In Your 20s
92 episodes - English - Latest episode: 7 months ago -Stuck in your bed and feeling like a rotten tomato. But also sometimes, feeling like the most confident person on earth. That's how I define my 20s. Listen to this podcast as we talk about struggles, relationships, friendships, and just all the random things we feel in our 20s.
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'unless they tell me' rule
October 01, 2023 00:37 - 22 minutes - 21.4 MBsetting a boundary makes us feel bad sometimes, even though it is necessary for ourselves and our mental health. 'unless they tell me' rule is the rule that i created when setting boundaries.
these are all valid
May 24, 2023 00:28 - 25 minutes - 23.8 MBhave you ever been in a situation where you feel like what you're going through is not valid? well, that's valid. in today's society, a lot of things are fast-paced that it's so weird to slow down. but, it's okay to slow down and have your goals with yourself no matter how long you achieve those. for today's episode, I wanna talk about the things that should be VALID and how you should know that they are.
meet my boyfriend! >.<
May 16, 2023 12:23 - 13 minutes - 12.9 MBhello finally i convinced my boyfriend to do an episode with me:") listen to how we met, how we became together, and how cheesy we are hehehe.
meet my boyfriend
May 16, 2023 12:23 - 13 minutes - 12.9 MBhello finally i convinced my boyfriend to do an episode with me:") listen to how we met, how we became together, and how cheesy we are hehehe.
meet my boyfriend! >.
May 16, 2023 12:23 - 13 minutes - 12.9 MBhello finally i convinced my boyfriend to do an episode with me:") listen to how we met, how we became together, and how cheesy we are hehehe.
am i unconfident?
April 20, 2023 00:53 - 28 minutes - 26.7 MBfirst episode of In Your 20s! have you ever wondered what confidence mean and if you're confident or not? for today's episode, let's talk about confidence and why most people think they're not one. i'll also share some tips how i became more confident with myself and how i define confidence now.
lessons i've learned from everything everywhere all at once
March 23, 2023 09:11 - 21 minutes - 20.6 MBive seen that everything everywhere all at once won the oscars and golden globes 2023 so, today we're going to dive in and talk about the lessons i've learned from this movie.
struggles in my 20s a.k.a life sucks
March 02, 2023 11:28 - 13 minutes - 12.9 MBi'm not gonna lie... i still struggle with these things (maybe it's because im still in my 20's) i wanna share my struggles because i think it would be cool to look back and hear them. (who knows maybe when im in my 30's, i could share a total different perspective on this and different struggles) :") i feel like my mentality shifted with a lot of things for the past few months. it's been good tho. but, despite of all the good achievements and good things that happened to me, i thought i'd al...
being basic (and why we should stop on hating being one)
February 07, 2023 16:15 - 25 minutes - 23.7 MBi used to hate being basic. i didn't like wearing "basic" clothes or listening to "basic" songs because i was afraid that people might think or call me basic. but, then, i realized that when i stopped on watching films that are "basic", when i stopped on listening to songs that are "basic", and when i stopped on dressing "basic", i felt suffocated. for today's episode, we're going to talk about why we should stop on hating the basic and why we should embrace/appreciate it more!
is life meant to be felt?
January 30, 2023 11:01 - 15 minutes - 14.3 MBmy grandfather died last week. his death impacted me more than i could have ever imagined. i thought about life and death like never before. for today's episode, we're going to answer the question... is life meant to be felt? i thought about this a lot because sometimes, or most of the time, we're scared of dying. but i thought, shouldn't we be more scared if we don't live our lives?
deactivating social media
January 14, 2023 04:01 - 36 minutes - 34.5 MBi currently deactivated my social media (facebook) and deleted my twitter 3 years ago and i've never felt this happy or decided to never come back. (who knows, maybe i will?) i wanna talk about the pros and cons of social media. my own pros and cons and my own take. i'll also dive in with why i think WE think we're cringe on social media these days. for this episode, i'll talk about deactivating social media and why we do it.
