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Date Talk

60 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 5 years ago - ★★★★★ - 17 ratings

How can a man and a woman go on the same date and have completely
different experiences? Cheryl White and Ira Summer, currently single
professional comedians interview each other's first dates. Laugh along with them
as they discuss and banter, trying to figure it out.

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Episodes

180905 Date Talk Live

September 05, 2018 22:24 - 58 minutes - 107 MB

180806 Date Talk Live

August 09, 2018 00:29 - 50 minutes - 92 MB

Date Talk Live 7-02-18

July 06, 2018 04:15 - 50 minutes - 91.9 MB

180604 Date Talk Radio

June 15, 2018 22:01 - 50 minutes - 91.9 MB

180402 Date Talk

April 03, 2018 18:23 - 49 minutes - 114 MB

180305 Date Talk

March 06, 2018 20:14 - 49 minutes - 114 MB

Date Talk Live

February 19, 2018 23:27 - 51 minutes - 117 MB

Date Talk

February 19, 2018 20:41 - 50 minutes - 114 MB

171204 Date Talk Live

December 13, 2017 05:40 - 48 minutes - 112 MB

Date Talk Live Call In: November 6th

November 16, 2017 03:37 - 50 minutes - 116 MB

Games and Guacamole

September 06, 2017 06:03 - 46 minutes - 106 MB

  The newest winners of The Date Talk Game Show stopped by the studio to the talk about the show, the date and the outcome. Rae and Imin had margaritas but no momentum.  La Penca Azul- http://www.lapencaazul.com/ Dillard University- http://dillard.edu/   Music: Black Ant: Boomerang Black Ant: Abstract Concepts Kosta T:в то же время www.ComedyCheryl.com www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl Date Talk:  https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2 http://ww...

Mazel Tov: Clay and Adriana

July 05, 2017 01:06 - 50 minutes - 115 MB

Date Talk Game Show moved into the living room of the Moishe House SF (all Jewish living community) for an evening of fun!  Our all Jewish panel of singles were hilarious! But the winning contestants called it quits after only two dates, oy vey.  Find out from Clay and Adrienne where it went wrong.   Moishe House: http://www.bayjews.org/DETAIL.aspx?ID=31017&c=Organizations   Clay Newman:  https://www.youtube.com/user/TheClaynewman   Date Spots: Zero Zero: http://www.ze...

Date Talk: Live Call in Radio Show

June 06, 2017 22:37 - 50 minutes - 115 MB

Date Talk with Brent and Erin: It's All Fun and Games

May 02, 2017 02:41 - 50 minutes - 115 MB

Title: It's All Fun and Games...   **Live recording with audience** This month two winners from the Date Talk Game Show, Erin and Brent, go on a first date.  Not having the chemistry they thought they might have leads to a disappointing encounter. Check out the next Date Talk Game Show in June https://thedtgameshow.eventbrite.com Brent Green- The Green Scene TV  thegreenscenetv.com on YouTube Instagram @Her_Curvy_subtext Industry Coffee Roasters: https://www.facebook.com/...

Date Talk Live Call In: April 4, 2017

April 04, 2017 20:28 - 50 minutes - 115 MB

Date Talk Live Call In Show 3/6/17

March 12, 2017 20:47 - 50 minutes - 92.8 MB

Date Talk: Live Call In, February 2nd, 2017

February 09, 2017 01:32 - 49 minutes - 91.2 MB

Date Talk Live Call In Show!

January 17, 2017 01:58 - 50 minutes - 91.5 MB

Date Talk Live with Cheryl and Brent

December 07, 2016 00:37 - 46 minutes - 105 MB

**Live recording with audience** This month Cheryl and her date have a shared interest in creative endeavors which brings them together but his exceptionally youthful appearance and his exceptionally heavy cannabis intake pushes them apart. During the course of their dates he generously helps talk Cheryl through some race related dating issues.  The Green Scene TV - Brent Green thegreenscenetv.com on YouTube Articles on educating YOURSELF on Racism (Cheryl definitely needs to read ...

