Datey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera Duffy
99 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 month ago -The Book Club of Love! Identical, Mexican-wrestling twin sisters - one married, one twice divorced - compare their takes on books about love and relationships.
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DL068 – The Narcissist in Your Life – part 2 “Playing the Market”
March 27, 2024 22:34 - 22 minutes - 45.1 MBPart 2 of our review, featuring our guest the legendary neo-burlesque queen Kitten DeVille!
DL067 – The Narcissist in Your Life – part 1 “Just Kitten”
March 14, 2024 21:14 - 27 minutes - 55.5 MBNeo-Burlesque legend KITTEN DEVILLE joins us in reviewing THE NARCISSIST IN YOUR LIFE: RECOGNIZING PATTERNS AND LEARNING TO BREAK FREE. After suddenly losing Shawn, her beloved husband of 36 years, Kitten found herself back in the dating world with unexpected results. (Spolier: this book comes in handy.) She gave us
DL066 – The Five Love Languages – part 4 “Big Happy”
February 27, 2024 01:05 - 17 minutes - 36.9 MBThe fourth and final part of our review of THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES, featuring guest reviewer Jaime Sena!
DL065 – Bar-Bara
February 16, 2024 20:54 - 8 minutes - 20.3 MBLucha Va VOOM De La Liz, Moldy Ball of Death, and a very special Valentine’s Day in this week’s Twinterlude!
DL064 – The Five Love Languages part 3 – “Sh*t on Noodles”
January 23, 2024 02:09 - 23 minutes - 47 MBUs twins and guest Jaime Sena continue our review, featuring smooth stick, filthy baby, and Joe Manganiello
DL063 – The Five Love Languages – part 2 “Seminal Works”
December 18, 2023 17:34 - 26 minutes - 53 MBWe continue on, with guest Jaime Sena!
DL062 – The Five Love Languages – part 1 “Christian Gravy”
December 01, 2023 20:22 - 25 minutes - 51.5 MBWe are extremely excited to welcome long-time friend and listener Jaime Sena to help us review 1952’s 1992’s classic relationship tome by Gary Chapman!
DL061 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 6 “Sh*tshow of Love”
November 18, 2023 22:43 - 40 minutes - 79.9 MBBehold our TRIUMPHANT RETURN with the BIG FINISH to Florence William’s HEARTBREAK book! Plus! BIBI updates us on her relationship, and YOU buy tickets to our benefit featuring Paul Feig screening his GHOSTBUSTERS movie — right here! Also ICYMI – Mike Lindell’s LUMPY PILLOW FREAKOUT:
DL060 – Martini Shot
August 23, 2023 05:00 - 15 minutes - 33.5 MBWe talk about the Good Deed Corps screening of PRETTY IN PINK, featuring stars Jon Cryer and Annie Potts! Plus, a disconcerting concert.
DL059 – Girl Talk
July 25, 2023 19:29 - 16 minutes - 34.1 MBDinner parties, cyber goths, and a sun-protecting Vickie.
DL058 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 5 “Flush Tattoo”
July 06, 2023 05:32 - 21 minutes - 43.3 MBWe continue with Florence Williams’ Heartbreak book, plus twinsights on naked photos and racist skulls.
DL057 – Heels Over Head
June 16, 2023 02:57 - 13 minutes - 30 MBWe have upcoming shows! Plus, Bibi meets an interesting fellow lady1 Tickets for the LOS SUPER SEVEN / Good Deed Corps benefit here! AND! Tickets to TIKI-VIEW here!
DL056 – It’s A Tap
May 29, 2023 21:14 - 13 minutes - 30.2 MBWe talk sharing relationship responsibilities, a revelashe ’bout patriarchy, and the fact that Barbara IS ACTUALLY DATING SOMEONE SHE MET IRL!!!!@!! Plus! Did you say you were in the market for some ancient filthy stripper shoes (or 3)?? Make Bibi an offer, before it’s too late!
DL055 – Afraidy Ladies
May 01, 2023 03:43 - 10 minutes - 23.2 MBWe work an event with Weird Al benefitting voting registrations org The Good Deed Corps, get caught in a police stand-off between the LAPD and a minivan, and drive Barbara’s date around town in Vera’s trunk. In Tip Jar news, thank you to FANG YANG! Stay tuned for a proper
DL054 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 4 “Misery Into Death”
April 11, 2023 02:05 - 43 minutes - 84 MBLoneliness is bad – just ask your body. But all is not lost: there are Ministries of Loneliness, Men’s Sheds, EMDRs, and of course kayaking! And guess what, after this episode we are HALF WAY through the book! Plus, the meditative RAT : www.remote-associates-test.com
DL053 – Lit Gas
February 28, 2023 21:26 - 16 minutes - 35.2 MBThe twins talk gaslighting, edging, allergies, and their upcoming show THIS FRIDAY MARCH 3RD! Tickets here! (Also: Is it fetish? Well is it???) (Yes.)
