Charting Toward Intimacy
413 episodes - English - Latest episode: 5 days ago -Looking for answers to the questions you don't want to Google? Not sure where to get help when your sexual life is on the rocks and everything the secular culture has to offer is only making things worse? Welcome to Charting Toward Intimacy where you learn to actually enjoy and desire good, holy sex with your spouse.
Hosted by Ellen Holloway, Catholic Sex and Intimacy Coach.
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Family Vacations and Sex | Ep. 177
July 08, 2024 07:00 - 28 minutes - 19.6 MBIn this episode Ellen and Kathleen dive into the complexities of maintaining a healthy sex life during family vacations. They discuss practical tips for navigating shared living spaces, the importance of sustaining intimacy without sex, and creative ways to find private moments with your spouse. The conversation also covers how to handle charting for Natural Family Planning (NFP) while out of routine, including the use of phone reminders, habit stacking, and consulting with your NFP instruc...
What Does the Church Actually Teach about Oral Stimulation? | Ep. 176
July 01, 2024 07:00 - 11 minutes - 8.08 MBIn this episode host Ellen Holloway delves into the topic of oral stimulation. Ellen explains the church's teachings on what is permissible and how oral stimulation fits into moral boundaries as foreplay leading to intercourse. Highlighting the importance of both male and female sexual pleasure, she clarifies that while female orgasm can occur during oral stimulation, male ejaculation must happen during intercourse to uphold the procreative purpose of sex. Get the Catholic Sex Positions Gu...
Trying New Positions | Ep. 175
June 24, 2024 07:00 - 31 minutes - 21.3 MBTrying new positions can be a lot! Maybe you're not sure how to approach the conversation or you don't even know any other positions to try. This week, Ellen and Kathleen talk all things trying new positions in the bedroom! NOW AVAILABLE The Catholic Sex Positions Guide 48% off for a limited time! Over 70 pages, 50 + positions with illustrations, instructions, tips, and troubleshooting ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our r...
They Mystery of Sexual Pleasure and the Body | Ep. 174
June 17, 2024 07:00 - 12 minutes - 8.76 MBIn this episode Ellen delves into why there isn't a checklist for sexual pleasure in marriage and why that's a good thing. She discusses the theological perspectives on the human body and sexual pleasure, emphasizing the opportunity for couples to learn and grow through the newness of each intimate encounter. Ellen encourages couples to embrace the mystery and discovery in their sexual relationship, likening it to the ever-evolving experience of prayer and communion with God. Interested in ...
Grooming and Shaving | Ep. 173
June 10, 2024 07:00 - 34 minutes - 23.7 MBIn this episode Ellen and Kathleen discuss the nuances of grooming and shaving the genital area from a Catholic perspective. They address common questions around the morality of grooming, reasons people choose to groom, and the purpose of genital hair. The episode also covers the importance of communication between spouses about grooming preferences, realistic expectations versus those influenced by pornography, and helpful tips for safe grooming practices. Get the Orgasm Course for Catho...
Painful Sex, Differing Comfort Levels, and Communicating about Sex | Ep. 172
June 03, 2024 07:00 - 25 minutes - 17.3 MBToday Ellen is answering a question from Instagram: My husband really resists oral, but sex has been painful for me. He's really rough. I spoke up and there's been no change. As you can see there are a lot of facets to this question and we cover it all in this episode! ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Have a question you want to hear answered on a future podcast episode? Click Here to submit questio...
Lingerie Style Guide | Ep 171
May 27, 2024 07:00 - 33 minutes - 23.2 MBIn this week's episode Kathleen and Ellen talk about some common elements of lingerie. They discuss both personal preferences as well as how certain elements can fit well for certain body types or seasons of life (like postpartum or pregnant bodies!) We talk through some pieces specifically on the Mentionables website. While we reference specific pieces the conversation is tailored to style elements that you might notice in any lingerie! You can use the code CHARTING for 10% off your purch...
What is the 10-minute Unwind? | Ep. 170
May 21, 2024 07:00 - 15 minutes - 10.7 MBEllen addresses the struggle many women face in transitioning from their busy day to intimate moments with their spouse. Highlighting the inherent multitasking nature of women's brains, Ellen introduces the '10-minute unwind' as a method to help focus and prepare for intimacy. Check out the O Course for Catholic Women here! ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Have a question you want to hear answered o...