Forced March

November 02, 2016 00:11 - 47 minutes - 108 MB

The Date Talk Game Show With Alexandria and Adam

October 04, 2016 23:16 - 50 minutes - 115 MB

This Date Talk Cheryl and Ira debrief the latest contestants from The Date Talk Game Show. Alexandria and Adam clicked on the stage but sputtered a bit on their first dinner date.  Was it too soon for the recently single Alex or did Adam go over the top with his giddy like for her?  Come to the next Date Talk Game Show at Pappy's in Berkeley November 25th and be the join in the fun.   Alexandria Love's podcast: Here's Why That's Funny - https://www.facebook.com/hereswhythatsfunny/?fref=t...

Ropes

September 12, 2016 19:44 - 50 minutes - 114 MB

From our original non-radio version of Date Talk. This time Cheryl navigates the world of Bay Area BDSM.  Is it a bad idea to let a guy tie you up on your second date?      Music: Rhianna- "S & M" Puddle of Mudd- "Control" Brooke Hogan Feat. Flo Rida- "Ruff me Up"   FetLife is the social network for the BDSM, Fetish and Kinky community.  https://fetlife.com/ Black Thorn is a welcoming, well-equipped dungeon located in the lovely Lake Merritt area of Oakland, Ca. http://...

Date Talk : Stuck in Neutral

August 04, 2016 00:29 - 46 minutes - 107 MB

What happens when two people have very little chemistry when dating?  Does it make women second guess themselves?  Cheryl's date is interviewed by Ira about his reasons for dropping contact after one "okay" date. ​ Music: Macy Gray- "Why Didn't You Call Me" The Band Perry-  "The Comeback Kid" Pink- "Fu*&ing Perfect"     -- www.ComedyCheryl.com www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl Date Talk Radio Show/Podcast:  https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2 h...

The Date Talk Game Show

July 06, 2016 17:26 - 50 minutes - 114 MB

This episode Cheryl and Ira interview the winners of the first Date Talk Game Show. They talk about the experience, the audience, and the reason they won't be dating a second time.  Music: Adam Friedman- "Lemonade" Wash- "Where You Been" Chase Bryant- "Room to Breathe" Bobby Morganstein- "The Dating Game" Theme Song   Tickets for " Date Talk Game Show" July 29th- http://thedatetalkgameshow.eventbrite.com

Mars Advice

June 08, 2016 04:16 - 42 minutes - 97.1 MB

Today Cheryl's guest co-host, Doug, returns! He is ready to hand out dating advice online.  Send questions to the Date Talk Facebook page and let's get his take on all your dating questions. Cheryl also interviews one of his Tinder dates that he never asked on another date yet she's willing to go out a second time.   Plus New!  "Date Walk" --- Lake Merritt, Oakland Cheryl asks the public "How soon is it okay to have sex?"   Music- Timeflies- "Once in Awhile" Marian Hill- "One T...

Confidence x3

May 04, 2016 03:25 - 50 minutes - 114 MB

Today's guest co-host, Doug, went on a first Tinder date ending in a threesome! Cheryl discusses the date with both people.  How did he figure out this first time girl was willing to engage in a threesome?  Is confidence the key?   What made her decide to go for it? Listen in as we figure it out and join the online community to discuss with us and ask this couple some serious questions.     Music- Bob Morganstein- "Three's Company Theme" Shaw Blades- "Lucky Man" A. K. Paul- "Landcr...

Date Talk: Gut Feelings

April 05, 2016 23:57 - 1 hour - 137 MB

A couple who went on one date​ discuss with Cheryl and Ira what went wrong.  So many online dates don't turn into a second date and so many times we don't know why.  Listen in as we see what happened.  Learn some definite dating no-nos.  Like don't touch the girl's belly. Ummm...duh.   Music- Adam Lambert- "Welcome To The Show" Cowboy Mouth- "Belly" 5 Seconds of Summer- "She's Kinda Hot" Joy Williams- "You're My Favorite"   ​ Join the conversation or comment: TheDateTalk@g...

