The Stewardship Podcast
316 episodes - English - Latest episode: 11 months ago - ★★★★★ - 44 ratingsMany people think that "stewardship" is all about giving money to the church. It is often recognized as just a church word, but stewardship is so much more than that. We are here to help you understand the broad meaning of Stewardship. This concept permeates every aspect of your life. To steward is to take care of the things that have been entrusted to you. So this podcast is all about equipping you to wisely manage your influence, your resources, and your life.
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Should I Be Preparing for A Financial Apocalypse?
May 26, 2023 23:00 - 33 minutes - 23.2 MBThe following is a fictional story of a financial apocalypse - a dramatic imagining of what the scenario might look like if all financial markets collapsed. This is NOT a true story. But it's designed to illustrate a point. Some people think that you need to start stuffing cash into your mattress and keep your wealth out of the stock market and the banks. Is this level of mistrust wise? Is it smart for anyone to liquidate assets to protect against out-of-control inflation? Grant and Daniel ...
Helping Kids On The Road To College
May 12, 2023 15:00 - 45 minutes - 31.6 MBAs parents, we want the best for our kids. When they are trying to make decisions about school, it may be tempting to tell them exactly how to make this decision. Today, Jean Klinkhamer sits down to share his experiences with guiding his children through this journey and Marshall Tague joins to share his perspective as a former basketball coach and as a father himself. Our hope with this episode is to encourage you as a parent. This season can be complicated and fraught with emotions and bi...
The Next Stage: What Retirement Really Means
April 28, 2023 17:00 - 27 minutes - 18.9 MBWhat do you think of when you hear the word "retirement?" Our impression is that many people think retirement is like the final vacation, where work is over, and it's just time to kick back and go fishing every day until the end. Alternatively, some folks really assume that they'll never really retire and just find other work to do. Some people look forward to this stage of life, and others may dread it. Our belief is that we should ALL look forward to this next stage - because it's not th...
Vacation in THIS Economy? Have Fun this Summer
April 06, 2023 15:00 - 25 minutes - 17.8 MBWe all want our summer vacations to be restful, fun, and memorable. But with the current state of our economy, such a trip may seem beyond reach. On today's episode, Grant and Daniel discuss some ways to steward summer vacation with our families in the current climate. How can we make sure to create memories and have fun without spending a ton of money? We offer some practical tips, but our encouragement is to get creative and be intentional about the time spent as a family this summer. Some...
Choosing the Right Agent - with Mark Shipley
March 10, 2023 15:00 - 46 minutes - 32 MBWhether you're buying a home or selling, the Real Estate Agent you choose to work with can totally transform the experience. So how do you choose the right realtor? What kinds of things should you look for in the search? Today, we sit down with Mark Shipley who draws on his nearly two decades in the industry to help you think critically about your agent experience. Our goal today is to help you avoid defaulting to working with the wrong agent out of obligation, or worse, out of guilt and sham...
Comparison is Actually Good? Can Help You Build Wealth
February 24, 2023 13:00 - 28 minutes - 19.9 MBWe've all heard that comparison is a trap and that it is the thief of joy. We all know that comparing our everyday life to the highlights people post on Instagram can be a terrible habit. Today, Grant wants to let you in on a little secret - Comparison is one of the least utilized wealth-building tools. We want to help shift your mindset from "comparison is bad!" to "the right kind of comparison is invaluable." It's important to note that comparison must be done properly in order to be helpf...
Stewarding Your Kid's Extra-Curricular Activities
February 10, 2023 19:00 - 36 minutes - 24.9 MBManaging all of your kids' extracurricular activities can be overwhelming. It can feel like coaching a team who hasn't read the playbook - in a word, chaotic. But we all want our kids involved. We want them to gain valuable life experience, learn about working as a team, and experiencing the excitement of victory! In today's podcast, Grant and Daniel discuss specific reasons why these kinds of activities can be huge benefits to our kids. And they share some practical wisdom on how to make th...
"Am I Resting Wrong?" | Making the Most of Your Time Off
January 27, 2023 10:00 - 34 minutes - 23.5 MBHave you ever gone on vacation and come back feeling more exhausted than you were beforehand? We know the feeling. We've all heard the well-worn remark, "I need a vacation from my vacation." In order to rest well, and truly come back refreshed, you need to take some intentional actions before, during, and even after your time off. Today, Grant shares some practical wisdom on the matter. Over the years, he and his wife have developed some best practices when it comes to taking time off to ensu...
