To have a winner’s mentality, you have to stop caring what other people think. You’ve gotta get quiet in your own head. So many people make big life decisions based on other people’s opinions. You care so much about what your mom, dad, brother, or friends think that you’re allowing them to dictate your actions in life. At the core of it, the barriers so many people have aren’t really about “money” or “time.” They’re about opinions. It’s the biggest reason so many people are unhappy right now. Because they value someone else’s opinion more than their own. Once you get past that, life can get real good.  Here’s how you can get quiet in your own head: