Curious Fox
371 episodes - English - Latest episode: 5 months ago - ★★★★★ - 39 ratingsFor those challenging the status quo in love, sex, and relationships. Effy Blue and Jacqueline Misla explore themes on these subjects through personal stories, interviews, and community discussions (and laugh a lot).
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Episodes
Consensual Non-consent, Negotiation, and the Classics with Tina Horn
November 30, 2023 11:00 - 54 minutes - 37.7 MBSupport the show Connect with us on IG and more: Curious Fox @wearecuriousfoxes Effy Blue @coacheffyblue Jacqueline Misla @jacquelinemisla Email us or send a voice memo: [email protected] Join the conversation: fb.com/WeAreCuriousFoxes
Queer Eye for Pleasure, Women and those who Love Them with Allison Moon
November 15, 2023 12:00 - 48 minutes - 33.6 MBIn a world where discussions about sexuality often default to a heteronormative framework, what insights can we gain when we shift our focus to a queer perspective? How does queer sex challenge and expand our understanding of pleasure, consent, and sexual expression? What can individuals of all genders and orientations learn from queer sexuality? In this week’s episode, Effy welcomes back sex educator and author Allison Moon for a thought-provoking conversation where they explore the inhere...
How to Support Queer, Trans, and Non-binary Young People with Cory Silverberg
November 08, 2023 12:00 - 1 hour - 41.6 MBHow can parents and caregivers create a safe and open environment where young individuals navigating their own identities feel comfortable exploring and expressing their evolving identities? What are the most common misconceptions or misunderstandings that parents and caregivers have about supporting queer, trans, and non-binary young people? How can they overcome these barriers to offer genuine support? What actionable steps can educators and community leaders take to ensure that queer, tra...
Mixed Desires: Navigating Misaligned Wants with Our Partners with Dr Joli Hamilton (Interview)
November 01, 2023 11:00 - 1 hour - 44.9 MBIn the intricate dance of relationships, what happens when our desires diverge from those of our partners? What common patterns emerge when partners want differently? And how can we skillfully bridge these gaps without losing ourselves in the process? In this episode, Effy invites Dr. Joli Hamilton back on the show for a candid conversation about the complexities of mismatched desires. Together, they dissect the root causes of these disparities, offer insights on managing them in both fledg...
Haunted House of Relationship Horrors Listeners Edition
October 25, 2023 15:00 - 48 minutes - 33.5 MBWhat relationship fears lurk in the shadows of our minds, sending chills down our spines? Can the art of storytelling serve as both an outlet for our deepest relationship anxieties and a means of processing them? Might the eerie embrace of Halloween be the unlikely balm to soothe these fears? In this special Halloween episode, Effy and Jacqueline delve into the anatomy of fear and go for a chilling foray into the Haunted House of relationship horrors once again. This time crafted with the b...
Trauma, Sense of Safety and the Somatic Connection with Rida Kirasi (Interview)
October 18, 2023 14:00 - 1 hour - 50.6 MBHow deeply does our perception of safety influence our behavior in relationships? What internal shifts transpire within our nervous system when we oscillate between feelings of security and threat? And, how can we nurture an environment that fosters safety and wellbeing? In the third installment of our four-part series on trauma, we revisit a poignant episode where Effy and Jacqueline engage in an insightful discussion with Rida Kirasi, a sound healing therapist, meditation facilitator, and...
Psychedelics, Sexual Trauma and Pleasure as a Healing Modality with Dee Dee Goldpaugh (Interview)
October 11, 2023 13:00 - 58 minutes - 39.9 MBHow might we challenge and expand upon the established medical definitions of trauma? Can our understanding of healing evolve to encompass not just the alleviation of symptoms but also the reclamation of joy and pleasure? What are the recent shifts in utilizing psychedelics as tools for trauma treatment? In this episode, Effy sits down with Dee Dee Goldpaugh, a psychotherapist, educator, author, activist, and the Clinical Director of Chrysalis Integrative Psychotherapy. Together, they embar...
