Conscious, Connected, Coupling
45 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 4 years ago - ★★★★★ - 1 ratingJoin Frederic and Christy as they talk and share their experiences of creating a conscious, connected relationship. They candidly share what they have learned over the last 12 years of being married, their ups and downs, the shifts they made by working with energy. They will discuss the 7 essential laws, getting out of drama in your relationship, the 7 areas that couples need to get clear in their relationships, the way we give and receive love and it is different for each person, we will discuss the roles that all of us have learned and how we function from these roles and it causes stress, strain and it is the cause why most relationships break up. Learn how to turn your partner in to your soul mate, twin flame and kindred spirit, how to overcome the fear of change. We answer the questions of how do we return back to love and connection in our relationship? Why Is The Attraction Between Twin Flames So Powerful? We will give practical tools, steps and processes to help you find the lo
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Emotional Intelligence
March 23, 2020 10:00 - 9 minutes - 18.8 MBA lot of people struggle with being accountable and responsible for their personal happiness and often resort to blaming others for their struggles. This can be said in every aspect of life, including intimate relationships, and this has a significant impact on how happy you can be as an individual and as a partner. Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman discuss in this episode the symptoms of being in the drama triangle and the steps you need to take to get out, and into the circle of love. Th...
You Need To Change In Order For Me To Be Happy
March 16, 2020 10:00 - 11 minutes - 20 MBA lot of people struggle with being accountable and responsible for their personal happiness and often resort to blaming others for their struggles. This can be said in every aspect of life, including intimate relationships, and this has a significant impact with how happy you can be as an individual and as a partner. In this episode, Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman discuss the symptoms of being in the drama triangle and the steps you need to take to get out and into the circle of love. ...
Resistance To Doing Couples Work
March 09, 2020 10:00 - 17 minutes - 16.7 MBIt can be difficult for some people to open up to their own partners, let alone someone whom they’re not intimate with. However, there are times when it’s necessary as a couple to work with somebody else in order to straighten things out and save the relationship. Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman discuss the differences between couples work, couples therapy, and couples coaching to help you asses and determine what you need most. They share a defining moment in their life where the help o...
Conscious Parenting: Empower Your Children
March 02, 2020 11:00 - 17 minutes - 25.4 MBAs parents, there’s always the temptation to give in to every single one of your child’s whims, no matter how out of the way they may be, because you believe that’s what they deserve of you. But empowering your children isn’t just responding affirmatively to their every beck and call; there have to be boundaries somewhere. Christy Whitman and Frederic Gobeil bring up the subject of empowerment as it relates to children, and how you, as a parent, respond to their wants. Because of the way som...
Conscious Coupling – How To Keep Your Relationship Exciting: Mindful Relationships and Love Manifestation
February 24, 2020 11:00 - 18 minutes - 26.5 MBRelationships last longer when both parties want, need, and support each other. There are bumps along the way but may be prevented or mended with the right moments and right emotions. Keeping the fire burning among couples is mandatory for their union to last longer. As Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman talk about how to keep relationships exciting, they always emphasize on having a mindful relationship with love manifesting. If you want to have a lasting relationship with your partner, ma...
Conscious Coupling – How To Keep Your Relationship Exciting: Mindful Relationships and Love Manifestation
February 24, 2020 10:00 - 18 minutes - 26.5 MBRelationships last longer when both parties want, need, and support each other. There are bumps along the way but may be prevented or mended with the right moments and right
Conscious Coupling: What’s The Worst Advice You Have Ever Received in Your Relationship?
February 17, 2020 11:00 - 13 minutes - 22.2 MBWhat was the worst relationship advice you have received from family and friends? Did you heed their opinion or not? You must remember that the best guidance you can get is from yourself, your intuition. Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman talk about the worst advice to ever receive about your relationship or for your relationship. By suggesting some crucial avenues for seeking the right advice, they share the kind of help they can give you. Looking at positive aspects is a sign of loving th...
Does Your Partner Do Annoying Things Like Eating or Breathing Too Loud? Why This Is And What To Do About It
February 10, 2020 11:00 - 11 minutes - 19.9 MBDoes your partner do some things such as eating or even breathing that totally annoys you? If he or she does, Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman can guide you through some easy ways on dealing with this situation. Holding on to resentments and pain body can be some reasons why you react towards those behaviors. The good thing is that by processing your emotions and focusing on the positives instead of the negatives, you can change the way you perceive things. Love the show? Subscribe, rat...
