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Cards on the Table

57 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 year ago - ★★★★★ - 13 ratings

Since 2005, hundreds of men have hung out on Friday mornings at local restaurants for a forum now called CARDS ON THE TABLE. It's the TRUTH about LIES. From 6:30-7:30 am, guys listen to a set up of a topic, then have a twenty minute discussion about stuff guys believe that are not true. Our thinking collides with God's thinking. Guys from this forum discuss on this podcast things we have bumped into on Friday mornings. Check out cardsott.org for more information. We currently meet at OVER THE TOP BURGER BAR in Buford GA just north of Buford High School. Come see us at the VENUE or Zoom and fully participate with us each Friday! In the meantime, listen as we continue to think out loud together as men.

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Dr. Jim Vaught on Husbandry 44

March 13, 2023 13:42 - 36 minutes - 58.3 MB

Steven and Casey chat with Dr. Jim Vaught, Headmaster Emeritus of Providence Christian Academy in Lilburn, GA. Jim has been ambushed by HUSBANDRY 44.  Not only has he more closely aligned himself as a husband with God's design, but his relationship with Christ has become more initmate. Jim went through the Train the Trainer experience to facillitate these workshops, and then went through the 6-week workshop as a participant.  He has co-facilitated 8 of the workshops. He says, "I enjoy ...

"I Bet You Have a Mediocre Marriage" An Interview with Peter Bourke

December 22, 2022 11:38 - 48 minutes - 212 MB Video

We would like to invite you to Read Peter's Putt!     Peter Bourke has been a husband to the same woman, Devonie, for 42 years.  During year 23, he realized he did not know what he was doing.  Out of a survival instinct, he dove deeply into God's word and Christian literature about being a husband. The discoveries have not only been game changing for him but to 100's of other men, me included.   “You know, I just met you and don’t know you well at all, but I bet you have a mediocre ma...

Dangerous People

June 17, 2022 14:44 - 22 minutes - 36.7 MB

What if a person really dedicates himself/herself to the study of the Bible and becomes a self proclaimed expert in the word? What if that same person does not really know how to be loved by God?  Might it be a little hard to express true love to others?  Might it be very hard to share knowledge of the word from a place of love? Steven and Casey think out loud about just that.

Choose One of Four

April 26, 2022 23:01 - 26 minutes - 41.9 MB

I recently had a revelation that the war that all believers in Christ have moment by moment in our minds between flesh and Spirit boil down to a choice.  When we operate out of our own self suffiency, we are choosing our own Soul, our own mind, will, or emotions.  When we choose to operate out of the Spirit, we are choosing the same Spirit that raised Jesus from the dead. So, what will you choose in your next moment? a.  Your Mind b.  Your Will c.  Your Emotions d.  The Holy Spirit

Put Your CARDS ON THE TABLE

February 15, 2022 08:51 - 33 minutes - 54.3 MB

We got New Stuff!  Steven & Casey discuss what's going on in 2022.  As a group of guys gathering regularly to help each other do life, we've bumped into some reliable methods of growing as men in our respective relationships with Jesus.  What are they and how do they work?  Listen in and hear!

Dadgummit - Bobby Bowden

September 02, 2021 14:53 - 33 minutes - 54.3 MB

After 91 years of a life well lived, Florida State University Head Football Coach Bobby Bowden, got promoted.  This is a man, who knew why he was born and what God called him to do very early on.  He knew who he was in Christ, and that informed everything he did and said.  Casey is an FSU graduate and Bobby is one of his heroes.  Listen as Steven and Casey discuss Bobby's life and a few things that were said at his funeral.

RESET

August 06, 2021 18:57 - 37 minutes - 60.1 MB

We have been gone, now we are back.  Life gets in the way sometimes, and it did.  Steven and Casey pick up where they left off in April of 2021.  Now here in August of 2021, we hopefully get back into the rhythm of 2 Episodes/month.  Lord knows, there sure is plenty to discuss about us being  believing men in Christ in this crazy sin-soaked world.  Join us as we RESET!

Re-Building

April 05, 2021 14:54 - 32 minutes - 52 MB

2020 left many of us with a totally different reality going into 2021.  Some realities are actually better, paired down, and more efficient.  Some are much worse having to be totally re-imagined.  Re-building may required.  What does that mean?