NFP is NOT "Catholic Contraception" | Ep. 169
May 13, 2024 07:00 - 33 minutes - 22.9 MBIn this episode, Ellen and Kathleen delve into the distinction between Natural Family Planning (NFP) and contraception, addressing common questions and concerns from a Catholic perspective. They explore the theological significance of sex, the church's stance on NFP versus contraception, and how these practices reflect one's relationship with God's will. The discussion covers the physical and spiritual aspects of marital intimacy, the importance of responsible parenthood, and the role of pra...
What if I'm Not Comfortable With Something My Husband Suggests? | Ep. 168
May 06, 2024 07:00 - 14 minutes - 10.2 MBIn this episode Ellen discusses how couples can handle differing levels of comfort with sexual acts. She emphasizes the importance of communication, respecting each other's boundaries, and defaulting to the less comfortable spouse to maintain a loving and trusting relationship. She provides guidance on how to navigate situations where one partner is uncomfortable, suggesting that saying no is an opportunity for growth and deeper intimacy. The discussion includes how to handle uncomfortable s...
Chastity is More Than Just Abstinence - SO MUCH MORE | Ep. 167
April 29, 2024 07:00 - 28 minutes - 19.5 MBIn this episode Ellen and Kathleen explore the topic of chastity within marriage, emphasizing that chastity goes beyond merely abstaining from sex. They discuss the deep and abundant grace available through the sacrament of marriage and how living out chastity can enhance marital intimacy and union. The conversation covers the Catechism's teachings on chastity for all baptized individuals, regardless of marital status. They debunk common misconceptions about chastity, highlighting its import...
Messy Liturgies and Sin-Filled Marriages | Ep. 166
April 22, 2024 07:00 - 14 minutes - 10.1 MBIn this episode Ellen shares a personal revelation about finding God's presence and grace in the imperfections of married life and liturgical celebrations. Despite her initial frustration with less-than-perfect liturgies during the Easter Triduum, Ellen is reminded through prayer that God's grace is not limited by human imperfections. She draws a parallel between her experience with liturgies and the realities of married life, emphasizing that God works through the 'messiness' of both to br...
Thank God for Your Husband's Sex Drive | Ep. 165
April 15, 2024 07:00 - 29 minutes - 20.2 MBThis episode focuses on the common issue among couples regarding the disparity in sex drives, a topic frequently brought up by listeners. We propose a perspective shift, suggesting couples view these differences as blessings that can forward the relationship and increase intimacy. ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Have a question you want to hear answered on a future podcast episode? Click Here to subm...
What Does the Church Actually Teach about Manual Stimulation? | Ep. 164
April 08, 2024 07:00 - 20 minutes - 14.2 MBIn this episode, the focus is on the church's teachings regarding manual stimulation and masturbation within the context of marriage. We'll go through basically all of the different scenarios of manual stimulation from masturbation to stimulating the other person. Get the Orgasm Course for Catholic Women at vinesinfullbloom.com/orgasm ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Have a question you want to hear ...
Stop Treating Good Sexual Thoughts Like Intrusive Thoughts | Ep. 163
April 01, 2024 07:00 - 29 minutes - 20.2 MBIn this episode of Charting Toward Intimacy, Ellen and Kathleen tackle the challenge of internalized purity culture and its impact on women's sexual thoughts. They discuss the phenomenon where healthy sexual desires within the context of marriage are mistakenly treated as intrusive thoughts due to purity culture's teachings. The discussion includes defining intrusive thoughts, sharing personal struggles with accepting sexuality, and the journey of healing the relationship with sex from the p...
Your Hormones Aren't the Reason You Have Low Sexual Desire | Ep. 162
March 25, 2024 07:00 - 17 minutes - 11.9 MBIn this episode we'll address the misconception among individuals practicing Natural Family Planning (NFP) that their sexual desire only peaks during the fertile window due to hormonal influences. Listen in to see what you really need to change to experience more desire for sex! ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Have a question you want to hear answered on a future podcast episode? Click Here to submit...