Serving with Your Family | With Mike Branton, Student Ministries at Sun Valley
January 13, 2023 13:00 - 33 minutes - 23.2 MBToday we talk with Mike Branton, a father and the Student Ministries Pastor at Sun Valley Church, about cultivating a culture of service in your family. Any loving parent would want their kids to develop strong character traits like selflessness, perseverance, and genuine compassion for others. What better way to grow these traits than through serving within a community? In this installment, Mike and Grant share some practical wisdom from their experience as fathers and from years of serving ...
Setting the Stage for Your Teenager | With Brandon Ream
December 30, 2022 12:00 - 39 minutes - 27.4 MBEveryone agrees that the preteen years are awkward. This is not a controversial opinion. Things are changing and there are a lot of unknowns in this stage of life. "You're not an adult yet, but you're not a kid anymore." In this installment of the stewardship podcast, we invited Brandon Ream to tell the story of how he is guiding his eldest son through this transitional phase of life. Resources: - The Intentional Father by Jon Tyson - Passport2Purity - John Mark Comer resources Hosted on...
Missing a Silent Night this December?
December 17, 2022 00:00 - 23 minutes - 16.5 MBSometimes the holiday season can get away from us. Whether it's an office white elephant party, a charity fundraiser dinner, or your 2nd and 4th Graders' Christmas Pageant, December often feels like the busiest season of the year. For some, this is fine, but our hunch is that you could use a few more silent nights. In this podcast, we talk about the importance of being a good steward of your time during the holiday season and provide some practical wisdom on how to make decisions about how we...
I Don't Know How To Tell You This | Having Difficult Conversations
December 02, 2022 20:00 - 31 minutes - 21.5 MBHard conversations are... not easy. But they are vital to building strong and healthy relationships at home and at work. They are not bad. The problem is we sometimes don't handle these hard conversations very well, or worse, we avoid them altogether. This doesn't have to be the case for you anymore! It has been said that our closest relationships may offer the most challenges to our honesty, compassion, and integrity, but we are often rewarded beyond our imagination. Engaging in these conver...
Tell Your Tax Dollars Where to Go | Interview with Sally Henry, Director of Communications at ACSTO
November 19, 2022 00:00 - 37 minutes - 25.6 MBDid you know that, in Arizona, you can donate your state tax dollars and then get every one of those dollars back? The Arizona Christian School Tuition Organization (or ACSTO) is a non-profit scholarship organization that helps families put their kids into Christian schools. Today we talk with Sally Henry about how it works, who can take part, and some practical ways to make Christian education more affordable. This is also an amazing way to steward your tax dollars well. To learn more abou...
How to Love New Parents | With Postpartum Doula Jeannie Boschma
November 03, 2022 23:00 - 25 minutes - 17.7 MBBringing a new baby home changes everything. Whether it’s your first, second, or seventh, there will always be new challenges and more to do than ever before. You may think that nothing can make this experience any easier- but today, we’re here to offer some hope and some practical ways that you can make bringing home baby a much smoother experience. In 2022, our friend Jeannie Boschma started Provision Doula Services. She is a postpartum doula who comes in after mom and baby are home to “mo...
Capitalism Is Not The Problem | With Jean Klinkhamer
October 22, 2022 00:00 - 38 minutes - 26.7 MBThere is a lot of negativity about capitalism in today's media, and much of the education system. Many people think that capitalism is fueled by greed and gigantic companies, and that profit is inherently wrong. So is that true? Today we talk with Jean Klinkhamer about why capitalism gets a bad rap and why that’s not the whole picture. He shares his experience as an entrepreneur and man of faith and offers some practical wisdom to help all of us steward the freedom that capitalism facilitates...
Sell Your Home Well | An Interview with Mark Shipley
October 08, 2022 00:00 - 37 minutes - 26.1 MBSelling your home can be one of the more challenging and stressful situations you and your family may go through together. There are so many unknowns. Are we doing this right? Are we going to be able to sell for the right price? Do we need to upgrade everything before it goes on the market? Will we have to be available at the drop of a hat to show the house to potential buyers? How do we even get the right buyers to know it's for sale? All of these questions can be overwhelming. But the good...