DL052 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 3 “Don’t Be Heartbroken”
February 24, 2023 06:02 - 43 minutes - 84.8 MBA twinsight about Vera’s cat allergies preludes the next three chapters of HEARTBREAK, covering pair-bonding prairie voles, more head-harem bullshit, and complicated grief. Speaking of, Bibi tells a sad story.
DL051 – Breast Deduction
February 09, 2023 00:23 - 14 minutes - 31.6 MBEmergency Twinterlude! It’s nudes to Vera that one of us has gone under the knife, while Barbara breaks down the fax of May/December relationships.
DL050 – Misses Romantics
February 02, 2023 20:58 - 21 minutes - 44.3 MBOur upcoming live performance of The Slap Booth, Vera’s hospital husb, and a Reilly great show that un-Hinges Barbara: And yes, that’s right – we are performing this Saturday, February 4th, as part of Blonde Brunette Productions’s PEEK-A-VIEW. 9pm at Hello Stranger, 320 E. 2nd Street, Los Angeles. Get tickets
DL049 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 2 “Guita-red Flag”
January 27, 2023 23:27 - 35 minutes - 70.5 MBBibi tells a diverting story, Vera accepts a helping knee, and Florence Williams loses her Ennis match in the next installment of HEARTBREAK.
DL048 – Rinkchronicity
January 19, 2023 23:15 - 20 minutes - 42.1 MBMon-knee for nothing, Bibi’s Rink Report, and a hard candy shell on this week’s Twinterlude episode!
DL047 Twinterlude – 2022 Recap
December 29, 2022 05:11 - 6 minutes - 16.3 MBMissed out on an episode this year? We got you covered! Please enjoy this recap of the last twelve, glorious months. Plus, we rebrand!! Thank you, dear Frands, for your continued love, support, and listenage. 2023 promises much more book!
DL046 – Heartbreak: A Personal and Scientific Journey – part 1
December 24, 2022 00:52 - 34 minutes - 68.3 MBWe did it! We reviewed an actual DATING-TYPE BOOK!!! Please enjoy our take on chapters 1-3 of Florence Williams’s kayaklicious-tome. And also: Krampii! Read more about the “rickety bridge experiment” (aka “misattribution of arousal”) here.
DL045 – Good Will
December 13, 2022 01:12 - 5 MBRollerskating, red flags, and THIS: Which was brought to you by THIS. And THIS:
DL044 – Growments
December 02, 2022 20:28 - 16 minutes - 35 MBListener Jeremy writes in, twinspiring a convo; twins are thankful; and Bibi weighs a possible Hinge suitor.
DL043 – Skatey Ladies
November 12, 2022 18:57 - 15 minutes - 32.3 MBRemember when Barbara was hurting over Hinge, and Vera said let’s go roller skating instead? A lot has happened since. Listen in on the update! Plus, we attempt to talk about the Five Love Languages, a book we have not read – yet (?)
DL042 Twinterlude – Shards
October 18, 2022 06:43 - 13 minutes - 29.7 MBBarbara has a new dating strategy, but Vera rolls with other plans. Also: ‘member this hottie? Class dismissed!
DL041 Twinterlude – Otta Know Best
October 11, 2022 17:09 - 20 minutes - 41.6 MBThe twins are back from the Ottawa International Animation Festival with tales to tell! Check out Fran Krause’s Deep Dark Fears!
DL040 Twinterlude – Otta Know Better
September 28, 2022 19:39 - 20 minutes - 41.7 MBThe twins are headed back to the Ottawa International Animation festival, pumpkin carving contest and all – but first, Bibi elaborates on last episode’s tale of unfulfilling sexy time.
DL039 Twinterlude – Key Party
September 20, 2022 16:36 - 5 MBThe twins plan a swingin’ gathering for their 47th birthday!
DL038 Twinterlude – DIY
August 23, 2022 05:31 - 22 minutes - 45.6 MBThe twins talk jerking ON, plus Bibi shares a relationship goals revelashe and Vera gets TWO new Instagram followers! Check out Bad Bitch Big Sis here!
DL037 Twinterlude – Mission Twinn
August 15, 2022 19:54 - 17 minutes - 37.5 MBJoin us at the historic Mission Inn and Spa in beautiful downtown Riverside, California, where we talk about app dating, Surrealist balls, and why our hotel room door is barricaded with a chair!
DL036 – The Snow Ball
August 01, 2022 05:18 - 9 minutes - 22.2 MBThis podcast about books and dating makes it’s long-awaited return to books and dating! Vera shares her insight into Brigid Brophy’s 1964 masterpiece of fiction about Mozart, sex, and death. It’s got everything: a lavish 18th century-themed New Years Eve gala, a mysterious masked man make-out, a kick in the
DL035 Twinterlude – Twincels
July 20, 2022 15:37 - 14 minutes - 31.2 MBIncels, autoerotic asphyxiation, and thriving in chaos, plus Bibi examines some recent dates!