Trauma from a New Lens with Dr MaryCatherine "MC" McDonald (Interview)
October 03, 2023 17:00 - 1 hour - 47.6 MBHow do we navigate the multifaceted nature of trauma beyond the often reductive parameters set by the medical system? How is memory formation and storage impacted by trauma and how does that impact the trauma experience? Can our journey towards healing be supported by those other than professionals? In this episode, Effy talks with trauma researcher and author, Dr. MaryCatherine "MC" McDonald, whose book, "Unbroken: The Trauma Response Is Never Wrong And Other Things You Need to Know to T...
Relationship Fears, Creative Healing and Halloween Pregame
September 27, 2023 10:00 - 12 minutes - 8.81 MBIn this episode, Effy and Jacqueline talk about some scary stories and beliefs they hold about relationships, share how these stories can manifest and how they can get in the way of connection and intimacy in their relationships. They reflect back on a previous Halloween episode where they approached these stories with creativity and humor and invite the listeners to try this approach. Recommended episodes: Ep 88 - Creative Take on Talking About Sex with Jennifer Beman Ep 120 - Queer Pleas...
Tolerating Disconnection in Relationships
September 20, 2023 10:00 - 55 minutes - 37.9 MBWhat exactly is connection, and what happens when we encounter disconnection in our relationships? Is there any value in temporary disconnection? How can we improve our tolerance to disconnection? In this week's episode, Effy and Jacqueline delve deep into the intricate dynamics of connection and disconnection within relationships. Effy and Jacqueline unravel the multifaceted aspects of disconnection, shedding light on its causes and manifestations. They candidly explore the potential benef...
Age, Affinity and Dating with Ashton Applewhite (Interview)
September 13, 2023 14:00 - 37 minutes - 26.1 MBWhat impact does a significant age gap between partners have on relationships? Are there common misconceptions surrounding women dating considerably younger men? Does age alone determine affinity, and should we limit ourselves to dating within our age group In this episode, Effy engages in a candid conversation with author and ageism activist, Ashton Applewhite. Together, they explore the profound effects of ageism on our perceptions of larger age gaps in relationships. Effy shares her pers...
Forks in the Road, Greener Grasses, and Subscribing to the Sucky
September 06, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 48.9 MBHow often have you second-guessed a decision, wondering if the other option would have spared you the heartache? How do we navigate life's dilemmas when every path seems to have its own set of thorns? Can we ever truly escape the consequences of our choices, or is it about finding peace in the decisions we make? Effy and Jacqueline return from their break, diving deep into the often overlooked aspect of decision-making: the inevitable challenges that accompany every choice. They candidly sh...
The Self, Parts and the Highway of Life
July 19, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 41.6 MBWhy do we react in ways that seem counterproductive or self-defeating? Are our minds made up of distinct "parts" that influence our behavior? How can we understand and integrate these internal parts to create personal growth and harmony? In this episode, Effy and Jacqueline explore “parts work” and share their personal therapeutic journeys understanding, regulating, and befriending their parts. They discuss the benefits of developing "parts" from past experiences to help us navigate and res...
Navigating Mismatched Kinks with Partners: Finding Common Playgrounds with Miss Shayla (Interview)
July 12, 2023 10:00 - 55 minutes - 38.4 MBWe are curious: How can we explore mismatched kinks with our partners? How do we find common ground and understand where the resistance is without creating pressure or being coercive? And what can be done if there's no common ground? In this episode, Effy enlists the expertise of a seasoned pro Dom, kink educator and a longtime foxy friend of the show Miss Shayla. Together, they embark on a candid conversation, delving into the intricacies of navigating mismatched kinks with partners. Effy...