Are You Thinking of Foster Care? With Jake Norton
September 23, 2022 10:00 - 26 minutes - 18.1 MBChoosing to take in children from the foster care system is no small decisionseveral a number of factors to consider and it is a big responsibility. This is not a commitment that should be made lightly. Today, Jake Norton shares his experience being a foster parent in the hope that his experience can help your decision-making process. It is important to note that foster care is not right for every family at every stage of life. So how can you decide if it is right for you and how can you part...
Can You Support Every Cause? | Stewarding Generosity
September 09, 2022 15:00 - 31 minutes - 21.9 MBHas someone ever asked you to donate to their non-profit? Is every good cause really good? We all want to make sure that our desire to be generous isn't taken advantage of. Today, Grant shares the mindset he strives for when it comes to generosity. He also offers some insight on how to choose which causes to support and how to make the biggest financial impact no matter what the dollar amount. Charity Navigator: https://www.charitynavigator.org/ Learn more about Stewardship Realty here: htt...
Hire a Pro or Do It Yourself? | With Brandon Ream
August 19, 2022 20:00 - 30 minutes - 20.9 MBHow do you know when it's the right time to go ahead and call a professional? Today, Brandon Ream joins us on the podcast to discuss the three things you need to consider before you decide to do something yourself or hire a pro. This episode is packed with practical wisdom on stewarding your time, energy, and resources to empower you to live the life you want! Click here to download our list of trusted contractors and if you offer a service of your own and want to be on the list, email us a...
Hire a Pro or Do It Yourself?
August 19, 2022 20:00 - 30 minutes - 20.9 MBHow do you know when it's the right time to go ahead and call a professional? Today, Brandon Ream joins us on the podcast to discuss the three things you need to consider before you decide to do something yourself or hire a pro. This episode is packed with practical wisdom on stewarding your time, energy, and resources to empower you to live the life you want! Click here to download our list of trusted contractors and if you offer a service of your own and want to be on the list, email us ...
Arizona is Paying for Private School! Unless this Petition Goes Through
August 05, 2022 11:00 - 40 minutes - 28 MBArizona has a new law that will provide thousands of dollars to families to help provide a better educational experience for students - but there are organizations trying to put a stop to it. The Expanded ESA plan is designed to empower Arizona parents to choose the best educational option that fits their needs regardless of zip code or income. Today, Grant and Daniel take time to discuss why school choice is so important, and they talk through the petition that is out there trying to delay ...
Is College Necessary? | Stewarding Your Kid's College Education
July 13, 2022 10:00 - 32 minutes - 22 MBThe decision of which college to go to, or even if college is the right move, can be difficult for anyone - but this crucial decision affects their relationships, their finances, and their future. In today's podcast, Grant and Daniel talk about how their college experiences shaped their lives, and more importantly, they equip you with some ideas about how to engage in this conversation with your kids to help them keep an open mind about what education looks like, to consider their purpose (...
Stewarding Debt - Reacting to Dave Ramsey
June 29, 2022 00:00 - 37 minutes - 25.5 MBToday, we listen to a clip from Dave Ramsey's radio show. In it, Dave is asked if there is such a thing as "good debt," especially if the interest on the debt is low. Mathematically, there is an objective truth: borrowing at a low rate to invest at a higher rate of return works. It is a wise use of leverage. But does that make the debt "good?" We answer the question, unpack Dave's response, and seek to understand the realities of risk tolerance, wise financial philosophy, and fear. This epi...
Should You Manage a Vacation Property? with Shannon Kuiper
June 15, 2022 10:00 - 32 minutes - 22 MBWe have Shannon Kuiper on the podcast this week talking about managing Vacation Rentals! She is married to Jarred Kuiper, who is one of our Home Loan Advisors here at Stewardship! She manages seven houses in Scottsdale and has some crazy stories, and some good experiences! Managing vacation rentals gave her a lot of freedom in her life, as well as many phone calls and messages about “emergencies” at all hours of the day, and on Holidays. Shannon shares that she has learned that people that s...