2022 life lessons
January 07, 2023 06:45 - 32 minutes - 30.5 MB2023 is here! man oh man, 2022 taught me a lot of valuable lessons about life. i recorded some of the lessons i learned in 2022 in my journal before the year came to a close, and i want to share them with you! for today's episode, i focused on life lessons because i don't really believe in new year's resolutions (anymore), but, i find new years to be lovely because it kind of offers us hope that we can alter things. however, i believe that we can always begin today rather than wait for next y...
my realizations with relationships
November 20, 2022 03:58 - 38 minutes - 36.6 MBwhen i rested for months, i've realized that i realized a lot of things when it comes to relationships more than ups and downs. i want to share about these things and how it changed me. when you're also in the process of realizing things, you also realize that you make mistakes and i wanna correct some things i've said about relationships. let's dive in with my realizations and how i use them now and how it changed me. have an amazing sunday, friends!!<3
it's okay to be kind to yourself.
November 12, 2022 11:13 - 21 minutes - 20 MBwhew, i'm back!! in order to become the best version of yourself, you have to be kind to yourself and be forgiving. always remind yourself that it's okay to slip up sometimes. the most important relationship that you will have is the relationship with yourself.
SEASON 2: why change is a must?
September 02, 2022 08:29 - 21 minutes - 19.9 MBwow, season 2!! change is the only constant thing in this world. i certainly agree to that. for today's episode, let's talk about why change is a must and why we need it as a human being. change could be scary sometimes, but wouldn't it be sad to live in a world where change doesn't exist? for today's episode, let's focus on why changing ourselves for the better is important and why we owe it to ourselves
graduation
July 23, 2022 16:33 - 22 minutes - 21.5 MBthere is a lot of pressure once you graduate from college, which we will discuss in today's episode. the feeling is surreal, and it feels good to finally graduate, but after that, some are questioning "what happens next?" "should i get a job right away?" "will i fail?" so, i'm going to talk about it in today's episode. also, i believe that taking it day by day and allowing yourself to figure out what you want to do and become is a good idea. it's perfectly fine to take your time and create yo...
50th episode: graduation
July 23, 2022 16:33 - 22 minutes - 21.5 MBthere is a lot of pressure once you graduate from college, which we will discuss in today's episode. the feeling is surreal, and it feels good to finally graduate, but after that, some are questioning "what happens next?" "should i get a job right away?" "will i fail?" so, i'm going to talk about it in today's episode. also, i believe that taking it day by day and allowing yourself to figure out what you want to do and become is a good idea. it's perfectly fine to take your time and create yo...
waking up early + giving back to your parents + abortion
June 30, 2022 23:26 - 50 minutes - 47.9 MBwow let's catch up guys!! it's been a long time since i made a bonus episode. for the past few days, i feel like i'm losing myself and it's hard for me to see my balance. but now that school's over, i'm able to focus on myself again!! i'm going to talk about waking up early and why it's important and i'm also going to talk about giving back to our parents and my take on abortion. i love you, guys!! and thank you for sticking around!!
money
June 26, 2022 04:01 - 20 minutes - 19.3 MBlately, i feel like i'm sabotaging myself and i always feel guilty whenever i'd spend my money. because of this pandemic, i noticed that i've been going out a lot and i've been spending more money than i used to (but not that much these days). i want to talk to you guys about where i'm in now with my spendings and why i always feel guilty. i also want to feel better about this because i know that sometimes, it's okay to treat myself. ALSO, if you're going through the same, i want you to know ...
oh the person we became and the person we'll become
June 12, 2022 04:00 - 22 minutes - 21.5 MBisn't it a little surprising that 2020 is the year that this pandemic started? and now, it's already 2022. while it is true that most of us are burnout because of this pandemic, it is also undeniable that we have changed significantly and are no longer the same people we once were. for this episode, we'll appreciate the person we've became and the person we'll become.
