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I am not your 'safe' friend.
Dating Kinky
English - May 13, 2022 12:00 - 7 minutes - ★★★★ - 5 ratingsSexuality Health & Fitness bdsm kink nonmonogamy relationships polyamory kinky dating kinky dating bdsm dating Homepage Download Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
I don't want to be everyone's safe space. I can't. I don't have the energy, and frankly, that's not my priority.
What makes for a 'safe' friend to talk to?
I feel like the answer varies with people.
For example, I know most of my friends would be devastated if I lied to them, but when I post online about lies, there are always some people who claim that they preferred to be lied to, to save their feelings.
I would not be a 'safe' friend for those people, ever.
Especially in a highly emotional or trauma-based situation.
And that's OK. I don't want to be everyone's safe space. I can't. I don't have the energy, and frankly, that's not my priority.
But let's talk about why I'm not your 'safe' friend.
Find the full transcript for this episode here. https://datingkinky.com/blog/personal/i-am-not-your-safe-friend/