Postpartum Sex! | Ep. 161
March 18, 2024 07:00 - 27 minutes - 12.6 MBThis episode addresses the complexities and challenges couples face regarding postpartum sex. The episode covers the expectations, fears, and physical changes women and their partners might experience, emphasizing the importance of communication, understanding, and patience. Techniques such as perineal massage and the use of lubricants are suggested to ease discomfort and anxiety during postpartum sexual activity. Additionally, discussions include men's perspectives on postpartum sex, the im...
Your Marriage Doesn't Need to Be Perfect | Ep. 160
March 11, 2024 07:00 - 12 minutes - 5.58 MBEllen addresses the common pursuit of perfectionism in marriage and sexual relationships, emphasizing that perfection is not a prerequisite for intimacy or spiritual growth. She discusses how striving for a perfect relationship or sexual encounter can be paralyzing, whereas embracing the imperfection can lead to significant growth, healing, and a deeper bond. Trial, error, and grace-filled perseverance in sexual intimacy can transform and sanctify marriage. Get the Orgasm Course for Catholi...
Sex is Not a Love Language | Ep. 159
March 04, 2024 08:00 - 26 minutes - 12.4 MBIn this episode of 'Charting Toward Intimacy', Kathleen and Ellen discuss the misconception of sex being a love language. They explain that sex should be a result of love and intimacy rather than the base of it, and argue that using sex as the glue that holds a relationship together creates a false expectation and could become unfulfilling over time. The five love languages - words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, and physical touch - are examined, with the ass...
Are you reducing sex to a purely physical act? | Ep 158
February 25, 2024 08:00 - 16 minutes - 7.43 MBIn this episode Ellen discusses the deep connection between sex and prayer. She implements the teachings of the Catechism, arguing that just as prayer cannot be reduced to spontaneous desire but requires an active will, sex should also not be reduced to spontaneous physical desire. She encourages listeners to recognize the depth of sexual relations as an experience of unity and not just physical satisfaction. She also stresses that desire for sex should be understood as a longing for deeper ...
NFP is Unfair | Ep. 157
February 19, 2024 08:00 - 22 minutes - 10.5 MBThis podcast, led by Ellen Holloway and Kathleen Chavones, discusses the challenges of sticking to Natural Family Planning (NFP) during instances of limited fertile days and mandatory abstinence due to serious medical or financial constraints. It emphasizes how suffering and sacrifice are crucial elements of the Christian journey. They tackle the often-perceived unfairness of NFP, clarifying how beliefs about God not wanting us to suffer are misleading. They argue that during these periods ...
The Most Vulnerable Thing You Can Do | Ep. 156
February 12, 2024 08:00 - 15 minutes - 7.02 MBThis episode focuses on the emotional complexities of initiating sex within a Catholic marriage, emphasizing the importance of understanding individual desires and the associated vulnerabilities. Through an in-depth discussion, Ellen addresses various misconceptions about physical desire and urges couples to explore deeper emotional and spiritual desires and how it relates to sexual intimacy. Helpful strategies are suggested for initiating and responding to initiation in a loving, considera...
Is Sexual Passivity Ruining Your Sex Life? - With Mike "Gomer" Gormley | Ep. 155
February 05, 2024 08:00 - 1 hour - 30.9 MBMike 'Gomer' Gormley joins host Ellen as they discuss the detrimental effects of sexual passivity on marriage and ways to overcome it. Gomer provides valuable insights from a male perspective, emphasizing the importance of sexual initiation, communication, respect, and genuine love in maintaining a healthy sex life and marriage. The duo takes a deep dive into topics such as the significance of non-sexual touch, misconceptions about male and female sexual drives, and the role of honest, non-j...
How to Take the Pressure Off of Sex | Ep. 154
January 29, 2024 08:00 - 10 minutes - 4.67 MBIn this podcast episode, Ellen addresses the challenge of navigating sex within a marriage, particularly from a Catholic perspective. She discusses a situation where a couple put such heavy emphasis on the religious significance of sex that it led to tension and avoidance, reducing their sexual encounters drastically. Ellen proposes that adding a sense of fun and lightness to one's sex life can relieve the pressure, fostering trust and openness between partners. This approach can be impleme...