cyber libel
June 05, 2022 04:00 - 27 minutes - 25.7 MBour speakers will discuss cyber libel in today's episode. i know that we post a lot of things online these days, and some of them are opinions, while others are really below the belt. so, let us discuss cyber libel. from its definition to its implications. we also decided to share this with you because you're probably scared or concerned about what you're posting online, so here are some answers to help you stop overthinking or worrying so much.
dating applications
May 29, 2022 04:02 - 29 minutes - 28.1 MBnow that it's a pandemic, all of us are either bored or mentally unstable. there are mixed of people who use dating applications. some are bored, some are looking for love, some are depressed and want someone to talk to, and some are mentally unstable :p but for today's episode, let's talk about dating applications and why i will stop on using it. (this isn't a sad episode because i will really quit from using it AND I AM HAPPY!) this is also not an episode that will iNsPiRe you to stop on us...
the ki/ng/ma/ker: why did we let the marcoses come back to the philippines?
May 24, 2022 07:45 - 21 minutes - 20.6 MB*not me sensoring the title bwahahaha not me being a little scared lmao anyway, this is an episode about the marcoses. after 2 million filipinos ousted them, they came back to philippines and run for different positions in the government. i don't know if you'll find this interesting, but i made this episode for our future kabataan. they might see this one day and i want them to know that when we had the chance to fight for them, we fought for them. however, the machinery of the marcoses are s...
the kingmaker: why did we let the marcoses come back to the philippines?
May 24, 2022 07:45 - 21 minutes - 20.6 MBthis is an episode about the marcoses. after 2 million filipinos ousted them, they came back to philippines and run for different positions in the government. i don't know if you'll find this interesting, but i made this episode for our future kabataan. they might see this one day and i want them to know that when we had the chance to fight for them, we fought for them. however, the machinery of the marcoses are strong and we tried to defeat them. these are the stories that happened during fe...
love is not always easy (last part)
May 22, 2022 03:56 - 13 minutes - 12.4 MBgotta be honest with you, i don't know much about love. maybe i do, but i don't always know how to put it into words. the reason why i don't talk about it that much is because i'm terribly not good at explaining what i think of love. but what i do know is maybe it's about thinking of someone with every song you play, maybe it's about waking up in the morning and feeling excited to talk to your person, or maybe it's also about sitting with discomfort and just listening to each other. maybe it'...
love is not always easy with hans (part one)
May 15, 2022 03:58 - 24 minutes - 22.7 MB"it's not gonna be easy, it's gonna be really hard. we're gonna have to work at this everyday because i want you. i want all of you, forever, you and me, every day. will you do something for me, please? just picture your life for me? thirty years from now, forty years from now? what's it look like? if it's with him- go. go! i lost you once, i think i can do it again, if i thought that's what you really wanted. but don't you take the easy way out." -- the notebook. LATELY, i've been thinking t...
para sa bayan ko.
May 10, 2022 13:57 - 17 minutes - 16.8 MBmarami sa atin ang takot sa kinabukasan na ating haharapin, kaya naman ginawa ko ang episode na ito.
see you in pasay!!
April 22, 2022 01:05 - 4 minutes - 4.03 MBHEY GUYS!! i'm excited to attend tomorrow's vp leni's rally
40th episode: SEE YOU IN PASAY!!
April 22, 2022 01:05 - 4 minutes - 4.03 MBHEY GUYS!! i'm excited to attend tomorrow's vp leni's rally
SEE YOU IN PASAY!!
