Is every commercial featuring a person slo-mo running through a field just an ad for lesbianism? Maybe it is, MAYBE IT IS, Plus, Carolyn and Melody reluctantly make New Year's Resolutions...
"Don't F*ck In Our Bathroom" w/ Jo McDaniel (Re-release)
November 22, 2022 05:06 - 1 hourOur hearts are heavy with the tragedy at Club Q in Colorado Springs. We can't speak highly enough of all the rad humans who work tirelessly to create and maintain queer spaces, so this week we're re-releasing our episode with Jo McDaniel. Since recording this episode, Jo and her partner Rach/Coach have opened As You Are Bar in DC, so please go visit, tip generously, and keep your hands where Jo can see them. Believe it or not, we can't talk enough about saving our dyke spaces. And not even an...
"Allies Queef, Accomplices Squirt" w/ Amber Hikes (re-release)
November 15, 2022 16:34 - 1 hourShow up for this episode, and you might just learn how to better show up for those who could use your accompliceship. Activist Amber Hikes joins us for a thoughtful and fun conversation about how we can make our respective privilege work for others. What's the difference between an ally and an accomplice? And how do we know who we should be listening to for guidance? Plus, what does calling someone in have to do with food stuck in teeth? Also, Melody FINALLY comes around on flags. But before ...
"Accent Fingers" w/ Molly Kearney (Re-release)
November 08, 2022 17:13 - 1 hourNOTE: This interview took place before Molly started using they/them pronouns. We're in the thick of Pride month and cooked up this TREAT of an episode with the super funny and wonderful Molly Kearney (Saturday Night Live). Molly lives their life loud and proud, and they make it seem so fun and effortless. What is this beautiful butch dyke's origin story? What gay things is this double-cannon wielding comedian up to? How did they survive being the meat in a triple bunk bed sandwich? Where do ...
"Centering Joy" w/ Precious Brady-Davis (Re-release)
November 01, 2022 03:01 - 1 hourActivist, speaker, and author Precious Brady-Davis joins us to share the life lessons she's learned about living authentically, as told in her memoir, I Have Always Been Me. Precious tells us how and why she's always lived fearlessly. She stresses the importance of finding a way to shine regardless of your circumstances. We also dyke out about manifesting the life you want, and how being true to yourself attracts love into your life. Could this conversation be any more gay??? Plus, Carolyn fi...
"The L Word Takes Manhattan" w/ Jenna Lyons (re-release)
October 25, 2022 03:23 - 1 hourIt was recently announced that Jenna Lyons will be on the new cast of RHONY, so we're re-releasing the interview where we (Bravo Influencers) planted the seed: It's our first live recording in YEARS, and we couldn't be more thrilled to dyke out with the iconic and stylish Jenna Lyons! We sat down with Jenna on December 7, 2021 at The Wing Soho in front of an audience filled with our favorite listeners. We talk about Jenna's experience of being outed and the learning curve that comes with comi...
"Four Negroni Sbagliatos" w/ Kerensa Cadenas - Ep. 255
October 18, 2022 04:47 - 1 hourListen to Carolyn's new podcast Love's A Pitch on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Feeling fine after a night of four meme-inspired drinks, Editorial Director Kerensa Cadenas (New York Magazine) joins us to talk about sapphic TV, bisexual signaling, and dating. So exactly why are queer women going nuts of Negroni Sbagliatos? What can we expect or hope for with the new season of The L Word: Generation Q? Who do we NOT want to win a GLAAD award? Besides the green velvet couch, how else can home decor...
"Rabbit Syphilis" w/ Maddie Wiener - Ep. 254
October 11, 2022 04:47 - 1 hourDid we convince comedian Maddie Wiener (Comedy Central) to unplug and move to the country on this week's episode? Or maybe their emotional support rabbit will help them cope with living in New York City. Either way, we have a fun conversation about gender, nostalgia, van life, Prada as a queer ally, queer YouTube and more! Plus, Melody and Carolyn go to the premiere of The Lesbian Bar Project series which is out now on the Roku Channel, so check it out. -Get extra content EACH WEEK, Ad Free e...
"Lesbian TikTok Drama" w/ Kendall Payne - Ep. 253
October 04, 2022 18:24 - 1 hourIs it possible for us to have comedian & filmmaker Kendall Payne on the podcast and NOT talk murder? Listen and find out! High off her brush with lesbian TikTok fame, a trip to The L Word set, and a moment with Fletcher, Kendall returns to the pod to d*ke out about all sorts of lesbian drama, and how her fascination with it got her into The New York Times. Plus, we talk about our experience at The Dinah, feelings on King Princess, problematic TV shows, and more! Also, if you want to learn mor...
"Conflict Is Not Abuse" w/ Becca Blackwell (Re-release)
September 27, 2022 22:43 - 1 hourWe're recovering from Dinah Shore and are re-releasing another favorite ep from the archives. This episode is everything and nothing, because that's where we always end up when discussing labels. But to us, it's actually everything because we're d*king out with the hilarious and entertaining Becca Blackwell (High Maintenance on HBO)! We talk about their gender and sexuality journey, as well as their relationship to labels throughout their life. What happens when we hold individual definitions...