Pain Body vs. Light Body
February 03, 2020 11:00 - 18 minutes - 26.8 MBOftentimes, we experience sudden reactions which we, ourselves, find it hard to explain. These are most likely because of awakened traumatic past experiences. Pain body, which are imprints from specific life events, can often resurface and affect how we react to certain situations. Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman shed some light to the importance of identifying our pain bodies and using it to correct our relationships with our partners. With their Vice Redone Program, they can help us re...
Using Your What Ifs To Your Advantage
January 26, 2020 11:00 - 10 minutes - 11.8 MBWhat if I can’t make my relationship better? What if things completely stay the same? What if things don’t improve? We have all these what-ifs in our life, and a lot of times, we’re so focused on what we don’t want or what we’re fearing in our relationships. Your what-ifs don’t have all the right answers, and you can actually change your what-ifs to what you do want. Start using your what-ifs to your advantage as Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman teach us how to start looking at our what-i...
Fighting Relationship Distractions
January 20, 2020 11:00 - 10 minutes - 11.8 MBIn our relationship with our partner, especially when we are already married and have children, distractions arise that could take in the form of work, entertainment, or even our kids. Taking care of our relationships is important, and we have to know how to make some time for our partners if we want to keep the relationship healthy. In this episode, hosts Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman shares some tips for fighting relationship distractions. Listen to this episode to learn what these a...
Communicating Your Priorities In A Relationship
January 13, 2020 11:00 - 13 minutes - 14.4 MBIn order to build a healthy, lasting relationship, you, as a couple, need to be able to envision your future together. A huge part of that envisioning process is learning the art of communicating priorities. Christy Whitman and Frederic Gobeil get down to brass tacks about one of the essential skills in any relationship. A lack of alignment can be disastrous to any relationship in the long run. Learn how to properly communicate these priorities—no matter how differently either of you feels. ...
The Shared Truths Of Relationships
January 06, 2020 11:00 - 11 minutes - 20 MBTry as you might, you can never truly keep your feelings hidden from your partner. The shared truths of relationships are often communicated through vibrations, energies. Christy Whitman and Frederic Gobeil discuss the second rule of relationships: “If it’s true for you, then it’s true for me.” Oftentimes, in an attempt to lift the burden of your own emotions from your partner, you attempt to obscure your truth and reality from them, not knowing that what you’re doing is just exacerbating th...
Should You Stay Or Should You Go?: How To Know When It’s Time To Leave
December 23, 2019 11:00 - 14 minutes - 23.2 MBHow do you know when it’s time to stop your relationship with someone and leave them? In this episode, Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman talk about how to become more conscious in your relationships and address the issue most of us face when it comes to relationships – knowing when to let go. Should you stay or should you go? Dive in as they share their insights on this very important issue. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join The Conscious, Connected, ...
Can You Love Again When You Fall Out Of Love?
December 16, 2019 11:00 - 22 minutes - 30 MBIs it normal to fall out of love with your spouse? The answer is yes. Our hosts, Christy Whitman and Frederick Gobeil, explain the concept of falling out of love through their personal experiences. Discover how your parents’ marriage affects your relationships and how to be aware if you are making the same reality with your spouse. Join them as they further explain what you can do to fall back in love and continue to grow together as a couple. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and sh...
The Three Blocks To A Loving Relationship
December 09, 2019 11:00 - 24 minutes - 32.5 MBNo relationship runs smoothly. That is why it takes a lot of effort to commit and remain loving. In this episode, Christy Whitman and Frederick Gobeil share the three blocks to a loving relationship. Whether in the family or at work, some things prevent love from flowing into our relationships. Christy and Frederick discuss these with us to offer a better way we can establish our relationships with other people. They pull from their own experiences on how they stumbled upon these blocks and ...
The Art Of Listening To Connect
December 02, 2019 11:00 - 16 minutes - 24.6 MBThe sincerest form of respect is listening to what another person has to say. Hosts Christy Whitman and Frederic Gobeil talk about their thoughts on how to actually listen. They share their experiences on teaching coaches the way to listening and its benefits in life. Christy and Frederic also discuss the true meaning of listening and the distractions we have to remove in order to listen in order to really connect with people. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How ...
