#91 Bibi Brzoka - Energetic Love Making

Bibi Brzozka is an international speaker on holistic sexuality and has spoken at Summit, the YPO Forum, and magazines such as Vogue and Elle. She teaches about energetic lovemaking and conscious sexuality. In this episode, we define these terms and deep dive into women’s sexuality and how one can fully embrace it.

00:00:00 00:00:25 Introducing Bibi
 00:01:29 Energetic Lovemaking
 00:07:21 How to Start Energetic Lovemaking?
 00:20:28 Can You Consciously Have Casual Sex?
 00:26:04 Where is the Shame Coming From?
 00:33:17 Talking to the Subconscious
 00:38:58 Healing & Sexuality, Orgasm & Pleasure
 00:44:55 Women Operating From the Masculine
 00:49:21 Sex Magic
 00:54:57 Having Zero Sex Drive
 00:57:00 Where to Find Bibi

What is Energetic Lovemaking?

According to research, sex only lasts for 5.4 minutes and more than half of men ejaculate within less than two minutes of penetration. The same way as any other area of our life, sex is fast, straight to the point, goal-oriented, and provides instant gratification. This doesn’t allow us to fully drop in, be fully present, and tap into the sexual energy that we all have access to.

The thing with sexual energy is that it’s subtle, and in order to start perceiving the subtle sensation, energy, and movement, we have to slow down. We have to give ourselves time to become more sensitive, present, relaxed, and we are not doing that. Because of the lack of education around sexuality, or rather the presence of pornography, it’s not intended to educate but to entertain and are mainly done by men, for men. Masculine qualities which involve a lot of doing and eventually having an orgasm are brought to the bedroom, thinking that the only way to achieve an orgasm is the climactic, explosive, ejaculatory type. However, this couldn’t be farther from the truth. True sexual energy is not fast, tense, and efficient, it’s the tingling, warmth, and pleasure that is the true act of sex and energetic lovemaking.

Sex Magic

Bibi credits Margot Anand, one of the pioneers of “sex magic”, and one of her teachers Layla Martin for this craft. This powerful sexual energy can be utilized with an intention and can bring you to a higher state of consciousness. According to a book by Osho called “Sex Matters: From Sex to Superconsciousness”, we are in those powerful and high frequency states. When you look at any manifestation protocols, they recommend that we use high frequency emotions like love, gratitude, and joy. Orgasmic bliss is definitely up there in par with high frequency states and when we tap into that, we connect to the frequency of the universe and the Creator, where we can powerfully call in what we want.

Some other explanations state that when we move that sexual energy from our roots chakra or our genitalia all the way up to our crown chakra, the moment that we orgasm, we shoot that vision to the universe and bring that energy back. Moving the energy throughout all our energy centers activate our entire nervous system and parts of the brain, lighting up our whole being to be on board with that vision.  

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International speaker Bibi Brzozka talks all about energetic lovemaking, conscious sexuality, and embracing your sexuality as a woman.

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