Are You the Gatekeeper of Sex? | Ep. 153
January 22, 2024 08:00 - 30 minutes - 13.9 MBIn this podcast Ellen, discusses the idea of women becoming gatekeepers of sex in a relationship, specifically within the context of a Catholic marriage and family planning. In conversation with guest Grace Stark, editor for Natural Womanhood, they suggest that the issue can be seen as an issue of communication rather than a power struggle. They discuss ways to foster stronger communication, and to share responsibility for family planning and initiating intimacy. Additionally, they delve int...
If You Could Re-do Your Wedding Night, What Would You Change? | Ep. 152
January 15, 2024 08:00 - 26 minutes - 12.3 MBIn this episode, hosts Ellen and Kathleen talk about lessons they wish they knew on their wedding night. They highlight the importance of open communication, and understanding the depth and holiness of sex within marriage, and how it goes beyond just fulfilling an urge. They emphasize the need to translate the intellectual understanding of the sanctity of sex to the heart. Both share their insights about how this realization has been a journey, requiring continual growth and wrestling with t...
Are You Too Tired For Sex? | Ep. 151
January 08, 2024 08:00 - 17 minutes - 8.1 MBIn this episode, we discuss the common scenario of feeling too tired for marital intimacy. We'll talk about the importance of identifying the root cause, be it a heavy workload, miscommunication, or simply needing more sleep. Here's some of the big takeaways: understand each other's perspectives, engage in active communication, take a fresh look at sex, viewing it not as a chore but as a way to enhance intimacy and connection. Sex is vital in reinforcing the bond and renewing wedding vows, ...
Pornography, Sex Manuals, and Sex Therapy, Oh My! with Dr. Sarah Bartel | Ep. 150
January 01, 2024 08:00 - 36 minutes - 16.5 MBEllen is joined by Dr. Sarah Bartel for part 2 of their conversation on licit and illicit acts. The episode focuses primarily on pornography, sex manuals, sex therapy, and imaginative role-play in marriage. They stress the importance of respecting both the unitive and procreative functions of sex in Catholic teaching. Please go listen to the episode prior to this one titled Sex Toys, Lingerie, and Orgasms, Oh My! with Dr. Sarah Bartel before listening to this follow up conversation. _____...
Sex Toys, Lingerie, and Orgasms, Oh My! With Dr. Sarah Bartel | Ep. 149
December 25, 2023 08:00 - 29 minutes - 13.7 MBEllen discusses sex and intimacy within the confines of Catholic marriage with guest Dr. Sarah Bartel. The primary focus is on demystifying varying questions related to sexual acts in Catholic marriage, ensuring they respect both the procreative and unitive aspects of sex. These include discussions on topics as varied as the use of sex toys, wearing lingerie, and the acceptance of different sexual acts. ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Clic...
Sex Toys, Lingiere, and Orgasms, Oh My! With Dr. Sarah Bartel | Ep. 149
December 25, 2023 08:00 - 29 minutes - 27.2 MBEllen discusses sex and intimacy within the confines of Catholic marriage with guest Dr. Sarah Bartel. The primary focus is on demystifying varying questions related to sexual acts in Catholic marriage, ensuring they respect both the procreative and unitive aspects of sex. These include discussions on topics as varied as the use of sex toys, wearing lingerie, and the acceptance of different sexual acts. Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Ha...
Never Give up on Intimacy: A Deep Dive into Despair | Ep. 148
December 18, 2023 08:00 - 25 minutes - 11.8 MBEllen and Kathleen are discussing on how to overcome despair and struggles associated with intimacy in a marriage. They emphasize that giving in to despair only strengthens the negative forces affecting our lives. They stress the importance of holding onto faith and prayer, and provide tips for dealing with difficult periods. ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Have a question you want to hear answered on...
Can Catholics Record Sex? | Ep. 147
December 11, 2023 08:00 - 14 minutes - 6.52 MBWe're talking about why recording sexual encounters between spouses is not in line with the Catholic understanding of marital intimacy. The discussion explores the sanctity of sex within marriage, emphasizing the importance of privacy and mutual self-gift. Ultimately, the episode underscores the importance of present commitment and love in sexual relationships rather than objectifying and recording the act. ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? ...