Highly Sensitive Man: Navigating Sensitivity, Masculinity, and Relationships with Tom Falkenstein (Interview)
July 05, 2023 10:00 - 53 minutes - 36.7 MBWhat does it mean to be a highly sensitive person (HSP)? How does high sensitivity differ between individuals socialized as men versus women? What are the unique advantages and obstacles faced by highly sensitive men in their relationships and daily lives? In this episode, Effy and cognitive behavioral psychotherapist and author of "The Highly Sensitive Man" Tom Falkenstein take a deep dive into the core characteristics of high sensitivity and examine how societal expectations and gender n...
Release The Rainbow, Coming Out in Adulthood
June 28, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 43.5 MBWhat happens when you discover your sexual orientation later in life? How can you embrace a new identity when you have already established one? What does it mean to be queer? In this revisited oldie, Jacqueline goes galavanting through the NY lesbian bar scene for her birthday with her partner, making up for some classic lesbian experiences that she never got to have. Effy and Jacqueline celebrate Pride month by exploring experiences of coming out later in life, discuss what it means to be ...
Queering Up Wedding Season and Celebrating All Relationships with Ambyr D'Amato (Interview)
June 21, 2023 10:00 - 54 minutes - 37.8 MBHow can wedding ceremonies be updated to honor queer and polyamorous relationships? What can we do to celebrate a relationship when marriage and a wedding is not an option? What would it be like to celebrate an uncoupling, or the end of a relationship? Just in time for wedding season, Effy and Jacqueline revisit their conversation with queer wedding planner Ambyr D'Amato to challenge the idea that only certain types of relationships deserve to be celebrated with a ceremony. They discuss way...
Hot and Healthy Hookups and Sexual Citizenship with Allison Moon (Interview)
June 14, 2023 10:00 - 42 minutes - 29 MBWhat exactly is a "hookup"? How can we create hot, healthy, shame free hookups? Is there such a thing as good etiquette for casual sex? In this week’s episode, Effy is joined by sex educator and author Allison Moon to discuss casual sex. They discuss hookup culture and how we can and should “be excellent to each other” as members of a sexual community. Effy and Allison consider how our approach to casual sex partners can be a reflection of our humanity and what we can do as “sexual citizens...
Stability vs. Freedom: Craving Roots & Wings
June 07, 2023 10:00 - 54 minutes - 37.2 MBWhy is it that when we feel comfy and settled, we suddenly long for passion and freedom? And conversely, why do a string of spontaneous adventures have us longing for stability? Is it possible for us to be both planted and to fly? Jacqueline revisits a conversation with Effy about how to balance the comfort of being rooted and settled with the desire for variety and passion. They share their tips for how to assess what you are craving and figure out how to deal with the discomfort and fill ...
Compartmentalization: Friend or Foe
May 31, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 43.4 MBHow important is compartmentalization when you are in multiple relationships? Can we go too far with "don't ask, don't tell"? Are there consequences to keeping parts of our lives separate? In this week's episode, we take a trip into the multiple worlds within Jacqueline's mind and explore the reasons for compartmentalization and integration. Effy and Jacqueline examine why we separate some of our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, particularly within open relationships; and reveal how too m...
Relationship Evolution and Communication Tools for Modern Relationships with Multiamory's Dedeker, Emily and Jase (Interview)
May 24, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 42.4 MBHow can relationship structures evolve over time? How can we thrive as our relationships change? What are some essential communication tools that can support our relationships and those in it? In this week’s episode Effy is joined by fellow podcasters Dedeker, Emily and Jase of Multiamory. Dedeker, Emily and Jase share how their relationship evolved from a quad to a long term triad to now a whole other structure and reflect on highs and lows of each phase of their relationship. Effy, Dede...
Yoni Gazing, Self Discovery and Letters to Your Vulva and with Jocelyn Silva
May 17, 2023 18:00 - 48 minutes - 33.2 MBWhat is Yoni gazing? Why would you want to look “down there”? How do you ask your partner to help? This week Effy is joined by long time friend of the Fox, sex and pleasure coach, Jocelyn Silva to talk about Yoni gazing. They discuss how simple yet powerful it is to intentionally look at your vulva with a mirror, and Jocelyn shares a Yoni gazing ceremony where you can connect with your vulva and nurture a relationship with this important and divide part of your body. To learn more about J...