All or Nothing
November 25, 2019 11:00 - 11 minutes - 19.8 MBAt times, we think that there are only two opposite sides of choice – the right one or the wrong one. In this episode, Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman discuss the all or nothing mindset. Not allowing yourself to consider the shades of gray can have a negative impact on the choices that you make. Applying to relationships, you need to look at the bigger perspective of why you are together in the first place. You need to accept all the aspects of the spectrum, not just the opposing ones. O...
Dissolving Obstacles To Love
November 18, 2019 11:00 - 19 minutes - 27.8 MBHave you been in a relationship where you felt like you are holding the love back or you are not allowing yourself to receive love? When two people come together no matter the form of relationship, the divine design is to have a soul connection and to have love be supportive and receptive. When you feel yourself holding back or wanting not to give out love or receive love, then there are blocks that are not connecting you with the other person as well as with your true divine. In this episod...
Important Steps In Communicating
November 11, 2019 11:00 - 12 minutes - 20.9 MBIf you’re feeling energetically or emotionally angry, the emotions are going to speak louder than words. In this episode, Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman talk about the three important and effective steps in communicating. Going over these three steps, they also provide insights on dealing and handling your own emotions in order to have better conversations. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join The Conscious, Connected, Coupling Community today: https...
The Parenting Guilt With Frederic Gobeil And Christy Whitman
November 04, 2019 11:00 - 16 minutes - 24.4 MBWhen we feel guilty about something, it is so easy to beat ourselves up about it. Specifically tackling the parenting guilt, host Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman dive deep in discussing the true meaning of guilt and the factors that cause it. They talk about building the parent-child relationship and share stories on overcoming guilt in other kinds of relationships. Join Frederic and Christy as they further explain how guilt takes control of our lives and how we can handle it to create b...
How To Have It All In Your Relationships
October 21, 2019 10:00 - 14 minutes - 23 MBMovies and stories have taught us that when you find “the one,” you can have it all in your relationship which leads to lasting happiness. However, is it realistic to anchor all your needs for human connection on one person? In this episode, Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman clarify this mistaken belief. They review the four quadrants of life and remind you that your relationship is only a quarter of the equation. This episode will give you a sensible view of your partner and how both of y...
We Are Good Enough: Implementing Sufficiency Language Into Our Lives
October 14, 2019 10:00 - 16 minutes - 25 MBAlways put in mind that you are enough, not for others but for yourself. In this eye-opening episode, Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman explain the gist of the Law of Sufficiency and Abundance in your relationships. Breaking down societal notions, they talk about not feeling enough in our relationships and why we should recenter our beliefs. Frederic and Christy then offer some great advice on how to get out of insufficiency language and into the sufficiency language to establish a wonderf...
The Law Of Attraction: Pulling Others In By Doing Your Own Inner Work
October 07, 2019 10:00 - 17 minutes - 25.6 MBWhen you’ve finally unlocked the Law of Attraction and its potential for your life, you would naturally want your loved ones to hear about it and accept it. But you must remember that we all learn at our own pace and you cannot change other people but yourself. In this episode, Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman talk about growing at different paces and still loving and respecting each other. The key is changing your outlook – not that of others – and continue seeing the positive side in yo...
The Law Of Attraction And Relationships
September 30, 2019 10:00 - 26 minutes - 33.6 MBA part of the divine plan for our lives is to have loving and supportive relationships. To create that, we must adhere to universal laws such as The Law of Attraction. In this episode, Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman shed light on this fundamental truth and identify practical ways you can apply this in your relationships. They also share the impact of having a coach to widen your perspective and the use of affirmations in connecting your thoughts with your feelings. Love the show? Subs...
Emotional Prenup: The Purpose, Inclusions, And Deal Breakers
September 23, 2019 10:00 - 20 minutes - 28.8 MBA prenuptial agreement is usually done to protect the couple’s financial interest after the dissolution of marriage. An emotional prenup is quite different. It’s a commitment of the couple to do whatever it takes before walking away from the relationship. Why do it and how? What should be included in an emotional prenup? Even if you’re just starting in a relationship or well over decades married, it’s never too late to get together and discuss your own emotional prenup. Love the show? Subs...
How To Attract Money With Good Energy
September 16, 2019 10:00 - 22 minutes - 30.1 MBNo one can deny that most people on earth love money and live for money. Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman dive deeper into our relationship with money, how we can attract it, and what we can do with it after. Creating a program called the Creating Money Course, Christy taps into the human and spiritual laws and principles surrounding money that relates to energy. Together, they also share how they work with their finances as a couple and how changing the word “budget” to “allocation” brin...