Date Talk: At Your Service

March 01, 2016 21:37 - 50 minutes - 91.6 MB

At Your Service   Cheryl steps outside her comfort zone and agrees to a date with a "service submissive".  Ira and Cheryl learn exactly where that falls on the dominant/submissive spectrum and whether that might actually fit Cheryl's desires; after all she does drive a BMW and likes to be treated like a princess.   Urban Game Bird-  https://www.facebook.com/UrbanGameBirds/​ ​     Join the conversation or comment: [email protected] Or https://www.facebook.com/datetalk   Chec...

Date Talk: Lazy Appeal

February 03, 2016 23:13 - 50 minutes - 114 MB

Cheryl and Ira discuss a spontaneous Tinder date with a out-spoken, bold, alpha male whose attraction to Cheryl is only a lazy appeal.  You know... you're dating, there's some chemistry, nothing bad to say about your date but it's just not worth the effort necessary to make a serious connection happen. Find out how this thwarts Cheryl's unexpected bad cop fantasy.    (Date Talk is claiming the coining of the phrase the "Lazy Appeal")   Music- The Summer Set - " Figure Me Out" Mor...

Date Talk: Date or Get Down

January 06, 2016 22:04 - 50 minutes - 114 MB

​   Tinder and naughty photos, do these set-up an assumption for a hook-up? Cheryl gets friend zoned after differing intentions collide.  Ira and Cheryl discuss the perils of mis-matched expectations in dating.  Also, honesty is still the best policy. (---Pssst, listen as Cheryl gets overly harsh about the date because her feathers get ruffled by some of his critical assessments.)       Music:  The Weeknd- "The Hills" TLC- "Creep" Fall Out Boy- "I Don't Care"     https://www.face...

Date Talk: Asian Affinity

December 03, 2015 00:36 - 50 minutes - 114 MB

Asian Affinity   What happens when trust becomes an issue before a date even starts? Cheryl and Ira interview a couple where despite her distinct attraction to Asian men, he doesn't have the confidence to ride out early complications. Tune in as our hosts dig into this dating dilemma.   Steve Lee:  https://www.facebook.com/steveleecomedy https://www.steveleecomedy.com/ https://www.youtube.com/user/steveleecomedy https://twitter.com/SteveLeeComedy   Facebook Pages for Asian Guys: ...

Both Sides of the Street

November 04, 2015 22:33 - 50 minutes - 114 MB

Brent Green- The Green Scene TV: http://www.thegreenscenetv.com  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnUIdFOz-p-z7EJ7zPJOKGQ ​ Articles on educating YOURSELF on Racism (Cheryl definitely needs to read this!): http://www.alternet.org/news-amp-politics/why-do-white-people-think-people-color-are-obligated-teach-them-about-race http://www.seattletimes.com/opinion/guest-what-does-it-mean-to-be-white/   Interacial dating Statistics; https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interracial_marriage_in_the_...

Bye Bye Bi

October 06, 2015 22:27 - 50 minutes - 114 MB

Exploring your boundaries of sexual attraction while on a date can be a little unnerving but checking in with yourself to affirm or expand your orientation can be healthy.  This month Ira and Cheryl have a Tinder matched couple come into the studio.  Listen in as they all discuss their dates and explore what happens when one woman tests the waters of heterosexual dating.      Debunking Myths About Sexual Fluidity -  http://www.scienceofrelationships.com/home/2014/10/13/debunking-myths-abo...

Shades Of Black And White

September 01, 2015 23:10 - 1 hour - 153 MB

Navigating interacial dating can be complex. This month Cheryl has a series of dates with a black, Puerto Rican man.  As a newly dating, mixed race couple it's hard to see if the issues are plain compatibility or complicated cultural and economic differences.  This Date Talk Cheryl and Ira try to unravel where the attraction went wrong and why.    Vincent Cruz- Step On It Productions: http://www.step-on-it-presents.com/index.php   Articles on Racism: https://www.thsppl.com/i-racist-538...