Are You Ready For The Launch? An interview with Amy Carney
June 01, 2022 13:00 - 36 minutes - 25.4 MBAuthor of Parent On Purpose, Amy Carney joins us today to talk about preparing high schoolers for the launch into the real world. Are your kids ready to step out on their own? Amy shares her experience launching 4 kids in ONE YEAR and what she did to make sure she didn't waste energy worrying about how her kids would handle life's challenges. We give you some practical wisdom to impart to your birdies before they leave the nest. All the links! Get your own copy of Amy's book Parent On Purpo...
How to be Intentional with your Kid's Summer Break
May 17, 2022 15:00 - 26 minutes - 18.3 MBThe temperature rising outside means that a summer time is upon us! Today on the Podcast, we have Jeannie & Samm, who are both Stewardship employees, talk about how to be a good steward of the summer break that our kids have. Bottom line in no matter how you spend your summer break, Be Intentional. You don’t have to plan every moment. Kids often don’t care what you do, they just want time with you. In this episode, Jeannie and Samm share what they have done with their kids over the summer, ho...
We're Married and Have Separate Bank Accounts??
May 04, 2022 14:00 - 31 minutes - 21.8 MBDoes money ever cause friction in your relationships? Do you struggle with navigating the different ways that you and your spouse engage with money? Grant and Jodie come onto the podcast to talk about how they solved the problem in their own marriage - separate bank accounts. Grant and Jodie want to share with you why they operate their finances this way, but more importantly, they offer you some important guard rails to help you address differences in your own marriage so that you can find ...
We're Married and Have Separate Bank Accounts?? | With Jodie Botma
May 04, 2022 14:00 - 31 minutes - 21.8 MBDoes money ever cause friction in your relationships? Do you struggle with navigating the different ways that you and your spouse engage with money? Grant and Jodie come onto the podcast to talk about how they solved the problem in their own marriage - separate bank accounts. Grant and Jodie want to share with you why they operate their finances this way, but more importantly, they offer you some important guard rails to help you address differences in your own marriage so that you can find r...
How to Take Care of Aging Parents | An Interview With Kimberly Akers
April 19, 2022 00:00 - 30 minutes - 20.7 MBToday on the podcast we have Jake Norton, and a special guest, Kimberley Akers. Stewardship recently had a Live Event talking about how to care for Aging Parents. We talked about how emotional it can be and the finances. Most of the questions were about the types of care that our parents need. This is why Kimberley is here today! She owns Amada Senior Care. Kimberley shared her story of how she got into the field of elderly care. God put a passion on her to start this business that would prov...
How to Respond to Inflation - Introducing Stewardship OneMove!
April 06, 2022 10:00 - 20 minutes - 13.8 MBInflation impacts all of our lives in one way or another, but in a healthy economy, it is all but guaranteed! When faced with something like this that is so far out of your control, you have a few options. You can play the victim and rant on social media about all that is wrong with our country, our politicians, and our world. Or, you can look around to see what this scenario makes possible and take action. Today's podcast touches on stewarding forces that are outside of our control. In the ...
Your Work Is a Ministry
March 23, 2022 10:00 - 35 minutes - 24.7 MBThis week we have Brian Baker on the podcast! He is an employee at Stewardship, and before that he was doing ministry vocationally. Often within the Christian world, vocational ministry is the “end all be all.” In today’s podcast, we are talking about how to make your Work a Ministry! Whether you are a teacher, you flip burgers or you work in finances, your work is a ministry! Baker shares the fear he felt leaving the church job to go to a “regular” job. If you want to make your work a minis...
Your Work Is a Ministry | With Brian Baker
March 23, 2022 10:00 - 35 minutes - 24.7 MBThis week we have Brian Baker on the podcast! He is an employee at Stewardship, and before that he was doing ministry vocationally. Often within the Christian world, vocational ministry is the “end all be all.” In today’s podcast, we are talking about how to make your Work a Ministry! Whether you are a teacher, you flip burgers or you work in finances, your work is a ministry! Baker shares the fear he felt leaving the church job to go to a “regular” job. If you want to make your work a minist...
The Key to a Better Marriage with Grant & Jodie Botma
March 09, 2022 11:00 - 27 minutes - 19.1 MBWe have Grant and Jodie Botma on the Stewardship Podcast! They talk about how to have healthy conversations about money with your spouse & the 3 key steps to do that well! They both have very different perspectives and upbringings when it comes to money, but after years of talking about it, learning about each other and respecting each other, it became easier and every conversation got better. Listen to learn more about 3 Steps to a healthy marriage! The Podcast on Creating Purpose in ...
