Are Your Five Closest Friends Sabotaging You?

Who you spend time with shapes who you become. In this episode, Jerome pulls back the curtain on how your core relationships can either enable or sabotage your dreams. He introduces the 2C Matrix, a tool to critically evaluate your inner circle based on their capacity to help you succeed and their active contribution. Discover strategies to surround yourself with people who reinforce your goals versus those who drag you down. It's time to take a hard look at the 5 people closest to you. Are they lifting you up or holding you back? The people you spend the most time with determine the life you live. Listen in as Jerome provides guidance on curating an empowering community that takes you to new heights.

[00:00 - 07:16] - Taking a Critical Look at Your Inner Circle

Building off last week's discussion on self-image, your core relationships shape your life 

Jerome introduces the 2C Matrix - a tool to assess your top 5 relationships on capacity and contribution

Reflect on who you spend time with and what they expect from life - does it align with your goals? 

[07:17 - 10:48] - Decoding the 2C Matrix to Understand Your Network 

Jerome breaks down the 2C Matrix - capacity is one's ability to help you, contribution is active effort  

Plot your 5 closest friends on the matrix based on their capacity and contribution  

Most will rate lower on capacity - this is normal but not ideal

Strategize engaging "high capacity, low contribution" people to elevate the relationship

[10:49 - 13:31] - Elevating Your Circle to Reach New Heights

Help others succeed while also furthering your goals through reciprocity

Meaningful relationships require continuous evaluation and sometimes separation  

Surround yourself with people who align with your dreams - elevation requires it

Key Quotes:
"Creating an environment where it's easy to actually do the thing that you plan to do … has a huge, and I mean, huge impact on your life.” - Jerome Myers

 “The people that you spend the most time with, not the people, but the expectations of those people is what creates your life.” - Jerome Myers

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Who you spend time with shapes who you become. In this episode, Jerome pulls back the curtain on how your core relationships can either enable or sabotage your dreams. He introduces the 2C Matrix, a tool to critically evaluate your inner circle based on their capacity to help you succeed and their active contribution. Discover strategies to surround yourself with people who reinforce your goals versus those who drag you down. It's time to take a hard look at the 5 people closest to you. Are they lifting you up or holding you back? The people you spend the most time with determine the life you live. Listen in as Jerome provides guidance on curating an empowering community that takes you to new heights.

[00:00 - 07:16] - Taking a Critical Look at Your Inner Circle

Building off last week's discussion on self-image, your core relationships shape your life 
Jerome introduces the 2C Matrix - a tool to assess your top 5 relationships on capacity and contribution
Reflect on who you spend time with and what they expect from life - does it align with your goals? 

[07:17 - 10:48] - Decoding the 2C Matrix to Understand Your Network 

Jerome breaks down the 2C Matrix - capacity is one's ability to help you, contribution is active effort  
Plot your 5 closest friends on the matrix based on their capacity and contribution  
Most will rate lower on capacity - this is normal but not ideal
Strategize engaging "high capacity, low contribution" people to elevate the relationship

[10:49 - 13:31] - Elevating Your Circle to Reach New Heights

Help others succeed while also furthering your goals through reciprocity
Meaningful relationships require continuous evaluation and sometimes separation  
Surround yourself with people who align with your dreams - elevation requires it

Key Quotes:

"Creating an environment where it's easy to actually do the thing that you plan to do … has a huge, and I mean, huge impact on your life.” - Jerome Myers

 “The people that you spend the most time with, not the people, but the expectations of those people is what creates your life.” - Jerome Myers

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LEAVE A REVIEW + help someone who wants to explode their business growth by sharing this episode or click here to listen to our previous episodes. 

Dreamcatchers is an inclusive organization that targets people’s interest in being more instead of a certain demographic. We have people from all walks of life at many different ages. Find out more at www.itooktheredpill.co

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices