43 Shyness, Confidence & Adulting

This week we chat growing up as shy kids, learning to build confidence, and how it all intersects with the art of adulting.

For timestamps of what we discuss, keep scrolling!

⭐QotW! What's something that's helped you build your confidence?

Share your thoughts with us on Instagram, in the comment section of the [YouTube version of this episode](https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9ynpDbMS9Vpv8Vlymi4fag?), DM us on Facebook, or feel free to send us a digital letter - that’s an email to [email protected] .

Don't forget next episode of Club Scene CHATROOM will air next week, same day, Thursday on YouTube, Spotify, Apple & Google Podcasts, and everywhere else we're distributed!! https://chatroom.simplecast.com

jo + ro

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⌛✨In this episode:

00:18 Intro
02:15 🥴Please React 🥴
04:09 Do you consider yourself to be shy?
05:23 How were you shy before? Why do we think we were shy?
07:25 Was it something we were aware of? / felt like we had to break out of?
08:53 Are you an extrovert or introvert?
13:10 What helped us build confidence?
14:24 Academic achievement
16:00 Popularity in high school
18:15 Drama class
19:25 Coming back from overseas not being able to speak English
22:05 School productions
24:40 Working hospo
27:04 POTW: 💘Culture Club Podcast!
28:55 Working retail
30:55 Are we still shy? In what way?
31:20 School settings
32:10 Feeling like a kid/not an adult
35:20 Talking to 'strangers' vs in social settings
38:37 Public speaking
40:00 Struggling to be articulate & confidence in creating Club Scene CHATROOM
43:20 QOTW: ⭐What's something that's helped you build your confidence?
44:05 🤝 Random Recommendation

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🤝RESOURCES From This Week's Episode

POTW: 💘Culture Club Podcast!
Two 20-something media-slashies chatting about pop culture, the internet & our lives. ☕️

@cultureclubpod https://www.instagram.com/cultureclubpod/

@yemagz https://www.instagram.com/yemagz/

@jasmineeskye https://www.instagram.com/jasmineeskye/

👉Ro's random recc: Orphan Black

👉Jo's random recc: Clothing the Gap https://clothingthegap.com.au/

Clothing the Gap's NAIDOC March has finished, but the Connect to Country Virtual Run/Walk is happening in Nov 2020. https://clothingthegap.com.au/products/connection-to-country-virtual-event

In the meantime, check out the Free the Flag campaign and their incredible apparel. https://clothingthegap.com.au/pages/free-the-flag

The NAIDOC Rugby Jumper we'll be lusting over until it comes back https://clothingthegap.com.au/collections/long-sleeves/products/presale-naidoc-rugby-jumper

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This podcast is hosted and edited by Joëlle Thomas & Rochelle Oh on the unceded lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin Nation.