Dear Viv: No-nonsense advice
137 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 5 years ago - ★★★★ - 7 ratingsEach Tuesday, The Pool’s resident agony aunt Viv Groskop tackles personal problems, emotional issues and all the nightmares of life both large and small.Viv Groskop gained her agony aunt qualifications at the School of Life, having made a load of mistakes, said a lot of idiotic things, smoked way too many cigarettes (40 a day at one time) and drunk too many glasses of wine, including wine she didn’t even like. She’s had lots of miniature everyday breakdowns where she’s used good friends, self-help books and lots of therapy to get through this occasional pain in the ass we call life. Now she's here to dispense the tough-love that your friends are too polite to give you.If you have a question for Viv, email [email protected]. All submissions will be kept anonymous.
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Episodes
Dear Viv: How can I accept being single forever?
January 15, 2019 04:00 - 9 minutes - 8.39 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when it feels like you'll never find a life partner Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: I judge myself for wanting a c-section
January 08, 2019 04:00 - 9 minutes - 8.42 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses how to deal with a birth plan dilemma Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: How can I feel confident in my new single life?
January 01, 2019 04:00 - 8 minutes - 7.76 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses how to start afresh in the new year when you're feeling lost and confused after a break-up Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
*BUMPER EPISODE* Dear Viv: How can I cope with my nightmare family?
December 29, 2018 04:00 - 18 minutes - 17.3 MBIn this monthly special, Viv looks into the archives for some wisdom on spending time with difficult family members Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: My friend let me down after I had a miscarriage
December 18, 2018 04:00 - 10 minutes - 9.85 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when a friend doesn't feel like a friend any more Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: How can I support my depressed sister?
December 11, 2018 04:00 - 9 minutes - 8.9 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses how to help a sister who's going through a difficult time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: I find my husband irritating
December 04, 2018 04:00 - 9 minutes - 8.77 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do if you've had enough of your husband Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: How can I get better at public speaking? with Zoe Beaty
November 27, 2018 04:00 - 30 minutes - 28.2 MBIn this special episode, The Pool's Zoe Beaty asks Viv how she can stop holding herself back when it comes to owning the room Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
**BUMPER EPISODE** Dear Viv: How will I cope with Christmas this year?
November 24, 2018 04:00 - 19 minutes - 18 MBIn this monthly special, Viv looks into the archives for some wisdom on Christmas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
**BUMPER EPISODE** Dear Viv: How will I cope with Christmas this year?
November 24, 2018 04:00 - 19 minutes - 18 MBIn this monthly special, Viv looks into the archives for some wisdom on Christmas See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
Dear Viv: I hate my new job
November 20, 2018 04:00 - 10 minutes - 9.98 MBOn this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when a new job has eroded your confidence Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: I've never had a group of friends
November 13, 2018 04:00 - 8 minutes - 8.1 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when it seems impossible to meet people and make friends Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: Can I let my boyfriend pay for our holiday?
November 06, 2018 04:00 - 6 minutes - 6.26 MBOn this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to when your new partner offers to pay for an expensive trip Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: My husband's business is ruining our marriage
October 30, 2018 04:00 - 7 minutes - 6.75 MBOn this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when work is getting in the way of your relationship Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
**Bumper Episode** Dear Viv: What's the best way to deal with a break-up?
October 27, 2018 03:00 - 19 minutes - 17.5 MBIn this monthly special, Viv looks into the archives for some wisdom on break-ups Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: How can I be a successful freelancer?
October 23, 2018 03:00 - 9 minutes - 8.38 MBOn this week’s podcast, Viv gives advice on how to cope brilliantly as a freelancer Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: I feel crap about myself all the time
October 16, 2018 03:00 - 10 minutes - 9.36 MBOn this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when everything seems hopeless and you’re worried your moaning is driving your partner away Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: What can I do about my sexist brother?
October 09, 2018 03:00 - 7 minutes - 7.16 MBOn this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when a sibling thinks that feminism is "unnecessary" Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: I never have any physical urges but my boyfriend wants "porn-like" sex
October 02, 2018 03:00 - 8 minutes - 11.5 MBOn this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when there's a mismatch in your sex life Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: Our colleague uses her kids as an excuse to slack off
September 25, 2018 03:00 - 9 minutes - 8.27 MBOn this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when a colleague who’s a parent seems to be taking advantage of flexible arrangements Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: Can I keep my husband and the man I had an affair with?
September 18, 2018 03:00 - 10 minutes - 9.68 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when you don't want to end an affair Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: How can I stop feeling lonely?
September 11, 2018 03:00 - 9 minutes - 8.86 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when you feel lonely and empty all the time Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: I’m in a relationship but had a raunchy dream about a colleague
September 04, 2018 03:00 - 9 minutes - 8.69 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do if you're in a happy relationship but find yourself fantasising about someone else Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: My boyfriend won't show me affection in public
August 28, 2018 03:00 - 8 minutes - 7.47 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when your boyfriend's aversion to PDAs is putting you off him Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: My pregnant best friend has become too demanding
August 21, 2018 03:00 - 9 minutes - 8.92 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when a friendship is changed by pregnancy Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: Should my unreliable ex have contact with our kids?