Is Your Career Off Track?
February 23, 2022 12:00 - 40 minutes - 27.6 MBWe are talking about changing jobs! We have Brandon Ream on the podcast who is well equipped to have a conversation about changing jobs and careers. Brandon went from being a History Teacher to being an Insurance Agent at Stewardship. Statistically speaking, we are living in the times where people are changing jobs quicker than ever before. Our hope is to reveal 4 things you need to focus on to help make the decision about changing jobs smoother. We are going to discuss how to walk through M...
Is Your Career Off Track? | With Brandon Ream
February 23, 2022 12:00 - 40 minutes - 27.6 MBWe are talking about changing jobs! We have Brandon Ream on the podcast who is well equipped to have a conversation about changing jobs and careers. Brandon went from being a History Teacher to being an Insurance Agent at Stewardship. Statistically speaking, we are living in the times where people are changing jobs quicker than ever before. Our hope is to reveal 4 things you need to focus on to help make the decision about changing jobs smoother. We are going to discuss how to walk through M...
Creating Purpose in ANY Job
February 09, 2022 11:00 - 29 minutes - 20.5 MBYou can find hope no matter what job you have. Work is sometimes going to be hard, but when it gets hard you can think, “What is our purpose?” There is a reality that a lot of bosses micromanage their employees or they are not good with letting the employees know that they care about them as well as not sharing the purpose of their business. This creates a poor company culture If you are struggling with your job or your boss, listen to this episode! This does not mean you have to l...
Starting a Business at 19 | With Jordan Meek, the Founder of FleurPHX
January 26, 2022 12:00 - 32 minutes - 22.1 MBToday on the Stewardship Podcast we have Jordan Meek, who works as the Social Media Manager here at Stewardship, and she also owns a flower business called Fleur PHX! In the episode, Jordan shares the story of how she started Fleur back in May of 2020 during the peak of quarantine and how her business was able to impact people during that hard time. We share three steps you should take when creating a business. We hope you feel inspired after listening to this episode. Starting a business is ...
Starting a Business at 19 - An Interview with the Founder of FleurPHX
January 26, 2022 12:00 - 32 minutes - 22.1 MBToday on the Stewardship Podcast we have Jordan Meek, who works as the Social Media Manager here at Stewardship, and she also owns a flower business called Fleur PHX! In the episode, Jordan shares the story of how she started Fleur back in May of 2020 during the peak of quarantine and how her business was able to impact people during that hard time. We share three steps you should take when creating a business. We hope you feel inspired after listening to this episode. Starting a business i...
How Wealthy People Think About Insurance | With Brandon Ream
January 12, 2022 12:00 - 37 minutes - 26 MBOn this episode we are talking about how to protect the stuff you have through insurance. On this episode we have Brandon Ream, an Insurance Advisor and Co Founder of Stewardship. We are talking about how wealthy people view insurance. We talk about having a proper mindset, and that you do not have to be wealthy to think about insurance correctly. We go through the 3 Stages of Wealth Building, and what you should do about your insurance in each stage. Brandon shares a story with quick, easy ...
This Is How Wealthy People Think About Insurance
January 12, 2022 12:00 - 37 minutes - 26 MBOn this episode we are talking about how to protect the stuff you have through insurance. On this episode we have Brandon Ream, an Insurance Advisor and Co Founder of Stewardship. We are talking about how wealthy people view insurance. We talk about having a proper mindset, and that you do not have to be wealthy to think about insurance correctly. We go through the 3 Stages of Wealth Building, and what you should do about your insurance in each stage. Brandon shares a story with quick, easy ...
New Year, New You, New Way to Think About Money | With Jake Norton
December 29, 2021 12:00 - 23 minutes - 15.9 MBToday is the last podcast of 2021! We have Daniel, Grant, and Jake talking about finances. If someone doesn’t have their finances in order it can be like there are “Too many chefs in the kitchen.” We are here to tell you today that you have options with Stewardship! We have home loan advisors, investment advisors, insurance advisors. When all your finances are organized you can better understand if you are paying for something that you don’t need to or if there is something missing that you d...