Husbands Fighting with Truth

March 15, 2021 15:12 - 45 minutes - 73.3 MB

As men we constantly fight truth, most of the time, we are not even aware we're doing it.  Sometimes, it's because we either don't know the truth or we forget how God has described what happens when we surrender to Him.  As a husband, I struggle the most with letting go and letting God.  Work is a close second to this.  Listen as Steven and Casey talk with Casey's wife of 36 years, Christi.  She is the customer of Casey's husbandry!

More Men Failing at Discipleship

March 01, 2021 02:29 - 54 minutes - 236 MB Video

Special Episode on VIDEO!!! Our 46th Episode FAILING at DISCIPLESHIP was the tip of the iceberg.  We needed to call in some other voices of experience for a deeper dive for this most important topic to God.  Check out the words of Jesus pre-accension for details!  So, 3 guys working in the private sector Discipling men (Bill Cook, Kevin Myers, Steven Julian) & 3 guys Discipling men via non-profit ministries (Steve Knoblock, Jeff Joyner, Casey Sanders) weigh in on this episode.  We spend abou...

Failing at Discipleship

February 15, 2021 17:15 - 39 minutes - 63 MB

Steven and Casey wrestle with the command of Discipleship that Jesus left us with.  It appears that we might be able get a "D" in Discipleship if God grades on the curve.  Why?  Did He make it so complicated that we are incapable of carrying out His wishes?  Maybe it has more to do with not really reading and accepting what He said to do...and receiving His help doing it.

What is Drunk?

January 31, 2021 18:21 - 43 minutes - 39.8 MB

I used to drink. I don't drink anymore, Not that I think that there's something wrong with that.   I grew up knowing that there were drunks in our family, but my parents never got "out of the way" with drinking.   So what's your story.  Drinking at all problematic?   If we agree that God does not think drinking is sinful, can we also agree that He's clear that drunkenness is not wise and is a sin?   Listen as Steven and I think out loud about WHAT IS DRUNK

Capitol Crap

January 16, 2021 16:40 - 40 minutes - 65.7 MB

This episode was recorded in January of 2021 prior to the Biden inauguration and post January 6th.  Turbulent times for our nation at best.  So, where is the reset? Where is true North?  Steven bumped into a passage from the book of James that could not be more perfect.  Go figure.  Give this one a serious listen.

Offended Yet?

December 16, 2020 12:28 - 39 minutes - 62.8 MB

Have you been offended lately?  In the time that we live in right now, there is much around us that you might find offensive.  So, if so, what do you do with that?  Do you throw up on the thing and/or person from whom the offense originates?  Do you stew on it until your emotions spill out in subtle un-detected ways? Is it okay to be offended?

Interview With an Educator - Andy Zawacki, Head of School

December 02, 2020 02:36 - 42 minutes - 16.5 MB

We salute all the educators out there, who have not only had to brave the pandemic, but reinvent themselves with a lot of distance learning.  Andy Zawacki, Head of School at Arborbrook Christian Academy in Charlotte NC talks with Steven and Casey about their unique approach to education with required greater involvement from parents.  Andy also speaks to the challenges and dangers of all that the pandemic has brought to the world of school.  Give a listen to this great leader!

Goals

November 17, 2020 11:48 - 26 minutes - 43.1 MB

Got any goals?  Had any that broke your heart not achieving?  Got any that became your very identity?  What does God have to say about goals?  Setting goals might something that's biblical or part of the narrative of the American Dream or both.  Listen to this episode as Steven tries to convince Casey that having goals is the way to go, and Casey thinks not!!

Amoveo Interview - Matt Peace & Tim Brokopp

November 02, 2020 16:13 - 38 minutes - 15.2 MB

We had the pleasure of interviewing Matt and Tim from Amoveo, a non-profit that fixes broken systems around the world.  What a cool thought much less organization!  What these guys are doing is so unique and targeted that this episode is a "must" listen. 

The Big Five

October 19, 2020 14:33 - 38 minutes - 61.1 MB

In the last 20 years of meeting with 100's of men in 1000's of "1 on 1" meetings, we have made a few observations. In response to this very sophisticated question, "Hey man, what are you strugglin' with?"...most guys give an answer within these five topics. Money, Work, Abiding @ Work, Lookin' @ Women, or Marriage Listen as Steven and Casey touch on the key learnings on each of these.

Husband Doormat?

October 02, 2020 00:26 - 34 minutes - 54.7 MB

How did you come to be a husband?  What intense training course did you go through?  How many husbands did you observe doing it well?  If you are like me, "husbandry" was not something I was prepared for.  I have learned by trial and error.  My training has been more like playing jazz with no sheet music.  Many men like me then wise up and actually pull out our Bibles and look for instruction.  At first glance, one might come to the conclusion that a husband should assume the position of doo...

Politics...Again

September 17, 2020 14:39 - 42 minutes - 68 MB

Listen in as Steven and Casey go one more round on Politics, maybe wading a little deeper into how this ticking time bomb can be discussed without scorching the earth.  Good reasoning only comes from what it true and truth itself.  But isn't that the rub nowadays...in a time where the simple truth of what's happening is so twisty to determine?

Oh Crap! Gotta Vote Again!

September 02, 2020 21:17 - 34 minutes - 55.9 MB

In 2020, we have attempted a few "tight-wire" topics.  Well, here goes another one.  Listen as Steven, your "Slightly Annoying Host", and Casey begin to talk about POLITICS.  Hey, don't swipe or click away!  It's really is a good conversation.  Call it Part One...we found we had a lot to consider!

Fear

August 18, 2020 14:20 - 34 minutes - 55.6 MB

How many times have stopped and realized that you are fearful?  Most times when we are fearful, we don't even recognize that through the filter of fear is how we are looking at life.   Many of us even disguise fear with different names...being responsible, concerned, careful, etc.   This very strong emotion is ever present in our culture today during this pandemic.  There are tons of reinforcements to shore up our fear.   Listen as Steven and Casey talk about fear and what to do ...

Returning to JOY - Barbara Moon

July 31, 2020 16:42 - 36 minutes - 58.9 MB

Author, Teacher, and Small Group Leader - BARBARA MOON shares her experiences and revelations around brain science + relationship with Jesus.  Some call it Nuero-Theology.  Others would call it living the way He intends us to live...in relationships When life ruptures, how quickly does it take to  repair?   How soon do you RETURN TO JOY? Listen as Steven and Casey learn from Barbara things which most of us have never even heard.

Attach to Jesus

July 16, 2020 00:46 - 25 minutes - 40.9 MB

Steven and Casey talk about something that gets largely overlooked in our relationships with Christ.  We talk a lot about our need to love the LORD with all that we are and loving our neighbor as ourselves.  However, what about receiving God's love for us?  To whom have we really attached ourselves?  God is the most secure bond and/or attachment we can ever have.  He is the only certainty.  And...He loves us perfectly.  That's something to get excited about!

2 Old White Guys Talking About Race Relations

July 01, 2020 13:52 - 40 minutes - 64.4 MB

My friend, Darrell Jones is a “heart level” man in my life.  He has been for 15 years.  He is one of a few black friends in my life.  We can talk about anything, and we have.   I have learned a bunch about Jesus and life from my time with Darrell. We recorded this Podcast Episode today, and then I got this from my friend.  Thanks again, Darrell. Darrell's Corner With all that is going on in the world today, we need to take time to focus on our faith and we need a STRONG GOD. I listen t...

What's Your Story - Todd Miechiels

June 17, 2020 01:33 - 44 minutes - 17.1 MB

Ten years ago, Todd Miechiels began a full time work to harvest stories of God's redemption in the lives of Christ followers.  The end product is a person's five minute story expressed in a well thought out manner captured on video.  Once produced, the object of the game to export the video file to all who know you and many who don't.  We all have a story.  Todd's journey into this undeniable passion has been surprising, fulfilling, and full of new learnings.  Listen as Todd shares his heart...

Aging Out & Aging In with Robbie Trice

June 02, 2020 00:15 - 1 hour - 415 MB Video

Join Steven & Casey as we interview Singer/Song Writer, ROBBIE TRICE. Among many other accolades, Robbie wrote "Alpha and Omega", which the Gaither Vocal Band has recorded and performed all over the world.  At https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UjrivXWczGU you can see one of these performances which  has over 12 million hits on youtube.  Robbie explains the way God has historically put him in situations where he has been seemingly unprepared but forced into total dependence on the Father.

No Topic - It's the Most Weird Time of the Year

May 18, 2020 23:33 - 27 minutes - 10.6 MB

Kevin, Steven, and Casey think out loud together with no plan of where the show is going.  Now, there's a shocker!  Where we land - is the impact of the Pandemic with all of its challenges - in our own lives.  Isolation, uncertain economics, self reflection with fewer distractions, and many more impacts might give us some unique opportunities.  What are they?