Trans-(ditional) Dating

August 03, 2015 23:01 - 48 minutes - 111 MB

It's a new world order for dating.  Heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, pansexual....where is the attraction?  Is it fluid, static?  This Date Talk Cheryl goes for a coffee date with a transgender woman (MtF) and learns to navigate past her own ingrained stereotypes to find a few realities about the world. Ira and Cheryl prove it's never too late to get a clue.   How common is Intersex condition at birth?: http://www.isna.org/faq/frequency   Namoli Brennet --Track: "Thorn in Your ...

Date Chat- Dick Pics

July 23, 2015 01:21 - 6 minutes - 14.2 MB

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Burning Bridges

July 01, 2015 00:11 - 51 minutes - 117 MB

You never know when you might want a second chance.  In dating it always pays to bow out politely.  Never burn a bridge even if you think you won't need it.  Ira interviews one of Cheryl's dates who tries, not once but twice, to rekindle an interest but stubbornly Cheryl is not giving any second chances when the initial date was handled, albeit unintentionally, without thought to her feelings. Date Talk the best in information and comedy!   Video for Final Song: " Boys" by Savannah Outen h...

Vexing Texting

June 03, 2015 00:35 - 53 minutes - 122 MB

Ira interviews Cheryl's recent date who texts with tenacity.  How much texting is appropriate for each stage of dating?  Do detailed text questions promote dialouge or create a pressure for an answer?  What amount of texting feels comfortable?  Can texting styles make or break a brand new relationship?  The best of information and comedy!     Date Talk LIVE.  Be a part of the live audience and participate with questions and comments on 6/5/2015 at Pappy's Sports Bar in Berkeley. Ticket...

Date Talk: You Need Fuel for a Fire

May 01, 2015 20:18 - 56 minutes - 44.9 MB

Cheryl and Ira talk dating applications and sparking romance.  How do people fan the flames to make a date sizzle?  What unwittingly douses the potential heat in the dating process? Will Cheryl ever be able to get her dates from interested to inflamed? The best of information and comedy!   Five Restaurant- http://www.five-berkeley.com/   Dating Sites and Applications: Plenty of Fish- https://pof.com OKCupid- https://www.okcupid.com Carbon- https://twitter.com/carbon_dating Coffee Meet...

Blind Date

April 02, 2015 00:20 - 46 minutes - 106 MB

​Cheryl discusses with Ira a recent blind date.  How do people decide two friends should meet and date?  How does meeting a person you know nothing about change the dynamics of the dating process?  Do our friends know us better than we know ourselves and have the insider track on who we should date?  Or are our friends as fickle as we are?  The best of information and comedy!     Excitingly...join in the Facebook fun and throw your name in the ring to be the one to set Cheryl or Ira up on...

What's Too Young?

March 11, 2015 00:34 - 9 minutes - 21 MB

This Date Chat, Ira and Cheryl talk about and reveal their self-imposed dating age ranges.  What's too young?  Too old?  Is there a limit on either side?  Is age really just a number? Is Cheryl a cougar?!?     Cougars Anyone? http://www.cougarlife.com/ Dating Older Men:  http://elitedaily.com/dating/pros-and-cons-of-dating-an-older-man/789862/ Datng Equation:  http://www.scienceofrelationships.com/home/2011/10/4/the-dating-equation-your-age-7.html https://www.facebook.com/datetalk htt...

Date Talk Live

March 03, 2015 20:31 - 1 hour - 138 MB

Cheryl and Ira host a live audience for the stage version of Date Talk. They dissect a first date between Cheryl and a San Francisco, single, entrepreneurial man.  Does wealth have a place in attracting a partner? Is entitlement a thing in dating?  Join the fun as the audience participates and questions fly about herpes, high-rise apartment living and circumcision.  The best of information and comedy.  

