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Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

214 episodes - English - Latest episode: 7 days ago - ★★★★★ - 22 ratings

Divorce is the second highest stressor for women, second only to the death of a spouse.

Are you feeling overwhelmed and not even sure where to start? If so, you are in the right place! We are so glad you are here. Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women is for women who want to be heard, want to step into their financial power and want to get a better outcome. What is your next best disruptive move? Join Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Rhonda Noordyk, as she provides you with candid conversations, practical strategies, and positive encouragement so you can breathe easier and feel empowered every step of the way. Rhonda has spent over 18,000 hours helping women like you navigate divorce, challenge the status quo and come out stronger. So, if you're ready to accelerate your confidence and increase your sense of empowerment, tune in and join the thousands of women growing every day through the podcast.

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Episode #180: The Deadly Duo - Money & Sex with Dr. Sheri Keffer

March 22, 2024 11:35 - 49 minutes - 92.7 MB

[Warning: This episode may be triggering for some, be gentle with yourself and take breaks while listening, or pass on listening until you’re ready. It is not meant for children’s ears.)   Rhonda sits down with Marriage and Family Therapist, Dr. Sheri Keffer of the Brave One Community to discuss sexual deception and betrayal and how that intersects and affects your finances.    Here are some highlights of what they cover:   What is sexual acting out? What should you be doing if y...

Episode #179: Timing is Everything When it Comes to Your Credit

March 08, 2024 11:34 - 31 minutes - 58.6 MB

Rhonda and Jeanne Kelly have an honest conversation around credit - the good and the bad. Being educated and informed of resources is imperative - especially if you’re divorcing. They cover:   We learn by mistakes - how to get financial confidence around your credit Knowledge is power Credit cards points - they could be worth more than you think; don’t discount them in the divorce Good credit can save you How to split your credit debt Pulling your credit report is key at the time of ...

Episode #178: My Spouse Says I Can’t Keep the House…Now What?

February 24, 2024 12:22 - 38 minutes - 72.6 MB

Listen in on our live stream episode with Certified Divorce Lender, Josh Bucio with Waterstone Mortgage. Josh and Rhonda discuss all the things to consider when considering keeping or selling your home in divorce. You might be surprised to learn you CAN keep it, if you want to. Topics they cover:   Supply and demand and how that affects the market Stay at home moms DO have options Interest rates and loan assumptions Find the RIGHT team Be realistic and get creative! About today’s gue...

Episode #177: Understanding Your Spouse’s Compensation

February 09, 2024 12:47 - 44 minutes - 83.6 MB

Rhonda sits down with Attorney Michael Johnson to discuss physician compensation packages and how to unravel all of the potential avenues for income. This episode focuses on wives of physicians, but can be applied to other situations. They discuss:   Types of employment for physicians and how that affects their compensation. Ways to break down compensation - learn how to follow the money. Know your value as the spouse of a physician. Know that you have options! About today’s guest:  ...

Episode 176: Win without Law School with Attorney Julie LaBenz

February 02, 2024 20:08 - 47 minutes - 89 MB

Rhonda sits down with Attorney Julie LaBenz,  to discuss ways to be prepared if you find that you need to represent yourself in your divorce trial. Trials are complicated, even more so if you are representing yourself. Julie gives us some guidance:   Preparation is key Know the procedure Categorize and be crystal clear about your end goal Discovery is important Be gentle with yourself   About today’s guest:    Julie LaBenz is an Attorney and founder of “Win Without Law School.”...

Episode 175: When Co-Parenting Seems Impossible

January 26, 2024 12:27 - 41 minutes - 77.7 MB

Rhonda is joined by Trauma Informed Parenting Consultant, AJ Gajjar. Co-parenting is always the goal, but what if that’s a challenge? AJ shares 3 key things if you are dealing with trying to co-parent with a high-conflict / maladaptive parent.    Safety for your kids and how to help them cope Prioritize the relationship - you have the power! Have a child-centric lens and be aware of all the transitions they are experiencing.   AJ is offering a free consultation to our listeners:   ...