So You Want to be a Podcaster

May 02, 2020 20:15 - 35 minutes - 283 MB Video

In January of 2019, we set out to begin our Podcast journey via the launch of CARDS ON THE TABLE.  We had no clue on where to start.  By God's grace, Steven Julian had worked as a co-host on other Podcasts, knew Jodey Smith.  Jodey, according to us and others, knows everything about this very unique world of Podcasting.  Jodey came to our rescue.  So, we decided to interview him on this episode!  Thanks Jodey!

Your Truth, My Truth, His Truth, Her Truth

March 17, 2020 15:27 - 34 minutes - 54.6 MB

The question, "What is truth?" has been asked many times.  Although the answer is precise, as is Truth, the various answers are many.  Rob Marbury, an Atlanta Advertising Agency Executive talks with Steven and Casey about the origin of this wave of us believing that truth is really what we perceive it to be.  Is Truth absolute?  What are the down sides, if any,  should that be True about Truth itself?

Generations Talking Together

February 09, 2020 15:49 - 26 minutes - 41.7 MB

What happens when two distinct groups of men get together to discuss life?  We call those groups - the BIG BELLIES and the FLAT BELLIES.  Separate generations dealing with these questions:  "What is the one thing I know now that I wished had known when I was his age?"  AND Here's what I want to know from an older man that  has made many mistakes over his life.... Listen as Steven and Casey dive into this one.  We call this type of gathering, the g2Xchange!

Lisa Poore: Astonishing Facts about Depression & Suicide

February 02, 2020 18:36 - 29 minutes - 47.5 MB

Licensed Professional Counselor from Johns Creek GA, LISA POORE, speaks to the facts of Depression and Suicide specifically within the church.  Is it safe to take your mental health concerns to your church and ask for help?  Listen as Lisa enlightens Steven, Casey, and Kevin.

NO TALKING IN CHURCH!

January 17, 2020 16:42 - 31 minutes - 49.9 MB

Listen to Steven Julian and Casey Sanders discuss the what and the why of things that don't typically get discussed in Church and/or other Christian settings. We are interested in your perspective on this as well.  Leave us a comment.

$$MONEY$$

December 21, 2019 02:57 - 33 minutes - 54 MB

Steven, Kevin, Casey, and guest Steve Knoblock from God's Present Ministries have a wide ranging discussion about Money.  Money is one of the most popular answers to the question, "Hey man, what are you struggling with?"  The struggle might be who owns it, how much is enough, why can't I have more, and what about retirement.  Give it a Listen!

What's Sexual Addiction? Troy Snyder

December 20, 2019 17:49 - 39 minutes - 62.8 MB

Sexual Addiction, what is that really?  Well, we decided to ask an expert.  Troy Snyder who is with Restoration Counseling, discusses all sorts of issues with Casey and Kevin.  Troy educates and serves as a credentialed therapist, and he traffics in this area all day everyday.

Steve Knoblock...On ABIDING

December 06, 2019 22:39 - 38 minutes - 61.7 MB

Steve Knoblock, President of God's Present Ministries godspresent.org hangs out with us and talks about his favorite subject - ABIDING.  Steve had a revelation at 25 to follow the LORD.  This resulted in discovering his life’s passion: “to know and share life to the fullest.”  Abiding in Christ is the message of his life and has spilled out onto people all over Orlando and Atlanta for over 30 years.  This guy knows of what he speaks.  Listen!

God Has Got Us

December 01, 2019 17:49 - 21 minutes - 35.1 MB

Jeff Thrutchley leads this discussion about God's capability.  Sometimes we paint God in our own human image.  We limit him as we are limited.  So, how into the details is God in my life and your's?  We must remember that God is God, and He has no limitations.

NO TOPIC...AGAIN!!!

November 08, 2019 20:57 - 32 minutes - 52.3 MB

Once again, Steven and Casey argue about what the topic should be on this episode.  Eventually, the boys land on something that might be of interest...Two friends being there for each other.

Interview with Jeff Joyner

November 08, 2019 20:40 - 35 minutes - 56.9 MB

Listen as Steven and Casey talk with Seattle based Jeff Joyner.  Jeff is a singer, songwriter, worship leader, shepherd, mobilizer of people, and most of all...discipler.  From Delta Airlines to Campus Crusade for Christ to Leading music and the Arts in local churches all over the nation, Jeff talks about the most important thing of all...our relationship with Jesus.