Yoni Gazing, Self Discovery and Letters to Your Vulva and with Jocelyn Silva (Interview)
May 17, 2023 18:00 - 48 minutes - 33.2 MBWhat is Yoni gazing? Why would you want to look “down there”? How do you ask your partner to help? This week Effy is joined by long time friend of the Fox, sex and pleasure coach, Jocelyn Silva to talk about Yoni gazing. They discuss how simple yet powerful it is to intentionally look at your vulva with a mirror, and Jocelyn shares a Yoni gazing ceremony where you can connect with your vulva and nurture a relationship with this important and divide part of your body. To learn more about J...
Yoni Gazing, Self Discover and Letters to Your Vulva and with Jocelyn Silva
May 17, 2023 18:00 - 48 minutes - 33.2 MBWhat is Yoni gazing? Why would you want to look “down there”? How do you ask your partner to help? This week Effy is joined by long time friend of the Fox, sex and pleasure coach, Jocelyn Silva to talk about Yoni gazing. They discuss how simple yet powerful it is to intentionally look at your vulva with a mirror, and Jocelyn shares a Yoni gazing ceremony where you can connect with your vulva and nurture a relationship with this important and divide part of your body. To learn more about J...
Polyamorous While Asian with Michelle Hy
May 10, 2023 10:00 - 49 minutes - 33.7 MBWhat is intersectional polyamory and how to find meaningful representation in the community? What is the impact of prescribed cultural identity on our relationships? How can we find and connect with online communities for support? In honor of Asian Pacific American Heritage Month, Effy and Jacqueline are joined by Michelle Hy of Polyamorous While Asian to discuss how different parts of our identity impact the way we practice non-monogamy, how representation matters within polyamory, and th...
Polyamorous While Asian with Michelle Hy (Interview)
May 10, 2023 10:00 - 49 minutes - 33.7 MBWhat is intersectional polyamory and how to find meaningful representation in the community? What is the impact of prescribed cultural identity on our relationships? How can we find and connect with online communities for support? In honor of Asian Pacific American Heritage Month, Effy and Jacqueline are joined by Michelle Hy of Polyamorous While Asian to discuss how different parts of our identity impact the way we practice non-monogamy, how representation matters within polyamory, and th...
Masturbation Month, Self Care and Political Subversion
May 03, 2023 10:00 - 49 minutes - 33.9 MBCan masturbation be an act of self care and political subversion? What are all the benefits of masturbation? If there are so many benefits of masturbation, why don’t we do it more? In this week’s episode Effy and Jacqueline have a lighthearted and wisdom packed conversation about masturbation in honor of Masturbation Month. They share their personal practices, beliefs and stories about self pleasure; explore the myths, social and religious conditioning about it, and put out a plea for a be...
The Sexual Shadow, Self Discovery, Shame and Pleasure with Dr Joli Hamilton (Interview)
April 26, 2023 10:00 - 59 minutes - 40.7 MBWhat is the sexual Shadow? How does it affect our individual and collective sexual expression? What are some of the ways we can get to know our Shadow material and work towards integrating it? In this week’s episode Effy explores the crossroads of Jungian psychology and sex with Dr Joli Hamilton. They take a deep dive into the sexual Shadow, the repressed, the unwanted aspects of sexuality. They discuss how — if it goes unexplored and unprocessed — this material impacts our collective and i...
Exploring the Asexuality Spectrum with Angela Chen (Interview)
April 19, 2023 10:00 - 54 minutes - 37.5 MBIn a hypersexualized society, what is it like to be asexual? Do asexual folks have sex? Can asexuality be an important factor for female sexual liberation? In honor of International Asexuality Day (April 6th), we revisit a conversation between Effy, Jacqueline, and journalist, editor, and the author of Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex, Angela Chen. The three talk about the asexuality spectrum, its role in identity politics, and why Angela’s book hel...