Episode 174: How to be the CEO of Your Divorce with Meagan Norris

January 12, 2024 12:49 - 32 minutes - 62 MB

Rhonda sits down with Life and Divorce Coach, Meagan Norris. They discuss:   Mindset around money - what and how you think about money matters! The lies we tell ourselves and how to combat them with truth. Divorce is an opportunity to live a life bigger than you imagined. 4 buckets to look at when making decisions. Do not give in to fatigue - be your own CEO.   This episode is packed with practical things you can start today and will empower you to move forward! About today’s gues...

Disrupt the Conversation You’re having with Yourself

January 05, 2024 12:56 - 30 minutes - 56.8 MB

Rhonda sits down with Patty Jackson, Founder of Clear Inner Focus Mindset Coaching to talk about disrupting the conversation we have with our spouse and more importantly, with ourselves. Here is what you can look forward to as you listen:   How can you disassemble the landmines around you 4 things you CAN control Why you need to forgive yourself and how that helps you change your perspective About today’s guest: Patty Jackson, Founder, Clear Inner Focus Mindset Coaching, has seen peo...

Disrupt the Conversation You’re Having with Yourself

January 05, 2024 12:56 - 30 minutes - 56.8 MB

Rhonda sits down with Patty Jackson, Founder of Clear Inner Focus Mindset Coaching to talk about disrupting the conversation we have with our spouse and more importantly, with ourselves. Here is what you can look forward to as you listen:   How can you disassemble the landmines around you 4 things you CAN control Why you need to forgive yourself and how that helps you change your perspective About today’s guest: Patty Jackson, Founder, Clear Inner Focus Mindset Coaching, has seen peo...

Episode 173: Disrupt the Conversation You’re Having with Yourself

January 05, 2024 12:56 - 30 minutes - 56.8 MB

Rhonda sits down with Patty Jackson, Founder of Clear Inner Focus Mindset Coaching to talk about disrupting the conversation we have with our spouse and more importantly, with ourselves. Here is what you can look forward to as you listen:   How can you disassemble the landmines around you 4 things you CAN control Why you need to forgive yourself and how that helps you change your perspective About today’s guest: Patty Jackson, Founder, Clear Inner Focus Mindset Coaching, has seen peo...

Episode 172: Disrupt Your Beliefs Around Alcohol with Beth Purcell

November 17, 2023 12:08 - 24 minutes - 46 MB

With the holidays fast approaching, you may feel more tempted to turn to alcohol as a stress reliever as you navigate through your divorce. Our guest today, Alcohol-Free Life Coach, Beth Purcell is here to share that there is a different way! Beth and Rhonda discuss:   Beliefs around alcohol and how to change your mindset Challenge yourself to do a reset for clarity Keep your own side of the street clean There is no shame in asking for help! About today’s guest:   Beth is a certif...

Disrupt Your Beliefs Around Alcohol with Beth Purcell

November 17, 2023 12:08 - 24 minutes - 46 MB

With the holidays fast approaching, you may feel more tempted to turn to alcohol as a stress reliever as you navigate through your divorce. Our guest today, Alcohol-Free Life Coach, Beth Purcell is here to share that there is a different way! Beth and Rhonda discuss:   Beliefs around alcohol and how to change your mindset Challenge yourself to do a reset for clarity Keep your own side of the street clean There is no shame in asking for help! About today’s guest:   Beth is a certif...

Do I need a business valuation?

October 21, 2023 10:57 - 37 minutes - 71 MB

Are you going through divorce and you or your spouse own a business? Listen in!    Rhonda talks with Business Valuation Expert, Henry Kaskov about valuing your business. What should you consider as you approach this process?    They discuss:   Who needs a Business Valuation? Discovery Process (learn what DAM is!) Hire a licensed, certified neutral appraiser in the divorce space Ask the right questions How does “good will” affect the outcome? Expert testimony in court About t...