Depression & Suicide

October 08, 2019 23:54 - 38 minutes - 61.6 MB

Now there's a title that should cause men to press play, right? No doubt, it's an important and serious topic. Here's some stuff that I did not know that causes me to think it's a "must discuss" from the American Foundation of Suicide Prevention. Suicide is up 33% since 1999. So, let's talk about it. I challenge you to google "Jarrid Wilson" and read about his story. Depression is insidious, it has no prejudice as to age, economics, or vocation. It is real and very hard to explain or und...

Lookin' At Women

September 29, 2019 17:34 - 31 minutes - 50.5 MB

Listen as Casey, Steven, and Kevin have a very candid discussion with the struggle that all men have with LOOKIN' AT WOMEN.  What is it really?  What should we do about it?

Check Your Thoughts?

September 11, 2019 16:44 - 28 minutes - 46.4 MB

Where do your thoughts come from?  Ever thought about that?  (Pun intended)  There are two powerful forces that influence our thought lives.  We believe that knowing the origin of our thoughts is like the blocking and tackling of being a Christ follower.  Listen as Steven, Aarron, Richard, and Casey wrestle with this one.  This is a deeper dive of a CARDS ON THE TABLE  episode at Trulyknown.org!

That Day

September 08, 2019 19:21 - 27 minutes - 43.4 MB

That Day.  Ever heard that term?  There is going to be a "That Day" for all of us.  It refers to something called the BEMA Seat Judgement.  Simply put, God's going to give us an analysis on what we did with what He gave us. Aarron Pina does a "One-Man" Show called That Day which dramatically paints an amazing picture of this day that does not get a lot of press in our Christian circles. Join Steven & Casey & Richard Dodson as we talk to Aarron about this amazing show and subject.

Why...Cards On The Table?

September 05, 2019 02:44 - 26 minutes - 41.7 MB

Steven Julian, David McCall, and Casey Sanders discuss the benefits of having a group like Cards On The Table in a man's life.  Are you missing out on a very special helpful and meaningful experience as a man?

Culture Wars @ Home

August 15, 2019 00:58 - 37 minutes - 59.4 MB

Do you find yourself having conversations on topics of which you have never thought about...much less formed an opinion?  Generationally, this has gone on between parents and children for many years.  It's not new. Join David McCall, Steven Julian, and Casey Sanders as they "truly wrestle" with how to lovingly listen to those who feel strongly about things which we might totally disagree or have simply have not given much thought.

Receiving vs Achieving Truth

August 02, 2019 18:34 - 26 minutes - 42.8 MB

When you're ready to engage with God and you sit down with the Bible, do you read it like a life manual? Do you receive it or do you try to conquer it? The Bible is not like reading any ordinary book.  Given its name The Word of God would suggest that truth must be extraordinary.

Match Game

August 02, 2019 18:11 - 28 minutes - 45.3 MB

Ever watched the old Match Game show?  Pretty funny stuff.  Listen as we play Match Game with some "Christian" titles.  Is there really such a thing as a Christian Business?  Christian Candy?  

Laughter Required

August 02, 2019 18:07 - 26 minutes - 42.6 MB

In working with men and looking at tough issues such as marriage, work, money, looking at women, and how to depend on God during all of the above;  laughter is a good place to start.  Laughter causes us to connect emotionally.  What is wrong with having fun along the way of revelation of truth.  We have found over the last 20 years of this focus that LAUGHTER IS REQUIRED.

Iron Sharpens Iron

July 12, 2019 19:24 - 24 minutes - 38.7 MB

Ever hear these words, "Iron Sharpens Iron"? These were first penned in Proverbs 27 by Solomon. You hear these words quoted by non-believers mostly in business and sports. What do they really mean?  What was Solomon getting at? Listen to Kevin, Steven, and Casey think out loud about it.

THE WORD

June 28, 2019 15:34 - 23 minutes - 21.2 MB

Most guys, if asked to assess their relationships with God, will begin to explain their failure of a consistent unhurried time with the LORD reading the Bible and praying.  It is really not the answer to the question.  What works in reading the Word?  What does not work?  Listen as Steven and Casey wrestle with this one.

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