Your Assumptions Are Killing Your Sex Life | Ep. 146
December 04, 2023 08:00 - 28 minutes - 13.1 MBEllen and Kathleen discuss a myriad of assumptions women often make about sex, how they negatively impact one's sex life, and how to overcome them. They delve into the concepts of responsive and spontaneous desires, discuss misconceptions about men and women's sexual needs, emphasize the importance of communication in sex, and highlight that sex is an individualized experience, unique to each couple. Get The Orgasm Course for Catholic Women ON SALE in honor of the Immaculate Conception! Co...
Arousal Curves and Getting Past Plateau | Ep. 145
November 27, 2023 08:00 - 14 minutes - 6.55 MBEver been stuck during arousal because you hit a plateau and you don't know what happens next? This episode is for you. Ellen outlines two main models for understanding and navigating female sexual arousal in this episode. Masters and Johnson's four-phase linear model, which is applicable for both men and women, includes excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution. Basson's cyclical model, purely focused on female sexual response, takes the varied facets of female sexual response into con...
How Do You Find Peace When Sex and Family Planning Don’t Go as Planned? | Ep. 144
November 20, 2023 08:00 - 33 minutes - 15.2 MBEllen and Kathleen discuss the topic of finding peace when sex and family planning don't go as planned. They delve into how controlling sexual outcomes can hinder the freedom and fullness that are inherent in marital intimacy. They suggest that recognizing the divine role in every sexual act and outcome, and surrendering the need for control, can lead to peace in family planning, even when things go awry. They also discuss the pressure of societal norms vis-a-vis family size, and encourage ...
Embracing Patience: A Journey Toward Holiness and Intimacy | Ep. 143
November 13, 2023 08:00 - 16 minutes - 7.61 MBIn this episode, Ellen discusses the virtue of patience, particularly in the context of sex, marital intimacy, and pregnancy. She explores the connection between patience and our spiritual, emotional well-being and offers practical tips to make waiting more bearable. Her key messages underline that patience is a stepping stone to holiness and is not a burden. She emphasizes the need to embrace patience and view it as an opportunity for growth and spiritual development, going so far as to as...
What if my husband doesn't agree with just reasons to use NFP? | Ep. 142
November 06, 2023 08:00 - 24 minutes - 11.4 MBIn this episode of 'Charting Toward Intimacy', Ellen is joined by Kathleen's husband Michael. We'll explore how couples should handle disagreements on Natural Family Planning (NFP). We delve into varying perspectives on the justifiable reasons for using NFP, and consider the implications when one spouse does not agree with its use. The conversation covers the importance of effective communication, recognizing personal desires versus pleasure, and the significance of divine judgement in one'...
Spontaneity is Crap | Ep. 141
October 30, 2023 07:00 - 24 minutes - 11.2 MB"I like spontaneity when it comes to sex, scheduled sex just seems too bland or routine" "Sex shouldn't be something you have to schedule a good sex life just happens" "If you schedule sex then you take out all the fun of it" These are all lies and awful ones at that. In this episode we're going to talk about why the idea of spontaneous sex is really not the approach you should be taking when it comes to your sex life. In fact, sex should be quite the opposite of spontaneous, it should be...
How to get out of a sex rut | Ep. 140
October 23, 2023 07:00 - 30 minutes - 14.1 MBFeeling like you're in a rut? Looking for some suggestion on how to get out of said rut? This is the episode for you. Ellen and Kathleen share from personal experience some of the best ways to get out of a sex rut. The Orgasm Course for Catholic Women is available now. Sign up for lifetime access. We highly recommend checking out Pray More Novenas if you have trouble remembering to complete a novena! ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click...
All the Touches We Don't Want | Ep. 139
October 16, 2023 20:22 - 27 minutes - 12.5 MBTouched Out and Bristle Touch. These are the two types of negative reactions to touch that we are talking about on the podcast today. We'll explain what those two things are and give you tips to combat them! ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Have a question you want to hear answered on a future podcast episode? Click Here to submit questions! Looking for support around sexuality, NFP, sexual ethics, or...
Oversexualized Culture | Ep. 138
October 09, 2023 07:00 - 32 minutes - 15.1 MBKesey Skoch joins us this week to talk about how our oversexualized culture is hurting our marriages, especially in the form of pornography. We talk about the real definition of pornography and how most of us have been exposed to pornography way more than we even realize. To hear Kelsey's story or get more information on how to be free, click here. The Orgasm Course for Catholic Women is available here. Special launch pricing of only $50 ends on October 6th, 2023. After that it goes up to ...