Episode 171: Do I need a business valuation?

October 21, 2023 10:57 - 37 minutes - 71 MB

Are you going through divorce and you or your spouse own a business? Listen in!    Rhonda talks with Business Valuation Expert, Henry Kaskov about valuing your business. What should you consider as you approach this process?    They discuss:   Who needs a Business Valuation? Discovery Process (learn what DAM is!) Hire a licensed, certified neutral appraiser in the divorce space Ask the right questions How does “good will” affect the outcome? Expert testimony in court About t...

Episode 170: Boost your Money Confidence with Jean Chatzky

October 13, 2023 11:11 - 28 minutes - 54.1 MB

Our special guest today is CEO and Co-Founder of HerMoney, Jean Chatzky! Rhonda and Jean walk through how to step out in confidence when it comes to your money.    Learn your money - it can be managed! Value based spending - what is important to you? Girl Math! Why wisdom over too much information is will get you where you want to be About today’s guest:  Jean Chatzky is the founder and CEO of HerMoney.com and the coaching programs FinanceFixx and InvestingFixx.    She is the hos...

Boost your Money Confidence with Jean Chatzky

October 13, 2023 11:11 - 28 minutes - 54.1 MB

Our special guest today is CEO and Co-Founder of HerMoney, Jean Chatzky! Rhonda and Jean walk through how to step out in confidence when it comes to your money.    Learn your money - it can be managed! Value based spending - what is important to you? Girl Math! Why wisdom over too much information is will get you where you want to be About today’s guest:  Jean Chatzky is the founder and CEO of HerMoney.com and the coaching programs FinanceFixx and InvestingFixx.    She is the hos...

Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

October 06, 2023 11:21 - 22 minutes - 43 MB

We have some exciting news and a special announcement! Join Rhonda as she outlines her thought process about the new name for the podcast, and why we’re making this small but powerful shift.    Rhonda covers:   The origin story of the podcast Client stories How she can help you if you’re contemplating or moving through the divorce process Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, Founder & CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advo...

Episode 169: Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

October 06, 2023 11:21 - 22 minutes - 43 MB

We have some exciting news and a special announcement! Join Rhonda as she outlines her thought process about the new name for the podcast, and why we’re making this small but powerful shift.    Rhonda covers:   The origin story of the podcast Client stories How she can help you if you’re contemplating or moving through the divorce process Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA®, Founder & CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center   Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advo...

How well do you know your home?

September 02, 2023 21:04 - 26 minutes - 50 MB

Licensed Home Appraiser, Rachel Pader sits down with Rhonda to talk about  the importance of home appraisal. Knowing your home is key! A few things they discuss:   Why it’s important to have a good appraiser Tips on what you should look for Top 3 items to consider when having your home appraised About today’s guest:   Rachel had been a home appraiser for 5 years and has made it her  goal to shorten the gap between realtors and appraisers. She helps educate as many people as pos...

Episode 168: How well do you know your home?

September 02, 2023 21:04 - 26 minutes - 50 MB

Licensed Home Appraiser, Rachel Pader sits down with Rhonda to talk about  the importance of home appraisal. Knowing your home is key! A few things they discuss:   Why it’s important to have a good appraiser Tips on what you should look for Top 3 items to consider when having your home appraised About today’s guest:   Rachel had been a home appraiser for 5 years and has made it her  goal to shorten the gap between realtors and appraisers. She helps educate as many people as pos...

Episode 167: 3 Ways to Get Support During a High Conflict Divorce

August 25, 2023 11:58 - 36 minutes - 68.3 MB

Rhonda sits down with former high school teacher turned high conflict divorce coach and advocate, Lisa Johnson. Lisa and Rhonda discuss coercive control, how laws are changing across the country, and ways you can navigate through the long and arduous process. Topics include:   Find community: gather your team, both personal and professional Timeline - it’s a marathon: ways to stay in it for the long haul Enjoy your life (Yes, really!) About today’s guest:    Lisa Johnson is the co-...