April 22, 2022 01:05 - 4 minutes - 4.03 MBHEY GUYS!! i'm excited to attend tomorrow's vp leni's rally
40th episode: professor kong apologist/cousin kong apologist/pov you're facetiming with your friend
April 12, 2022 15:33 - 22 minutes - 21.6 MBhi, kwento ko lang 'yung professor and cousin kong apologist emz HAHAHAHAHAHA grabe chill lang tayo today with some chika and pretend that i'm facetiming with you!! enjoy this episode and pls vote visely. stream "rosas" by nica del rosario i love u and lalaban tayo, pumili tayo ng leader na di tayo iiwan at responsable okay? love u guys, kulay rosas ang bukas. "Bukas, kaming mga mamamayan ng Pilipinas ay maganda na ang tutunguhin dahil malalagay sa mga maarugang mga palad. Oo! Amin ang kinabu...
film recommendations (*ᴗ͈ˬᴗ͈)ꕤ*.ﾟ
April 03, 2022 04:18 - 16 minutes - 15.5 MBthis is my second film recommendations. these are films that are super close to my heart, and these films made me stop on using social media. if you like romance, underrated, filipino film, and movies that will make you cry, stay tuned because i have a list of films for you!
film recommendations #2 (*ᴗ͈ˬᴗ͈)ꕤ*.ﾟ
April 03, 2022 04:18 - 16 minutes - 15.5 MBthis is my second film recommendations. these are films that are super close to my heart, and these films made me stop on using social media. if you like romance, underrated, filipino film, and movies that will make you cry, stay tuned because i have a list of films for you!
the idea of it vs it
March 30, 2022 05:47 - 28 minutes - 27.2 MBi'm sure i've already told you that i was single for 18 years. For 18 years, i was waiting for someone who deserves me. like, i never wanted to settle for anything less. until i fell in love and i didn't care about his red flags. this made me realize that when you love someone, you love all of them. more than that, i had this idea in my head that i should be successful and have kids at the age of 28, but that's my idea of life and not what it truly is. for today's episode, let's talk about th...
5 lessons i've learned from my parents!
March 06, 2022 05:02 - 23 minutes - 22.5 MBmy parents taught me a lot of lessons and i want to share 5 of them to you. i'm super excited to share these lessons with you because they are benefitial, it'll save you a lot of heartbreaks, and you will understand your parents more.
the social dilemma
February 27, 2022 04:02 - 48 minutes - 45.9 MBhave you watched the social dilemma on netflix? well if you haven't, you should watch it. installing social media applications could be beneficial because we could easily access the internet when we need updates. and we are curious species, we always want answers. however, these social media platforms started to update and for years of using it, i saw how social media platforms evolved and they became more addicting. more than that, advertisements also started to show more. even when we're wa...
[art series] the art of enjoying your own company
February 20, 2022 04:08 - 27 minutes - 25.8 MBwe were taught that being alone means lonely. before, i didn't want people to see that i'm lonely so i hid inside the cocoon of my friends. i was still lonely though, but that's mainly because i didn't know how to be contented with my own company. today let's talk about the art of enjoying your own company, and how walking, baking, gardening, and more of these things could help you love your own company.
relationship #2
February 14, 2022 02:09 - 23 minutes - 22.1 MBwhat makes a good relationship? when i was younger, i didn't set standards when it comes to a man because i thought it's not important. now that i'm older, i've realized that it isn't for them, but for me. for today's episode, let's talk about why we shouldn't compare our relationship to what we're seeing online, and we're also going to talk about what makes a good relationship. also, why we shouldn't compare our relationship to other people.
relationships #2
February 14, 2022 02:09 - 23 minutes - 22.1 MBwhat makes a good relationship? when i was younger, i didn't set standards when it comes to a man because i thought it's not important. now that i'm older, i've realized that it isn't for them, but for me. for today's episode, let's talk about why we shouldn't compare our relationship to what we're seeing online, and we're also going to talk about what makes a good relationship. also, why we shouldn't compare our relationship to other people.
my crush for 6 years
February 06, 2022 04:00 - 17 minutes - 16.4 MBto be honest, i didn't learn that much from my crush for 6 years, but i thought it was still a good experience because after him, i never had a crush on someone for that long anymore. i also never had the same crush like that anymore; maybe because it's high school and i didn't have much problems. i thought i'd share my story about the guy that i liked for 6 years, and just reflect on how and where i am now after that 6 long years.