Stop Taking Responsibility For Someone Else’s Consciousness
September 09, 2019 10:00 - 16 minutes - 24.4 MBA lot of times, we want to make our partner understand what we mean and understand our feelings when they can’t, especially when they’re only coming from their own perspective. Each of us has our own emotions, thoughts, and awareness. The truth is, we are responsible for our own consciousness, not that of others. In this episode, Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman talk about how accepting this truth makes a difference in our daily dealings and how we can show more compassion to others. Comi...
The Roles We Play In The Drama Triangle And How To Get Out Of It
September 02, 2019 10:00 - 26 minutes - 33.9 MBLearning about the drama triangle and the roles that come with it is half the battle. If you find yourself entangled in one, how do you find your way out? If and when you do get out, how do you not slip back into it? In this episode, Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman dive into the details of why we assume the roles of victim, rescuer, and persecutor so easily and unconsciously that they become ingrained with us. They also talk about how meditation and knowing who you are within and what yo...
The Three Roles People Play In The Drama Triangle
August 26, 2019 10:00 - 16 minutes - 25.1 MBAre you inside a drama triangle? How do you know if you’re inside one? What is the drama triangle anyway? If you’re having negative thoughts or negative emotions, if you’re feeling bad in your relationship or in your family, or if you’re feeling bad or angry all the time, you’re in a drama. And there are three roles that people play in it – the victim, the rescuer, and the persecutor. Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman break down each of these roles to help you step out of the drama triangl...
Don’t Be A Martyr! Share Your Day To Day Responsibilities With Your Spouse
August 19, 2019 10:00 - 16 minutes - 24.5 MBSometimes, as part of a couple, we try to do everything in the relationship because we want to feel better about ourselves. We play the martyr because we want to be thanked or be the cool parent. It’s not surprising that it would lead to competition with your partner or spouse or you would complain that he or she is not doing anything. When you feel like what they do is not enough, no matter what they do or how they show up, it’s never going to be enough. You’re never going to come from a pl...
Staying Conscious And Connected With Your Kids Without Getting Caught Up In The Drama
August 12, 2019 10:00 - 20 minutes - 28.5 MBWhen kids come into a relationship, they bring their own energy, their own contrast, and even their own drama. As parents, we obviously care for our children. However, kids have their own agendas, and sometimes, we get caught up in our role as parents. Frederic Gobeil and Christy Whitman share how we can stay conscious and connected with our children without getting caught up in all their little dramas. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! Here’s How » Join The Conscious, C...
Creating Healthy Boundaries As An Individual, Couple Or Family
August 05, 2019 10:00 - 19 minutes - 27.5 MBWe apply the term “boundaries” to relationships quite a bit, but do we really know what a healthy boundary actually is and how it looks like in relationships? Boundaries separate you from other people. It defines your own personal space and helps distinguish your unique identity from others. This concept is relatively easy to grasp when the other person is a casual acquaintance or a coworker. However, you may find that it’s not as easy to define the closer you are to the person, especially i...
The Importance Of Making The Right Choices
July 08, 2019 10:00 - 14 minutes - 22.6 MBWe’re oftentimes trapped in difficult situations that lead us with choices and options. Frederic and Christy tackle choosing the right solutions when encountering problems in relationships. Suggesting to always look through or weigh your options when you are in a bad situation before deciding, they also point out how having clarity can be the best way to solve a problem. They also touch on the benefits of going in the direction of what you want. Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and ...
Mastering The Art Of Coupling
July 01, 2019 10:00 - 24 minutes - 32.3 MBBeing in a relationship is not like getting a college degree that once you achieved it, it’s done. Being a couple is a never-ending process to a degree that you master skills such as communication or conflict management. Today, we dive into the real definition of coupling. On the side, we give our insights on the value of addressing the issues that you’re having that is not benefitting anyone in the relationship. On top of that, find out why seeking for help from coaches or mentors resolves ...
Letting Go Of Hurt And Resentment
June 24, 2019 10:00 - 21 minutes - 29.1 MBHurt and resentment close the heart. Frederic and Christy talk about the right time to let go of both negativities and how to do it. They also share what happens if you open up your heart and release that caged animal out of you. As they discuss how the emotional and mental bodies are all connected, they also discuss how to get the energy out of the physical body to clear it and allow you to feel fresh and new. Christy then leads a short relaxation meditation for opening up the heart and ide...
