Yup, it's been a fortnight already but woohooo - freedom is on the horizon! If after this week's news you're already planning your first dates/hookups/contact out of lockdown, then this episode is perfect for you as we're joined by the extraordinarily enthusiastic artist, author and sex educator Ruby Rare to answer your questions on sex and intimacy and of course, to answer a few of ours too. (Becky says this was her favourite interview she's ever done, so you know it's gonna be a good'un).


As always we've been filling our time with devouring everything cultural in sight, and for this ep that means a whole lotta good reads and some excellent new music picks. We delve into the personal essays of Sirin Kale and Molly McCully Brown, and the respective worlds we've been wrapping our heads around courtesy of Ursula Le Guin and Zoe Gilbert. Oh, and Sarah discovers a talent for singing birthday songs and yes, weirdly, she is available. How did you know?


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Shownotes:

Sirin Kale - https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/food/2021/feb/02/the-real-thing-my-battle-to-beat-a-27-year-diet-coke-addiction 

Pleasure Principal - Molly McCully Brown - https://www.mollymccullybrown.com/places-essays

Folk - Zoe Gilbert - https://www.hive.co.uk/Product/Zoe-Gilbert/Folk/22511796

Left Hand of Darkness - https://www.newyorker.com/books/page-turner/the-strange-friendships-of-ursula-k-le-guins-the-left-hand-of-darkness 


Ruby Rare - Sex Ed - https://thefeministbookshop.com/products/sex-ed-a-guide-for-adults 

Brook - https://www.brook.org.uk/ 

Betty Dodson - https://dodsonandross.com/ 

Sink the Pink - https://sinkthepink.co.uk/ 

Pussy Palace - https://www.dazeddigital.com/artsandculture/article/31104/1/pussy-palace-the-all-girl-run-club-where-drag-queens-and-rudeboys-collide 

The Box LGBT+ Commissions - https://www.theboxplymouth.com/lgbt-commissions 

Body Love Sketch Club - https://instagram.com/bodylovesketchclub?igshid=103lg5xgolh35 


Charade - https://www.theguardian.com/film/2013/dec/13/charade-audrey-hepburn-cary-grant 

Weird Walk - https://www.weirdwalk.co.uk/ 

Madlib - Sound Ancestors - https://open.spotify.com/album/5ftKZ7X2vjjJ1HFQYQn1UF?si=L9HeWw6tQPOw2oyrKb4uEQ 

Shame - Drunk Tank Pink - https://pitchfork.com/reviews/albums/shame-drunk-tank-pink/

MOPES - Get You Down - https://mopesmusic.bandcamp.com/album/get-you-down-ep

Parks and Recreation

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