New Year, New You, New Way to Think About Money
December 29, 2021 12:00 - 23 minutes - 15.9 MBToday is the last podcast of 2021! We have Daniel, Grant, and Jake talking about finances. If someone doesn’t have their finances in order it can be like there are “Too many chefs in the kitchen.” We are here to tell you today that you have options with Stewardship! We have home loan advisors, investment advisors, insurance advisors. When all your finances are organized you can better understand if you are paying for something that you don’t need to or if there is something missing that you ...
Give Better Gifts | With Samm Marroquin
December 15, 2021 15:00 - 28 minutes - 19.6 MBIn the spirit of the Christmas Season, today on the podcast we are talking about how to be a good steward of giving gifts. We wanted to provide some resources in this gift giving season. We have Samm on the podcast who is Stewardship's Executive of Belonging. She is exceptional at loving our team & clients through intentional listening, keeping note of what each person would like or need, and loving people. She has a heart for people and a knack for giving good gifts. Listen to this podcast...
019. Give Better Gifts
December 15, 2021 15:00 - 28 minutes - 19.6 MBIn the spirit of the Christmas Season, today on the podcast we are talking about how to be a good steward of giving gifts. We wanted to provide some resources in this gift giving season. We have Samm on the podcast who is an employee at Stewardship whose title is the Executive of Belonging. She is great at loving our employees & customers through intentional listening, keeping note of what each person would like or need and loving people. She has a heart for people and has the talent of givi...
Give Better Gifts
December 15, 2021 15:00 - 28 minutes - 19.6 MBIn the spirit of the Christmas Season, today on the podcast we are talking about how to be a good steward of giving gifts. We wanted to provide some resources in this gift giving season. We have Samm on the podcast who is an employee at Stewardship whose title is the Executive of Belonging. She is great at loving our employees & customers through intentional listening, keeping note of what each person would like or need and loving people. She has a heart for people and has the talent of givi...
Spend Your Time Better - Create Your Ideal Year
December 01, 2021 12:00 - 45 minutes - 31.1 MBToday we are talking about being a good steward of your Calendar! We are coming up on a new year and it is a great time to start new goals and wanting to grow. We can all be better with our calendar and better with our time. We all have good intentions but they require intentional actions. On this podcast episode we talk about creating your ideal calendar for the year of 2022. This is looking ahead and seeing what you want to happen to happen, and to prepare for that. With work, family time, ...
131. Creating Your Ideal Year
December 01, 2021 12:00 - 45 minutes - 31.1 MBToday we are talking about being a good steward of your Calendar! We are coming up on a new year and it is a great time to start new goals and wanting to grow. We can all be better with our calendar and better with our time. We all have good intentions but they require intentional actions. On this podcast episode we talk about creating your ideal calendar for the year of 2022. This is looking ahead and seeing what you want to happen to happen, and to prepare for that. With work, family time,...
018. Creating Your Ideal Year
December 01, 2021 12:00 - 45 minutes - 31.1 MBToday we are talking about being a good steward of your Calendar! We are coming up on a new year and it is a great time to start new goals and wanting to grow. We can all be better with our calendar and better with our time. We all have good intentions but they require intentional actions. On this podcast episode we talk about creating your ideal calendar for the year of 2022. This is looking ahead and seeing what you want to happen to happen, and to prepare for that. With work, family time,...
Creating Your Ideal Year
December 01, 2021 12:00 - 45 minutes - 31.1 MBToday we are talking about being a good steward of your Calendar! We are coming up on a new year and it is a great time to start new goals and wanting to grow. We can all be better with our calendar and better with our time. We all have good intentions but they require intentional actions. On this podcast episode we talk about creating your ideal calendar for the year of 2022. This is looking ahead and seeing what you want to happen to happen, and to prepare for that. With work, family time,...
130. The One With The Family Argument | Thanksgiving Episode!
November 17, 2021 12:00 - 29 minutes - 20.2 MBWe all have that relative. You know the one. You know all of their opinions because they all but shout them from the rooftops. It happens every year. You're waiting for the rolls to finish warming in the oven. You're refilling your cup with apple cider and then it happens. Someone mentions the president. Or COVID. Or Taxes. Or social issues. Here we go. Buckle up for another world-famous Uncle Grant Rant. Half the room collectively rolls their eyes. We've all been there. No family agrees o...