Date Talk "Ghosting"

February 10, 2015 18:44 - 59 minutes - 136 MB

Date Talk this month Ira and Cheryl discuss ghosting or the slow fade. What happens when Cheryl's date does a no call/no text after two meetings.  Was it something she said?  Something avoidable in the future?  How to end things without just dissappearing.     Ghosting:  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/30/ghosting-dating-_n_6028958.html SlowFade:  http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/10/02/in_defense_of_the_slow_fade_ending_a_casual_relationship_by_failing_to_respond.html ht...

Date Chat "Dating Photo"

January 27, 2015 05:47 - 4 minutes - 10.8 MB

Date Chat's co-hosts, Cheryl and Ira, discuss dating photos. Does your OkCupid profile photo show just your abs, guys?  Or your Tinder photo have no body shot, ladies? Everybody wants to see your eyes on Match! What's the worst you've seen?   Dating Sites: http://www.okcupid.com/     http://www.gotinder.com/ http://www.match.com/ Good Selfies, How To: http://www.wikihow.com/Take-Good-Selfies https://www.facebook.com/datetalk http://www.9thfloorradio.com/datetalk https://itunes.apple...

Date Chat "Nod and Wave"

January 22, 2015 01:11 - 4 minutes - 10.1 MB

On Date Chat this week.... Ira and Cheryl discuss the manners and dating etiquette involved with seeing past dates out and about.  Should we acknowledge each other?  Or walk on by?  Isn't it just good manners to say "hi" or at least nod and wave?   For all things etiquette: http://www.emilypost.com/ Please sponsor us: http://www.chipotle.com/ https://www.facebook.com/datetalk http://www.9thfloorradio.com/datetalk https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2 http://www....

Date Chat : Where to?

January 13, 2015 18:18 - 3 minutes - 7.39 MB

This week on Date Chat ......Ira takes charge of dating ideas.  Do women want men to direct the activity ideas?  Make suggestions or give choices?  Or would women rather pick the first date spot?  Is that a man's "job"?  Ira and Cheryl discusses the possibiities.  Join the discussion on Date Talk on Facebook!  Your opinion is needed! https://www.facebook.com/datetalk http://www.9thfloorradio.com/datetalk https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2 http://www.comedycheryl...

Date Talk "Unrecorded Kiss"

January 06, 2015 22:18 - 56 minutes - 130 MB

The newest Date Talk ...... Ira takes a date to his comedy show. Cheryl happens to be there to witness the first date.  Will they be dating a second time?  Is Ira actually funny? Why would a young, single woman admit to wanting to snoop?   Show Archive: http://www.9thfloorradio.com/datetalk/   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/datetalk      https://www.facebook.com/datetalk http://www.9thfloorradio.com/datetalk https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2 http://...

Date Chat: Accidental Stalker

December 19, 2014 02:15 - 5 minutes - 12.8 MB

Tiny taste of Date Talk podcast...this week, dating advice about stumbling upon people in the real world after seeing their profile online at OK Cupid, Tinder or Match.com or just after having a few failed dates.  Do you say hello?  What's the protocol?  https://www.facebook.com/datetalk http://www.9thfloorradio.com/datetalk https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2 http://www.comedycheryl.com/ https://www.facebook.com/ComedyCheryl https://www.facebook.com/ira.summer

Date Chat: Shorts and Stilettos

December 16, 2014 23:48 - 2 minutes - 5.52 MB

This week on Date Chat ......Cheryl discusses meeting men who are more interested in what's on her feet than in her head.  Why is she a foot fetish magnet on OK Cupid? And is it ever appropriate for a man to ask for custom photos of you before you've met in person?   Follow Date Talk on Facebook and tell us what you think!!!   https://www.facebook.com/datetalk http://www.9thfloorradio.com/datetalk https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/date-talk/id920965877?mt=2 http://www.comedycheryl.com...

Date Talk "Shy Guy"

December 11, 2014 01:15 - 44 minutes - 102 MB

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