3 Ways to Get Support During a High Conflict Divorce

August 25, 2023 11:58 - 36 minutes - 68.3 MB

Rhonda sits down with former high school teacher turned high conflict divorce coach and advocate, Lisa Johnson. Lisa and Rhonda discuss coercive control, how laws are changing across the country, and ways you can navigate through the long and arduous process. Topics include:   Find community: gather your team, both personal and professional Timeline - it’s a marathon: ways to stay in it for the long haul Enjoy your life (Yes, really!) About today’s guest:    Lisa Johnson is the co-...

Strategies for Dealing with Narcissistic Behavior

July 21, 2023 10:42 - 39 minutes - 73.9 MB

Rhonda sits down with Tracy Malone, Founder of Narcissist Abuse Support. They discuss specific ways you can know if you’re being gaslit and how to handle narcissistic behavior.    What is gaslighting? Specific questions to ask your attorney Strategies for dealing with narcissistic behavior Ways to build your team who will empower you About today’s guest:    My name is Tracy Malone and I am a surTHRIVER of narcissistic abuse. I created this website in 2015 when I learned that I had...

Episode 166: Strategies for Dealing with Narcissistic Behavior

July 21, 2023 10:42 - 39 minutes - 73.9 MB

Rhonda sits down with Tracy Malone, Founder of Narcissist Abuse Support. They discuss specific ways you can know if you’re being gaslit and how to handle narcissistic behavior.    What is gaslighting? Specific questions to ask your attorney Strategies for dealing with narcissistic behavior Ways to build your team who will empower you About today’s guest:    My name is Tracy Malone and I am a surTHRIVER of narcissistic abuse. I created this website in 2015 when I learned that I had...

Is it Time to Shift Your Perspective?

July 13, 2023 23:19 - 34 minutes - 65.1 MB

Barbara Majeski, Founder of The MORE Life Collective, TV Personality, and Lifestyle Expert joins Rhonda for a fun and important conversation! They cover a lot today - you’ll want to take notes!  Topics discussed: Women’s tolerance level is high - but there is a limit Focus on YOUR own journey You can’t shortcut the process It’s never too late to reinvent yourself About today’s guest:    Barbara is a TV personality that loves sharing her tips and tricks. She has frequently appear...

Episode 165: Is it Time to Shift Your Perspective?

July 13, 2023 23:19 - 34 minutes - 65.1 MB

Barbara Majeski, Founder of The MORE Life Collective, TV Personality, and Lifestyle Expert joins Rhonda for a fun and important conversation! They cover a lot today - you’ll want to take notes!  Topics discussed: Women’s tolerance level is high - but there is a limit Focus on YOUR own journey You can’t shortcut the process It’s never too late to reinvent yourself About today’s guest:    Barbara is a TV personality that loves sharing her tips and tricks. She has frequently appear...

Mediation: Is it the right option for you?

June 23, 2023 21:39 - 28 minutes - 53.5 MB

You will love today’s guest! Lori Barkus of Sustainable Family Solutions sits down with Rhonda to talk about some of the misunderstandings around Mediation. While it can be a great option, you need to be sure you know exactly what the process entails - and what it does not.   Know what mediation is - and what it isn’t What are some key things you should know and do before choosing mediation? Preparation is KEY! About today’s guest:    Lori Barkus is a cum laude graduate of the Univ...

Episode 164: Mediation: Is it the right option for you?

June 23, 2023 21:39 - 28 minutes - 53.5 MB

You will love today’s guest! Lori Barkus of Sustainable Family Solutions sits down with Rhonda to talk about some of the misunderstandings around Mediation. While it can be a great option, you need to be sure you know exactly what the process entails - and what it does not.   Know what mediation is - and what it isn’t What are some key things you should know and do before choosing mediation? Preparation is KEY! About today’s guest:    Lori Barkus is a cum laude graduate of the Univ...