[bonus] my college experience!
February 05, 2022 04:24 - 20 minutes - 19 MBhi, i'm already a 3rd year college student and here are my stories about college. stories about friendship, lovelife, and things i wish i'd known in college. when i was in senior high, i was so excited because i had my own expectations of what college should look like. I WAS DISAPPOINTED but at the same time, i learned how to deal with problems and i also learned a lot more than about our school lessons. so, i thought i'd share with you guys all these lessons and there are more but here for n...
my college experience!
February 05, 2022 04:24 - 20 minutes - 19 MBhi, i'm already a 3rd year college student and here are my stories about college. stories about friendship, lovelife, and things i wish i'd known in college. when i was in senior high, i was so excited because i had my own expectations of what college should look like. I WAS DISAPPOINTED but at the same time, i learned how to deal with problems and i also learned a lot more than about our school lessons. so, i thought i'd share with you guys all these lessons and there are more but here for n...
first date story
January 30, 2022 03:57 - 22 minutes - 21.3 MBwhen i was in senior high, there was a guy who i never really talked to. when we graduated from senior high, i was surprised that he chatted with me on facebook because we never really talked before. i thought this was a funny story because i had no experience with dating when this happened so, i was so anxious and i didn't know what to do. for this episode, i'll also reflect on what i've learned from that date.
first date story<3
January 30, 2022 03:57 - 22 minutes - 21.3 MB[this is one of the first story times that i'll do until episode 40] when i was in senior high, there was a guy who i never really talked to. when we graduated from senior high, i was surprised that he chatted with me on facebook because we never really talked before. i thought this was a funny story because i had no experience with dating when this happened so, i was so anxious and i didn't know what to do. for this episode, i'll also reflect on what i've learned from that date.
relationships
January 23, 2022 10:46 - 17 minutes - 16.8 MBhey, listeners!! i've missed u guys :( i was doing a lot of resting because i'm preparing for our finals and i did a lot of thinking. i've been also really enjoying my new routine. for today's episode, i'll talk about relationships and what is needed for a relationship to work. i have always been the person who doesn't reflect on what i like in a guy. so, i thought i'd be also cool to reflect.
30th episode: relationships
January 23, 2022 10:46 - 17 minutes - 16.8 MBhey, listeners!! i've missed u guys :( i was doing a lot of resting because i'm preparing for our finals and i did a lot of thinking. i've been also really enjoying my new routine. for today's episode, i'll talk about relationships and what is needed for a relationship to work. i have always been the person who doesn't reflect on what i like in a guy. so, i thought i'd be also cool to reflect.
how running helps my mental health
January 16, 2022 03:52 - 21 minutes - 20.3 MBHAPPY SUNDAY, EVERYONE!! This Sunday, Catherine talks about how running helps her mental health and how her perspective changed from "running because she wanted to lose weight, to running and walking to feel good." You might be experiencing the same problem that she experienced before so, this will help you to avoid them. Enjoy your day!! (Atomic Habits by James Clear)
fear of being vulnerable :(
January 09, 2022 03:52 - 23 minutes - 21.9 MBHey! This Sunday, Catherine will be more personal and she'll talk about vulnerability and why it's hard for her to open up. This isn't just about being vulnerable to a potential lover but also to her family and her friends. (The power of vulnerability by Brene Brown on YouTube) (Words on Bathroom Walls by Julia Walton) (500 days of summer Dir. Marc Webb) HAPPY SUNDAY, EVERYONE!
reading my journal #2
January 02, 2022 08:23 - 34 minutes - 31.6 MBVacation is over, indeed. For today's episode, Catherine will read her journal (the last page) and she'll read her reflection for the year of 2021. She'll read her last entry for 2021 so it's definitely going to be emotional. She's still in the phase whereas she's encouraging everyone to make a journal so, forgive her. Last year, Cath overshared and burped a lot, but more than that, she gave you lessons and learnings too. She's going to share all her reflections and what she will leave in 202...