Hold Me Right, Surviving Sexual Violence and a Video Game with Danijela Steinfeld (Interview)
April 12, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 43.4 MBWhat are the systemic factors that support rape culture? Why is it difficult for sexual assault survivors to find their voice? What does a journey towards healing look like? In this episode, Effy and Jacqueline are joined by Danijela Steinfeld, a Serbian-born award-winning actress and filmmaker who is the director and producer of the documentary film Hold Me Right. The film explores the traumatic aftermath and healing process for survivors and perpetrators of sexual violence. Danijela share...
Sex in the Bible, an Easter Egg Hunt with De-Andrea Blaylock-Solar (Interview)
April 05, 2023 10:00 - 40 minutes - 27.9 MBIs there Biblical scripture that condones or encourages sexual exploration? Why would God design bodies that experience pleasure if we are not supposed to pursue pleasure? Can faith and sexuality coexist? In this episode, Jacqueline resurrects a conversation she had with Effy and De-Andrea Blaylock-Solar. They embark on an Easter egg hunt to find passages and scriptures in the Bible that talk about sex - not as a vehicle to hell, but as a beautiful, sensual, expression of joy and connection...
Sex in the Bible, an Easter Egg Hunt with De-Andrea Blaylock-Johnson (Interview)
April 05, 2023 10:00 - 40 minutes - 27.9 MBIs there Biblical scripture that condones or encourages sexual exploration? Why would God design bodies that experience pleasure if we are not supposed to pursue pleasure? Can faith and sexuality coexist? In this episode, Jacqueline resurrects a conversation she had with Effy and De-Andrea Blaylock-Johnson. They embark on an Easter egg hunt to find passages and scriptures in the Bible that talk about sex - not as a vehicle to hell, but as a beautiful, sensual, expression of joy and connecti...
Dirty Talk, Travel Sex and Erotica Book Clubs with Jocelyn Silva (Interview)
March 29, 2023 10:00 - 34 minutes - 24 MBWhy are people into dirty talk? What are different types of dirty talk? How can we start experimenting with verbally expressing our hottest thoughts and desires? In this episode, Effy invites Jocelyn Silva to discuss the ins and outs of dirty talk. They explore why people are into it, appreciate different types and share some solid tips on how to get started. To learn more about Jocelyn Jocelyn Silva is a bisexual polyamorous Sexual Empowerment Coach, Sex Educator, First Generation Lati...
Queer Health Week, Tops & Bottoms, and Butt Clocks with Dr. Carlton
March 22, 2023 10:00 - 42 minutes - 29 MBHow can you find the right doctor? What should you ask during your appointment? How can you pleasurably and safely explore anal play? What is unique about sexual health within the gay and queer community? And what is a butt clock? Erectile dysfunction, STIs, vaccinations, and safe anal play are important conversations for men – particularly queer men – to have with their doctor’s and partners. However sometimes the most important conversations are also the most difficult ones. In this episo...
Queer Health Week, Tops & Bottoms, and Butt Clocks with Dr. Carlton (Interview)
March 22, 2023 10:00 - 42 minutes - 29 MBHow can you find the right doctor? What should you ask during your appointment? How can you pleasurably and safely explore anal play? What is unique about sexual health within the gay and queer community? And what is a butt clock? Erectile dysfunction, STIs, vaccinations, and safe anal play are important conversations for men – particularly queer men – to have with their doctor’s and partners. However sometimes the most important conversations are also the most difficult ones. In this episo...
Psychedelics, Healing Trauma and Sexuality with Dee Dee Goldpaugh (Interview)
March 15, 2023 10:00 - 59 minutes - 41 MBCan psychedelics be more than a party drug? How are they used in therapy and why are they so effective? What does it take to get into a psychedelic treatment program? Effy and Jacqueline are joined by Community Support and Integration Director of the Hudson Valley Psychedelic Society, psychotherapist and clinical supervisor Dee Dee Goldpaugh to discuss her work with psychedelics and their effective use in treating and healing trauma psycho-chemically as well as spiritually. More about De...