Authentically Catholic Sex Education | Ep. 137
October 02, 2023 07:00 - 23 minutes - 10.8 MBHow was your sex education? Probably bad and not enough. In this episode we are diving into what is needed today in the church for adults: authentically Catholic sex education. We'll talk about what that is, where to find it, and why it's needed. The Orgasm Course for Catholic Women is LIVE. ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Have a question you want to hear answered on a future podcast episode? Click...
Pregnancy Sex! | Ep. 136
September 25, 2023 07:00 - 30 minutes - 14 MBWe are answering a listener question in a full episode this week. We got a question about pregnancy sex and how it works with all the hormones, things feeling different, and positions. Listen in for tips ranging from positions to emotional support broken down by trimester. ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Have a question you want to hear answered on a future podcast episode? Click Here to submit questi...
Initiating | Ep. 135
September 18, 2023 07:00 - 27 minutes - 12.8 MBDo you initiate regularly? If you don't, we think you should. But believe us, we're not sitting on our high thrones looking down on you with this topic, we're right there in the thick of getting more comfortable initiating ourselves. In this episode we're talking a little bit about why you should initiate more often, the conversations you need to have with your husband BEFORE you start initiating more regularly, and some ways to initiate if the idea of saying the words "Do you wannna have s...
Rule Breaking | Ep 134
September 11, 2023 07:00 - 28 minutes - 13.1 MBPeople pleasers and rule followers unite! We're talking about breaking the NFP rules in this episode and what that looks like for your marriage, potential pregnancies, and how your NFP instructor really doesn't care if you're choosing to break the rules. But also, if you "break the rules" meaning you use days within your fertile window, you should fully expect a possible pregnancy. Don't get mad at your body for working the way it's suppose to work. ___________________________________ Di...
Myth Busting NFP | Ep. 133
September 04, 2023 07:00 - 33 minutes - 15.6 MBWe're myth busting some common NFP Myths this week with special guest Agata! Ever wondered how to respond when people come at you with misunderstandings or just plain wrong info about NFP, fertility awareness or female fertility in general. We've got some answers and responses for you right here! ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books! Have a question you want to hear answered on a future podcast episode? Cl...
You Can Do Hard Things | Ep. 132
August 28, 2023 07:00 - 29 minutes - 13.3 MBGod calls us to some very difficult situations especially concerning chastity and sexual ethics and morality within marriage. This comes up a lot during the fertile window when a couple is trying to avoid pregnancy and therefore needs to abstain. This week we are talking about how God will never put you in a situation that you can't get through without his grace. You just have to be open to that grace ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click...
Defining Licit and Illicit Actions | Ep. 131
August 21, 2023 07:00 - 32 minutes - 14.9 MBHow do I know if something is morally good or bad? Is there a way to judge the things we do in life (especially in the sexual realm) to know if it's the right thing to do? Yes! there is a way to judge human actions. The Church gives us a very clear, step-by-step process to evaluate the morality of an action. Ellen will talk you through these steps in this week's episode! ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books!...
Do You Talk About Sex Everyday? | Ep. 130
August 14, 2023 07:00 - 30 minutes - 13.8 MBTalking about sex can be very intimidating. We urge you to talk about "it" with your spouse regularly on this podcast, but how do you get into the habit of communicating about sex We'd like to introduce you to a new idea on how to bring the topic of sex into conversation on a regular basis and why it is important to regularly communicate about sex. Gottman Card Deck App ___________________________________ Did we mention a book on this week's episode? Click here for our recommended books!...
The Banquet | Ep. 129
August 07, 2023 07:00 - 29 minutes - 13.6 MBWhat is the Eternal Banquet, the wedding feast of the Lamb? What is that really? I mean honestly we don't know, but God gives us windows to peer in and see tiny glimmers of the glory that await us in Heaven. Sometimes we turn those windows, those icons to heaven into idols. Sex is one of those things that we idolize. In this episode we'll pose the question that you need to regularly be asking yourself, am I making an idol out of sex or am I allowing it to be the icon that it was designed t...