Episode 163: How to co-parent, even in the most difficult circumstances

June 16, 2023 17:49 - 44 minutes - 85.3 MB

Rhonda is joined by Attorney Lauren Hunt for a conversation about co-parenting and negotiating the big (and little) things in divorce and beyond.   This episode covers:   Communication is key when co-parenting Is splitting custody 50/50 always the right thing? Treat co-parenting like a business Negotiations and boundaries Navigating the family court system About today’s guest:  Lauren is a divorce attorney who has been in practice for over a decade. Her focus is on giving par...

How to co-parent, even in the most difficult circumstances

June 16, 2023 17:49 - 44 minutes - 85.3 MB

Rhonda is joined by Attorney Lauren Hunt for a conversation about co-parenting and negotiating the big (and little) things in divorce and beyond.   This episode covers:   Communication is key when co-parenting Is splitting custody 50/50 always the right thing? Treat co-parenting like a business Negotiations and boundaries Navigating the family court system About today’s guest:  Lauren is a divorce attorney who has been in practice for over a decade. Her focus is on giving par...

Episode 162: Why you should consider Mediation.

May 26, 2023 11:15 - 43 minutes - 82.1 MB

Attorney and Mediator, Lesa Koski joins Rhonda for an in-depth conversation around Mediation. Mediation is a great option and can provide a safe place for both parties to be heard and understood. Lisa and Rhonda cover:   What mediation is and what it is not Mediation CAN work, even in difficult circumstances How to find the right Mediator for you Assembling the right team is crucial to the outcome About today’s guest:    Lesa Koski   I am an attorney based in Woodbury, MN with...

Why you should consider Mediation.

May 26, 2023 11:15 - 43 minutes - 82.1 MB

Attorney and Mediator, Lesa Koski joins Rhonda for an in-depth conversation around Mediation. Mediation is a great option and can provide a safe place for both parties to be heard and understood. Lisa and Rhonda cover:   What mediation is and what it is not Mediation CAN work, even in difficult circumstances How to find the right Mediator for you Assembling the right team is crucial to the outcome About today’s guest:    Lesa Koski   I am an attorney based in Woodbury, MN with...

How to navigate being a woman of faith contemplating divorce.

May 12, 2023 10:45 - 43 minutes - 83.9 MB

Rhonda sits down with author and podcast host, Natalie Hoffman for an fascinating conversation about being a woman of faith facing divorce. They tackle some tough questions, but you’ll leave feeling empowered and encouraged. If you find yourself feeling confused about your marriage and contemplating divorce - pull up a chair and listen in!   What are some common beliefs women of faith have that hold them back from making a divorce decision?   How can they work to reframe those belief...

Episode 161: How to navigate being a woman of faith contemplating divorce.

May 12, 2023 10:45 - 43 minutes - 83.9 MB

Rhonda sits down with author and podcast host, Natalie Hoffman for an fascinating conversation about being a woman of faith facing divorce. They tackle some tough questions, but you’ll leave feeling empowered and encouraged. If you find yourself feeling confused about your marriage and contemplating divorce - pull up a chair and listen in!   What are some common beliefs women of faith have that hold them back from making a divorce decision?   How can they work to reframe those belief...

Episode 160: What makes a good divorce?

May 05, 2023 11:15 - 31 minutes - 58.2 MB

Divorce is never easy, but what if you could take steps to help your kids navigate the process?   Rhonda's guest today is Sarah Armstrong, author of The Mom’s Guide to a Good Divorce. They discuss ways to make things easier, especially if you’ve got kids.    Pay attention to small changes that the children will be affected by - kids are observant! Take the high road - easier said than done, but worth it. Set a goal to never pack a bag. Set the intention to delay your emotions   ...

What makes a good divorce?