Self-Love And Self-Care: Taking “Me Time” From Couple Time
June 17, 2019 10:00 - 20 minutes - 28.4 MBHaving a “me time” is one of the keys to a healthy and much stronger relationship. Couples need some time alone or with their friends to fuel their energy and replenish their battery so that they have more to give when they are back with their partner and family. Today, we talk about asking permission to spend time off and the other side of the spectrum doing whatever you want to without considering your partner. We also go all-in on the steps of doing it properly. Love the show? Subscribe...
Blocking Snapping: Switching Off The Anger Circuit
June 10, 2019 10:00 - 13 minutes - 21.6 MBThey say that one of the red flags in a relationship is snapping. Barking at your partner without warning can hurt like a piercing bite. At the end of the day, when all the snapping had occurred, what is left would be regrets and thoughts of how the situation could have been played out differently. Learn a formula you can apply when you find yourself snapping at your partner. Join us as we dive into the importance of realizing the need to take care of one’s self first and processing one’s em...
Conscious-Connected Coupling: Taking The Relationship Deeper
June 03, 2019 10:00 - 25 minutes - 32.7 MBHaving arguments in a relationship is healthy, but negating every so often can make it absolutely rocky. Being connected consciously as a couple is a secret sauce to saving the relationship from going down the drain. How to be a conscious-connected couple? Learn as Frederic and Christy talk about the major principles of becoming one and share some ways to feed your relationship. Find out as well the behaviors that you have to stay away from at all costs if you want to make things work long-t...
Seeking Relationship Advice
May 27, 2019 10:00 - 19 minutes - 27.3 MBNot all couples are the same when it comes to dealing with relationship struggles. Some prefer to stay private and intimate about it, while others prefer to seek advice from friends and mentors. When things are going downhill and neither of you can dig out a solution, it is best to admit that it is time to seek help. Discover some of the most meaningful wounds that protect one’s self from opening up and how to heal from it. Also, learn the advantages of getting insights and guidance from coa...
Why Timing Is Important In Communication
May 20, 2019 10:00 - 17 minutes - 25.5 MBPeople say communication is essential in every relationship. However, one must understand the value of timing in every conversation. Often, you and your partner need to both make a decision on some things where you need the other’s undivided attention. However, untimely conversation and improper tone about certain things can be a source of frustrations that lead to conflicts. Learn how to effectively improve communication with timing by planning and setting the time to share, express, and ha...
Ever Need To Be Validated?
May 06, 2019 10:00 - 19 minutes - 27.1 MBEvery emotion that we feel is real and valid. To own your fear, anger, sadness, and joy is acceptable. On the contrary, seeking validation in a relationship and expecting our partner to feel what we feel is on the wrong track. As much as it sabotages what couples have, you also end up losing yourself in the process. Find out how the need for constant approval from your partner can ruin a relationship and how to avoid this from happening as we delve into the value of knowing yourself and what...
“I” Vs “YOU”
April 29, 2019 10:00 - 22 minutes - 29.8 MBResolving relationship conflicts could be difficult, and what adds to such obscurity is the way couples let the words slip as they stand in the way of their emotions. A lot of men and women blame each other for their uncertainties, and it never results in a ceasefire but only pours more fuel to the flame. Learn the distinction between “I” and “You” statements and learn how it can strengthen communication to dodge conflict. As we reveal ways on how to align with your divine self, discover why...
What Is Your Love Preference?
April 22, 2019 10:00 - 20 minutes - 28.2 MBAll relationships have highs and lows. If that is the case, it is safe to say that no relationship is perfect. However. two people can always give their best shot if they are full-on committed to making things last. It is without exaggeration that every healthy and happy relationship blooms from good communication and mutual understanding, but are all couples aware of each other’s love preference? Discover the best energy to feed in your relationship as we break down The 5 Love Languages by ...
Do You Want A Conscious, Connected Couple?
April 15, 2019 10:00 - 27 minutes - 34.4 MBWe all deserve to have a relationship which is fun, something which is where we want to spend time with each other whether it’s watching TV together or spending time watching the kids at soccer or whatever they’re doing. Reaching that level of closeness and intimacy requires consciousness, having that awareness and understanding of what your partner wants, what you want, and what your vision is together. That is precisely what this podcast is all about – to help inform and inspire couples to...