August 14, 2018 03:00 - 10 minutes - 9.92 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses whether your children should have contact with their unpredictable father Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: My girlfriend has no interest in sex
August 07, 2018 03:00 - 9 minutes - 8.64 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when your partner isn't interested in physical affection or intimacy Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: I've lost my friends to parenthood
July 31, 2018 03:00 - 8 minutes - 7.81 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when your friends are only interested in their babies Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: Am I a toxic friend?
July 24, 2018 03:00 - 7 minutes - 6.86 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when a friend has let your friendship die out. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: My godson's parents are taking me for granted
July 17, 2018 14:00 - 9 minutes - 9.1 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when you want to be there for your godson but his parents don't appreciate you. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: My friend's pregnancy is making me question my termination
July 10, 2018 04:00 - 8 minutes - 7.39 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when your friend's pregnancy gives you conflicting feelings Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: How can I find my place in a grieving family? With Cariad Lloyd
July 03, 2018 04:00 - 26 minutes - 24.6 MBTo celebrate her 100th episode, Viv invited comedian, actress, writer and podcaster Cariad Lloyd to answer a listener's question with her, about a new boyfriend and his difficult daughter Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: How can I avoid the "butler in the buff" at a hen do?
June 26, 2018 15:00 - 9 minutes - 8.47 MBOn this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when you’re not completely on board with your friend’s hen party Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: My partner's mum wants me to be an overbearing landlord
June 19, 2018 04:00 - 9 minutes - 8.78 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when you disagree with your partner's mother Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: My brother is breaking our mum's heart
June 12, 2018 04:00 - 10 minutes - 9.84 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when your brother is upsetting your mother Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: My daughter is obsessed with her own appearance
June 05, 2018 04:00 - 9 minutes - 8.41 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses what to do when your six year old is completely obsessed with hair and make-up Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: do I leave my partner because he doesn't want a family?
May 29, 2018 04:00 - 10 minutes - 9.64 MBOn this week's podcast: what happens when you want marriage and babies but the love of your life doesn’t? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: I'm exhausted with the world
May 22, 2018 04:00 - 10 minutes - 9.28 MBOn this week’s podcast: Viv discusses what to do when life gets too much and you just feel completely overwhelmed Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: I've fallen out with a friend, but want to keep our mutual friends
May 15, 2018 05:00 - 10 minutes - 9.45 MBOn this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when a friend lets you down and you don’t know where to turn. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: My ex's friends don't want to hang out with me any more
May 08, 2018 04:00 - 9 minutes - 8.9 MBOn this week’s podcast, Viv discusses what to do when your friends pick sides after a break-up — and it’s not your side Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: My boyfriend can't break away from his ex
May 01, 2018 14:00 - 9 minutes - 8.36 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses a new boyfriend who's still struggling to break up with an ex Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: How should I behave around a friend who is ill?
April 17, 2018 16:00 - 13 minutes - 12.5 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses younger siblings with questions about sex, how to talk to an old friend with cancer, downgrading a friend with benefits to 'just friends', and taking the leap to live abroad. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: Three Years On
April 06, 2018 11:00 - 29 minutes - 26.9 MBTo celebrate three years of The Pool and Dear Viv, our resident agony aunt Viv Groskop takes a look back at some of the classic questions she's received over the years Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: I'm gay, should I continue to tolerate my family's homophobia?
March 20, 2018 13:53 - 12 minutes - 11.4 MBOn this week's episode, Viv discusses being gay in a very catholic family. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: How can I tell my family I want to be alone on Mother's Day?
March 08, 2018 10:20 - 12 minutes - 17 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses a teenager who won't do his homework, how to leave behind a childhood home, and a mother who just wants to be left alone on Mother's Day Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: Should I contact the woman my dad's been flirting with?
February 20, 2018 13:16 - 9 minutes - 12.5 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses whether a daughter should get involved in her father's office flirtation – and whether she should even know about it in the first place Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: How should I introduce my conservative parents to my "alternative" boyfriend?
February 06, 2018 13:00 - 12 minutes - 11.2 MBOn this week's podcast Viv discusses a rejection invitation to move in, how to introduce a tattooed boyfriend to conservative parents, how to support a sister with mental health issues, and whether or not to get involved in a family fallout Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: Can we ban kids from our wedding?
January 23, 2018 13:14 - 18 minutes - 16.5 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses a teacher in a dilemma, getting over an ex boyfriend, and what to say when you don't want children at your wedding Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: Should I forgive my destructive Dad?
January 16, 2018 11:16 - 10 minutes - 9.53 MBOn this week's podcast, Viv discusses whether to reconnect with an estranged family member Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dear Viv: Should I invite my difficult brother to a family dinner?
December 27, 2017 11:32 - 19 minutes - 18.2 MBIn this holiday special, Viv discusses whether or not to invite a difficult brother to a family meal, coping with in-laws without using alcohol, dealing with a sibling fallout and how to eliminate New Year resolution guilt Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.