When people abuse you, it’s their fault, not yours.

> You have a positive moral duty to care for yourself.

I agree. 

100%. 

However, failing in that duty is simply failure. It does not put you at fault that someone harmed you. It puts you at fault for failing in protecting yourself.

Find the transcript for this episode here. https://datingkinky.com/blog/prime-directive-to-care-for-and-protect-our-own-hearts-and-minds/