May 05, 2023 11:15 - 31 minutes - 58.2 MB

Divorce is never easy, but what if you could take steps to help your kids navigate the process?   Rhonda's guest today is Sarah Armstrong, author of The Mom’s Guide to a Good Divorce. They discuss ways to make things easier, especially if you’ve got kids.    Pay attention to small changes that the children will be affected by - kids are observant! Take the high road - easier said than done, but worth it. Set a goal to never pack a bag. Set the intention to delay your emotions   ...

Episode 159: What if you choose joy?

April 28, 2023 20:01 - 21 minutes - 41.6 MB

Rhonda’s guest today is Life Mastery Coach, Donna Tashjian. They discuss ways to move past the pain of divorce to a place of peace and empowerment. We know you will be inspired and encouraged! They cover:  Choose joy - joy is not happiness You can find healing through trauma - forgiveness is not an emotion Look for the gifts - gratitude can change everything   About today’s guest: Donna Tashjian is the founder of Vibrant Living International, a non-profit organization. She is a Life ...

What if you choose joy?

April 28, 2023 20:01 - 21 minutes - 41.6 MB

Rhonda’s guest today is Life Mastery Coach, Donna Tashjian. They discuss ways to move past the pain of divorce to a place of peace and empowerment. We know you will be inspired and encouraged! They cover:  Choose joy - joy is not happiness You can find healing through trauma - forgiveness is not an emotion Look for the gifts - gratitude can change everything   About today’s guest: Donna Tashjian is the founder of Vibrant Living International, a non-profit organization. She is a Life ...

Is keeping the house worth it?

April 13, 2023 19:51 - 34 minutes - 66.5 MB

Don’t miss this episode if you’re contemplating keeping your house in your divorce. Join Rhonda and Jeff Landers for this in depth conversation on keeping the house - is it a good idea? What factors should you consider? Learn what the 6-36 rule is and how it plays a pivotal part in planning for your future.  Gather all of the information. Evaluate your particular situation (things are not black and white!). Get to a place where you can move forward. Do not fall for a false sense of finan...

Episode 158: Is keeping the house worth it?

April 13, 2023 19:51 - 34 minutes - 66.5 MB

Don’t miss this episode if you’re contemplating keeping your house in your divorce. Join Rhonda and Jeff Landers for this in depth conversation on keeping the house - is it a good idea? What factors should you consider? Learn what the 6-36 rule is and how it plays a pivotal part in planning for your future.  Gather all of the information. Evaluate your particular situation (things are not black and white!). Get to a place where you can move forward. Do not fall for a false sense of finan...

Coercive Control: How to Find the Answers You Seek

April 07, 2023 13:17 - 25 minutes - 49.6 MB

Rhonda and Clinical Therapist, Jennifer Parker discuss a topic we’ve been addressing a lot recently: Coercive Control. Today’s episode covers: Ways to recognize you are being controlled How to get the help and support you need Why isolation is your worst enemy Grab a copy of Jennifer’s book: Coercive Relationships: Find the Answers you Seek   About today’s guest: Jennifer Parker obtained her Masters degree in Social Work at Wisconsin-Madison.She has over 35 years of mental health t...

Episode 157: Coercive Control: How to Find the Answers You Seek

April 07, 2023 13:17 - 25 minutes - 49.6 MB

Rhonda and Clinical Therapist, Jennifer Parker discuss a topic we’ve been addressing a lot recently: Coercive Control. Today’s episode covers: Ways to recognize you are being controlled How to get the help and support you need Why isolation is your worst enemy Grab a copy of Jennifer’s book: Coercive Relationships: Find the Answers you Seek   About today’s guest: Jennifer Parker obtained her Masters degree in Social Work at Wisconsin-Madison.She has over 35 years of mental health t...