Kink, Shame, and Sexual Healing with Rena Martine
March 08, 2023 11:00 - 37 minutes - 26 MBWhat’s kink and bdsm? How can we start a conversation with our partner(s) about exploring different sexual expressions? How can kink be a healing modality? In this episode, Effy and Jacqueline are joined by Rena Martine to talk about how to explore the taboo in a healthy way. They discuss how kink can be therapeutic and share some resources on how to get started. Mentioned in this episode: BDSMTest.org Lina Dune - Ask a Sub - Patreon Sex and Psychology Podcast Books: Tell Me What You Want...
Kink, Shame, and Sexual Healing with Rena Martine (Interview)
March 08, 2023 11:00 - 37 minutes - 26 MBWhat’s kink and bdsm? How can we start a conversation with our partner(s) about exploring different sexual expressions? How can kink be a healing modality? In this episode, Effy and Jacqueline are joined by Rena Martine to talk about how to explore the taboo in a healthy way. They discuss how kink can be therapeutic and share some resources on how to get started. Mentioned in this episode: BDSMTest.org Lina Dune - Ask a Sub - Patreon Sex and Psychology Podcast Books: Tell Me What You Want...
Fox Tales: Two Relationships, Two Homes, One Big Change with Jacqueline Misla
March 01, 2023 11:00 - 41 minutes - 28.5 MBHow do you break out from societal norms? What does it take to design a relationship that we can thrive in? What happens when you open your mind to all the possibilities? In this week’s episode, we bring you another installment of Fox Tales: stories of people who are living, loving and connecting in unique ways. Jacqueline balances a life with her daughter, her wife, and her partner living between two homes. Jacqueline tells the story of how she went from a hetero-mono-normative marriage, ...
Cycles, Connection to the Body and the Earth with Kathy Walkling (Interview)
February 22, 2023 11:00 - 44 minutes - 30.9 MBAre periods simply a burden for women to bear? Can menstruation education cause systemic change for the better in women's welfare? What are the implications of women revitalizing menstrual practices on society and the earth? In this special episode, Effy talks to the co-founder of EcoFemme Kathy Walkling about how rethinking menstruation and menstruation education can cause radical social change in women’s welfare. Kathy explains EcoFemme’s approach to menstruation that is healthy, environ...
Couple Privilege, Hierarchical Relationships and Valentine's Day
February 15, 2023 11:00 - 56 minutes - 39 MBWhat is couple privilege? How does it differ from hierarchy in relationships? How does it affect relationships? How can we design our relationships with privilege and hierarchy in mind? In this revised episode, Effy and Jacqueline reflect on couple privilege and hierarchy in relationships on Valentine’s Day when these dynamics can really be accentuated and exasperated. They share suggestions on how to elevate our relationships beyond these limitations and nurture ethical connections across...
Sexual Morality, Disgust, and Bonobos with Dr. Kelly Asao (Interview)
February 08, 2023 11:00 - 43 minutes - 30.2 MBWhat is sexual morality? How do we decide what is right and wrong when it comes to sex? Is it universal or does it change across cultures? How does moralizing sexuality affect our individual sexual expression and our views on sex as a society? In this week’s episode, Effy and Jacqueline explore sexual morality with insights from Dr. Kelly Asao who is a professor of psychology at Westminster College in Salt Lake City. Dr. Asao teaches classes on human sexuality and conducts research on the i...
Borderline Personality Disorder with Dr. Jerold Kreisman
February 01, 2023 11:00 - 43 minutes - 29.8 MBWhat is borderline personality disorder and what causes it? How does it affect familial and romantic relationships? What does treatment look like? What can people with loved ones who have BPD do? On this week’s episode Effy and Jacqueline take on one of the most elusive mental health struggles that predominantly show up in the relational context with the help of psychiatrist and the author of I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality and Sometimes I Act Crazy: Liv...