DL034 Twinterlude – Snow Ballin’
July 14, 2022 21:52 - 27 minutes - 54.6 MBAn episode that ranges from Victorian morality to “snowballs.” Yeah, you’ve been warned.
DL033 Office Hours – Ask Prix About Poly
June 27, 2022 06:08 - 52 minutes - 100 MBWe twins and our resident expert on alternative relationships, Prix de Beaute, take a newly-single listener’s question about keeping her relationship status “open” in this audio edit from our Instagram Live chat. Plus a brief guide to reaching your US government representative!
DL032 Twinterlude – Make It Rain
June 21, 2022 06:21 - 11 minutes - 26 MBBarbara fondly recounts a pants-on lady-time, and the twins get all Emo.
DL031 Twinterlude – Brown Flags
May 22, 2022 19:51 - 17 minutes - 36.5 MBWomen’s Rights, comedy racism, inclusive television shows, and oh yeah, dating! Barbara talks more about last episode’s New York dork, and Vera breaks down dating in rose-colored glasses.
DL030 Twinterlude – The Big Crapple
April 27, 2022 05:33 - 19 minutes - 40.7 MBBarbara does not let a fantasy fill in her blank, and Vera makes a definitive rule re: ghosting. Also Listeners, please weigh in on several subjects, TY!
DL029 Office Hours – Three Amigos
April 04, 2022 17:57 - 15 minutes - 33.1 MBWe did something totally new – live-streamed on Instagram and invited listeners to join us! We call it Office Hours, and it was weird and fun and we’ll definitely do it again. Meet us yourself on our next broadcast – and make sure to follow us on @DateyLadies so you
DL028 Twinterlude – K-Hole Filler
March 09, 2022 23:28 - 14 minutes - 31.3 MBBarbara admits to a killing, Cosby admits to being a monster, and Putin admits to nothing — but we know his secret and we’re sharing with you. Not every day can be a rave at an ostrich farm, but we’re searching for glimmers of serotonin. Join us.
DL028 Twinterlude – Forg-edit-bout It
February 22, 2022 18:32 - 10 minutes - 23.8 MBWhat does heartbreak, pole dancing, Bill Cosby and the GAME OF THRONES Starbucks cup have in common? The DATEY LADIES podcast of course! Plus, shout out to costume designer and friend Rebecca Seven!
DL027 Twinterlude – Forg-edit-bout It
February 22, 2022 18:32 - 10 minutes - 23.8 MBWhat does heartbreak, pole dancing, Bill Cosby and the GAME OF THRONES Starbucks cup have in common? The DATEY LADIES podcast of course! Plus, shout out to costume designer and friend Rebecca Seven!
DL026 Twinterlude – Freeways ‘n’ Threeways
February 14, 2022 22:27 - 10 minutes - 24.1 MBHappy Valentine’s Day, Bae! Vera takes a closer look at three of our authors (and her own self), while Bibi takes a pot-hole shot at the van-banger from our ALL THE FUCKING MISTAKES episodes (DL006 Acts 1-3).
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DL025 – The Ethical Slut featuring Prix de Beaute – part 2
February 04, 2022 05:55 - 49 minutes - 96.1 MBWe conclude our amazing interview with Prix de Beaute, covering THE ETHICAL SLUT, sex parties, clothed-nude modeling, and everything in between!
DL024 – The Ethical Slut featuring Prix de Beaute
January 27, 2022 00:37 - 33 minutes - 65.6 MBReal-life alternative-relationship-haver PRIX DE BEAUTE helps us finally grasp THE ETHICAL SLUT, by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy! Hear part 1 of her fascinating history of sex, romance, heartache, and jealousy as she searched for the perfect balance of partners in life and love. See more of Prix on Instagram!
DL024 – The Ethical Slut featuring Prix de Beaute – part 1
January 27, 2022 00:37 - 33 minutes - 65.6 MBReal-life alternative-relationship-haver PRIX DE BEAUTE helps us finally grasp THE ETHICAL SLUT, by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy! Hear part 1 of her fascinating history of sex, romance, heartache, and jealousy as she searched for the perfect balance of partners in life and love. See more of Prix on Instagram!
DL023 Twinterlude – You Down With I.I.P.?
January 19, 2022 05:36 - 9 minutes - 21.7 MBBarbara updates us on her dating life, the twins talks TV, and Vera clears up a massive mystery regarding last week’s Vampire Orgy story. Also: MELANIE LYNSKEY! The YELLOWJACKETS and HEAVENLY CREATURES actress’s name is MELANIE LYNSKEY!!!
DL23 Twinterlude – You Down With I.I.P.?
January 19, 2022 05:36 - 9 minutes - 21.7 MBBarbara updates us on her dating life, the twins talks TV, and Vera clears up a massive mystery regarding last week’s Vampire Orgy story. Also: MELANIE LYNSKEY! The YELLOWJACKETS and HEAVENLY CREATURES actress’s name is MELANIE LYNSKEY!!!