"TikTok Ya Don't Stop" w/ Rosie O'Donnell (Re-release)
September 20, 2022 11:58 - 1 hourIt's the re-release of our 200th episode with one and only Rosie O'Donnell fulfilling the Dyking Out prophecy. Rosie has been doing press for her new show, and it's very interesting to hear her now talking about updates on a lot of the topics we touch on in this interview from a year ago! It may have taken four years of wishing this moment into existence (okay, maybe we did a LITTLE more than wishing), but we finally have our chance to dyke out with Rosie about our favorite topic: Rosie! How ...
"But I'm A Cheerleader" w/ Jamie Babbit (Rerelease)
September 13, 2022 12:21 - 1 hourYour hosts with the mosts are traveling this week, so we're revisiting one of our favorite interviews with Director Jamie Babbit. Jamie most recently directed the first three episodes of Prime Video's A League of Their Own, which reminded us of our interview where she tells us about working on the show. But most of our conversation centers around one of our favorite movies, But I'm A Cheerleader. -Get extra content (mostly) EACH WEEK, Ad Free episodes, support the pod, and get to know other l...
"Fingerbanging Dance Floors" w/ Jess Rothschild - Ep. 252
September 06, 2022 11:14 - 1 hourWe did it. We finally took a gaycation together. Podcaster and Cherry Grove connoisseur Jess Rothschild (Hot Takes and Deep Dives) joins us once more to talk about our magical, misandrist (for Carolyn) weekend on Fire Island. Did we end up meeting Wanda Sykes? How does it compare to PTown? What's the difference in the vibe between Cherry Grove and The Pines? And is there another destination that we can turn into a sapphic paradise? Plus, we review our new favorite drag acts. Also, Carolyn man...
"Dole Whip & P*ssy" w/ Colette McIntyre -Ep. 251
August 30, 2022 03:55 - 1 hourFresh off influencing the gravitational pull of the moon amongst a sea of queers, writer/comedian/past guest Colette McIntyre joins us to talk about a complicated trip to a different kind of magical place. One with garbage cans worth stanning. One with shirts about wanting and giving the "D." One with riddles and pins and barbershop quartets and vegan soft serve. Yes, Colette went to Disneyland for the first time as an adult and lived to tell about it. We dissect her experience and try to und...
"The Queer Mecca" w/ Mariah Hanson - Ep. 250
August 24, 2022 04:12 - 1 hourWe're counting down the weeks until we can wish folks a "Happy Dinah" IRL in Palm Springs. And to get us even more pumped for the occasion, we're dyking out with the founder of the largest lesbian event in the world, Mariah Hanson! So how did Mariah go from getting all parties banned on her college campus to putting on a queer music festival in the desert? What are the challenges in keeping the event focused on queer women while also being inclusive to all genders and identities? What keeps t...
"Ellen, But Violent" w/ Rachel Kaly - Ep. 249
August 16, 2022 18:19 - 1 hourMaybe he knows it, maybe he doesn't, but Timothée Chalamet definitely needs comedian Rachel Kaly in his life. Rachel details her very relatable admiration of our favorite (and only) male dykon, along with a crazy wonderful story that proves we live in a simulation. So how did Rachel go from a Cracker Barrel shirt and tie-wearing nine-year-old telling jokes at Gotham, to a master Ellen DeGeneres impersonator, to an agent of hilarious onstage chaos? Give this ep a listen and find out! Plus, Mel...
"Teenage Simba" w/ Nico Carney - Ep. 248
August 09, 2022 02:32 - 59 minutesIf you've cried while coming out to your soccer coach, then you have something in common with comedian Nico Carney (Netflix, Boys' Club podcast). Fresh off a killer set at our Stonewall Inn show, Nico joins us to share his coming out story, his next coming out story, and the literature that helped inspire both. Plus, we talk about his Boys' Club show/podcast and experience in the first Netflix is a Joke festival. And if that's not enough, hear Melody geek out big time over...Grover? -Get extr...
"Reclaiming My T*tty Time" w/ Sheria Mattis -Ep. 247
August 02, 2022 03:05 - 1 hourComedian (and hopefully new bff of the pod) Sheria Mattis joins us to ask all the right questions about studs and fibroids. Well, technically she answers more than she asks about fibroids, but we truly go on a reproductive health journey this episode. Plus, we talk about desired technological updates for straps and those who wear them. Also, Sheria makes Carolyn rethink her gay origin story, while Melody becomes convinced she should get checked for fibroids. -Get extra content EACH WEEK, Ad ...
"New Queer Face of 9/11" w/ Emily Dayton Evans - Ep. 246
July 26, 2022 05:22 - 1 hourSome of us truly live for the applause, and this week's guest will not shy away from that fact. Comedian and performer Emily Dayton Evans joins us to talk about her journey from fragile human to saliva-swapping comedian. Did you know it was possible to grown up in Vermont without a driver's license? Are walkie talkies a couples' gift or intended for one person only? What's the hot goss with age gap relationships on TikTok? We cover all this and so much more. Plus, would you be into our fall d...
"Lesbian Teenage Boy Phase" w/ Eman El-Husseini - Ep. 245
July 19, 2022 02:44 - 1 hourIf you're comedian Eman El-Husseini's therapist, DO NOT listen to this episode. We had so much fun catching up with Eman about all of her 'late in life' activities, like getting into edibles and terrible lesbian movies. Also, why do people in Buffalo allegedly hate Bon Jovi? Is it okay to compete in couples therapy? How can a bulldog be ugly? Are lesbian personal trainers better? And why does Eman want people to touch her arms, but "just a little?" Plus, our very different gayest things of th...
"Lesbian Word Vomit" w/ Liza Dye - Ep. 244
July 12, 2022 04:28 - 1 hourOur favorite celesbian gossip queen, Liza Dye (@BettePorterGallery) takes a break from living her best Jenny Schecter life to share her thoughts on headline-making queers. From defending Cara Delevigne's public behavior, to calling out a that's-so-questionable marriage, to stanning the messiest queers . And yet, we don't get a change to dish on some of the top hot goss because we get derailed by corporate pride weirdness. But we do have time for Liza's glowing review of Love's A Pitch. Plus, ...
"Finances and Feelings" w/ Gaby Dunn - Ep. 243
July 05, 2022 16:46 - 59 minutesFrom queer tumblr icon to diy financial guru (gay-ru?), Gaby Dunn joins us to talk about the oppressive systems working against us. Don't worry, we make it fun! Fresh off the release of their new ebook and audiobook on Scribd, Stimulus Wreck: Rebuilding After a Financial Crisis, Gaby talks about navigating our new reality and rebuilding after a financial disaster. Are millennials uniquely bad with money, or are we just being gaslit into thinking we're incapable of making good financial decisi...
"Deleting Tweets" w/ Ely Kreimendahl - Ep. 242
June 28, 2022 07:03 - 59 minutesFull disclosure: we recorded this episode a few weeks ago when we were at normal rage levels. So take a listen and remember slightly less terrifying times as comedy writer Ely Kreimendahl teaches us about dramatic psycho therapy and so much more! Carolyn and Ely bond over their time at school in Boston where they struggled to feel comfortable around lesbians. Then, we talk about Twitter trolls and trauma and when it's right to delete the tweet. Plus, we learn about Ely's experience with strai...
"The Gayest Town On Earth" w/ Mitra Kaboli - Ep. 241
June 21, 2022 03:48 - 59 minutesFresh off the release of her new podcast Welcome To Provincetown, award-winning audio documentarian Mitra Kaboli joins us to d*ke out about the town with seemingly few d*kes around! We do our best Nancy Drew impression and try to piece together why this gaycation destination centers cis gay men. For real, we want to know why aren't there lesbian orgies abound in the artsiest, most dog-friendly part of Cape Cod. Can not even the self-proclaimed Lord Of The Lesbians turn things around? Plus, wh...
"Squirting Through My Eyes" w/ Flora Manon - Ep. 240
June 14, 2022 18:47 - 1 hourLocal twerking celeb and comedian Flora Manon joins us to talk about bruised knees, breakups, and one hot bartender. It's a wild episode where we touch on a little bit of everything, from cat collages to moms doing the work to disabled sisters who need to be taken down a peg. We also talk about the struggle of being in a relationship with differing views on non-monogamy. Plus, Carolyn gushes about Girls In Wonderland, which she promises not to bring up until the next time she goes. And Melody...
"The Blindfold Is So Essential" w/ Yin Q - Ep. 239
June 07, 2022 04:36 - 1 hourGet out your leather and *checks notes* American Revolution leotards? Because we're talking all things kink with writer, activist, and BDSM practitioner Yin Q! Okay, maybe not ALL things, but Melody and Carolyn ask Yin all the newbie and vulnerable questions we could think of. What stops people from exploring kink? What are read flags when playing with a more experienced kinkster? Where does one even start? What are common misconceptions? How can we be better allies to sex workers? Give it a ...
"Eating Ass is Queer First Base" w/ Honey Pluton - Ep. 238
May 31, 2022 11:40 - 1 hourYou're in for a sweet treat because we're having a gay ol' time with hilarious comedian Honey Pluton! Honey goes off on all the things our community needs to be reminded of. Like what should you do if you run into an ex at Pride? What are the queer bases? Why does @$$ eating have to do with birthday invites? What's a concept of clothing vs. actual clothing? Plus, we share an important PSA about party drugs at Pride. Honey also shares a gayest thing that is peak 2022. Be sure to catch their li...
"Through The Spaghetti Vine" w/ Samee Junio - Ep. 237
May 24, 2022 04:50 - 1 hourGet out your forks and dig into this ep featuring your new spaghetti-loving long-distance crush, Samee Junio (Historical Roasts on Netflix)! We're talking carbs, tattoos, dogs, long-distance relationships, astrology, and more. It's more like, what don't we talk about? Plus, how gay can one make karaoke? And can you watch a queer movie too many times? Also, what the hell happened to Quibi, and why is Melody the reason it didn't last? We're answering all the questions you never asked! Bon appét...