Borderline Personality Disorder with Dr. Jerold Kreisman (Interview)
February 01, 2023 11:00 - 43 minutes - 29.8 MBWhat is borderline personality disorder and what causes it? How does it affect familial and romantic relationships? What does treatment look like? What can people with loved ones who have BPD do? On this week’s episode Effy and Jacqueline take on one of the most elusive mental health struggles that predominantly show up in the relational context with the help of psychiatrist and the author of I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality and Sometimes I Act Crazy: Liv...
Pain and Pleasure with Leigh Cowart (Interview)
January 25, 2023 11:00 - 50 minutes - 34.8 MBWhat is masochism and why do people engage in it? What is the difference between consenting to pain as a means to an end/ byproduct of an activity (e.g., ballerinas and competitive eaters) vs. pain on purpose? What are the benefits and the costs to pain as pleasure? What does masochism have to say about the human experience? In this week’s episode, Effy and Jacqueline take a deep dive into pain for pleasure with science reporter, noted masochist and the author of Hurts So Good, Leigh Cowart...
Gender Scripts, the Dual Control Model and Sexual Expression with Emily Nagoski (Interview)
January 18, 2023 11:00 - 56 minutes - 38.5 MBWhy is understanding our uniqueness important to having great sex? What is the dual control model in the context of sexuality and how does it affect our desire? What steps can we take to develop a healthy relationship with sex and sexuality after experiencing trauma or sex negative conditioning? In this episode, Effy and Jacqueline have a rich conversation with Dr. Emily Nagoski about how the societal scripts we are handed according to our sex-at-birth impact our sexual expression and how t...
Big Dick Energy, The New Year, and The Soap Box
December 28, 2022 11:00 - 46 minutes - 31.9 MBWhat is Big Dick Energy (BDE)? What is the difference between having a big dick, being a big dick, and having big dick energy? Can BDE change the way we think of our lives and societies? In this final episode of the year, Effy and Jacqueline talk about the concept of Big Dick Energy, what it means to embody it, and its potential to disrupt the patriarchy. They parse apart strap-on usage and penis envy to extract their foxy new year wishes. They round off the year with a frustration-fueled S...
Sex Therapy, Sexual Disfunction and Porn Addiction with Dr. Ian Kerner
December 21, 2022 11:00 - 1 hour - 43.7 MBWhat is sex therapy and how is it different from other forms of therapy? What are some common concerns explored through sex therapy? What should you expect from a sex therapist and sessions alone or with partner(s)? In this episode, Effy and Jacqueline chat with nationally recognized sex therapist and the author of She Comes First and So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex, Dr. Ian Kerner. They discuss the advantages of sex therapy for those who are looking to address struggles around e...
Sex Therapy, Sexual Dysfunction and Porn Addiction with Dr. Ian Kerner
December 21, 2022 11:00 - 1 hour - 43.7 MBWhat is sex therapy and how is it different from other forms of therapy? What are some common concerns explored through sex therapy? What should you expect from a sex therapist and sessions alone or with partner(s)? In this episode, Effy and Jacqueline chat with nationally recognized sex therapist and the author of She Comes First and So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex, Dr. Ian Kerner. They discuss the advantages of sex therapy for those who are looking to address struggles around e...
Sex Therapy, Sexual Dysfunction and Porn Addiction with Dr. Ian Kerner (Interview)
December 21, 2022 11:00 - 1 hour - 43.7 MBWhat is sex therapy and how is it different from other forms of therapy? What are some common concerns explored through sex therapy? What should you expect from a sex therapist and sessions alone or with partner(s)? In this episode, Effy and Jacqueline chat with nationally recognized sex therapist and the author of She Comes First and So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex, Dr. Ian Kerner. They discuss the advantages of sex therapy for those who are looking to address struggles around e...