5 Ways to Get the Most from your Budget

March 24, 2023 11:00 - 30 minutes - 59.9 MB

  Budgeting. No one wants to talk about it, but it's essential - especially if you're contemplating divorce. Rhonda sits down with Chuck Howard, Assistant Professor at Texas A&M University to discuss the importance of creating a budget and then establishing a routine to continuously track and re-evaluate it.  Listen in as Chuck gives us 5 easy steps to move to successful budgeting:  Set your budget - look at what’s coming in and going out of your bank account. Set aside time to track...

Episode 156: 5 Ways to Get the Most from your Budget

March 24, 2023 11:00 - 30 minutes - 59.9 MB

  Budgeting. No one wants to talk about it, but it's essential - especially if you're contemplating divorce. Rhonda sits down with Chuck Howard, Assistant Professor at Texas A&M University to discuss the importance of creating a budget and then establishing a routine to continuously track and re-evaluate it.  Listen in as Chuck gives us 5 easy steps to move to successful budgeting:  Set your budget - look at what’s coming in and going out of your bank account. Set aside time to track...

4 Ways to Get Narcissists to Do What You Want

March 17, 2023 15:54 - 44 minutes - 85.1 MB

Rhonda sits down with Dr. Melissa Kalt to discuss practical things to implement when dealing with a narcissist: Examine your motives Be aware of the narcissist’s behavior patterns Give narcissistic supply for the purpose of negotiating Extracting the trauma They delve into each of these steps in a way that will make you feel empowered and encouraged. You won’t want to miss a minute of this one - get ready to take notes! About today’s guest: Dr Melissa, a Trauma Expert and Master H...

Episode 155: 4 Ways to Get Narcissists to Do What You Want

March 17, 2023 15:54 - 44 minutes - 85.1 MB

Rhonda sits down with Dr. Melissa Kalt to discuss practical things to implement when dealing with a narcissist: Examine your motives Be aware of the narcissist’s behavior patterns Give narcissistic supply for the purpose of negotiating Extracting the trauma They delve into each of these steps in a way that will make you feel empowered and encouraged. You won’t want to miss a minute of this one - get ready to take notes! About today’s guest: Dr Melissa, a Trauma Expert and Master H...

Episode 154: A Special Series: False Sense of...Amicability

March 07, 2023 16:37 - 24 minutes - 29.5 MB

False Sense Series False Sense of... Amicability It is far wiser to judge people by their deeds than their speech – judge their track record rather than their talk. -Rasheed Ogunlaru Do you find yourself believing what your spouse says rather than believing their actions?  This is what I call creating a false sense of amicability.  What is a false sense of amicability and how does it play out for some people in the divorce process?  It is where one person believes it is possible ...

A Special Series: False Sense of...Amicability

March 07, 2023 16:37 - 24 minutes - 29.5 MB

False Sense Series False Sense of... Amicability It is far wiser to judge people by their deeds than their speech – judge their track record rather than their talk. -Rasheed Ogunlaru Do you find yourself believing what your spouse says rather than believing their actions?  This is what I call creating a false sense of amicability.  What is a false sense of amicability and how does it play out for some people in the divorce process?  It is where one person believes it is possible ...

A Special Series: A False Sense of... Financial Security

February 22, 2023 14:04 - 13 minutes - 15.3 MB

Did you know that according to a Forbes article nearly half of the women surveyed said they had “financial surprises” during the divorce? Say what?! Here is a short list of the things I have seen with my clients (changing life insurance beneficiaries, setting up separate business entities, establishing private bank accounts, transferring money to another family member, taking loans from 401ks and more!).  Furthermore, here are a few comments women may hear from their spouse in hopes to k...

Episode 153: A Special Series: A False Sense of... Financial Security

February 22, 2023 14:04 - 13 minutes - 15.3 MB

Did you know that according to a Forbes article nearly half of the women surveyed said they had “financial surprises” during the divorce? Say what?! Here is a short list of the things I have seen with my clients (changing life insurance beneficiaries, setting up separate business entities, establishing private bank accounts, transferring money to another family member, taking loans from 401ks and more!).  Furthermore, here are a few comments women may hear from their spouse in hopes to k...

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